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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’ve just been given a 30 day Facebook ban for posting my profile picture it doesn’t show my tits my genitals and I think it’s pretty ridiculous do you think I deserve the ban ? I spend more time in Facebook jail then I do out

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I didn't even know you could get a ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't even know you could get a ban "

Me neither. Good effort Mace x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn't even know you could get a ban

Me neither. Good effort Mace x"

You can still kind of go on Facebook but can’t like anything comment on anything or post anything which is a bit of a pisser cause I like to network my videos on local interest pages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve just been given a 30 day Facebook ban for posting my profile picture it doesn’t show my tits my genitals and I think it’s pretty ridiculous do you think I deserve the ban ? I spend more time in Facebook jail then I do out"

Your current profile pic?

If so yes you deserve the ban.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn't even know you could get a ban "
Yeah if you violate their terms of agreement but in the picture which is my profile picture I’m not showing my tits my arse my genitals so I think it’s really unfair

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

It's a very sexual image

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

lucky you

last time i got one i enjoyed the peace and quiet used it to thin down my friends list and pages i followed much better now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s like since I came out I get banned from everything recently lost my Instagram account my ex-girlfriend calls me a council estate slapper I got banned off the sister site forum etc

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

I read an alert from last week advising that I was given a warning on FB saying I could have been banned.....I wrote I like ?? mushrooms.. Apparently it contravened regulations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a very sexual image"
It’s just me struggled over my bed

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


" It’s like since I came out I get banned from everything recently lost my Instagram account my ex-girlfriend calls me a council estate slapper I got banned off the sister site forum etc "

Are you overtly sexual all the time?

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By *erbert the pervertMan
over a year ago

party in your panties

It will do you good Facebook is toxic

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"It's a very sexual image It’s just me struggled over my bed"

With just your hand covering your cock. There doesn't have to be genitals out for a picture to be sexual.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" It’s like since I came out I get banned from everything recently lost my Instagram account my ex-girlfriend calls me a council estate slapper I got banned off the sister site forum etc

Are you overtly sexual all the time?"

No I’m just obsessed with my new body I hope it calms down but I’m 47 I haven’t got much time left

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a very sexual image It’s just me struggled over my bed

With just your hand covering your cock. There doesn't have to be genitals out for a picture to be sexual. "

I guess so I think I need professional help

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


" It’s like since I came out I get banned from everything recently lost my Instagram account my ex-girlfriend calls me a council estate slapper I got banned off the sister site forum etc

Are you overtly sexual all the time?

No I’m just obsessed with my new body I hope it calms down but I’m 47 I haven’t got much time left"

Ridiculous. You've got loads of time left unless of course you are ill. Being obsessed with your body is fine but find the appropriate outlets for that like on here or get an only fans or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a very sexual image It’s just me struggled over my bed

With just your hand covering your cock. There doesn't have to be genitals out for a picture to be sexual.

I guess so I think I need professional help"

Have you got a therapist or counsellor? Someone experienced with trans situations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree with others, it's a rather sexual image.

Also the possibility that it may be someone in your Facebook friends list that has actually reported you hence the ban.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a very sexual image It’s just me struggled over my bed

With just your hand covering your cock. There doesn't have to be genitals out for a picture to be sexual.

I guess so I think I need professional help

Have you got a therapist or counsellor? Someone experienced with trans situations? "

No nobody I started to DIY then I managed to save for gender GP that to inform consent I get my blood tested by my NHS doctor but that’s about all

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

It is an extremely sexual picture regardless of what is or isnt showing so I would think it is against the rules.

Maybe lots reported it as offensive if you don't think it goes against guidelines.

I used to tell my son if you wouldn't shout it out or show it in public then don't post it on Face book.

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By *orny-chubbyMan
over a year ago

East London

It will do you good to get away from fakebook!

Full of people showing off and pics are mostly filtered! They are fake and attention seeking most of the time

I have one just browse through it sometimes and don’t take it seriously at all

During lockdown I deactivated it as it was doing me more harm than good

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Facebook is a family site…I’d say that’s not a family type pic. Whilst not displaying something, it’s the suggestion of it.

I get you are coming out and owning it and it’s liberating but that doesn’t mean everyone needs to see you flaunting it.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a very sexual image It’s just me struggled over my bed

With just your hand covering your cock. There doesn't have to be genitals out for a picture to be sexual.

I guess so I think I need professional help

Have you got a therapist or counsellor? Someone experienced with trans situations?

No nobody I started to DIY then I managed to save for gender GP that to inform consent I get my blood tested by my NHS doctor but that’s about all "

I think sites like this skew people's perception of what is 'ok' with relation to sex. Some people think everyone wants to see their body sexually.

I agree with what Evie said about finding appropriate outlets for the sexual pics.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No does not deserve a ban! As u say nothing on show! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Facebook is a family site…I’d say that’s not a family type pic. Whilst not displaying something, it’s the suggestion of it.

I get you are coming out and owning it and it’s liberating but that doesn’t mean everyone needs to see you flaunting it.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite Facebook a few years back… never missed it!

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group."
I do feel like I’m being victimised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised "

By Facebook? You posted a provocative photo on a site that 13 year olds can join. I don't agree. Just use a more sedate photo in future.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised "

Why do you feel like it's victimisation?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised

By Facebook? You posted a provocative photo on a site that 13 year olds can join. I don't agree. Just use a more sedate photo in future. "
I think 13-year-olds are subjected to formal harmful images than me on my bed revealing nothing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised

Why do you feel like it's victimisation?"

Because I’ve lost access to my Instagram account I’ve over 10 years 7000 photos memories I’ll never get back since around autumn last year summertime I spent more time in Facebook jail then I have out my ex-girlfriend who is my only friend in Scotland only friend in the world called me a council estate slapper too embarrassed to hang around with me anymore the only constant I have in my life is road cycling and my dogs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised

Why do you feel like it's victimisation?

Because I’ve lost access to my Instagram account I’ve over 10 years 7000 photos memories I’ll never get back since around autumn last year summertime I spent more time in Facebook jail then I have out my ex-girlfriend who is my only friend in Scotland only friend in the world called me a council estate slapper too embarrassed to hang around with me anymore the only constant I have in my life is road cycling and my dogs "
Diesel is 14 and is 12 I fear I’m gonna completely fall off the rails when I lose them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised

By Facebook? You posted a provocative photo on a site that 13 year olds can join. I don't agree. Just use a more sedate photo in future. I think 13-year-olds are subjected to formal harmful images than me on my bed revealing nothing "

They are, sure, but Facebook have rules. Stick to the rules or get banned. Pretty simple.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised

Why do you feel like it's victimisation?

