FabSwingers.com forum: Thoughts on dating off fab?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know most people are on here just for a fuck but has anyone considered dating anyone off here or has anyone got more serious then just fun?

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

cheshire

I would definitely date someone if clicked and wanted same thing

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'd love to date off here. It's more honest, and people actually chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F*ck right off if beans on toast is her signature dish. I can’t be the only one that cooks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

??? How are people on here just for fucks

Yes I would date someone from here

What’s the difference bween here and date sites and night clubs and such

Bween someone meeting 10 people from date sites

And have 10 one night stands

Or meeting 10 people on here

Or going out and have 10 one night stands from pubs and night clubs

Wish people wouldn’t be so judgmental

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have done x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

This ain't instashag

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex

I would date from fab. Would be great to meet someone who wanted the same things and could swing together. Im not looking for that, but if it happens it happens.

I don't see myself going back to the "normal" dating apps ever again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is only 1 woman alive id ever consider dating well i assume shes alive anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This ain't instashag

Depends it can be for some if they wanted it to be emmm no comment

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Yip

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"This ain't instashag

Depends it can be for some if they wanted it to be emmm no comment

Sorry, didn't mean that to sound judgemental. We all have needs, but it ain't just that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm now this is a bit of a juxtaposition

Everyone on here states they are only here for the fucks - but their behaviour says otherwise!

I'd hazard that 95% of singles that cycle through here start off thinking they can find a horny sexy girlfriend that will do anything!

The ones that stay and really play are the ones that aren't desperately seeking Susans!!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Hmmm now this is a bit of a juxtaposition

Everyone on here states they are only here for the fucks - but their behaviour says otherwise!

I'd hazard that 95% of singles that cycle through here start off thinking they can find a horny sexy girlfriend that will do anything!

The ones that stay and really play are the ones that aren't desperately seeking Susans!!

My profile doesn't. Maybe I'm an outlier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm now this is a bit of a juxtaposition

Everyone on here states they are only here for the fucks - but their behaviour says otherwise!

I'd hazard that 95% of singles that cycle through here start off thinking they can find a horny sexy girlfriend that will do anything!

The ones that stay and really play are the ones that aren't desperately seeking Susans!!

My profile doesn't. Maybe I'm an outlier. "
nope pretty sure mine dont see here for sex either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This ain't instashag

Depends it can be for some if they wanted it to be emmm no comment

Sorry, didn't mean that to sound judgemental. We all have needs, but it ain't just that

Didn’t mean it like that all I meant is it can be

I could fly the meet now flag and if I wasn’t fuzzy have a meet in 5 minutes if that lol

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"This ain't instashag

Depends it can be for some if they wanted it to be emmm no comment

Sorry, didn't mean that to sound judgemental. We all have needs, but it ain't just that

Didn’t mean it like that all I meant is it can be

I could fly the meet now flag and if I wasn’t fuzzy have a meet in 5 minutes if that lol "

Good for you!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No never! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This ain't instashag

Depends it can be for some if they wanted it to be emmm no comment

Sorry, didn't mean that to sound judgemental. We all have needs, but it ain't just that

Didn’t mean it like that all I meant is it can be

I could fly the meet now flag and if I wasn’t fuzzy have a meet in 5 minutes if that lol

Good for you!"

Was just say it can be no need to hate

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"This ain't instashag

Depends it can be for some if they wanted it to be emmm no comment

Sorry, didn't mean that to sound judgemental. We all have needs, but it ain't just that

Didn’t mean it like that all I meant is it can be

I could fly the meet now flag and if I wasn’t fuzzy have a meet in 5 minutes if that lol

Good for you!

Was just say it can be no need to hate "

No, I meant good for you as in great. I think wires are crossed here

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hmmm now this is a bit of a juxtaposition

Everyone on here states they are only here for the fucks - but their behaviour says otherwise!

I'd hazard that 95% of singles that cycle through here start off thinking they can find a horny sexy girlfriend that will do anything!

