FabSwingers.com forum: Bigger/chubby guys

By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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My thoughts are that if you’re a chubbier/ bigger guy here or even at clubs you’re almost non existent!

My experience alone Is this a true representation ?

I understand people will mention about pics etc and I’m all up for a little help with the profile of course. But i really can’t have a face pic on show at all times due to work.

Anyone else got any input! Other than lose some weight you big mess ! Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do alright im hardly he man

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

You could pixilate your photos to blank out your face, then stylise them using Google photos.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"You could pixilate your photos to blank out your face, then stylise them using Google photos. "

And have fewer dick pics.

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"You could pixilate your photos to blank out your face, then stylise them using Google photos. "

I shall look into this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do alright im hardly he man "

Not too far off …

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm a bit of a lump.

It's not all about body size.

Yes - more than likely you won't be their cup of tea, but I use my personality and humour to find friends and have made a lot of friends on fab.

Good luck mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve got a few veris. You’re not doing too bad.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If a big man has a handsome face, looks after himself, is physically fit, and isn't a knob, I'd meet him.

You can be fat and fit

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"If a big man has a handsome face, looks after himself, is physically fit, and isn't a knob, I'd meet him.

You can be fat and fit

I find not being a nob helps immensely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do alright im hardly he man

Not too far off …

if you saw my belly after a chinese you would think you got me preggers

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"I'm a bit of a lump.

It's not all about body size.

Yes - more than likely you won't be their cup of tea, but I use my personality and humour to find friends and have made a lot of friends on fab.

Good luck mate.

Cheers man. I know it’s a big pool here and woman’s own perogative etc! Just feels like I’m trying to ice skate uphill sometimes. Lol against Greek gods

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"You’ve got a few veris. You’re not doing too bad."

No I suppose not. I also don’t want a million meets. Just feels a bit tricky at the moment

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I'm a bit of a lump.

It's not all about body size.

Yes - more than likely you won't be their cup of tea, but I use my personality and humour to find friends and have made a lot of friends on fab.

Good luck mate.

Cheers man. I know it’s a big pool here and woman’s own perogative etc! Just feels like I’m trying to ice skate uphill sometimes. Lol against Greek gods "

Some of the 'Greek gods' actually turn the ladies off, as they can't string a sentence together. Can chatting fella, get yourself known

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"If a big man has a handsome face, looks after himself, is physically fit, and isn't a knob, I'd meet him.

You can be fat and fit

I am relatively fit, I do a lot of heavy weights powerlifting and such. Just doesn’t translate into what many seem to find aesthetically pleasing.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"If a big man has a handsome face, looks after himself, is physically fit, and isn't a knob, I'd meet him.

You can be fat and fit

You have to be pretty fit to carry my weight around. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think losing weight might increase interest?

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"I'm a bit of a lump.

It's not all about body size.

Yes - more than likely you won't be their cup of tea, but I use my personality and humour to find friends and have made a lot of friends on fab.

Good luck mate.

Cheers man. I know it’s a big pool here and woman’s own perogative etc! Just feels like I’m trying to ice skate uphill sometimes. Lol against Greek gods

Some of the 'Greek gods' actually turn the ladies off, as they can't string a sentence together. Can chatting fella, get yourself known

Thank you I’m trying ! Will keep going lol

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"Do you think losing weight might increase interest? "

Who knows ? That’s kinda my view! For me personally it’s a work in progress I was extremely heavy a few years back and I’m 9st down.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

M8 u av 9 pics all same ur cock ...I'm sure there's more 2 u then that so ad a few more clothes ones casual .suit maybe ..not picking faults just trying 2 help .x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think losing weight might increase interest?

Who knows ? That’s kinda my view! For me personally it’s a work in progress I was extremely heavy a few years back and I’m 9st down.

I have been here at 10 stone and at 18 stone

The attention levels didn't really differ

Weight / size isn't everything

I have the perfect Fab storm of being not only fat, but older, shorter, speccy, bald, hairy all over and bi

You should try being bi

It makes you feel extra special to have blokes knockin ya back as well as women

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"M8 u av 9 pics all same ur cock ...I'm sure there's more 2 u then that so ad a few more clothes ones casual .suit maybe ..not picking faults just trying 2 help .x "

All welcome suggestions !! Thanks

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP it's often not the body shape that matters.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Do you think losing weight might increase interest?

Who knows ? That’s kinda my view! For me personally it’s a work in progress I was extremely heavy a few years back and I’m 9st down.

I have been here at 10 stone and at 18 stone

The attention levels didn't really differ

Weight / size isn't everything

I have the perfect Fab storm of being not only fat, but older, shorter, speccy, bald, hairy all over and bi

You should try being bi

It makes you feel extra special to have blokes knockin ya back as well as women

Positive start there caller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bit of a lump.

It's not all about body size.

Yes - more than likely you won't be their cup of tea, but I use my personality and humour to find friends and have made a lot of friends on fab.

Good luck mate.

Personality and humour? You had me at the big belly pic

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm hardly a small guy and my chest tells the tales of many a pork pie and ales. I was on the scene a single guy previously and going to clubs. My proportions never seemed a barrier to me and as a single guy I did well and as the male half of a couple I still do.

My biggest advise if don't look to your size as the answer or as a problem. It's really not. Granted some people don't fancy bigger guys and some people absolutely adore a bigger guy, but most fancy the person and how they come across rather than the frame attached. Plus a big smile goes a long way.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm a bit of a lump.

It's not all about body size.

Yes - more than likely you won't be their cup of tea, but I use my personality and humour to find friends and have made a lot of friends on fab.

Good luck mate.

Personality and humour? You had me at the big belly pic

I know.