Because I’ve lost access to my Instagram account I’ve over 10 years 7000 photos memories I’ll never get back since around autumn last year summertime I spent more time in Facebook jail then I have out my ex-girlfriend who is my only friend in Scotland only friend in the world called me a council estate slapper too embarrassed to hang around with me anymore the only constant I have in my life is road cycling and my dogs Diesel is 14 and is 12 I fear I’m gonna completely fall off the rails when I lose them"

That's not victimisation though is it? It's annoying and sad but it's not victimisation for you to have lost an account for allegedly breaking the rules you agreed to when creating an account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised

By Facebook? You posted a provocative photo on a site that 13 year olds can join. I don't agree. Just use a more sedate photo in future.

I think 13-year-olds are subjected to formal harmful images than me on my bed revealing nothing "

So would you post your profile pic in a high school?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised

Why do you feel like it's victimisation?

Because I’ve lost access to my Instagram account I’ve over 10 years 7000 photos memories I’ll never get back since around autumn last year summertime I spent more time in Facebook jail then I have out my ex-girlfriend who is my only friend in Scotland only friend in the world called me a council estate slapper too embarrassed to hang around with me anymore the only constant I have in my life is road cycling and my dogs Diesel is 14 and is 12 I fear I’m gonna completely fall off the rails when I lose them

That's not victimisation though is it? It's annoying and sad but it's not victimisation for you to have lost an account for allegedly breaking the rules you agreed to when creating an account. "
I guess so but I see far worse and that don’t get banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised

Why do you feel like it's victimisation?

Because I’ve lost access to my Instagram account I’ve over 10 years 7000 photos memories I’ll never get back since around autumn last year summertime I spent more time in Facebook jail then I have out my ex-girlfriend who is my only friend in Scotland only friend in the world called me a council estate slapper too embarrassed to hang around with me anymore the only constant I have in my life is road cycling and my dogs Diesel is 14 and is 12 I fear I’m gonna completely fall off the rails when I lose them

That's not victimisation though is it? It's annoying and sad but it's not victimisation for you to have lost an account for allegedly breaking the rules you agreed to when creating an account. I guess so but I see far worse and that don’t get banned "

You say you've been in Facebook jail more often than not - are you deliberately pushing their boundaries? Do you have any access to your IG account to download the content?

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

OP I hope you get the social and additional support you require.

I don’t think you’re being treated unfairly, or in a way that isn’t justified.

Inbox is always open if you need to talk but please don’t fall into a self fulfilling prophecy where you test the waters to seek bans, get them and then complain you get banned more than others.

As others have said Facebook is a family site fir 13+. They shouldn’t really be subjected to sexualised profile pics or other such images IMO

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised

Why do you feel like it's victimisation?

Because I’ve lost access to my Instagram account I’ve over 10 years 7000 photos memories I’ll never get back since around autumn last year summertime I spent more time in Facebook jail then I have out my ex-girlfriend who is my only friend in Scotland only friend in the world called me a council estate slapper too embarrassed to hang around with me anymore the only constant I have in my life is road cycling and my dogs Diesel is 14 and is 12 I fear I’m gonna completely fall off the rails when I lose them

That's not victimisation though is it? It's annoying and sad but it's not victimisation for you to have lost an account for allegedly breaking the rules you agreed to when creating an account. I guess so but I see far worse and that don’t get banned "

Worse in what way? What have you seen?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised

Why do you feel like it's victimisation?

Because I’ve lost access to my Instagram account I’ve over 10 years 7000 photos memories I’ll never get back since around autumn last year summertime I spent more time in Facebook jail then I have out my ex-girlfriend who is my only friend in Scotland only friend in the world called me a council estate slapper too embarrassed to hang around with me anymore the only constant I have in my life is road cycling and my dogs Diesel is 14 and is 12 I fear I’m gonna completely fall off the rails when I lose them

That's not victimisation though is it? It's annoying and sad but it's not victimisation for you to have lost an account for allegedly breaking the rules you agreed to when creating an account. I guess so but I see far worse and that don’t get banned

You say you've been in Facebook jail more often than not - are you deliberately pushing their boundaries? Do you have any access to your IG account to download the content? "
No I’ve lost it all

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

You obviously break the rules regularly if you’re constantly banned perhaps stick to the rules clearly stated when you join up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised

Why do you feel like it's victimisation?

Because I’ve lost access to my Instagram account I’ve over 10 years 7000 photos memories I’ll never get back since around autumn last year summertime I spent more time in Facebook jail then I have out my ex-girlfriend who is my only friend in Scotland only friend in the world called me a council estate slapper too embarrassed to hang around with me anymore the only constant I have in my life is road cycling and my dogs Diesel is 14 and is 12 I fear I’m gonna completely fall off the rails when I lose them

That's not victimisation though is it? It's annoying and sad but it's not victimisation for you to have lost an account for allegedly breaking the rules you agreed to when creating an account. I guess so but I see far worse and that don’t get banned

Worse in what way? What have you seen?"
Street fights loads of people selling on Instagram violence etc all over Facebook and Instagram Twitter is terrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t know FB bans were a thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s like I’m banned everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised

Why do you feel like it's victimisation?

Because I’ve lost access to my Instagram account I’ve over 10 years 7000 photos memories I’ll never get back since around autumn last year summertime I spent more time in Facebook jail then I have out my ex-girlfriend who is my only friend in Scotland only friend in the world called me a council estate slapper too embarrassed to hang around with me anymore the only constant I have in my life is road cycling and my dogs Diesel is 14 and is 12 I fear I’m gonna completely fall off the rails when I lose them

That's not victimisation though is it? It's annoying and sad but it's not victimisation for you to have lost an account for allegedly breaking the rules you agreed to when creating an account. I guess so but I see far worse and that don’t get banned

You say you've been in Facebook jail more often than not - are you deliberately pushing their boundaries? Do you have any access to your IG account to download the content? No I’ve lost it all"

Did you appeal it? Do you have any justification to appeal?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn’t know FB bans were a thing."
Yes I’ve had bands ranging from 30 days to 60 days first off show my breasts growing as when I was a man I didn’t matter but all of a sudden became offensive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mean the Scottish Facebook pages often show men in kilts flashing their arse if I were to do that would be banned which I have been

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Perhaps when the OP’s ban is over they ask to join the Fabswingers Facebook group that I am on and look at some of the pictures on there they may just get away with their profile picture in that group. I do feel like I’m being victimised

Why do you feel like it's victimisation?

