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"I’d fucking kill to be in the financial position to get some liposuction " What area would you work on? I’m not gonna be that bitch to say, your body looks fine cos if it bothers you, it bothers you. (I had guys saying my boobs were fine before but I didn’t think so, so now I’m actually noticing the mental benefits of not being self concious) I’m just curious x | |||
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"I’d fucking kill to be in the financial position to get some liposuction What area would you work on? I’m not gonna be that bitch to say, your body looks fine cos if it bothers you, it bothers you. (I had guys saying my boobs were fine before but I didn’t think so, so now I’m actually noticing the mental benefits of not being self concious) I’m just curious x " Stomach. My legs, arms and back get absolutely shredded before my stomach. And I mean shredded. A little lipo would fix that but sadly money ain’t cheap | |||
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"Not happy with it in the slightest. Think it's part of the subconcious self destruction disguised as self preservation. If I'm a minger I won't be found attractive therefore won't have to deal with any potential drama. " I kinda get it, MANY MOONS AGO, when I felt very defeated about reality (not gonna go into details), I wasn’t taking care of my body or myself, and I know now it was because it was a part of the subconscious wanting to self destruct. So , girl. I get you … but know that you are so pretty | |||
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"I’d fucking kill to be in the financial position to get some liposuction What area would you work on? I’m not gonna be that bitch to say, your body looks fine cos if it bothers you, it bothers you. (I had guys saying my boobs were fine before but I didn’t think so, so now I’m actually noticing the mental benefits of not being self concious) I’m just curious x Stomach. My legs, arms and back get absolutely shredded before my stomach. And I mean shredded. A little lipo would fix that but sadly money ain’t cheap " Also I’d definitely say, if you ever get the money to do it, go to somebody that is really good at their job. | |||
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"Are you currently happy with your body? I’m talking in general, from weight to how it looks when you look at yourself in the mirror? What would you slightly improve? I feel definitely sexier since having had my breast enhanced and that gave me an extreme boost of sexiness, like finally I don’t feel like I have to Keep a bra on when being intimate (can’t wait for them to take it off ) and also generally also in myself, I wear more things out and about to show my cleavage area and I love it x Weight wise, I’ve gained 5kg in the past maybe 4-5 months, which I’m a bit unhappy about (I definitely have noticed I’m eating more but it could be hormones), if I get on the scale I just wanna throw it out of the window. But the extra fat is going in the right places so I can’t complain too much. But once recovered I’m gonna try to shed it Overall, happy with it I guess. Obviously still have some stuff I need to work on but It’s overall positive What about you , girls and boys? " I wouldn't change a thing tbh , and a scales is a thing that is never used , clothes is always the best way of noticing anything but that's just me . | |||
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"I’d fucking kill to be in the financial position to get some liposuction What area would you work on? I’m not gonna be that bitch to say, your body looks fine cos if it bothers you, it bothers you. (I had guys saying my boobs were fine before but I didn’t think so, so now I’m actually noticing the mental benefits of not being self concious) I’m just curious x Stomach. My legs, arms and back get absolutely shredded before my stomach. And I mean shredded. A little lipo would fix that but sadly money ain’t cheap Also I’d definitely say, if you ever get the money to do it, go to somebody that is really good at their job. " I’d probably never do that because it’s opening a can of worms. I feel sorry for people that have opened that and are constantly chasing the next operation to fix whatever they don’t like. I’ll just work hard when I want to have a 6 pack and work mentally to be happy when I dont Personally, I’d prefer to spend money on experiences, life, family and partners. Not on my meat body because I’m insecure | |||
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"I’m very happy with mine now, I’d love to tone up a bit but overall I’m happy since losing 8 stone last year. Tbh my body is better at 40 than it was at 25 " 8 stone!! An amazing achievement. | |||
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"Are you currently happy with your body? I’m talking in general, from weight to how it looks when you look at yourself in the mirror? What would you slightly improve? I feel definitely sexier since having had my breast enhanced and that gave me an extreme boost of sexiness, like finally I don’t feel like I have to Keep a bra on when being intimate (can’t wait for them to take it off ) and also generally also in myself, I wear more things out and about to show my cleavage area and I love it x Weight wise, I’ve gained 5kg in the past maybe 4-5 months, which I’m a bit unhappy about (I definitely have noticed I’m eating more but it could be hormones), if I get on the scale I just wanna throw it out of the window. But the extra fat is going in the right places so I can’t complain too much. But once recovered I’m gonna try to shed it Overall, happy with it I guess. Obviously still have some stuff I need to work on but It’s overall positive What about you , girls and boys? I wouldn't change a thing tbh , and a scales is a thing that is never used , clothes is always the best way of noticing anything but that's just me ." You are sort of right about the scales, I mean sometimes I get a bit too obsessed with the digits but I’ve always been like it from a very young age | |||