The ones that stay and really play are the ones that aren't desperately seeking Susans!!

My profile doesn't. Maybe I'm an outlier. nope pretty sure mine dont see here for sex either

Neither does mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This ain't instashag

Depends it can be for some if they wanted it to be emmm no comment

Sorry, didn't mean that to sound judgemental. We all have needs, but it ain't just that

Didn’t mean it like that all I meant is it can be

I could fly the meet now flag and if I wasn’t fuzzy have a meet in 5 minutes if that lol

Good for you!

Was just say it can be no need to hate

No, I meant good for you as in great. I think wires are crossed here

Think so I thought that was sarcastic good for you

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’m not against it at all. In fact there’s times I’d probably welcome it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would, it'd be nice to find someone who understands the lifestyle who I could develop some sort of bond with.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I met my partner here almost 6 and a half years ago and still going strong.

I don't see why it can't happen here if that's what you're looking for .

Miss

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"This ain't instashag

Depends it can be for some if they wanted it to be emmm no comment

Sorry, didn't mean that to sound judgemental. We all have needs, but it ain't just that

Didn’t mean it like that all I meant is it can be

I could fly the meet now flag and if I wasn’t fuzzy have a meet in 5 minutes if that lol

Good for you!

Was just say it can be no need to hate

No, I meant good for you as in great. I think wires are crossed here

Think so I thought that was sarcastic good for you "

Oh no, not my style

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I would prefer to meet someone off here that is in the lifestyle not someone who is on here for just a fuck.

As for online dating, tried that and probably never again.

I think I will be single the rest of my life.

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By *xplorer666Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Probably not most people are on here because they have a high sex drive and don't mind having sex with strangers so i wouldn't expect them to change if we're in a relationship.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I would prefer to meet someone off here that is in the lifestyle not someone who is on here for just a fuck.

As for online dating, tried that and probably never again.

I think I will be single the rest of my life.

That, madam, would be a criminal waste x

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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I would happily date someone from here if I were to find someone I clicked with

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

It’s a no from me.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

God no. I'm just here for the D and to knock back desperate couples who are just here for a 3rd wheel.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

"I would prefer to meet someone off here that is in the lifestyle not someone who is on here for just a fuck.

As for online dating, tried that and probably never again.

I think I will be single the rest of my life.

That, madam, would be a criminal waste x"

I'm wanting a peaceful easy life,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I would prefer to meet someone off here that is in the lifestyle not someone who is on here for just a fuck.

As for online dating, tried that and probably never again.

I think I will be single the rest of my life.

That, madam, would be a criminal waste x

I'm wanting a peaceful easy life,

A waste of a tattooed boob

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm also on here for a friend with benefits, but that's probably not going to happen either.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea."

I thought you had designs on me Bertie?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I'm also on here for a friend with benefits, but that's probably not going to happen either. "

Steady Nanna, seek and ye shall find x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would prefer to meet someone off here that is in the lifestyle not someone who is on here for just a fuck.

As for online dating, tried that and probably never again.

I think I will be single the rest of my life.

That, madam, would be a criminal waste x

I'm wanting a peaceful easy life,

Someone to bring value to life not chaos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have in the past, would make sure we were after the same thing before doing it again

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I'm also on here for a friend with benefits, but that's probably not going to happen either.

Steady Nanna, seek and ye shall find x"

Is there a time limit on that little pearl of wisdom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm open to it.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It’s working out well for us and there’s a number of couples that have got together here.

If you can match sexually then it’s a good step towards compatibility…

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I'm also on here for a friend with benefits, but that's probably not going to happen either.

Steady Nanna, seek and ye shall find x

Is there a time limit on that little pearl of wisdom?"

Couple of hours. Sure you get plenty of offers

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

Have done it in the past and definitely open to it in the future

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I would date from here that way if I wanted to meet someone else that conversation would already have been had and boundaries set in place for us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.

I thought you had designs on me Bertie?

Don't want you to feel hunted

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.