Because I’ve lost access to my Instagram account I’ve over 10 years 7000 photos memories I’ll never get back since around autumn last year summertime I spent more time in Facebook jail then I have out my ex-girlfriend who is my only friend in Scotland only friend in the world called me a council estate slapper too embarrassed to hang around with me anymore the only constant I have in my life is road cycling and my dogs Diesel is 14 and is 12 I fear I’m gonna completely fall off the rails when I lose them

That's not victimisation though is it? It's annoying and sad but it's not victimisation for you to have lost an account for allegedly breaking the rules you agreed to when creating an account. I guess so but I see far worse and that don’t get banned

Worse in what way? What have you seen? Street fights loads of people selling on Instagram violence etc all over Facebook and Instagram Twitter is terrible"

But that's very different to what you have been banned for. Not saying it's right but I think we can all agree that online safety from a sexual perspective is high on most people's agenda. Again, not saying there is any Dodgy agenda in you wanting to post your pic but I can see why they removed it and banned you for a period of time.

If you can get on it but not post them perhaps think about downloading any pics you wouldn't want to lose permanently.

As for support for your transition mentioned above, there are some great charities out there that can help you as you adjust to your new feelings since coming out and talk about how it feels for you to be in the body you want.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I didn’t know FB bans were a thing. Yes I’ve had bands ranging from 30 days to 60 days first off show my breasts growing as when I was a man I didn’t matter but all of a sudden became offensive"

Welcome to being a female lol make nipples are not sexual but female ones are lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I mean the Scottish Facebook pages often show men in kilts flashing their arse if I were to do that would be banned which I have been"

Really? Just you flashing your bum on s kilt or was the picture different?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn’t know FB bans were a thing. Yes I’ve had bands ranging from 30 days to 60 days first off show my breasts growing as when I was a man I didn’t matter but all of a sudden became offensive

Welcome to being a female lol make nipples are not sexual but female ones are lol "

Are people talk about equality of the sexes having been on the other side of the fence life was a lot easier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I mean the Scottish Facebook pages often show men in kilts flashing their arse if I were to do that would be banned which I have been

Really? Just you flashing your bum on s kilt or was the picture different? "
yeah I’ve been banned for show my arse and the local Scottish page has a couple of men in Edinburgh flashing bare arses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Men can walk down the street in just a T-shirt nobody says anything but a woman breastfeeding in public and oh my God it’s like a lynching needs to take place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are overexcited by your coming out and may have lost some sense of perspective. Perhaps stop comparing what you are doing with what you think is 'worse'. Is it appropriate? If you think that image is only about "struggling over your bed", then why cover your genitals? Just wear a pair of shorts. That'll cover it very well without necessarily suggesting anything sexual.

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By *othianGuy41Man
over a year ago

Eureka

I got banned for 30 days for a picture of a fecking potato!! Facebook these days you can't post or say anything innocent without getting banned! The words Ass booty & tits will get you banned.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I got banned for 30 days for a picture of a fecking potato!! Facebook these days you can't post or say anything innocent without getting banned! The words Ass booty & tits will get you banned. "

Well that's not true.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I got banned for 30 days for a picture of a fecking potato!! Facebook these days you can't post or say anything innocent without getting banned! The words Ass booty & tits will get you banned.

Well that's not true. "

The bit about the words not the potato. If you say that happened it happened but I reported a post of a guy set on fire for being gay and it didn't go against community guidelines.

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By *rincessPuddleDuck22Woman
over a year ago

.•°°

The ban was 100% deserved

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I got banned for 30 days for a picture of a fecking potato!! Facebook these days you can't post or say anything innocent without getting banned! The words Ass booty & tits will get you banned. "

Context is everything.

Depends on the context of the conversation that prompted the picture of the potato.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are overexcited by your coming out and may have lost some sense of perspective. Perhaps stop comparing what you are doing with what you think is 'worse'. Is it appropriate? If you think that image is only about "struggling over your bed", then why cover your genitals? Just wear a pair of shorts. That'll cover it very well without necessarily suggesting anything sexual."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easiest way I found around this was to not be on Facebook.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I don’t do Facebook and can’t see what all the fuss is about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very common for people to get a 30 day ban on Facebook. I knew someone who was always getting them. I wouldn't dare put up a picture like that as my profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I mean a sexual picture so I'd say Facebook was well within their rights to do what they did x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t do Facebook and can’t see what all the fuss is about "

Same reason I hate football. It's pointless.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"So I’ve just been given a 30 day Facebook ban for posting my profile picture it doesn’t show my tits my genitals and I think it’s pretty ridiculous do you think I deserve the ban ? I spend more time in Facebook jail then I do out"

In modelling parlance your photo would be classified as "implied"

As in, there's nudity, but it's hidden, behind your hand or a prop, like a hat or a fan.

There's nudity, but not direct nudity. Therefore not suitable for Facebook.

If you keep getting banned from Facebook, the problem isn't Facebook.

Know your audience.

Winston

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't think that picture is suitable for Facebook.

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By *oah VailMan
over a year ago

Dover


"If you keep getting banned from Facebook, the problem isn't Facebook.

"

This.

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By *othianGuy41Man
over a year ago

Eureka


"I got banned for 30 days for a picture of a fecking potato!! Facebook these days you can't post or say anything innocent without getting banned! The words Ass booty & tits will get you banned.

Well that's not true.

The bit about the words not the potato. If you say that happened it happened but I reported a post of a guy set on fire for being gay and it didn't go against community guidelines. "

I run a group with over 50k members & we have key words set up that when anyone types certain words the flash up to admin first. The words such as ass get flagged as sexual harassment ect. The potato in question might of resembled a penis, but it was still a potato. Hand over nipples & such, bare bums & see through clothing will all get you banned.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I don’t do Facebook and can’t see what all the fuss is about "

Love the face book being a nosy person! Plus found old school friends etc good way to keep in touch wouldn't b without x

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By *othianGuy41Man
over a year ago

Eureka

I totally agree. It's great for keeping in touch, having a laugh. All those people that don't have it passing judgement on here should get a life! Get Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave myself a lifetime ban from Facebook. It’s my finest achievement.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"I totally agree. It's great for keeping in touch, having a laugh. All those people that don't have it passing judgement on here should get a life! Get Facebook "

People are passing judgement because they've been asked to by the OP in the opening post.

When we sign up to sites like Facebook we agree to their terms of service.