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

Maybe it’s not your size or the look of your cock that is putting people off - you’ve got a partner and lots of women see that as a no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bit of a lump.

It's not all about body size.

Yes - more than likely you won't be their cup of tea, but I use my personality and humour to find friends and have made a lot of friends on fab.

Good luck mate.

Personality and humour? You had me at the big belly pic

I know.

What can I say, obviously easily pleased

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm a bit of a lump.

It's not all about body size.

Yes - more than likely you won't be their cup of tea, but I use my personality and humour to find friends and have made a lot of friends on fab.

Good luck mate.

Personality and humour? You had me at the big belly pic

I know.

What can I say, obviously easily pleased

Well you're settling for 3 bellies instead of 5, so you're easily pleased too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bit of a lump.

It's not all about body size.

Yes - more than likely you won't be their cup of tea, but I use my personality and humour to find friends and have made a lot of friends on fab.

Good luck mate.

Personality and humour? You had me at the big belly pic

I know.

What can I say, obviously easily pleased

Well you're settling for 3 bellies instead of 5, so you're easily pleased too.

Rude! But seeing as it's you, I'll let you off on this occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bit of a lump.

It's not all about body size.

Yes - more than likely you won't be their cup of tea, but I use my personality and humour to find friends and have made a lot of friends on fab.

Good luck mate.

Chunky you are one of the nicest guys on fabs pal.

You are very down to earth and say it as it is.

Just don’t ever bloody leave here

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm a bit of a lump.

It's not all about body size.

Yes - more than likely you won't be their cup of tea, but I use my personality and humour to find friends and have made a lot of friends on fab.

Good luck mate.

Personality and humour? You had me at the big belly pic

I know.

What can I say, obviously easily pleased

Well you're settling for 3 bellies instead of 5, so you're easily pleased too.

Rude! But seeing as it's you, I'll let you off on this occasion

Awwww. Aren't you sweet.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm a bit of a lump.

It's not all about body size.

Yes - more than likely you won't be their cup of tea, but I use my personality and humour to find friends and have made a lot of friends on fab.

Good luck mate.

Chunky you are one of the nicest guys on fabs pal.

You are very down to earth and say it as it is.

Just don’t ever bloody leave here

You're too kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am getting a dad bod now, long gone is the adonis of awesomeness .

My thoughts on this are simple, it's there loss ,not mine. Lifes way too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bit of a lump.

It's not all about body size.

Yes - more than likely you won't be their cup of tea, but I use my personality and humour to find friends and have made a lot of friends on fab.

Good luck mate.

Chunky you are one of the nicest guys on fabs pal.

You are very down to earth and say it as it is.

Just don’t ever bloody leave here

You're too kind.

Say it as it is pal, and your a genuinely lovely guy

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm a bit of a lump.

It's not all about body size.

Yes - more than likely you won't be their cup of tea, but I use my personality and humour to find friends and have made a lot of friends on fab.

Good luck mate.

Chunky you are one of the nicest guys on fabs pal.

You are very down to earth and say it as it is.

Just don’t ever bloody leave here

You're too kind.

Say it as it is pal, and your a genuinely lovely guy

I know.

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By *xperience hunting OP Man
over a year ago

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"Maybe it’s not your size or the look of your cock that is putting people off - you’ve got a partner and lots of women see that as a no no"

Yeah I agree. That’s not likely to change though . And felt being honest was best

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

cheshire

As someone said it’s not all about body size but in last 8 months god knows what am doing wrong or how am repelling people.

Yes am fat and probably not great looking, I have avg penis size and get 0 interest of ladies ( lots from fab straight men lol but not after that) I try do personality and try hard but I falter and fail. As low already in mood it’s like kick daily that no one on here or dating pages wants you at all.

So yeah I think it’s hard for guy like me cos I just feel deflated and so unliked or loved for way I am at moment and yes it maybe cos chubby and fat.

But I then struggle when see loads posts and ppl moan about not getting lots meets when they have lots of veris of meets what more do they want meets every day or just to dominate all of fab lol. Or amount status where people say ghosted or guys a fake or didn’t show etc when am sat here ready and genuine.

Good luck to all though

But keep going eventually someone may want me

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Watton

Hi OP

I sport a very standard dad bod, and whilst I would love to be ripped I also know that with my time I place my children before the gym

That being said, as a dominant, women are more often attracted to confidence (not arrogance), strength of the soul (not the body), and a sense of humor

If you engage with women who can’t see past the physical and find you attractive as a whole, then just not worry

I would stress that this goes both ways. Ladies, if a guy is not interested in all of you, why should they get any of you

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

The more I see this topic appear the more I think as a large bloke I am an exception rather than the norm…

And I would like to think I am a bloke who just likes to put my best foot forward… or maybe I have found a way that this works for me, and if that’s the case then I think there is a general issue because I just apply what I deem to be basically common sense!

I maybe a larger bloke, but I don’t let the fact that I am dictate who I am or what I am… just like I don’t let the colour of my skin do that either!!!!

I hate saying this time after time but at the end of the day, you are your own best seller and who knows you better than you!

You will always be your unique selling point! And sometimes some of the negativity I see here makes me think why!!! Negativity is not a sexy trait!

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

cheshire

"The more I see this topic appear the more I think as a large bloke I am an exception rather than the norm…

I maybe a larger bloke, but I don’t let the fact that I am dictate who I am or what I am… just like I don’t let the colour of my skin do that either!!!!

I hate saying this time after time but at the end of the day, you are your own best seller and who knows you better than you!

You will always be your unique selling point! And sometimes some of the negativity I see here makes me think why!!! Negativity is not a sexy trait! "

Your right mr and I know what you mean

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