I thought you had designs on me Bertie?

Don't want you to feel hunted

First time, in a long time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not here to date. Happy to do date things with an FWB but am not looking for anything more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.

I thought you had designs on me Bertie?

Don't want you to feel hunted

First time, in a long time x"

You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I'm also on here for a friend with benefits, but that's probably not going to happen either.

Steady Nanna, seek and ye shall find x

Is there a time limit on that little pearl of wisdom?

Couple of hours. Sure you get plenty of offers

Do you know what a friend with benefits is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never say never. I don’t want to be on dates with someone who doesn’t understand this type of thing and I don’t mind if we have been on here if we both enjoy ourselves together. I think like anything else I take people how I find them and being open about ourselves would be something that I would look for

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

I would date someone off here no problem if we got on and maybe more

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I'm also on here for a friend with benefits, but that's probably not going to happen either.

Steady Nanna, seek and ye shall find x

Is there a time limit on that little pearl of wisdom?

Couple of hours. Sure you get plenty of offers

Do you know what a friend with benefits is?

I hope I've gained some knowledge over the years

Don't mistake my jokey manner for being a asshole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.

I thought you had designs on me Bertie?

Don't want you to feel hunted

First time, in a long time x

You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes

Why do you think that?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.

I thought you had designs on me Bertie?

Don't want you to feel hunted

First time, in a long time x

You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes

With those legs, no wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no. I wouldn't trust them.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I'm not on here 'just for fucks' .

I'm on here for the connections and community. Fucks are a great bonus

I see no problem with people dating from here, or even taking it further. If you click you click, how you meet doesn't matter... explaining where you met to any future kids could be interesting though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know most people are on here just for a fuck but has anyone considered dating anyone off here or has anyone got more serious then just fun?"

It has to be right wherever it is found , if it ain't right ..it's wrong

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ve dated a few here but not like a regular monogamous relationships

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

It can work out depends what you want I suppose. Met my hubby on another swing site now just use this site been together 10+ years kinks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stranger things have happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would prefer to meet someone off here that is in the lifestyle not someone who is on here for just a fuck.

As for online dating, tried that and probably never again.

I think I will be single the rest of my life.

That, madam, would be a criminal waste x

I'm wanting a peaceful easy life,

Same here..zero headache or hassle..all about the peace and quiet for me these days..must be something to do with a ‘5’ in my age

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

I would love to.. I find my sex drive is too high for "traditional" sites and I find I'm to "normal" for this bed notch swing for any hole site.

It would be nice to meet a genuine SINGLE guy that knows what lady in the streets and freak in the sheets was really about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love to.. I find my sex drive is too high for "traditional" sites and I find I'm to "normal" for this bed notch swing for any hole site.

It would be nice to meet a genuine SINGLE guy that knows what lady in the streets and freak in the sheets was really about."

THIS!!!

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Open to it but not looking for it. I'm happy with life as it is. As I approach the big 50 (a few years yet) it's becoming more of a consideration of having something with a bit more substance.

Happy living on my own tho and not sure that will change unless it's a very enticing offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my ex on here

We clicked from our first meeting and were in a relationship within a few months

The fact that we met on here never bothered me but I think it played on his mind that I had been on here and he would randomly become insecure about how many men I had been with or being able to satisfy me and accuse me of cheating

I wouldn't repeat the experience, I'm 100% closed off now when I meet men on here or in real life

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'm open to the idea of dating. I can't see why dating can't happen especially if you both want to that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably not most people are on here because they have a high sex drive and don't mind having sex with strangers so i wouldn't expect them to change if we're in a relationship. "

Yet some do. When I'm in a relationship I am in it completely. If we then decide to allow others in, great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably not most people are on here because they have a high sex drive and don't mind having sex with strangers so i wouldn't expect them to change if we're in a relationship. "

So you're implying that people on this site are incapable of being faithful?

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By *aving_great_funMan
over a year ago

London

I would certainly date from this site. In fact it might even be a preference given it brings like minded individuals.