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"I’m very happy with mine now, I’d love to tone up a bit but overall I’m happy since losing 8 stone last year. Tbh my body is better at 40 than it was at 25 8 stone!! An amazing achievement." Thankyou | |||
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"Nope I hate it and I would quite happily have a full body work over. You will rarely ever see me completely naked, I hate it and no one believes that because I have pics on here but I’m pretty much clothed. It doesn’t get to me anymore because I just make the most of what I have but would I change it… absolutely " Thanks for sharing and for being honest, it’s kind of refreshing to see that overall, we all have our little insecurities x like it makes us human I bet even the most stunning woman or man on the planet, have their complexes | |||
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"I’d fucking kill to be in the financial position to get some liposuction What area would you work on? I’m not gonna be that bitch to say, your body looks fine cos if it bothers you, it bothers you. (I had guys saying my boobs were fine before but I didn’t think so, so now I’m actually noticing the mental benefits of not being self concious) I’m just curious x Stomach. My legs, arms and back get absolutely shredded before my stomach. And I mean shredded. A little lipo would fix that but sadly money ain’t cheap Also I’d definitely say, if you ever get the money to do it, go to somebody that is really good at their job. I’d probably never do that because it’s opening a can of worms. I feel sorry for people that have opened that and are constantly chasing the next operation to fix whatever they don’t like. I’ll just work hard when I want to have a 6 pack and work mentally to be happy when I dont Personally, I’d prefer to spend money on experiences, life, family and partners. Not on my meat body because I’m insecure " Your money, your choice x It all depends on “how much can I live with it” vs “mental benefits for making an improvement” | |||
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"I’m happy with mine, it took a long time to be able to say that due to a loss of confidence in a past relationship. I’ve learned to accept my flaws and not to see them as a negative but more of a unique characteristic to me, sure I’ve my bits the wobble more than I’d like, some days I think should I really eat this bar of chocolate but you know what…fuck it! We’re all different shapes and sizes and if I’m happy with me that’s all that matters xx" I can relate to the loss of confidence. Only after being out of my relationship did I manage to lose the weight and feel happy in myself. In it I felt hideous and fat which just exasperated my eating. | |||
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"I’d fucking kill to be in the financial position to get some liposuction What area would you work on? I’m not gonna be that bitch to say, your body looks fine cos if it bothers you, it bothers you. (I had guys saying my boobs were fine before but I didn’t think so, so now I’m actually noticing the mental benefits of not being self concious) I’m just curious x Stomach. My legs, arms and back get absolutely shredded before my stomach. And I mean shredded. A little lipo would fix that but sadly money ain’t cheap Also I’d definitely say, if you ever get the money to do it, go to somebody that is really good at their job. I’d probably never do that because it’s opening a can of worms. I feel sorry for people that have opened that and are constantly chasing the next operation to fix whatever they don’t like. I’ll just work hard when I want to have a 6 pack and work mentally to be happy when I dont Personally, I’d prefer to spend money on experiences, life, family and partners. Not on my meat body because I’m insecure Your money, your choice x It all depends on “how much can I live with it” vs “mental benefits for making an improvement”" Mental well-being is paramount. I’m lucky that I can afford both. In my mind, if there’s something that gets you down and you can fix it without too much hassle, why not? | |||
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"There’s also nothing wrong with wanting to better your own appearance whether through fitness, diet, surgery or any other means. It doesn’t make you vain or insecure and don’t let anyone make you feel that way. It’s an outdated and small minded outlook. Life is too short to be unhappy and I’ll do whatever I can, where possible, to look the best that I can and be happy " Absolutely! 100% | |||
