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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Under a different guise, and a few years ago now, I got close to another fabber who lived in a nearby time. We spent time together both sexually and socially, messaged all the time, and then it all went cold. She stopped replying, didn't log in on here for months and her number eventually disconnected. Naturally, I was super concerned as I couldn't get a response on the phone nor social media. I wondered what had happened, and to be honest I thought the worst.

A couple of weeks ago, I noticed a local(ish) profile with a familiar figure and tattoos. I messaged saying 'this is a long shot, but are you xyz?' And she confirmed. I was just happy that she was ok. I relayed this, with a picture to remind her who I am as the profile is different, and she 'remembers my face.'

Needless to say, I feel silly for giving shit, but fucking hell, closure is a wonderful thing!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Aren't you at least a tad pissed off that she just cut you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant help you mate im playing lotto with my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that you were concerned, but I’d be feeling pissed off too. Whatever you do, give her a wide berth in future. That level of flakiness, you can probably live without.

Love your username, btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh yeah I'm pissed off. I find it pathetic, but it's closed something down personally, so I'm happy I know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get that you were concerned, but I’d be feeling pissed off too. Whatever you do, give her a wide berth in future. That level of flakiness, you can probably live without.

Love your username, btw "

Thank you, legendary group

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

That's why I don't get emotionally involved with anyone.

If they stop communicating my brain barely registers it.

I think there's only one man in my life I'll be devastated to lose without an explanation.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Did she say why she ghosted you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did she say why she ghosted you?"

She can only place my face, never mind every other interaction

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath


"Did she say why she ghosted you?

She can only place my face, never mind every other interaction "

That’s a bit rubbish if you spent time together.

But glad you feel better about it

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