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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right! Honest opinions. I have been asked a few times to have a threesome with straight couples. But I always pull out as I feel guilty for the guy. I just dont think i would enjoy it if i knew the guy was uncomfortable. Can anyone put my mind at ease from experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3somes are sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right! Honest opinions. I have been asked a few times to have a threesome with straight couples. But I always pull out as I feel guilty for the guy. I just dont think i would enjoy it if i knew the guy was uncomfortable. Can anyone put my mind at ease from experience"

We prefer condoms to the pull out method

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's on you - if they didn't feel comfortable they wouldn't ask.

I get it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight threesomes are plenty of fun, good for greedy girls.. don't feel bad for the fella, he's more than likely absolutely loving watching his missus being a porn star x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So do I

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By *heshire_male999Man
over a year ago

Northwich

MFF is the best but that’s harder to achieve than winning the lottery!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I know what you mean from the opposite perspective. I have been with couples where I’ve felt that the other lady may not be as “into it” and I’ve always made sure to have discussions with her on her own before hand to stress that she can stop it at anytime if she wants, no questions asked. It’s always gone down well when I have. Maybe have an alone time with the guy in your case to say the same thing ?

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"Right! Honest opinions. I have been asked a few times to have a threesome with straight couples. But I always pull out as I feel guilty for the guy. I just dont think i would enjoy it if i knew the guy was uncomfortable. Can anyone put my mind at ease from experience"

You have to remember you are being asked by the couple both of them to join them which means the guy is also asking you to join so you shouldn't feel guilty as they as a couple will know what it is they are going to get ..if you get my meaning

Next time you get asked go for it relax and enjoy the experience

Being invited into another couples sex life is an enormous honour and is incredibly enjoyable for all three of you.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Why do you feel guilty for the guy? He is going to be enjoying it to and joining in with his partner

Generally curious for your reasoning

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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago

Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X

I can understand where your coming from maybe you should first try an mmf with a single female and another single guy to begin with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies. I suppose I am just new to all of this, and was just looking for some reassurance before hand

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Can anyone put my mind at ease from experience"

One of my early lovers had threesome advice that I never forgot.

**** Make sure you give both equal attention! ***

It could just be sheer respect to him while paying her a lot of attention...

I've never had a bad threesome experience since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Being invited into another couples sex life is an enormous honour and is incredibly enjoyable for all three of you."

I couldn’t agree with you more, without wishing to sound dramatic it’s almost a sacred thing.

The thought that occurs to me when I’m with a couple that I wonder if OP is also worried about , is that should something go awry at the meet, if anyone feels uncomfortable or whatever, I can go home and it’s just water under the bridge, but for the couple it might have an affect on their relationship.

I think that’s a great responsibility for the third person and something I’m always aware of during a meet.

Could that be what you’re worried about OP?

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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago

Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X

Yes I also would say get the know the male well and just respect any boundaries they may have you'll be fine

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

You should be flattered when asked to join a couple, it's not easy to win the trust of two people and for the guy to want you to please his wife, they will have discussed it at length so be assured you are not going to upset anyone as long as everyone is clear on any rules and boundaries beforehand. Embrace the chance to join a couple, you will want more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ohh good. I feel a bit better about it now. You can't blame a guy for making sure hehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only one I don't feel nervous in is when it's me, myself and I

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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago

Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X


"Ohh good. I feel a bit better about it now. You can't blame a guy for making sure hehe."

It actually says alot about you in a good way to be honest xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Vixen! I am glad to hear that

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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago

Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X


"Thanks Vixen! I am glad to hear that "

Your welcome

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

What?! I don't understand. A couple has asked you to join them, and you've turned them down because the guy wouldn't enjoy it ? Why would they ask you to join them then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Magneto, I have just delayed it for now. I see your point, but just thought I would get a few opinions on it first, as I have never been with a couple before.

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