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

If you find someone you like and they like you. Does it matter at all where you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s the difference between here and all the other sex/hookup/dating sites?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the difference between here and all the other sex/hookup/dating sites?"

Other than all the fucking weird shit, obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the difference between here and all the other sex/hookup/dating sites?

Other than all the fucking weird shit, obviously. "

Well stop being into weird shit then.

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

I wouldn't be averse to the idea, being sexually compatible is very important to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd date someone off here, wouldn't be any different than meeting off another site other than I don't have to explain I'm a swinger. Like minded guy is definitely what I need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here and have been happily dating for a while. We were both looking to date someone with the same outlook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wouldn’t date someone from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defiantly, I miss not only the sex and kink but a shite film takeaway and cuddle them great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the difference between here and all the other sex/hookup/dating sites?

Other than all the fucking weird shit, obviously.

Well stop being into weird shit then.

I wouldn’t say you’re that weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would consider dating someone on here that had the same mindset and views as me. Although I'm happy with my current situation.

I couldn't think of anything worse than going back to vanilla dating sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Defiantly, I miss not only the sex and kink but a shite film takeaway and cuddle them great sex

With a single and good fwb you can have this.

I've had more than one fwb who I use to go for dinner with, hang out with etc just no commitment to a relationship. Saw each other as and when.

The arrangement is what you want it to be.

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I'd love to

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By *rezMan
over a year ago

Mungret

I would love to date someone off here.

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.

Had an incredible date last week with a dream woman (chatted for ages in bits over the last year+) & it's spun me out a bit, not only how well it went but how to not fuck it up completely. She's a lot kinkier than I am/into some different things & is very into poly which I've no experience of. But perhaps mostly because I'd closed off the part of me that wanted a relationship, (the main reason I'm here) and now it's broken free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the replies and very interesting tbh , it doesn't matter ..IF ..you find the person you " click " with it ..both mentally and physically ..it doesn't matter wether you meet that person here or not , here is as good as any place to find " the one " ..trick is to find that person..if you find them here or in the " real world " it doesn't matter.. finding them is the trick.

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By *cttMan
over a year ago

hatfield & Cannock

Would love to if I could the opportunity

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Defiantly, I miss not only the sex and kink but a shite film takeaway and cuddle them great sex

With a single and good fwb you can have this.

I've had more than one fwb who I use to go for dinner with, hang out with etc just no commitment to a relationship. Saw each other as and when.

The arrangement is what you want it to be. "

This is what I have with a FWB. Apart from mind blowing sex we hang out as friends every so often. We are both still free and single to do as we please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.

Hey, best of luck with this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you find someone you like and they like you. Does it matter at all where you meet? "

Hello

! I met my ex on a hookup site called Pure. He's one of the loveliest men I've ever known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Defiantly, I miss not only the sex and kink but a shite film takeaway and cuddle them great sex

With a single and good fwb you can have this.

I've had more than one fwb who I use to go for dinner with, hang out with etc just no commitment to a relationship. Saw each other as and when.

The arrangement is what you want it to be.

This is what I have with a FWB. Apart from mind blowing sex we hang out as friends every so often. We are both still free and single to do as we please x"

Exactly. It's a perfect situation for me. Best of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.

Will you meet her again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.

I thought you had designs on me Bertie?

Don't want you to feel hunted

First time, in a long time x

You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes

Why do you think that?"

Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey.

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.

Hey, best of luck with this!

Thank you!

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.

Will you meet her again?"

Just realised that sounds quite negative, but overall I'm feeling positive about the situation. We're chatting loads & both fancy each other/are each others types. Haven't planned anything properly but this week's looking good.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.

I thought you had designs on me Bertie?

Don't want you to feel hunted

First time, in a long time x

You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes

Why do you think that?

Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey. "

Oh, that's not good Bertie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.

I thought you had designs on me Bertie?

Don't want you to feel hunted

First time, in a long time x

You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes

Why do you think that?

Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey.

Oh, that's not good Bertie x"

I'm not the only woman who would say this, I'm betting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.

Will you meet her again?

Oh brilliant!! Good luck.

If you're open to trying poly/ swinging then she could get the kinky stuff you're not into from someone else. And you can find new kinky stuff you both enjoy together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.

I thought you had designs on me Bertie?

Don't want you to feel hunted

First time, in a long time x

You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes

Why do you think that?

Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey.

Oh, that's not good Bertie x

I'm not the only woman who would say this, I'm betting. "

You're not.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.

I thought you had designs on me Bertie?

Don't want you to feel hunted

First time, in a long time x

You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes

Why do you think that?

Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey.

Oh, that's not good Bertie x

I'm not the only woman who would say this, I'm betting. "

Some blokes talk the hind legs off a donkey (me), and would prefer to get to know someone first, before any sexy business. Just seems natural to me, but probably doesn't make me fit on a stingers site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.

I thought you had designs on me Bertie?

Don't want you to feel hunted

First time, in a long time x

You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes

Why do you think that?

Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey.

Oh, that's not good Bertie x

I'm not the only woman who would say this, I'm betting. "

Definitely not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.

I thought you had designs on me Bertie?

Don't want you to feel hunted

First time, in a long time x

You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes

Why do you think that?

Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey.

Oh, that's not good Bertie x

I'm not the only woman who would say this, I'm betting.

I'm not saying all men hunt women, but that behaviour is quite noticeable sometimes. Particularly when guys message off a forum post to get into my knickers. It feels very manipulative.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Yes. I'm wary of it, but not closed off to the idea.

I thought you had designs on me Bertie?

Don't want you to feel hunted

First time, in a long time x

You need to swap with me - I feel like prey sometimes

Why do you think that?

Because that's how men approach me? Like they're hunting prey.

Oh, that's not good Bertie x

I'm not the only woman who would say this, I'm betting.

I'm not saying all men hunt women, but that behaviour is quite noticeable sometimes. Particularly when guys message off a forum post to get into my knickers. It feels very manipulative. "

Well, I hope I've never made anyone I message feel that way x

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.

Will you meet her again?

Oh brilliant!! Good luck.

If you're open to trying poly/ swinging then she could get the kinky stuff you're not into from someone else. And you can find new kinky stuff you both enjoy together. "

I had thought that, there was a really interesting thread some time back about how you can't expect to get everything you need from one person. The main hurdle for me is that I'm relatively inexperienced even in monogamous relationships & prone to jealousy so I need to read up & tackle that early. (I've been taking notes from the ethical slut thread

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Thanks

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Yes, I have done in the past and would be open to it..

It's hard enough to find a fwb though..

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By *moothdick68Man
over a year ago

Worcester

"Probably not most people are on here because they have a high sex drive and don't mind having sex with strangers so i wouldn't expect them to change if we're in a relationship.

So you're implying that people on this site are incapable of being faithful?"

Being faithful isn't only having sex with 'your' partner. It's more to do with trust & honesty. If you're open & honest with each other about likes/dislikes, kinks/perversions, etc then life's fun & easier without the doubt & jealousy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.

Will you meet her again?

Oh brilliant!! Good luck.

If you're open to trying poly/ swinging then she could get the kinky stuff you're not into from someone else. And you can find new kinky stuff you both enjoy together.

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Thanks

As long as you both remain open and talk it could work. I’m like you, prone to jealousy which is why I know poly or swinging in a relationship isn’t for me.

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over a year ago

"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.

Will you meet her again?

Oh brilliant!! Good luck.

If you're open to trying poly/ swinging then she could get the kinky stuff you're not into from someone else. And you can find new kinky stuff you both enjoy together.

)

Thanks

I can get jealous too but with the right person swinging is amazing!

Work on your relationship first before you jump into swinging.

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By *witchblade RomanceWoman
over a year ago

Country Bumpkin...

To date someone off here imagine the fun you could have..

