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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just thought I'd post something. I like going on these forums but feel that as a guy who is attractive to men as well, it sometimes makes you feel unwelcomed on here. Not everyone, but just some comments I have seen recently are not very kind. I know, everyone is different, you can ignore etc, buy it just makes me realise that homophobia is still out there and the perception of "men,". It just saddens me. Anyway have a good day all

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By *unnybunny1000Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

There will always be someone with a problem with someone unfortunately.. rise above it.. I've experienced hate in my life too.. dont let the bastards grind you down

Happy Friday to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is that eye roll emoji when you need it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Where is that eye roll emoji when you need it? "

^^ & that says a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren’t all guys attractive to other men as well?

Just a matter of taste and opinion.

Some will want to bum you, some won’t.

I presume some won’t anyway, So far 100% of everybody wants to bum me so I’m yet to experienced it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just thought I'd post something. I like going on these forums but feel that as a guy who is attractive to men as well, it sometimes makes you feel unwelcomed on here. Not everyone, but just some comments I have seen recently are not very kind. I know, everyone is different, you can ignore etc, buy it just makes me realise that homophobia is still out there and the perception of "men,". It just saddens me. Anyway have a good day all "

What do you mean?

People are homophobic because men want to fuck you?

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

North Devon,

I'm getting the attention seeking vibe here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Keep going, you are all proving my point .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep going, you are all proving my point . "

What was your point?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Keep going, you are all proving my point .

What was your point?"

That some Fabswingers are homophobic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep going, you are all proving my point .

What was your point?"

I think you already made it:

"Aren’t all guys attractive to other men as well?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep going, you are all proving my point .

What was your point?

That some Fabswingers are homophobic"

How have people proven his point above if that was his point?

Nobody has been homophobic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just thought I'd post something. I like going on these forums but feel that as a guy who is attractive to men as well, it sometimes makes you feel unwelcomed on here. Not everyone, but just some comments I have seen recently are not very kind. I know, everyone is different, you can ignore etc, buy it just makes me realise that homophobia is still out there and the perception of "men,". It just saddens me. Anyway have a good day all "

What comments have you seen that have made you uncomfortable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m kind of confused about what you just said. So you don’t want attention from men and then talk about how some men have made homophobic remarks on the forum?

Help a girl out

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Maybe he means attracted to men instead of attractive and that he thinks fab is being homophobic to bi guys, otherwise it's a mystery to what he means.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

There's nothing like a confusing, shouty thread in the morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apologies of unclear, early AM before gym. I meant not me personally, just in general I have seen comments on threads etc, that are actually deemed homophobic , and the fact it is still out there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies of unclear, early AM before gym. I meant not me personally, just in general I have seen comments on threads etc, that are actually deemed homophobic , and the fact it is still out there.... "

Yes, homophobia still exists

It exists here too

Swingers aren't necessarily liberals or forward thinking

If you see it, challenge it directly

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Apologies of unclear, early AM before gym. I meant not me personally, just in general I have seen comments on threads etc, that are actually deemed homophobic , and the fact it is still out there....

Yes, homophobia still exists

It exists here too

Swingers aren't necessarily liberals or forward thinking

If you see it, challenge it directly "

Yep. Plenty of forumers regularly challenge things on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, I agree. There are a lot of prejudiced attitudes here, reflecting society. I have noticed that they're justified as "preference" a lot. And you get shot down if you suggest there's something behind the preference that doesn't ring true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies of unclear, early AM before gym. I meant not me personally, just in general I have seen comments on threads etc, that are actually deemed homophobic , and the fact it is still out there.... "

Out there where? You reported a post and it's still there?

I haven't been to the gym either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m terms of homophobia and biphobia is very much still out there and is dressed up certain ways to try and justify it. I haven’t seen lots in the forums but it’s not my experience and so I’m sure I’ve missed lots. OP- stay hopeful. And have a good day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes, I agree. There are a lot of prejudiced attitudes here, reflecting society. I have noticed that they're justified as "preference" a lot. And you get shot down if you suggest there's something behind the preference that doesn't ring true. "

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Oh yes, I agree. There are a lot of prejudiced attitudes here, reflecting society. I have noticed that they're justified as "preference" a lot. And you get shot down if you suggest there's something behind the preference that doesn't ring true. "

Very much so here! X

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Depends how you definite homophobia. I haven’t really seen any recently and if it was deemed as homophobic and reported it would be removed by the mods. Do you have examples?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

There can be some ill thought out comments made on these forums often they try to brush them off as 'banter' but the trouble with 'banter'is that it's not always wanted or appropriate and people don't like being told that. They get very defensive and start calling people snowflakes or accusing people of having no sense of humour when in fact their jokes just simply aren't funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course homophobia is still out there. And on here. It’s even within the gay scene.

I used to let it upset me. Now I just think what a dark, small world they must live in. Like having Netflix but refusing to watch anything new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There can be some ill thought out comments made on these forums often they try to brush them off as 'banter' but the trouble with 'banter'is that it's not always wanted or appropriate and people don't like being told that. They get very defensive and start calling people snowflakes or accusing people of having no sense of humour when in fact their jokes just simply aren't funny. "

Yes! This happens all the time!

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By *adshaggersCouple
over a year ago

aldershot


"Of course homophobia is still out there. And on here. It’s even within the gay scene.

I used to let it upset me. Now I just think what a dark, small world they must live in. Like having Netflix but refusing to watch anything new. "

That comment made me laugh out loud. I thought you were talking about My mum she has Netflix, refuses to watch anything new and she’s pretty homophobic!

TrixieMe

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