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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not being a knob, curious on how anyone feels about meeting anyone with disabilities x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Not being a knob” is always a reassuring opening to any sentence.

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By *wales_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff ish / PDI early Nov

People with disabilities are just people who are different and differences make us special, unique and interesting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"“Not being a knob” is always a reassuring opening to any sentence.

"

Well not after sympathy, ex army blunt maybe to blunt not one of those" oh I can't meet " how is my profile bollocks,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t mean to be a cunt but what sort of disabilities we talking.

Anything that affects their ability to make a reasonable decision is a flat out no for me.

Anything else I just treat them like I would any other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember many disabilities are invisible so you may not or never know if someone has a disability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

disabilities Come in all forms some can’t even be seen

Some can be physical

Some can be mental

Some can be learning

And to the question

Yes I would to all 3 if I liked the person

Being physical meataly or learning disability shouldn’t stop people from meeting or likeing people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People with disabilities are just people who are different and differences make us special, unique and interesting. "

Thank you, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being a knob, curious on how anyone feels about meeting anyone with disabilities x"

Physical disability isn't an issue. If you click you click however if the disability compromises their capacity to consent then it's not something I'd be comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not being a knob, curious on how anyone feels about meeting anyone with disabilities x

Physical disability isn't an issue. If you click you click however if the disability compromises their capacity to consent then it's not something I'd be comfortable with. "

Mentally its Ptsd, and if nervous can be anxious, I should have worded the post better,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met a couple that she had ms. Lovely couple. And it didnt stop us having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be very much happy to meet someone with disabilities as long as I was attracted to them.

Just because someone’s disabled and Luke t out me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*** wouldn’t put me off****

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being a knob, curious on how anyone feels about meeting anyone with disabilities x

Physical disability isn't an issue. If you click you click however if the disability compromises their capacity to consent then it's not something I'd be comfortable with.

Mentally its Ptsd, and if nervous can be anxious, I should have worded the post better, "

Depends on the ptsd from my opinion and experience and whether I can trigger it or not.If I can then heavily depends on the circumstances but it is a likely no from me.If I have no relation to it then what happens is between consenting parties.

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe


"Not being a knob, curious on how anyone feels about meeting anyone with disabilities x

Physical disability isn't an issue. If you click you click however if the disability compromises their capacity to consent then it's not something I'd be comfortable with.

Mentally its Ptsd, and if nervous can be anxious, I should have worded the post better, "

I have CPTSD amongst other things and don't have a problem finding meets ,I do only meet people who will be understanding & reassuring even though I don't usually divulge my diagnosis until after we have met if at all.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being a knob, curious on how anyone feels about meeting anyone with disabilities x

Physical disability isn't an issue. If you click you click however if the disability compromises their capacity to consent then it's not something I'd be comfortable with.

Mentally its Ptsd, and if nervous can be anxious, I should have worded the post better, "

Just anxious? Maybe explain that in your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being a knob, curious on how anyone feels about meeting anyone with disabilities x"

I'll be honest as most won't be. I likely wouldn't meet them.

Doesn't mean that you or I are bad people. We're just not compatible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not being a knob, curious on how anyone feels about meeting anyone with disabilities x

I'll be honest as most won't be. I likely wouldn't meet them.

Doesn't mean that you or I are bad people. We're just not compatible. "

Thanks for your honesty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile update. You sound like good fun.

Good luck. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like your profile update. You sound like good fun.

Good luck. Xx "

Thank you ma'am x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Not a worry for me

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

I have a few limitations due to a few issues that I have both physically and mentally… and tbh… 99% of people won’t know unless I tell them.. and people do seem quite shocked when I tell them if I can’t do something quite as easily and the reason why… as someone here mentioned… most disabilities are hidden.

I think 99.9% of the population has some form of physical or mental health issue they deal with … and I would never ever judge someone on that or not decide to meet them over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are attracted to each other does it Matter

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"If you are attracted to each other does it Matter"

This man wins the thread

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I have never been with a person with visible disabilities but I'm pretty sure if liked the person I wouldn't have a problem with it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've no issues with meeting anyone, if we're matched. Most disabilities are invisible and thus we typically engage with people without knowing anything.

For a meet, possibly consider how long is best for you to get to know someone, before meeting. You can indicate that type of detail, without much greater exposure. until the right time seems there, for you to share whatever may be right for you.

Most people are respectful and will want the best experience for you and themselves. If choice of venue, how they may be able to support you, in having the best time etc, could help, then that could be a good angle to direct things from too. Sometimes the practical aspects of our engagements can be very easily understood and readily accommodated by the right partners.

You will probably face the same difficulties that other single men do here too, so be wary of impacts on your self esteem etc. It is really tough for single men to get established here. Your challenge may go in parallel with this.

If you're able to experience fab socials, in the environments that they may be in they may be useful ways to get to know other people too. There'll likely be some trial and error, though you'll likely have managed to have already gained some benefit from that type of exploration, since rejoining civilian life.

There are lots of wonderful people in this world, so you will not be unsupported nor not having many who will want the best for you. There are lots of us who have disabilities, so you're in good company.

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