If we breach them, we suffer the consequences. Its really that simple.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not being victimised, you're simply obsessed with your new persona and can't help seeking attention to it,either on here or fabguys,now it seems on Facebook too.Unfortunately,you seem unable to handle any criticism this may provoke and you fall back into self pity

Just take a backseat for a while

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I don't think that picture is suitable for Facebook. "

No one in their right mind does !

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I wish Jeremy Kyle was still available

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

The social media sites are cracking down before the online safety bill kicks in, one section of which (I believe) relates to sexual imagery.

A lot of these SM are seen by 13+ kids, so although your image doesn’t have your genital out it is clear you are naked underneath, so still provocative, therefore not suitable for certain age groups. As a public profile picture, anyone searching for a name similar to yours wouldn’t have a choice of seeing the image within their search results

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wish Jeremy Kyle was still available "
do you think I’d make a good candidate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about tiktok now

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"It's a very sexual image It’s just me struggled over my bed

With just your hand covering your cock. There doesn't have to be genitals out for a picture to be sexual. "

You will get a ban for hands covering genitals or boobs.

Their site their rules unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're not being victimised, you're simply obsessed with your new persona and can't help seeking attention to it,either on here or fabguys,now it seems on Facebook too.Unfortunately,you seem unable to handle any criticism this may provoke and you fall back into self pity

Just take a backseat for a while "

I can take criticism because I wear my heart on my sleeve I don’t how do I am I stand up for trans rights venomously and I’ll always enjoy striking a pose for the hot list over on fab guys xX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a very sexual image It’s just me struggled over my bed

With just your hand covering your cock. There doesn't have to be genitals out for a picture to be sexual.

You will get a ban for hands covering genitals or boobs.

Their site their rules unfortunately. "

I’ve read the rules over on Facebook it doesn’t mention anything about hands covering it just mentions genitals breasts et cetera nothing about covering them with your hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think that picture is suitable for Facebook.

No one in their right mind does ! "

Some people on this thread think it's ok.......

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I always try to remind myself that Facebook is a public website with families and children on it

I then act accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a friend in fb posted that photo frankly I’d unfriend them. It shows poor judgement on what’s appropriate on a site like fb.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always try to remind myself that Facebook is a public website with families and children on it

I then act accordingly "
yeah I wouldn’t show everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always try to remind myself that Facebook is a public website with families and children on it

I then act accordingly yeah I wouldn’t show everything "

Simply not showing everything doesn't make it appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s inappropriate.

You deserve the ban.

Thread closed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s inappropriate.

You deserve the ban.

Thread closed."

Said the cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s inappropriate.

You deserve the ban.

Thread closed."

HE has spoken.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"So I’ve just been given a 30 day Facebook ban for posting my profile picture it doesn’t show my tits my genitals and I think it’s pretty ridiculous do you think I deserve the ban ? I spend more time in Facebook jail then I do out"

It will be because your hand is on your genital area.

Facebook is getting to be a joke, moderators with an inflated sense of their own importance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I’ve just been given a 30 day Facebook ban for posting my profile picture it doesn’t show my tits my genitals and I think it’s pretty ridiculous do you think I deserve the ban ? I spend more time in Facebook jail then I do out

It will be because your hand is on your genital area.

Facebook is getting to be a joke, moderators with an inflated sense of their own importance.

"
agree I’m a loud and proud trans woman highly sexualised x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It will be because your hand is on your genital area.

Facebook is getting to be a joke, moderators with an inflated sense of their own importance.

"

I’d say it’s probably more because Facebook isn’t a sex site… but I’m just spitballing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s inappropriate.

You deserve the ban.

Thread closed.

HE has spoken. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

It will be because your hand is on your genital area.

Facebook is getting to be a joke, moderators with an inflated sense of their own importance.

I’d say it’s probably more because Facebook isn’t a sex site… but I’m just spitballing."

That’s a highly intelligent observation Jon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It will be because your hand is on your genital area.

Facebook is getting to be a joke, moderators with an inflated sense of their own importance.

I’d say it’s probably more because Facebook isn’t a sex site… but I’m just spitballing.

That’s a highly intelligent observation Jon x "

I’d say it doesn’t take a genius but apparently I’d be wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am glad that kind of profile picture is not deemed appropriate.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"So I’ve just been given a 30 day Facebook ban for posting my profile picture it doesn’t show my tits my genitals and I think it’s pretty ridiculous do you think I deserve the ban ? I spend more time in Facebook jail then I do out

It will be because your hand is on your genital area.

Facebook is getting to be a joke, moderators with an inflated sense of their own importance.

agree I’m a loud and proud trans woman highly sexualised x "

The level of cringe in that comment made my bones hurt

Loud, proud and sexualised doesn’t give you the right to subject families and children to your loud and proud sexuality on a website designed for families and children

I know your going through a big life change at the moment full of discovery and exciting things. But be respectful about it please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"So I’ve just been given a 30 day Facebook ban for posting my profile picture it doesn’t show my tits my genitals and I think it’s pretty ridiculous do you think I deserve the ban ? I spend more time in Facebook jail then I do out

It will be because your hand is on your genital area.

Facebook is getting to be a joke, moderators with an inflated sense of their own importance.

"

The vast majority of bans will be automatic based upon AI and algorithms picking up on words, phrases, and images that are posted. A few may be flagged as potential violations of terms and rules in which the automatic AI moderator is unable to fully make out, which will then be viewed by a human moderator.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve just been given a 30 day Facebook ban for posting my profile picture it doesn’t show my tits my genitals and I think it’s pretty ridiculous do you think I deserve the ban ? I spend more time in Facebook jail then I do out

It will be because your hand is on your genital area.

Facebook is getting to be a joke, moderators with an inflated sense of their own importance.

agree I’m a loud and proud trans woman highly sexualised x "

Does that mean you need to subject everyone to it, however inappropriately? Be mindful, appropriate with and respectful of others and you'll find they will do the same with you.

It seems you need to understand what is appropriate behaviour. Post that picture and shout your sexuality as loudly as you like here and no one will bat an eyelid. Do you understand why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I’ve just been given a 30 day Facebook ban for posting my profile picture it doesn’t show my tits my genitals and I think it’s pretty ridiculous do you think I deserve the ban ? I spend more time in Facebook jail then I do out

It will be because your hand is on your genital area.

Facebook is getting to be a joke, moderators with an inflated sense of their own importance.

agree I’m a loud and proud trans woman highly sexualised x

The level of cringe in that comment made my bones hurt

Loud, proud and sexualised doesn’t give you the right to subject families and children to your loud and proud sexuality on a website designed for families and children

I know your going through a big life change at the moment full of discovery and exciting things. But be respectful about it please."
cringe away x I’m glad :d

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I’ve just been given a 30 day Facebook ban for posting my profile picture it doesn’t show my tits my genitals and I think it’s pretty ridiculous do you think I deserve the ban ? I spend more time in Facebook jail then I do out

It will be because your hand is on your genital area.