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"I’m happy with mine, it took a long time to be able to say that due to a loss of confidence in a past relationship. I’ve learned to accept my flaws and not to see them as a negative but more of a unique characteristic to me, sure I’ve my bits the wobble more than I’d like, some days I think should I really eat this bar of chocolate but you know what…fuck it! We’re all different shapes and sizes and if I’m happy with me that’s all that matters xx I can relate to the loss of confidence. Only after being out of my relationship did I manage to lose the weight and feel happy in myself. In it I felt hideous and fat which just exasperated my eating." I’m so happy to hear that, you are a beautiful woman and it’s great that you have found happiness with yourself! Well done on your weight loss and I hope you continue to grow in confidence lovely xx | |||
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"I’d fucking kill to be in the financial position to get some liposuction What area would you work on? I’m not gonna be that bitch to say, your body looks fine cos if it bothers you, it bothers you. (I had guys saying my boobs were fine before but I didn’t think so, so now I’m actually noticing the mental benefits of not being self concious) I’m just curious x Stomach. My legs, arms and back get absolutely shredded before my stomach. And I mean shredded. A little lipo would fix that but sadly money ain’t cheap Also I’d definitely say, if you ever get the money to do it, go to somebody that is really good at their job. I’d probably never do that because it’s opening a can of worms. I feel sorry for people that have opened that and are constantly chasing the next operation to fix whatever they don’t like. I’ll just work hard when I want to have a 6 pack and work mentally to be happy when I dont Personally, I’d prefer to spend money on experiences, life, family and partners. Not on my meat body because I’m insecure Your money, your choice x It all depends on “how much can I live with it” vs “mental benefits for making an improvement” Mental well-being is paramount. I’m lucky that I can afford both. In my mind, if there’s something that gets you down and you can fix it without too much hassle, why not? " Totally agree! Hence why I said personally my boob augmentation was paramount to me feeling confident in my body mentally vs “I need to hide my small boobs because I hate them” Also I agree, if something can be worked on without too much hassle, then definitely go on that approach (For example, losing weight) | |||
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"I’d fucking kill to be in the financial position to get some liposuction What area would you work on? I’m not gonna be that bitch to say, your body looks fine cos if it bothers you, it bothers you. (I had guys saying my boobs were fine before but I didn’t think so, so now I’m actually noticing the mental benefits of not being self concious) I’m just curious x Stomach. My legs, arms and back get absolutely shredded before my stomach. And I mean shredded. A little lipo would fix that but sadly money ain’t cheap Also I’d definitely say, if you ever get the money to do it, go to somebody that is really good at their job. I’d probably never do that because it’s opening a can of worms. I feel sorry for people that have opened that and are constantly chasing the next operation to fix whatever they don’t like. I’ll just work hard when I want to have a 6 pack and work mentally to be happy when I dont Personally, I’d prefer to spend money on experiences, life, family and partners. Not on my meat body because I’m insecure Your money, your choice x It all depends on “how much can I live with it” vs “mental benefits for making an improvement” Mental well-being is paramount. I’m lucky that I can afford both. In my mind, if there’s something that gets you down and you can fix it without too much hassle, why not? Totally agree! Hence why I said personally my boob augmentation was paramount to me feeling confident in my body mentally vs “I need to hide my small boobs because I hate them” Also I agree, if something can be worked on without too much hassle, then definitely go on that approach (For example, losing weight)" Absolutely correct. There is unfortunately still a minority of closed minded people who take an issue with others having procedures to better themselves, like it’s to be pitied or that it comes from a place of insecurity. Not sure why, after all, no one is pushing them to have anything done. Is it because they’d like things done but are unable to?? Who knows. Don’t ever let anyone make you feel anything but proud for the changes you’ve made | |||
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"I’m very happy with mine now, I’d love to tone up a bit but overall I’m happy since losing 8 stone last year. Tbh my body is better at 40 than it was at 25 " Omg amazing achievement! How the hell do you not have loose skin?! You look fab x | |||
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"Bits wobble and are sguidgy, which I could sort out and I might one day. These last 7 years I’ve loved my body just as it is, it’s normal and other people love it too. So despite the past and things that were said, I’m finally me and I love all of me, even the baby shelf & boobs. They are not something to be covered up / hidden away. Quick answer, no I wouldn’t change a thing " I think we are our worst critics and generally people that like us (friends, lovers, family) don’t notice these things at all. But at the end, it’s about us coming to terms and being happy with what we got x I think | |||
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"Need to lose weight but no self esteem at the moment " It’s a vicious circle, isn’t it? The weight loss would make you feel better about yourself, but sometimes we lack the impetus to get started! | |||
