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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve just seen from a lady’s pictures that she is blonde, and not dark-haired as I imagined her to be. Mind blown!

Have you ever had a set idea about someone, regarding their looks or personality, only to be proven wrong?

Keep it nice please

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I’ve just seen from a lady’s pictures that she is blonde, and not dark-haired as I imagined her to be. Mind blown!

Have you ever had a set idea about someone, regarding their looks or personality, only to be proven wrong?

Keep it nice please "

Not from you x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

At every single social I go to and its very refreshing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing "

That must be so interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. When we’ve received face pics and they look nothing like we’d imagined.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve just seen from a lady’s pictures that she is blonde, and not dark-haired as I imagined her to be. Mind blown!

Have you ever had a set idea about someone, regarding their looks or personality, only to be proven wrong?

Keep it nice please

Not from you x"

In a good way, I hope

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing "

It's weird seeing them with clothes on!

Jo.Xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing "

Same here when people come to the STP. Some introductions are jaw-dropping

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. When we’ve received face pics and they look nothing like we’d imagined. "

It’s a funny feeling at first! Kinda throws you a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing

It's weird seeing them with clothes on!

Jo.Xx "

Ha!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I’ve just seen from a lady’s pictures that she is blonde, and not dark-haired as I imagined her to be. Mind blown!

Have you ever had a set idea about someone, regarding their looks or personality, only to be proven wrong?

Keep it nice please

Not from you x

In a good way, I hope "

Oh yes x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing

That must be so interesting!"

It is and really helps humanising them when they post, I prefer that to just chatting to an online persona, makes the forums more real for me

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Yes.. Met quite a few people at social events.. Thought they would be a certain way and had my mind blown.. 9 times outta 10,in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only forumite I met in person, that’s how I imagined him to be x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing

It's weird seeing them with clothes on!

Jo.Xx "

I look better in clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one ever looks how you imagine them

A couple of years back I did a thread 'send me your face pics'

Bizarrely, people did

There are some truly good looking folk in this forum but, without exception, none of them looked how I imagined

For myself, I have face pic avatars up from time to time so no surprises here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have indeed often more beautiful than their profile in the flesh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing

That must be so interesting!

It is and really helps humanising them when they post, I prefer that to just chatting to an online persona, makes the forums more real for me "

Totally get what you mean, but it must feel slightly surreal too!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing

Same here when people come to the STP. Some introductions are jaw-dropping "

I'm hoping to come to your next one to meet you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. When we’ve received face pics and they look nothing like we’d imagined.

It’s a funny feeling at first! Kinda throws you a bit."

It’s weird being the straight male half of a couple and trying to find single men. You see body pics and think that they might be what I think Mrs will like and then they’re the complete opposite.

It’s made even harder because she doesn’t like the traditionally attractive look.

Does this mean I’m weird looking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one ever looks how you imagine them

A couple of years back I did a thread 'send me your face pics'

Bizarrely, people did

There are some truly good looking folk in this forum but, without exception, none of them looked how I imagined

For myself, I have face pic avatars up from time to time so no surprises here"

U know I have to say, I imagined you differently than your face pic that I saw not long ago ha

I guess not a surprise much with me as my face is plastered all over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember being shocked that Nora is 5ft10 though

Don't ask me why

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

All the time! I've had it with hair colour before too. Or people look nothing like I imagined. I didn't realise Teamonkey was so tall for example.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

When someone surprises with something witty when you were not expecting it from that person, perhaps as are normally rather reserved.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing

That must be so interesting!

It is and really helps humanising them when they post, I prefer that to just chatting to an online persona, makes the forums more real for me

Totally get what you mean, but it must feel slightly surreal too!"

Very much so

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When someone surprises with something witty when you were not expecting it from that person, perhaps as are normally rather reserved. "

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Well when I went for a social with a mf couple, the female magically turned into a man. Does that count?

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing

It's weird seeing them with clothes on!

Jo.Xx "

Yes this as well. I had people talk to me before and for the life of me, I can't remember who they are then eventually it clicks to me but it is definitely a blast though as you get to chat in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well when I went for a social with a mf couple, the female magically turned into a man. Does that count?"

