FabSwingers.com forum: Where am I going wrong….

By *orsetborn OP Man
over a year ago

weymouth

I’m a nice guy (I think)

I’d say I was fairly good looking and keep myself in reasonable shape.

Soooooo……

Why is it so difficult to find someone on here to connect with?

Is it my profile? My pictures?

Someone please help me!

I’m not a clingy needy type. It just bugs me when people seem interested and then disappear.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

Cause your married?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they disappear, they’re not interested

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to be smooth and cut.. guranteed pussy.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 16/03/22 22:08:05]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It’s the eternal fab conundrum.

Chatting in the forums is a good start and helps get to know people. Have a good laugh and natter.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a tough gig on here for guys, so I’m told. Must admit, I am now put off by a guy who focuses on oral in his profile. It makes me think he’ll be a crap shag. Not true in your case, I’m sure.

Anyway, best of luck

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orsetborn OP Man
over a year ago

weymouth

"You need to be smooth and cut.. guranteed pussy."

Ha! I’m not getting the knife out for anyone.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

You say you're fairly good looking and keep yourself in shape, but there's more to a connection than appearance.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I saw you couldn't accommodate I'd assume you weren't single and that would put me off.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

You need much better, more appealing photos.

I never says this, but this time it is true. In the nicest possible way, your profile is as generic as it can be. Thousands of similar ones on this site. What would make you stand out/make people want to message you, or even want to reply to a message from you?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orsetborn OP Man
over a year ago

weymouth

"If I saw you couldn't accommodate I'd assume you weren't single and that would put me off. "

Ah right. I didn’t even think about that.

I put that as my kids live with me so it makes things awkward. I should perhaps write that on my profile! Thanks.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably add more pics

Also so you text reads like I am after a quick fuck and go never to return

Not everyone on here is looking for that

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I saw you couldn't accommodate I'd assume you weren't single and that would put me off.

Ah right. I didn’t even think about that.

I put that as my kids live with me so it makes things awkward. I should perhaps write that on my profile! Thanks. "

It's totally your business but I'd understand that reason (I'm in the same position) but with a profile that doesn't really jump out at you that is something that does stand out if that makes sense.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

"I’m a nice guy (I think)

I’d say I was fairly good looking and keep myself in reasonable shape.

Soooooo……

Why is it so difficult to find someone on here to connect with?

Is it my profile? My pictures?

Someone please help me!

I’m not a clingy needy type. It just bugs me when people seem interested and then disappear. "

I think it is the illusion of the site.

So many members, but how many are looking to swing, or looking for sex? Are the majority here because they are a little curious, dabbling without intent?

What do you think the site can offer you, what does the site offer you?

It isn't always about your profile notes, is this site the right site for you? Is another site going to be more favourable to what you need?

Your expectations of the site may not be the expectations of the members.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ad Bod 2023Man
over a year ago

Beverley

I put that as my kids live with me so it makes things awkward."

Same here, so I put I can accommodate because I can some of the time - if I get chatting with someone I explain it and they e all been understanding

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uckslut888Woman
over a year ago

Loughborough

"If I saw you couldn't accommodate I'd assume you weren't single and that would put me off. "

I second this

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need to be smooth and cut.. guranteed pussy."

Really?! Lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread