FabSwingers.com forum: Hooking Up With Someone Local

By *ames_diesel OP Man
over a year ago

London

Good or bad idea?

Seems great, but not so sure.

Any horror stories?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s never been a problem for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How local?

Like upstairs?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Port talbot

How local? Same street probably not a good idea but 5 minute drive away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks, I try not to shit on my own doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on they age for me

If it’s young or same age bad idear

They still in they bragging fase off life

Don’t want ever Tom dick and Harry down the pub knowing i suck like a dyson

I took it this way and that way

I screemed there name as they pounded me and took it like a pro all night

Older seem to be out that fase so no need to worry about it

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Most of our meets are with local people. Hasn't caused us any issues. We've bumped into a few when shopping, but it's been fine. Saying that we live in a fairly big city so it might be different in a small village where everyone knows everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have previously had a local fb and in fairness the short distance proved beneficial for those quick fix/short notice encounters. We did see each other on a couple of occasions whilst going about our daily lives and who just smile. We had a mutual respect for each others privacy and we were able to make it work for us both.

Other people I have met have lived within an hour of me and we never experienced any issues.

NBVN x

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By *ames_diesel OP Man
over a year ago

London

"How local? Same street probably not a good idea but 5 minute drive away

Like 1 mile local, for me…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t mind if people are within a short drive of 15-20 min’s. Don’t particularly look for people closer than that.

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By *ames_diesel OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I have previously had a local fb and in fairness the short distance proved beneficial for those quick fix/short notice encounters. We did see each other on a couple of occasions whilst going about our daily lives and who just smile. We had a mutual respect for each others privacy and we were able to make it work for us both.

Other people I have met have lived within an hour of me and we never experienced any issues.

NBVN x

This sounds like one of the good ones…no horror ones…yet!!!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Port talbot

"How local? Same street probably not a good idea but 5 minute drive away

Like 1 mile local, for me…"

It wouldn't bother me, if anything it's ideal

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By *cttMan
over a year ago

hatfield & Cannock

Short drive works wonders for quick meets non planned

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

It depends on the person.

When we first started out we met a few local people. No drama, no turning up unannounced at 3am. It can make some things easier, but it depends what you are looking for.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Mu rule is no one closer than 30 minutes away from me

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

At least a thirty minute drive away. Not bothered about long distance but no longer meet anyone local. Apart from on a social basis for friends.

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By *ames_diesel OP Man
over a year ago

London

"It depends on the person.

When we first started out we met a few local people. No drama, no turning up unannounced at 3am. It can make some things easier, but it depends what you are looking for."

Yep, the 3am turn up unannounced is definitely in the horror category!

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

"Good or bad idea?

Seems great, but not so sure.

Any horror stories?! "

Great for me. I am single, don’t need to hide though respect privacy and can be discreet about us. Just much easier to plan

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Had a social once with a bloke who was like a 8 minute stroll from our house. As much as I'd have liked to go there I knew with him about 80yds from the local lidl we use that it wasn't a great idea so didn't pursue it.

However.... I see he has sold and moved on so....

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Met a guy quite a bit older than me once after chatting for a long while, we got on really really well, made me laugh & was very dirty.

Met for a social with a possibility of going further as he wanted me to have a remote vibrator in me that he controlled.

Things were going great, agreed to go back to his to have sex, as we were chatting he mentioned about his kids being around my age, turns out i went to school with his son

You just never know lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not too local. Within an hour is

Perfect

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Anyone in London would be classed as local, but in reality most are 30-60 minutes away. Never meet own borough postcode

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We don’t meet too local - it seems like everyone knows everyone where we live

J x

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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Local works for me as free time is usually last minute, it’s never presented any issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How local?

Like upstairs?"

That’s just toooooo close to home

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By *allwelshcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Prefer not in our town tbh. Keep a bit of distance between home life and play life.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't generally do really local.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

An ex FWB (still a friend) lives about a 5 min walk away. Sometimes see each other in the local shops x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes deffo it's what I look for localish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally 76 miles away exactly

After that im not bothered really unless on the street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dated somebody who pretty much lived round the corner. I vowed never again, after bumping into him looking a total state (me, not him).

Made me kinda paranoid after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same city is perfect though

or thereabouts.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It's great when you find someone a short bus ride away.

I wouldn't see anyone within 10 minutes walking distance though, unless I felt I could really trust them not to knock on my door when they have been drinking.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Don't see any issues at all. Boundaries and old fashioned respect/discretion

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

200 metres

She lived in a 2nd floor flat which overlooked the front of my house.

We met on Fab but had both been disingenuous with out locations. After a couple of meets she just disappeared.

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By *igerstyle2k2Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

I have done before. I found it was really good being local, it meant meeting up could be done faster and also it was great for last minute socials too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had no problems so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done before. I found it was really good being local, it meant meeting up could be done faster and also it was great for last minute socials too."

This works if you’re spontaneous.

Unlike me

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Met a guy quite a bit older than me once after chatting for a long while, we got on really really well, made me laugh & was very dirty.

Met for a social with a possibility of going further as he wanted me to have a remote vibrator in me that he controlled.

Things were going great, agreed to go back to his to have sex, as we were chatting he mentioned about his kids being around my age, turns out i went to school with his son

You just never know lol"

What puts me off meeting local younger men is they might know my children, so I ask where they went to school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No thanks, I try not to shit on my own doorstep "

Well you'd better not shit on mine either, or there'll be trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least a thirty minute drive away. Not bothered about long distance but no longer meet anyone local. Apart from on a social basis for friends. "

Which reminds me, need to meet up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same city. Same neighbourhood probably not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living in Bum Fuck Nowhere the only option is to travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A local fb has never been a problem for me - because Ive never had one....

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth

"I dated somebody who pretty much lived round the corner. I vowed never again, after bumping into him looking a total state (me, not him).

Made me kinda paranoid after that

How about the same country?

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

"Good or bad idea?

Seems great, but not so sure.

Any horror stories?! "

Why not? It’s convenient

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"At least a thirty minute drive away. Not bothered about long distance but no longer meet anyone local. Apart from on a social basis for friends.

Which reminds me, need to meet up!

Absolutely. Hope your cough is better x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

As with every question of this type, it will depend on the circumstances and people

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I prefer local, makes life much easier, and you can be more spontaneous.

But not actually a local person, usually someone who's not lived here all their life, so they're not knowing everyone you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean local is good but as long as it’s not my next door neighbour

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Just respect people's boundaries and all will be fine

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

One of my favourite ever FWBs lived two streets away from me.

As long as you have similar views on discretion I've never found it an issue.

Mind you another favourite lived in America, so distance has never been an issue for me for the right person.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

What puts me off meeting local younger men is they might know my children, so I ask where they went to school

oh this aswell lol, quite a few risks with local meets

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I only meet locals. Never had an issue.

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