Facebook is getting to be a joke, moderators with an inflated sense of their own importance.

agree I’m a loud and proud trans woman highly sexualised x

Does that mean you need to subject everyone to it, however inappropriately? Be mindful, appropriate with and respectful of others and you'll find they will do the same with you.

It seems you need to understand what is appropriate behaviour. Post that picture and shout your sexuality as loudly as you like here and no one will bat an eyelid. Do you understand why?"
yeah because on here and the sister site the majority keep it there dirty little secret cheating on their wives et cetera

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I’ve had a friend who went had gender reassignment and the change in that person’s happiness was a beautiful thing to see.

There are limits though, there just are. You wouldn’t get on the Number 47 bus into Galashiels with your hand over yer bits. Social media is no different really.

There’s no point saying “but I’ve seen X, Y and Z” on there. Whether it’s algorithms, poorly paid humans or volunteers (like Fab), there’ll always be inconsistencies when there’s millions of judgement calls. All you can really say is “is the judgement in my own particular case right?”. On balance, I’d say it was right.

Social media is plagued by bots, fake accounts etc using similar images. Unfortunately, many people we see the image and lump you in with that, thus doing you a big disservice.

Social media companies are all-powerful, and not always a force for good. They are worried about being seen to do thing wrong thing and what future legislation etc is coming. It’s not surprising they took this step, therefore. Given the wide range of users, they were right, I think.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So I’ve just been given a 30 day Facebook ban for posting my profile picture it doesn’t show my tits my genitals and I think it’s pretty ridiculous do you think I deserve the ban ? I spend more time in Facebook jail then I do out

It will be because your hand is on your genital area.

Facebook is getting to be a joke, moderators with an inflated sense of their own importance.

agree I’m a loud and proud trans woman highly sexualised x "

I'm a highly sexualised, loud and proud cis afab woman but I know what is appropriate to post in the public domain and what isn't. I'm sorry but I feel you are using your transitioning as an excuse right now.

It's amazing that you are going through this transformation and that you feel comfortable in your body now but I do think you need some counselling to learn how to vent those feelings appropriately.

I've seen someone I through the full process of gender reassignment and at the beginning they were a bit the same. They felt exuberantly sexual at finally releasing the person inside. They wore very inappropriate clothes to work and we had to take them to one side and talk to them about it. They got some great help from some of the support groups out there. They were still the same sexual being, they just channelled it through the right places.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Op just accept the fact you shouldn't be posting things like that on Facebook. You can argue until 2030 but you'll still be wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve had a friend who went had gender reassignment and the change in that person’s happiness was a beautiful thing to see.

There are limits though, there just are. You wouldn’t get on the Number 47 bus into Galashiels with your hand over yer bits. Social media is no different really.

There’s no point saying “but I’ve seen X, Y and Z” on there. Whether it’s algorithms, poorly paid humans or volunteers (like Fab), there’ll always be inconsistencies when there’s millions of judgement calls. All you can really say is “is the judgement in my own particular case right?”. On balance, I’d say it was right.

Social media is plagued by bots, fake accounts etc using similar images. Unfortunately, many people we see the image and lump you in with that, thus doing you a big disservice.

Social media companies are all-powerful, and not always a force for good. They are worried about being seen to do thing wrong thing and what future legislation etc is coming. It’s not surprising they took this step, therefore. Given the wide range of users, they were right, I think."
lol bit cold this time of year to get the Gala bus with no skirt on x thank you for your response that’s well thought out thank you

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"So I’ve just been given a 30 day Facebook ban for posting my profile picture it doesn’t show my tits my genitals and I think it’s pretty ridiculous do you think I deserve the ban ? I spend more time in Facebook jail then I do out

It will be because your hand is on your genital area.

Facebook is getting to be a joke, moderators with an inflated sense of their own importance.

agree I’m a loud and proud trans woman highly sexualised x

I'm a highly sexualised, loud and proud cis afab woman but I know what is appropriate to post in the public domain and what isn't. I'm sorry but I feel you are using your transitioning as an excuse right now.

It's amazing that you are going through this transformation and that you feel comfortable in your body now but I do think you need some counselling to learn how to vent those feelings appropriately.

I've seen someone I through the full process of gender reassignment and at the beginning they were a bit the same. They felt exuberantly sexual at finally releasing the person inside. They wore very inappropriate clothes to work and we had to take them to one side and talk to them about it. They got some great help from some of the support groups out there. They were still the same sexual being, they just channelled it through the right places. "

Great post

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I’ve just been given a 30 day Facebook ban for posting my profile picture it doesn’t show my tits my genitals and I think it’s pretty ridiculous do you think I deserve the ban ? I spend more time in Facebook jail then I do out

It will be because your hand is on your genital area.

Facebook is getting to be a joke, moderators with an inflated sense of their own importance.

agree I’m a loud and proud trans woman highly sexualised x

I'm a highly sexualised, loud and proud cis afab woman but I know what is appropriate to post in the public domain and what isn't. I'm sorry but I feel you are using your transitioning as an excuse right now.

It's amazing that you are going through this transformation and that you feel comfortable in your body now but I do think you need some counselling to learn how to vent those feelings appropriately.

I've seen someone I through the full process of gender reassignment and at the beginning they were a bit the same. They felt exuberantly sexual at finally releasing the person inside. They wore very inappropriate clothes to work and we had to take them to one side and talk to them about it. They got some great help from some of the support groups out there. They were still the same sexual being, they just channelled it through the right places. "

Thank you xX I’ll phone some of the LGBT help lines i think I need help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facebook has banned me multiple times, last was for showing a pic after my accident they called it pornography as said I was exposing myself, what they thought was my dick was a drain tube!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

Why do you feel like it's victimisation?

Because I’ve lost access to my Instagram account I’ve over 10 years 7000 photos memories I’ll never get back since around autumn last year summertime I spent more time in Facebook jail then I have out"

Would it be easier to stick with whatever rules they have on the site instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facebook are sensitive just like most people on fab

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

FB are ridiculous. I had a group on East Prussia and Konigsberg. Russian trolls (as it’s now Kaliningrad) complained and I got ban that was upheld.

I thought sod you. Plus the touchy admin in most hobby groups I was part off.