Total freedom. If only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm open to dating someone from fab.

I mean, it's kind of like that anyway right, with the pre socials and stuff... and even with dating apps you discuss what you're looking for etc.

It's a tool to meet new and interesting people with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm open to the idea of dating. I can't see why dating can't happen especially if you both want to that is. "

THIS is precisely how I feel but absolutely no luck yet!

If it happens, then it happens but not holding my breath.

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By *othianGuy41Man
over a year ago

Eureka

I've seen quite a few people from around my area on dating apps, stating they don't do cheats & that they don't do one night stands.. but yet they are on here getting pumped regularly off different guys every night!

I I met someone off here or on a dating app I'd be honest about this site. No point lying then getting found out. Would you be honest??

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

"I know most people are on here just for a fuck but has anyone considered dating anyone off here or has anyone got more serious then just fun?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen quite a few people from around my area on dating apps, stating they don't do cheats & that they don't do one night stands.. but yet they are on here getting pumped regularly off different guys every night!

I I met someone off here or on a dating app I'd be honest about this site. No point lying then getting found out. Would you be honest?? "

Yep. I don't have any problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I I met someone off here or on a dating app I'd be honest about this site. No point lying then getting found out. Would you be honest?? "

I don't tell guys I meet on dating sites that I'm on fab because I don't want to hear any nonsense comments about "getting pumped regularly off different guys every night! "

Maybe they put that they don't do one nights stands because they are on dating sites looking for something more substantive there while using fab as an outlet for the sex side of things.

People are allowed to want more than one thing at a time

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I very much doubt it. I’ve been here too long, seen way too much deception. It’s jaded my view of honesty.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I very much doubt it. I’ve been here too long, seen way too much deception. It’s jaded my view of honesty. "

We're not all assholes x

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over a year ago

I I met someone off here or on a dating app I'd be honest about this site. No point lying then getting found out. Would you be honest??

I don't tell guys I meet on dating sites that I'm on fab because I don't want to hear any nonsense comments about "getting pumped regularly off different guys every night! "

Maybe they put that they don't do one nights stands because they are on dating sites looking for something more substantive there while using fab as an outlet for the sex side of things.

People are allowed to want more than one thing at a time "

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I very much doubt it. I’ve been here too long, seen way too much deception. It’s jaded my view of honesty.

We're not all assholes x"

Yes we are!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

I I met someone off here or on a dating app I'd be honest about this site. No point lying then getting found out. Would you be honest??

I don't tell guys I meet on dating sites that I'm on fab because I don't want to hear any nonsense comments about "getting pumped regularly off different guys every night! "

Maybe they put that they don't do one nights stands because they are on dating sites looking for something more substantive there while using fab as an outlet for the sex side of things.

People are allowed to want more than one thing at a time "

Absolutely

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We were just horny and looking to hook up. Met on here, four year down and our wholes lives together ahead of us. Swinging is so much better when you can share it with the person who is your best everything.

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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago

Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X

I met my husband through a mutual freind and swinging...its great as its already out in the open and we discussed when we got together what we would do on the scene as a couple which took us down the stag and vixen route and we love it x

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By *addy bareMan
over a year ago

lakeside

Sure why not,I had a 6month relationship off of here.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I've had a relationship with someone I met here, personally I wouldn't again but I'm also not really interested in a relationship either anymore

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Open to anything, as someone said, doesn't matter where you met if you click.

Will you meet her again?

Oh brilliant!! Good luck.

If you're open to trying poly/ swinging then she could get the kinky stuff you're not into from someone else. And you can find new kinky stuff you both enjoy together.

)

Thanks

I can get jealous too but with the right person swinging is amazing!

Work on your relationship first before you jump into swinging.

Thanks for the advice, and mixedraceand40 as well. I'm looking forward to exploring & learning.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I’d prefer to date someone from fab tbh - you can be honest about yourself from the start without being worried about judgment. - Probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow your heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking for a single lady’s

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