Mm had a couple like that amazing isn’t it?, Also turned into full colour as well.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Occasionally I’ve been proven wrong. Personality wise, most match or are how I expected them to be, which is not always how they come across on the forum.

The other group socials are mostly non forum users, so great to go in with no thoughts at all.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

There has only been one...and it was his voice. Totally put me off meeting up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine this happens quite often when we send face pics or people see us in a club. I’m mixed race but that’s quite a vague term really so people could imagine me to be any number of different races.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There has only been one...and it was his voice. Totally put me off meeting up "

Oh no! I’ve had this once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has only been one...and it was his voice. Totally put me off meeting up "

To be fair I did have a bet going to sound like that

Do you reckon I was a good Yoda?

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I've seen face pictures that were nothing like how I pictured the person would look. But I'm terrible at guessing in real life as well. I worked with some people last year and it was months before I saw them without a face mask. There were beards and jaw lines I hadn't guessed at

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing

It's weird seeing them with clothes on!

Jo.Xx "

One of my fav convo topics is checking out our bits on our profiles whilst we are stood together fully clothed

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"I've seen face pictures that were nothing like how I pictured the person would look. But I'm terrible at guessing in real life as well. I worked with some people last year and it was months before I saw them without a face mask. There were beards and jaw lines I hadn't guessed at"

I had a similar thing recently. I met some people from work in the flesh who never put their cameras on in Teams meetings.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I always forget people’s height and have been constantly surprised how petite a lot of the forum ladies are when I’ve met them at socials. Also how some people are really quiet and reserved in person compared to their forum persona.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"There has only been one...and it was his voice. Totally put me off meeting up

To be fair I did have a bet going to sound like that

Do you reckon I was a good Yoda?"

I'd give you a 9

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm exactly like you imagine me.

A total arsehole

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing

Same here when people come to the STP. Some introductions are jaw-dropping

I'm hoping to come to your next one to meet you x"

You'll have to let me know if I surprise you

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I like receiving the face pics - nobody ever looks how I imagine them. I’ve yet to attend a group social so no idea about personalities etc.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either. "

Yeah I meet a lot of people expecting me to be a scouser .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am.always surprised at how people look when I have built up a perception in my head!

People probably think that about me too.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

Yeah I meet a lot of people expecting me to be a scouser . "

Ah I can see that! In my head you... actually this might come across as slightly rude but it's not meant to! I thought your voice would be at a slightly higher pitch. I guessed you'd have a bit of a Southern twang to some words, mainly 'cause I creep on you on the fora.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine most guys just look like a penis.

And most girls look like tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am.always surprised at how people look when I have built up a perception in my head!

People probably think that about me too. "

That your even more hot in person,I agree

Also your hairs longer

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing

It's weird seeing them with clothes on!

Jo.Xx

One of my fav convo topics is checking out our bits on our profiles whilst we are stood together fully clothed "

Hahaha

It sounds like an interesting way to start a new conversation!

D is actually really good at recognising people with their clothes on. No idea how. I have to mentally undress them before I can work out who they are!

Jo.Xx

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"I am.always surprised at how people look when I have built up a perception in my head!

People probably think that about me too. "

Is it to do with their name?

If a guy's name was Hugo Boss would it conjour up the image of smartly dressed, well groomed guy? If it was Shug the Gaffer would you have a different image if him.

Shug is a Scottish way of saying Hugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either. "

This is very interesting. What voice/accent do I have, slutey? X

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

Yeah I meet a lot of people expecting me to be a scouser .

Ah I can see that! In my head you... actually this might come across as slightly rude but it's not meant to! I thought your voice would be at a slightly higher pitch. I guessed you'd have a bit of a Southern twang to some words, mainly 'cause I creep on you on the fora. "

Haha I don't think that's rude. Women's voices vary in pitch a lot. If anything, scouse women are often quite high pitched so I'm used to being lower than others around me . Yeah it's a strange one. I've lived in many places so it's mostly fairly neutral but it entirely depends what I say and some words have a strong accent and catch people off guard .