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"I am very happy with mine. I like to train and diet harder than the last time " From your profile pic, I’d say you’re in great shape | |||
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"I am very happy with mine. I like to train and diet harder than the last time " You have a very trimmed and athletic body, definitely your training sessions paid off , Shag | |||
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"Bits wobble and are sguidgy, which I could sort out and I might one day. These last 7 years I’ve loved my body just as it is, it’s normal and other people love it too. So despite the past and things that were said, I’m finally me and I love all of me, even the baby shelf & boobs. They are not something to be covered up / hidden away. Quick answer, no I wouldn’t change a thing I think we are our worst critics and generally people that like us (friends, lovers, family) don’t notice these things at all. But at the end, it’s about us coming to terms and being happy with what we got x I think " See I had the opposite of that. I liked my body but comments from past partners, family etc made me hate it and hide. Now I just ignore all of them. | |||
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"Overall I'm fairly happy with my body. I'm on a mission to lose 10 pounds by the time it's summer dress season. If there's one thing I could pay to fix it'd be my dodgy knees so I can keep playing sports. " Good luck with your goals lovely xx | |||
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"I am very happy with mine. I like to train and diet harder than the last time You have a very trimmed and athletic body, definitely your training sessions paid off , Shag " Ty and yes it does and as well. I also always make sure that I am eating at around maintenance level | |||
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"I’m very happy with mine now, I’d love to tone up a bit but overall I’m happy since losing 8 stone last year. Tbh my body is better at 40 than it was at 25 " That’s outstanding!! You don’t look at all like you’ve ever been big you look fantastic! For me, I’m not unhappy with myself, can say that it’s not at all bad for my age. But then see women older, who’ve had more children who look 1000 times better. I’d like to tweak loads of things but can hide the dodgy parts with a boiler suit & welders helmet!!! | |||
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"I’d fucking kill to be in the financial position to get some liposuction What area would you work on? I’m not gonna be that bitch to say, your body looks fine cos if it bothers you, it bothers you. (I had guys saying my boobs were fine before but I didn’t think so, so now I’m actually noticing the mental benefits of not being self concious) I’m just curious x Stomach. My legs, arms and back get absolutely shredded before my stomach. And I mean shredded. A little lipo would fix that but sadly money ain’t cheap Also I’d definitely say, if you ever get the money to do it, go to somebody that is really good at their job. I’d probably never do that because it’s opening a can of worms. I feel sorry for people that have opened that and are constantly chasing the next operation to fix whatever they don’t like. I’ll just work hard when I want to have a 6 pack and work mentally to be happy when I dont Personally, I’d prefer to spend money on experiences, life, family and partners. Not on my meat body because I’m insecure Your money, your choice x It all depends on “how much can I live with it” vs “mental benefits for making an improvement”" Very true. I can afford it. I just think there’s too much to do in this world and I can’t afford all of it. I’m not gonna pick lipo over an experience any day. No matter how insecure something might make me feel. Unless money becomes not an issue, like winning the lottery | |||
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"Not happy with it in the slightest. Think it's part of the subconcious self destruction disguised as self preservation. If I'm a minger I won't be found attractive therefore won't have to deal with any potential drama. " | |||
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"Tummy tuck and lipo on my bum and thunder thighs " Tummy tuck id love to get done. Three kids took their toll. | |||
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"I am very happy with mine. I like to train and diet harder than the last time You have a very trimmed and athletic body, definitely your training sessions paid off , Shag Ty and yes it does and as well. I also always make sure that I am eating at around maintenance level " I can imagine it’s dedication! That’s what I’m lacking as I love my food | |||
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"Tummy tuck and lipo on my bum and thunder thighs Tummy tuck id love to get done. Three kids took their toll. " My close friend has had the most amazing tummy tuck, it looks unreal! | |||
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"The out side yes! Insides another story! Just had the diabetic nurse phone me so depressing bless her ! " Sorry to hear this I hope you are ok, I’m also a type 1 diabetic and understand the struggles - sending love xx | |||
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"Tummy tuck and lipo on my bum and thunder thighs Tummy tuck id love to get done. Three kids took their toll. My close friend has had the most amazing tummy tuck, it looks unreal! " What do they do with it? Like I’ve heard it so many times but I literally have no idea | |||