Simply deleted my act and felt much better for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve just been given a 30 day Facebook ban for posting my profile picture it doesn’t show my tits my genitals and I think it’s pretty ridiculous do you think I deserve the ban ? I spend more time in Facebook jail then I do out"

I’ve been jailed for stupid things, including posting the famous phrase from Taken on one of these play things where it asks you to post your favourite line from a movie - - I wasn’t wishing harm on anyone, but clearly Facebook took the hump, they gave me a 3 day ban, I appealed and was out of jail within 40mins.

You can appeal and you can take it further. It does include writing a huge report for an outside company to “maybe” pick your debate to discuss and deal with, but it’s not guaranteed that it will be picked up. I tried to do that with the last jailment, but after 45 painful minutes of filling out the form I lost the lot …. In my head I was murdering Mark F*ckface. So I let it slide. However unknown to everyone there is a list of words & dos and don’ts that you can or cannot put up on Facebook but you have to dig deep down the yellow brick road and turn right at the Big Red Dog, then left at The Magic Roundabout to find anything on it, or you could try Google….. but even then you might not find it. I only found because the outside appeal page linked it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a very sexual image It’s just me struggled over my bed

With just your hand covering your cock. There doesn't have to be genitals out for a picture to be sexual.

You will get a ban for hands covering genitals or boobs.

Their site their rules unfortunately.

I’ve read the rules over on Facebook it doesn’t mention anything about hands covering it just mentions genitals breasts et cetera nothing about covering them with your hand"

Really??

I've sat this one out for the last 24 hours, as it was quite obvious natter what anyone said, you were not going to accept that the picture wasn't, and isn't acceptable for Facebook.

And that comment above shows me I was correct t in thinking that.

Youre on here, and fabguys , post sexual images there. Where no one minds what you post amd images like that are two a penny.

Not on a family friendly site, and then throw your teddies out of the cot because you've been banned but your defense is ' there's no rule about covering genitals with a hand'.

Yes, there are images on Facebook that really shouldn't be there, but why would you want to add to them?

No one is saying you can't be proud of what you are becoming, but plenty of people are saying have some decorum, some respect for others, and be appropriate.

I get my tits and arse out on here, but I'm not going to wander around the park naked with my hand covering myself.... because it is not appropriate.

You are not being victimised. You are not blameless in this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter*

Excuse all the typos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My two quick sniff tests would be...

Would I be okay with a kid seeing this?

Would I be okay with a kid posing like this?

No to either and it's sexual.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

On Facebook I expect to see pictures of kittens, holiday snaps, bad haircuts, what people had for dinner and people falling off bikes.

I don't expect over exuberant, over sexualised pictures of someone's bits, even with their hand over them.

Wrong place, wrong audience. Facebook agrees.

On Fab, totally different in what's appropriate.

Know your audience and the terms of service on where you publish your images.

If you don't agree with their Ts and Cs, don't post your pictures there.

You're on a journey, one that's changeing your world and has possibly diluted your perspective and judgement.

Reading back through your responses it appears you've lost your inhibition and over compensated with an inflated sense of entitlement.

Two pence spent.

Winston

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe


"On Facebook I expect to see pictures of kittens, holiday snaps, bad haircuts, what people had for dinner and people falling off bikes.

I don't expect over exuberant, over sexualised pictures of someone's bits, even with their hand over them.

Wrong place, wrong audience. Facebook agrees.

On Fab, totally different in what's appropriate.

Know your audience and the terms of service on where you publish your images.

If you don't agree with their Ts and Cs, don't post your pictures there.

You're on a journey, one that's changeing your world and has possibly diluted your perspective and judgement.

Reading back through your responses it appears you've lost your inhibition and over compensated with an inflated sense of entitlement.

Two pence spent.

Winston

"

Very well put.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abby has had more FB bans than anyone I know.

She tends to be quite outspoken on there but some have been for ridiculous things.

It’s one of the reasons I steer her away from using the forums. I enjoy my time on here and want to keep it that way

Viv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly? "

Hang on….are you saying that it’s only the trans community who display those traits? Have you read some of the threads on the forums? I think you’ll find that people of every gender are capable of them.

That’s a very sweeping generalisation!

Viv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

Hang on….are you saying that it’s only the trans community who display those traits? Have you read some of the threads on the forums? I think you’ll find that people of every gender are capable of them.

That’s a very sweeping generalisation!

Viv"

Not at all.I would be the last person to criticise the trans community,but the OP continually courts attention on here and fabguys,and this is just another example of their attempt to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not at all.I would be the last person to criticise the trans community,but the OP continually courts attention on here and fabguys,and this is just another example of their attempt to do so"

I can’t comment about the OP personally, I’m not familiar with their posts but I don’t see the need to mention their gender. It’s irrelevant.

Viv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not at all.I would be the last person to criticise the trans community,but the OP continually courts attention on here and fabguys,and this is just another example of their attempt to do so

I can’t comment about the OP personally, I’m not familiar with their posts but I don’t see the need to mention their gender. It’s irrelevant.

Viv"

The OP mentioned gender and trans herself.

He hasn't said anything wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

Hang on….are you saying that it’s only the trans community who display those traits? Have you read some of the threads on the forums? I think you’ll find that people of every gender are capable of them.

That’s a very sweeping generalisation!

Viv

Not at all.I would be the last person to criticise the trans community,but the OP continually courts attention on here and fabguys,and this is just another example of their attempt to do so"
because I’m so worth it x pan 10 pro shine x

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly? "

This isn’t a trans issue. This is a mental health issue with someone that happens to be trans

Don’t confuse the two

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly? "

If you negatively judge all trans people because you don't like the actions of one trans person then you're a transphobe.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Social media access is a privilege given and can be removed at any point from these private companies without any real reason needed .

They have their rules and That’s it. Stick to Twitter if you want more slightly nsfw posting stuff allowed (even then you need to be flagged properly on the system and still have to confirm to pg13/ non sexualised header / avi .

FB/ IG have always been very harsh on this unless you are a celebrity then you actually get preferred treatment and can more or less post with impunity within reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

This isn’t a trans issue. This is a mental health issue with someone that happens to be trans

Don’t confuse the two "
what because I like to sexualise myself on Facebook x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Social media access is a privilege given and can be removed at any point from these private companies without any real reason needed .

They have their rules and That’s it. Stick to Twitter if you want more slightly nsfw posting stuff allowed (even then you need to be flagged properly on the system and still have to confirm to pg13/ non sexualised header / avi .

