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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Actions speak louder than words?

Not just talking about on here but in general.

Personally for me, actions say a lot more than words ever can x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

That's what it says at the bottom of ma profile

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"That's what it says at the bottom of ma profile "

So it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely as they say talk is cheap always go for actions x

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Indeed some talk the talk but others are able to walk the walk .

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Definitely as they say talk is cheap always go for actions x"

My philosophy x

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Indeed some talk the talk but others are able to walk the walk ."

Very true x

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking

I believe what I see in act, not what I hear or read x

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I believe what I see in act, not what I hear or read x "

Best way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can say anything they want,. It just flows from their lips

But to actually do it says a hell of a lot more to me

I have to say though, that is not always a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they can do. But my main love language is words of affirmation not acts of service. So I’m ok with people telling me what I mean to them rather than showing me. And if they do show me I’m a physical touch kinda guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both can be hurtful but both can say how much you care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm kind of but depends sometimes its the words that make most difference either to motivate or suck the life from someone as much as actions but its always about the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time I think they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can say anything they want,. It just flows from their lips

But to actually do it says a hell of a lot more to me

I have to say though, that is not always a good thing"

Hurtful things can be said from those lips, words can never be taken back

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By *az080378Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

For me, actions always speak louder than words.

I've learnt that the hard way xx

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Totally. Words are easy but actions take effort. My ex promised so many times to work on his anger issues but it never lasted more than a couple of weeks. It took me divorcing him and him living with a woman with similar issues for him to see how destructive shouting can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do and was just thinking about this, as read something about wanting people to keep the same, similar or better "energy" they had when you're first speaking later on.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I will always take what someone does over what they say. So many will talk a good game but their actions give the lie to their words.

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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Yes, it’s far to easy to say what you think people want to hear. Although I suppose you can also easily do what people want you to do

Now I’ve confused my self

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I believe in both .I mean wot I say and I say wot I mean x

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Actions speak louder than words?

Not just talking about on here but in general.

Personally for me, actions say a lot more than words ever can x"

Yep, like when people actually deliver the cake, rather than just talk about bringing cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Especially in silent films.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just action

The way it comes across as well

If it’s done by complete fuck wit

Means nothing

Only my opinion of coarse

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

100%, so many guys have been telling me what they're gonna do to me & for how long.

We meet, play a little & they cum as soon as I start riding

I know it's a sign of how turned on they are but with all the promises & big talk, it's a bit of a let down lol

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Far to many have nothing to say but say it too loudly.

Private actions and don’t shout about it…

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Listen to what people do, not what they say is the way I view this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actions speak louder than words?

Not just talking about on here but in general.

Personally for me, actions say a lot more than words ever can x"

Always have done .. always will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anybody can say they’re going to do something, their action prove wether they are full of shit or not.

So yes actions always speak louder than words.

The mr

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"100%, so many guys have been telling me what they're gonna do to me & for how long.

We meet, play a little & they cum as soon as I start riding

I know it's a sign of how turned on they are but with all the promises & big talk, it's a bit of a let down lol"

#humblebrag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100%, so many guys have been telling me what they're gonna do to me & for how long.

We meet, play a little & they cum as soon as I start riding

I know it's a sign of how turned on they are but with all the promises & big talk, it's a bit of a let down lol"

Agree. I won't meet people who do sex chat before we've met in person for this exact reason.

I meet doers not talkers.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"100%, so many guys have been telling me what they're gonna do to me & for how long.

We meet, play a little & they cum as soon as I start riding

I know it's a sign of how turned on they are but with all the promises & big talk, it's a bit of a let down lol

#humblebrag "

maybe a little

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"100%, so many guys have been telling me what they're gonna do to me & for how long.

We meet, play a little & they cum as soon as I start riding

I know it's a sign of how turned on they are but with all the promises & big talk, it's a bit of a let down lol

Agree. I won't meet people who do sex chat before we've met in person for this exact reason.

I meet doers not talkers."

i like the sexting unfortunately but i think some people forget they have to back it up eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100%, so many guys have been telling me what they're gonna do to me & for how long.

We meet, play a little & they cum as soon as I start riding

I know it's a sign of how turned on they are but with all the promises & big talk, it's a bit of a let down lol

Agree. I won't meet people who do sex chat before we've met in person for this exact reason.

I meet doers not talkers.

i like the sexting unfortunately but i think some people forget they have to back it up eventually "

I like sexting but only with people I've already met. Then I know they can back it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to say what you mean and mean what you say x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I prefer the penis to be in me rather than be told it's going in me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes. Peoples' behaviour is the specifically honest indicator of them. Worda can be crafted. (As people may do with their behaviour too, of course). Observe and learn from the patterns within their behaviour.

That said, people can also do change, so past behaviour and communication are not guaranteed to indicate how they will always be.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Lip service is often the default setting for many people especially on fab so actions will always speak louder.

Not just in relation to sexual matters but in being supportive rather than talking about it or actually being a nice person rather than telling everyone how nice you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with what he says there's always more to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actions speak louder than words?

Not just talking about on here but in general.

Personally for me, actions say a lot more than words ever can x"

Actions most definitely say a lot more than words and especially so if words are backed up by action.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

In my experience, actions are definitely more important than words. Lots of people lie for various reasons, which I've caught them out on numerous times.

I'm very trusting, but if you're fibbing and I find out, that's normally the end of it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The old adage ‘actions speak louder than words’ could have been written for the world of online dating!

Some guys talk the talk, but don’t walk the walk (and some women as well, I’m sure!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience, actions are definitely more important than words. Lots of people lie for various reasons, which I've caught them out on numerous times.

I'm very trusting, but if you're fibbing and I find out, that's normally the end of it for me "

Totally, Fifey xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The old adage ‘actions speak louder than words’ could have been written for the world of online dating!

Some guys talk the talk, but don’t walk the walk (and some women as well, I’m sure!)."

^ I agree with what this lovely lady said.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Judge someone not by the power of their words, but by the strength of their actions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely op, words are easy to say action requires effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. Massive believer in this always have been

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"The old adage ‘actions speak louder than words’ could have been written for the world of online dating!

Some guys talk the talk, but don’t walk the walk (and some women as well, I’m sure!)."

I'm probably too trusting and too honest X

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Thanks for all your replies x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes. Talk is cheap.

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