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"Tummy tuck and lipo on my bum and thunder thighs Tummy tuck id love to get done. Three kids took their toll. My close friend has had the most amazing tummy tuck, it looks unreal! What do they do with it? Like I’ve heard it so many times but I literally have no idea " She had a really fine incision made hip to hip, just under the knicker line and it was pulled tight and stitched. You can hardly see it and she now has the confidence to wear clothes that she’d never dream of before! She’s like a new person! | |||
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"The out side yes! Insides another story! Just had the diabetic nurse phone me so depressing bless her ! Sorry to hear this I hope you are ok, I’m also a type 1 diabetic and understand the struggles - sending love xx" x | |||
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"I'm content with mine. I don't really like my caesarian scar, but it gave me three healthy children. I've no stretch marks. I've never been to a gym and don't believe I ever will. I don't exercise for the sake of it so accept that I'm a bit wibbly. I kinda miss the 32DD breasts I had pre children but I was in my mid 20s so I don't expect them back. I have no problem being naked in front of sexual partners, no hang ups about any bits. And others seem to appreciate what they see. So yeah, not bad for 37 " One of my biggest hang ups was my c section scar. I absolutely hated it! I got a lovely tattoo over it and now I can’t see it. | |||
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"I honestly hate it. I accept it and get on with it but I'm not happy with anything I see in the mirror. I've lost two stone in the last 6 months and hope to lose another three stone by the end of the year which should help with how I am feeling. I don't think I will ever be truly happy though. I'll always have parts of me that won't change without money. I am very jealous of your new boobies! I think they look amazing on you. " Awww Thanks Lemon xx she literally did exactly what I had in mind x and am over the moon Also congrats about the weight loss and goal in losing some more x you will do great | |||
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"I'm content with mine. I don't really like my caesarian scar, but it gave me three healthy children. I've no stretch marks. I've never been to a gym and don't believe I ever will. I don't exercise for the sake of it so accept that I'm a bit wibbly. I kinda miss the 32DD breasts I had pre children but I was in my mid 20s so I don't expect them back. I have no problem being naked in front of sexual partners, no hang ups about any bits. And others seem to appreciate what they see. So yeah, not bad for 37 One of my biggest hang ups was my c section scar. I absolutely hated it! I got a lovely tattoo over it and now I can’t see it. " I'm not bothered by it most of the time. But I do catch sight of it in the mirror when getting dressed some mornings and just see how unpleasant it looks. I don't think it bothers anyone who sees it - my husband certainly doesn't mind it. I'd never get a tattoo, but I'm glad that helped you | |||
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"At 54 have to say will settle for it . Seen better seen worse so don’t dwell on it to much we are who we are life’s to short to have hang ups " This is obviously my husbands answer as there are not many females that are ever truly happy with their figure in my opinion. | |||
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"I'm content with mine. I don't really like my caesarian scar, but it gave me three healthy children. I've no stretch marks. I've never been to a gym and don't believe I ever will. I don't exercise for the sake of it so accept that I'm a bit wibbly. I kinda miss the 32DD breasts I had pre children but I was in my mid 20s so I don't expect them back. I have no problem being naked in front of sexual partners, no hang ups about any bits. And others seem to appreciate what they see. So yeah, not bad for 37 One of my biggest hang ups was my c section scar. I absolutely hated it! I got a lovely tattoo over it and now I can’t see it. I'm not bothered by it most of the time. But I do catch sight of it in the mirror when getting dressed some mornings and just see how unpleasant it looks. I don't think it bothers anyone who sees it - my husband certainly doesn't mind it. I'd never get a tattoo, but I'm glad that helped you " It really did, it gave me my confidence back. I wish I could have been more like you but I was really bothered by it. Not only was it ugly but it was a reminder of one of the most scary and traumatic days of my life. I didn’t need a daily reminder | |||
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"Despite crippling pain from legacy injuries and my fondness of unhealthy food, yes. I don’t get hung up on having abs anymore. I’m too old and wise to care. If I’m not good enough for somebody then they’re definitely not good enough for me." Love that last sentence. Definitely true | |||
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"I'm content with mine. I don't really like my caesarian scar, but it gave me three healthy children. I've no stretch marks. I've never been to a gym and don't believe I ever will. I don't exercise for the sake of it so accept that I'm a bit wibbly. I kinda miss the 32DD breasts I had pre children but I was in my mid 20s so I don't expect them back. I have no problem being naked in front of sexual partners, no hang ups about any bits. And others seem to appreciate what they see. So yeah, not bad for 37 One of my biggest hang ups was my c section scar. I absolutely hated it! I got a lovely tattoo over it and now I can’t see it. " Tattoos are great. Some people get back roll tattoos. Flowers in the rolls. Looks pretty. | |||