FB/ IG have always been very harsh on this unless you are a celebrity then you actually get preferred treatment and can more or less post with impunity within reason

"
agree Britney Spears seems to get away with a lot on Instagram

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

This isn’t a trans issue. This is a mental health issue with someone that happens to be trans

Don’t confuse the two what because I like to sexualise myself on Facebook x "

Just say you were trying to offend Putin and it’ll get lifted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

This isn’t a trans issue. This is a mental health issue with someone that happens to be trans

Don’t confuse the two "
I was going to send you a private message but you did me the favour x thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

If you negatively judge all trans people because you don't like the actions of one trans person then you're a transphobe."

I'm certainly not transphobic!!! I live part-time as a woman, but it doesn't give me the god given right to flaunt my transexuality at people and places that don't wish to see it.

My Facebook profile contains pictures of myself as a woman,and they are all totally decent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

If you negatively judge all trans people because you don't like the actions of one trans person then you're a transphobe.

I'm certainly not transphobic!!! I live part-time as a woman, but it doesn't give me the god given right to flaunt my transexuality at people and places that don't wish to see it.

My Facebook profile contains pictures of myself as a woman,and they are all totally decent "
part time so you’re not on HRT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

If you negatively judge all trans people because you don't like the actions of one trans person then you're a transphobe.

I'm certainly not transphobic!!! I live part-time as a woman, but it doesn't give me the god given right to flaunt my transexuality at people and places that don't wish to see it.

My Facebook profile contains pictures of myself as a woman,and they are all totally decent part time so you’re not on HRT "

I didn't realise it was a point scoring exercise!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

If you negatively judge all trans people because you don't like the actions of one trans person then you're a transphobe.

I'm certainly not transphobic!!! I live part-time as a woman, but it doesn't give me the god given right to flaunt my transexuality at people and places that don't wish to see it.

My Facebook profile contains pictures of myself as a woman,and they are all totally decent part time so you’re not on HRT

I didn't realise it was a point scoring exercise! "
no it’s not but you don’t really have an idea of how powerful HRT is until you are living it x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I didn't even know you could get a ban

Me neither. Good effort Mace x"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Wow that turned into a proper Facebook feud

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow that turned into a proper Facebook feud "
x The pen is mightier than the sword x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well.... That went well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

If you negatively judge all trans people because you don't like the actions of one trans person then you're a transphobe.

I'm certainly not transphobic!!! I live part-time as a woman, but it doesn't give me the god given right to flaunt my transexuality at people and places that don't wish to see it.

My Facebook profile contains pictures of myself as a woman,and they are all totally decent part time so you’re not on HRT

I didn't realise it was a point scoring exercise! no it’s not but you don’t really have an idea of how powerful HRT is until you are living it x "

That may be, but it's not the point of the thread is it? Bit harsh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

If you negatively judge all trans people because you don't like the actions of one trans person then you're a transphobe.

I'm certainly not transphobic!!! I live part-time as a woman, but it doesn't give me the god given right to flaunt my transexuality at people and places that don't wish to see it.

My Facebook profile contains pictures of myself as a woman,and they are all totally decent part time so you’re not on HRT

I didn't realise it was a point scoring exercise! no it’s not but you don’t really have an idea of how powerful HRT is until you are living it x "

You can't blame HRT! I'm sure this site is full of women who are on it,yet don't feel the need for self aggrandisement that you have.

I expect you remember the Harry Enfield Brummie character - "I'm considerably more trans than yo"!

It's NOT a competition,you don't have to try and prove your worth as a woman by acting in such a provocative manner,pushing boundaries that no CIS woman (sorry for using such an awful term) would deem appropriate.

If you really wish to be considered as a woman,you need to lose the male aggression

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

This isn’t a trans issue. This is a mental health issue with someone that happens to be trans

Don’t confuse the two what because I like to sexualise myself on Facebook x "

You're still not getting why Facebook isn't the medium to sexualise yourself then.

Your every post shows a lack of awareness, understanding, of LAM and entitlement.

I can, so I will, and everyone has has to agree your decisions.

Sorry, the world does not revolve around you.

By all means celebrate your journey, simply use an appropriate medium.

Facebooks house, Facebooks rules.

Don't like them, don't post.

Keep posting your sexualised photos, keep getting banned by all means. But don't then complain about something that's within your gift to stop.

Two more pence spent.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The OP mentioned gender and trans herself.

He hasn't said anything wrong.

"

In the initial post there was no mention of either.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

fb rules are weird

they show nasty things like dogs being tortured and stuff on a daily basis, and that, aparently, doesn't breech community standards...

but show a woman breastfeeding her baby, for instance, and you are scum of the earth and send to the social media oubliette

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

The fb moderaters don't get the Irish sense of humour hence I have got a few fb bans myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

If you negatively judge all trans people because you don't like the actions of one trans person then you're a transphobe.

I'm certainly not transphobic!!! I live part-time as a woman, but it doesn't give me the god given right to flaunt my transexuality at people and places that don't wish to see it.

My Facebook profile contains pictures of myself as a woman,and they are all totally decent part time so you’re not on HRT

I didn't realise it was a point scoring exercise! no it’s not but you don’t really have an idea of how powerful HRT is until you are living it x

You can't blame HRT! I'm sure this site is full of women who are on it,yet don't feel the need for self aggrandisement that you have.

I expect you remember the Harry Enfield Brummie character - "I'm considerably more trans than yo"!

It's NOT a competition,you don't have to try and prove your worth as a woman by acting in such a provocative manner,pushing boundaries that no CIS woman (sorry for using such an awful term) would deem appropriate.

If you really wish to be considered as a woman,you need to lose the male aggression "
as mentioned in a comment above the effects of transitioning in powerful medication can leave you somewhat out of join? I’ve since learned I am not alone with over sexualising myself it’s a commonly known issue with trans woman that go through the change, I was making the point that you are coming from a part timer position you dint have any idea what it’s like to medically transition, say what you like but I suspect a little jealousy on your part referencing me as having male aggression x everyone is beautiful and everyone loses his/her way from time to time x all the best on your Journey x

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By *w79Man
over a year ago

Stalbridge

If you've got Instagram.

I think (but not 100% certain) you can use it to post to face-book even when you are in fb jail.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you've got Instagram.

