FabSwingers.com forum: How long between meets?

By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

Had our last meet in October seems like ages ago now and we are having a meet next weekend, so a long 5 months wait between them. Would be a lot more if we just had the time though. How long do you usually leave between meets and how often do you think would be ideal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had so many applicants that I had to worry I’d say at least 2 weeks.Think thats the appropriate amount of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A month or two generally

just finding the time

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

Not sure but would love the opportunity to have a few lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sometimes days, sometimes months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Depends, if their local it would be weekly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how I am feeling

Sometimes it’s it’s been minutes some times it’s been hours sometimes been days sometimes it’s been weeks sometimes it’s been months really all just depends

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Should I slow down? Feel like I may be getting carried away

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By *cttMan
over a year ago

hatfield & Cannock

Something regular or often is nice

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"Had our last meet in October seems like ages ago now and we are having a meet next weekend, so a long 5 months wait between them. Would be a lot more if we just had the time though. How long do you usually leave between meets and how often do you think would be ideal?

Lol every second weekend and the odd mid week meet would be wonderful (especially if with long term naughty friends). Meets are becoming increasingly difficult on here, our last meet was 3 weeks ago (couple) with no sign of anything in the near future...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the same person or with different people? I’m kind of confused

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Oh I'm absolutely overrun, barely the time to fit them all in

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

I once had two meets in a day, equally I’ve been two years without a meet (before covid).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on Mrs S plans. We try to alternate our arrangements so that we share the burdens of being left at home on babysitting or chauffeur duties.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Lucky person , you look gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how I’m feeling

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"With the same person or with different people? I’m kind of confused "

Either I suppose, though we are meeting with people who we met about 2 years ago who we have kept in touch with, but we meet new people too.

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

Lucky person , you look gorgeous "

Thank you

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We try and meet monthly.

Sometimes meets have started at the end of a month and ran into the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With the same person or with different people? I’m kind of confused

Either I suppose, though we are meeting with people who we met about 2 years ago who we have kept in touch with, but we meet new people too."

Ok then haha

With the same person I’d say two days for strangers I’d leave a good two weeks just to be sure I’m at my best cause its a two way street.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

A week usually

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By *hestagandvixenCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

Our last one was just before Covid, so been a while! Ideal would probably be every 3-4 months xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be 5 minutes to and a hour some days other times a week , just recently had to go 5 weeks and that has definitely been the longest in a long time. X

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Port talbot

Local then weekly would be good

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

So if it's the same person, maybe a month or so max? Different people, well... I'm aware I'm quite different in how I approach things to most on Fab.

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

At least 5 mins in between. It gets awkward when they bump in to each other outside the hotel room otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if it's the same person, maybe a month or so max? Different people, well... I'm aware I'm quite different in how I approach things to most on Fab.

I was gonna say the same, we share the same brain ahha x

Like if he’s really good, maybe 10 days-2 weeks in between would be perfect x

But different people, well… let’s just say that I rotate them around

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I met the same guy three times in about a week. Overnights as well not just a couple of hours. We still meet up when we can.

Sometimes you just want more of a good thing

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We were having weekly meets, sometimes 2 meets a week. I think we kinda burned ourselves out. We're on a break for now and have only had two meets since the Christmas holidays. We were meant to start again last week but catching covid buggered that up.

I think we'd be happy with weekly or fortnightly meets once we get back into it.

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

Think once a month would be ideal for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jebus

. As I said to a friend the other day, continental drift could be measured between my liaisons. As for anything more permanent, I'm slowly coming to the conclusion I'll be alone for the rest of my days. I'm an analogue person in a digital world, which doesn't help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think 2 weeks for me but when I first joined I went a bit mad..I like to meet the same people generally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One a week. One every two weeks would work for me. Currently I haven’t met anyone else for sex in nearly two months. It’s fucking awful.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

If with the same person usually a month to 6 weeks depending on schedules but with different people usually a few days to a week in between

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"So if it's the same person, maybe a month or so max? Different people, well... I'm aware I'm quite different in how I approach things to most on Fab.

I was gonna say the same, we share the same brain ahha x

Like if he’s really good, maybe 10 days-2 weeks in between would be perfect x

But different people, well… let’s just say that I rotate them around

Rotate them around?! You superslute. I'm afraid I might have to hand in my slutey card, I'm more of a couple people a year sort of slute. So slutey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not met anyone else sexually for around 3 years

I just don't have the intention any more - delete messages from pretty much everyone apart from a few of you guys and I don't send first messages first

I just don't find people interesting enough to walk the walk

I guess I'm happy or I'd be more compelled to get off my arse and do something about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if it's the same person, maybe a month or so max? Different people, well... I'm aware I'm quite different in how I approach things to most on Fab.

I was gonna say the same, we share the same brain ahha x

Like if he’s really good, maybe 10 days-2 weeks in between would be perfect x

But different people, well… let’s just say that I rotate them around

Rotate them around?! You superslute. I'm afraid I might have to hand in my slutey card, I'm more of a couple people a year sort of slute. So slutey.

Haha like crop rotation x ….what can I say x I have my snacks and got to keep them keen x

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Weekly is quite a nice frequency

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Every 2 weeks for a long weekend with my FWB x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Weekly would be nice, it's just finding people who are reliable!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Weekly is quite a nice frequency

Excellent 5th position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i want to meet someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to go to clubs once every month or two. Actual meets? We’ve only had one so I guess we wait about 4 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once every decade starting now?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'm going for seasons, but I had a ice social last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as often as we can could be a few times in one week to once a week

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"as often as we can could be a few times in one week to once a week "

Show offs

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

As often as you bloody well want to.

If you are horny have the time and the offers go for it.

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