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

This is very interesting. What voice/accent do I have, slutey? X "

I can't really describe it but I very vividly picture your voice Kylie and I'd be curious to know how accurate my imagination is.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Yeah, I thought Rex Holes (aka Mr M) would be a total knob. What I discovered is that he IS total knob. A shiny, lovely, silly sort of knob. The best sort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

This is very interesting. What voice/accent do I have, slutey? X

I can't really describe it but I very vividly picture your voice Kylie and I'd be curious to know how accurate my imagination is. "

Haha now U got me so curious about it x love a description

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

This is very interesting. What voice/accent do I have, slutey? X

I can't really describe it but I very vividly picture your voice Kylie and I'd be curious to know how accurate my imagination is.

Haha now U got me so curious about it x love a description "

Saarth London massive......or posh Bromley girl x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

This is very interesting. What voice/accent do I have, slutey? X

I can't really describe it but I very vividly picture your voice Kylie and I'd be curious to know how accurate my imagination is.

Haha now U got me so curious about it x love a description "

Kylie’s dialect:

Not quite Made in Chelsea posh, but not quite Eastenders rough.

Am I close?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

This is very interesting. What voice/accent do I have, slutey? X

I can't really describe it but I very vividly picture your voice Kylie and I'd be curious to know how accurate my imagination is.

Haha now U got me so curious about it x love a description

Kylie’s dialect:

Not quite Made in Chelsea posh, but not quite Eastenders rough.

Am I close? "

Peckham?

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth


"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

This is very interesting. What voice/accent do I have, slutey? X

I can't really describe it but I very vividly picture your voice Kylie and I'd be curious to know how accurate my imagination is.

Haha now U got me so curious about it x love a description

Kylie’s dialect:

Not quite Made in Chelsea posh, but not quite Eastenders rough.

Am I close?

Peckham? "

Roedean, Swiss finishing school, and a small estate in Gloucestershire.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

This is very interesting. What voice/accent do I have, slutey? X

I can't really describe it but I very vividly picture your voice Kylie and I'd be curious to know how accurate my imagination is.

Haha now U got me so curious about it x love a description

Kylie’s dialect:

Not quite Made in Chelsea posh, but not quite Eastenders rough.

Am I close?

Peckham?

Roedean, Swiss finishing school, and a small estate in Gloucestershire. "

Oh....Hackney

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

This is very interesting. What voice/accent do I have, slutey? X "

Slutey!

So I tend to think of it as having a transatlantic twang (there's another term but it's not the nicest! And also not accurate) and a bit of a RP edge to it. Tone wise I imagine it's a kind of melodic raspy voice but I'm well aware that might be wrong.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Deffo have an idea how people look but completely wrong of the few I saw at recent social x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Mind u I got recognized easily lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am.always surprised at how people look when I have built up a perception in my head!

People probably think that about me too.

That your even more hot in person,I agree

Also your hairs longer "

Ermmmm... no idea who you are but ok

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

The perception and optics of 'seeing' someone on here and then seeing that person at a social is fascinating.

The disparities always make me smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

This is very interesting. What voice/accent do I have, slutey? X

Slutey!

So I tend to think of it as having a transatlantic twang (there's another term but it's not the nicest! And also not accurate) and a bit of a RP edge to it. Tone wise I imagine it's a kind of melodic raspy voice but I'm well aware that might be wrong. "

Pretty good! Ahha yes it’s sort of a mix between standard British (some had the cheek to say Posh but they had quite a street scent, so probably half of the British population sounds posh to them ) and transatlantic

I don’t know if it’s raspy tho x ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find quite often that they look better in person than the pictures.

Not that they didn't look good in the pictures, just different somehow, hard to explain.

One lady up there ^^ in particular.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Someone I recently met at a social was surprised I wasn't the cunt she saw me on the forums as

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

This is very interesting. What voice/accent do I have, slutey? X

I can't really describe it but I very vividly picture your voice Kylie and I'd be curious to know how accurate my imagination is.