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"No. Absolutely not. " You look great! But I guess it’s how we feel about ourselves that counts. | |||
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"I am very happy with mine. I like to train and diet harder than the last time You have a very trimmed and athletic body, definitely your training sessions paid off , Shag Ty and yes it does and as well. I also always make sure that I am eating at around maintenance level I can imagine it’s dedication! That’s what I’m lacking as I love my food " Yes, it is dedication as well and it can be hard, same here. I like the food too, but very strict with the portion control | |||
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"I’m fairly happy with my body…. I’ve lost 9 st had a breast uplift and tummy tuck…. There are things I can’t change but I’m learning to love myself… I’m sure if I had the perfect body I still wouldn’t be happy lol " Amazing!!! X | |||
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"Are you currently happy with your body? I’m talking in general, from weight to how it looks when you look at yourself in the mirror? What would you slightly improve? I feel definitely sexier since having had my breast enhanced and that gave me an extreme boost of sexiness, like finally I don’t feel like I have to Keep a bra on when being intimate (can’t wait for them to take it off ) and also generally also in myself, I wear more things out and about to show my cleavage area and I love it x Weight wise, I’ve gained 5kg in the past maybe 4-5 months, which I’m a bit unhappy about (I definitely have noticed I’m eating more but it could be hormones), if I get on the scale I just wanna throw it out of the window. But the extra fat is going in the right places so I can’t complain too much. But once recovered I’m gonna try to shed it Overall, happy with it I guess. Obviously still have some stuff I need to work on but It’s overall positive What about you , girls and boys? " In general yes I’ve been working away from home which means my diet and exercise has been less structured and less consistent than usual gained a little extra baggage but all in all Just need to share it with someone who appreciates it If you’re out there | |||
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"I was lucky enough to get one thing fixed for free. A full rhinoplasty courtesy of the NHS. My nose was literally bent in 2 places and at a 30 degree angle before that from having it broke 3 times. It’s perfectly straight now after 2 surgeries " Guess they aren’t totally useless after all. Are you loving your nose now? X | |||
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"There’s also nothing wrong with wanting to better your own appearance whether through fitness, diet, surgery or any other means. It doesn’t make you vain or insecure and don’t let anyone make you feel that way. It’s an outdated and small minded outlook. Life is too short to be unhappy and I’ll do whatever I can, where possible, to look the best that I can and be happy " 100% this. For me, in answer to OP, I guess I'm "happy-ish". Some days more than others, but definitely like to be a bit leaner...but I just seem to like food too much. | |||
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"I was lucky enough to get one thing fixed for free. A full rhinoplasty courtesy of the NHS. My nose was literally bent in 2 places and at a 30 degree angle before that from having it broke 3 times. It’s perfectly straight now after 2 surgeries Guess they aren’t totally useless after all. Are you loving your nose now? X " I was very lucky that it was heavily effecting my breathing It’s great, but they said if you break it again, no tune ups! So I’m extra careful in sports but I know it can happen. If it does, I’ll live with it But yeah, they did a great job | |||
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"I happy with certain areas and not so much with others. I’d like to have lipo on my outer thighs because no matter how much exercise or running I do they won’t tighten up and an little increase in bust size. Any plastic surgery I’d have done would be for me, making me feel better about my body." And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that | |||
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"Not happy with my body. I never have been (history of ED, but never going back there again) I was on track to getting happier, then put the weight back on, plus a bit more! I can’t go for runs or exercise as much as my daughter lost her community care, just before lockdown, so home all the time- she hates me exercising! Add to that newly diagnosed hypothyroidism and it’s hard to lose it again. I’d love lypo on my stomach, but I can’t get respite for more than a couple of days, so not possible, recovery wise, as well as actually getting away for the surgery. So recently bought a treadmill, sneakily use that and my other equipment, until my daughter notices, and slowly losing it again. Already lost 6lbs, so getting there xx Viv " Err! Typo! Lipo not lypo, really need to pay more attention…so maybe my vision needs improvement too, haha xx | |||
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