I think (but not 100% certain) you can use it to post to face-book even when you are in fb jail. "
no Instagram and Facebook are the same Corporation x they changed the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fb rules are weird

they show nasty things like dogs being tortured and stuff on a daily basis, and that, aparently, doesn't breech community standards...

but show a woman breastfeeding her baby, for instance, and you are scum of the earth and send to the social media oubliette"

Fair point!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What have I learnt over the last few days not to post my nude body on Facebook as people don’t wanna see it on there learn how to channel my sexuality properly ( I have a sexy meat in a few days with a fit man) people sometimes get jealous and throw accusations about being male to make themselves feel better x thank you to everyone with constructive criticism it’s helped x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

If you negatively judge all trans people because you don't like the actions of one trans person then you're a transphobe.

I'm certainly not transphobic!!! I live part-time as a woman, but it doesn't give me the god given right to flaunt my transexuality at people and places that don't wish to see it.

My Facebook profile contains pictures of myself as a woman,and they are all totally decent part time so you’re not on HRT

I didn't realise it was a point scoring exercise! no it’s not but you don’t really have an idea of how powerful HRT is until you are living it x

You can't blame HRT! I'm sure this site is full of women who are on it,yet don't feel the need for self aggrandisement that you have.

I expect you remember the Harry Enfield Brummie character - "I'm considerably more trans than yo"!

It's NOT a competition,you don't have to try and prove your worth as a woman by acting in such a provocative manner,pushing boundaries that no CIS woman (sorry for using such an awful term) would deem appropriate.

If you really wish to be considered as a woman,you need to lose the male aggression as mentioned in a comment above the effects of transitioning in powerful medication can leave you somewhat out of join? I’ve since learned I am not alone with over sexualising myself it’s a commonly known issue with trans woman that go through the change, I was making the point that you are coming from a part timer position you dint have any idea what it’s like to medically transition, say what you like but I suspect a little jealousy on your part referencing me as having male aggression x everyone is beautiful and everyone loses his/her way from time to time x all the best on your Journey x "

I am not in the least bit jealous of you but I genuinely hope you take on board some of the comments people have made on here and realise that you don't have to shout loudest to be the one that is heard

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

If you negatively judge all trans people because you don't like the actions of one trans person then you're a transphobe.

I'm certainly not transphobic!!! I live part-time as a woman, but it doesn't give me the god given right to flaunt my transexuality at people and places that don't wish to see it.

My Facebook profile contains pictures of myself as a woman,and they are all totally decent part time so you’re not on HRT

I didn't realise it was a point scoring exercise! no it’s not but you don’t really have an idea of how powerful HRT is until you are living it x

You can't blame HRT! I'm sure this site is full of women who are on it,yet don't feel the need for self aggrandisement that you have.

I expect you remember the Harry Enfield Brummie character - "I'm considerably more trans than yo"!

It's NOT a competition,you don't have to try and prove your worth as a woman by acting in such a provocative manner,pushing boundaries that no CIS woman (sorry for using such an awful term) would deem appropriate.

If you really wish to be considered as a woman,you need to lose the male aggression as mentioned in a comment above the effects of transitioning in powerful medication can leave you somewhat out of join? I’ve since learned I am not alone with over sexualising myself it’s a commonly known issue with trans woman that go through the change, I was making the point that you are coming from a part timer position you dint have any idea what it’s like to medically transition, say what you like but I suspect a little jealousy on your part referencing me as having male aggression x everyone is beautiful and everyone loses his/her way from time to time x all the best on your Journey x

I am not in the least bit jealous of you but I genuinely hope you take on board some of the comments people have made on here and realise that you don't have to shout loudest to be the one that is heard

Good luck"
had to have the last word didn’t you x

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

If you negatively judge all trans people because you don't like the actions of one trans person then you're a transphobe.

I'm certainly not transphobic!!! I live part-time as a woman, but it doesn't give me the god given right to flaunt my transexuality at people and places that don't wish to see it.

My Facebook profile contains pictures of myself as a woman,and they are all totally decent part time so you’re not on HRT

I didn't realise it was a point scoring exercise! no it’s not but you don’t really have an idea of how powerful HRT is until you are living it x

You can't blame HRT! I'm sure this site is full of women who are on it,yet don't feel the need for self aggrandisement that you have.

I expect you remember the Harry Enfield Brummie character - "I'm considerably more trans than yo"!

It's NOT a competition,you don't have to try and prove your worth as a woman by acting in such a provocative manner,pushing boundaries that no CIS woman (sorry for using such an awful term) would deem appropriate.

If you really wish to be considered as a woman,you need to lose the male aggression as mentioned in a comment above the effects of transitioning in powerful medication can leave you somewhat out of join? I’ve since learned I am not alone with over sexualising myself it’s a commonly known issue with trans woman that go through the change, I was making the point that you are coming from a part timer position you dint have any idea what it’s like to medically transition, say what you like but I suspect a little jealousy on your part referencing me as having male aggression x everyone is beautiful and everyone loses his/her way from time to time x all the best on your Journey x

I am not in the least bit jealous of you but I genuinely hope you take on board some of the comments people have made on here and realise that you don't have to shout loudest to be the one that is heard

Good luck

had to have the last word didn’t you x "

Ironic.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you realise your 'look at me' attitude and sense of entitlement is only reinforcing negative stereotypes about trans people?

What's wrong with blending in quietly?

If you negatively judge all trans people because you don't like the actions of one trans person then you're a transphobe.

I'm certainly not transphobic!!! I live part-time as a woman, but it doesn't give me the god given right to flaunt my transexuality at people and places that don't wish to see it.

My Facebook profile contains pictures of myself as a woman,and they are all totally decent part time so you’re not on HRT

I didn't realise it was a point scoring exercise! no it’s not but you don’t really have an idea of how powerful HRT is until you are living it x

You can't blame HRT! I'm sure this site is full of women who are on it,yet don't feel the need for self aggrandisement that you have.

I expect you remember the Harry Enfield Brummie character - "I'm considerably more trans than yo"!

It's NOT a competition,you don't have to try and prove your worth as a woman by acting in such a provocative manner,pushing boundaries that no CIS woman (sorry for using such an awful term) would deem appropriate.

If you really wish to be considered as a woman,you need to lose the male aggression as mentioned in a comment above the effects of transitioning in powerful medication can leave you somewhat out of join? I’ve since learned I am not alone with over sexualising myself it’s a commonly known issue with trans woman that go through the change, I was making the point that you are coming from a part timer position you dint have any idea what it’s like to medically transition, say what you like but I suspect a little jealousy on your part referencing me as having male aggression x everyone is beautiful and everyone loses his/her way from time to time x all the best on your Journey x

I am not in the least bit jealous of you but I genuinely hope you take on board some of the comments people have made on here and realise that you don't have to shout loudest to be the one that is heard

Good luck

had to have the last word didn’t you x

Ironic.

Winston"

Boop.

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