Haha now U got me so curious about it x love a description

Kylie’s dialect:

Not quite Made in Chelsea posh, but not quite Eastenders rough.

Am I close? "

Haha imagine me with an eastender’s

rough accent. Jeeeeezzz

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"This is very interesting. What voice/accent do I have, slutey? X

Slutey!

So I tend to think of it as having a transatlantic twang (there's another term but it's not the nicest! And also not accurate) and a bit of a RP edge to it. Tone wise I imagine it's a kind of melodic raspy voice but I'm well aware that might be wrong.

Pretty good! Ahha yes it’s sort of a mix between standard British (some had the cheek to say Posh but they had quite a street scent, so probably half of the British population sounds posh to them ) and transatlantic

I don’t know if it’s raspy tho x ha "

What's a street scent and will I get in trouble for using that to describe someone? You're keeping me young with your lexicon, you really are. Yay for getting it right(ish!).

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Someone I recently met at a social was surprised I wasn't the cunt she saw me on the forums as "

That's a positive....I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always forget people’s height and have been constantly surprised how petite a lot of the forum ladies are when I’ve met them at socials. Also how some people are really quiet and reserved in person compared to their forum persona. "

I'm quite and reserved In person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is very interesting. What voice/accent do I have, slutey? X

Slutey!

So I tend to think of it as having a transatlantic twang (there's another term but it's not the nicest! And also not accurate) and a bit of a RP edge to it. Tone wise I imagine it's a kind of melodic raspy voice but I'm well aware that might be wrong.

Pretty good! Ahha yes it’s sort of a mix between standard British (some had the cheek to say Posh but they had quite a street scent, so probably half of the British population sounds posh to them ) and transatlantic

I don’t know if it’s raspy tho x ha

What's a street scent and will I get in trouble for using that to describe someone? You're keeping me young with your lexicon, you really are. Yay for getting it right(ish!). "

Street accent x wtf , autocorrect is fucked up

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

This is very interesting. What voice/accent do I have, slutey? X

I can't really describe it but I very vividly picture your voice Kylie and I'd be curious to know how accurate my imagination is.

Haha now U got me so curious about it x love a description "

Honestly I don't even know how I'd describe it as I'm useless at accents and things. I must have heard voices before that are similar to what I'm thinking of to even be able to imagine it but I can't think who .

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Someone I recently met at a social was surprised I wasn't the cunt she saw me on the forums as "

But you aren't

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Someone I recently met at a social was surprised I wasn't the cunt she saw me on the forums as

But you aren't "

She probably reads more of my forum comments than you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine you tou be 5 ft 4 tall and q cat enthusiast

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I always forget people’s height and have been constantly surprised how petite a lot of the forum ladies are when I’ve met them at socials. Also how some people are really quiet and reserved in person compared to their forum persona. "

I'm not petite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep when people see I’m bald with a turned up piggy nose and one ear that sticks out more than the other they are a bit taken aback

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I imagine you tou be 5 ft 4 tall and q cat enthusiast "

Me? Yes, I am 5’4” but my cat’s a total knobhead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep when people see I’m bald with a turned up piggy nose and one ear that sticks out more than the other they are a bit taken aback "

Very much doubt that …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine you tou be 5 ft 4 tall and q cat enthusiast

Me? Yes, I am 5’4” but my cat’s a total knobhead."
it's uncanny, my cat is a dickhead ,that gets totally soppy at bed time which makes me getting to sleep impossible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I imagine you tou be 5 ft 4 tall and q cat enthusiast

Me? Yes, I am 5’4” but my cat’s a total knobhead.it's uncanny, my cat is a dickhead ,that gets totally soppy at bed time which makes me getting to sleep impossible"

They know when to turn on the charm, arseholes that they are!

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth


"I imagine you tou be 5 ft 4 tall and q cat enthusiast

Me? Yes, I am 5’4” but my cat’s a total knobhead."

Cats are cunts. Got the t shirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep when people see I’m bald with a turned up piggy nose and one ear that sticks out more than the other they are a bit taken aback

Very much doubt that … "

Don't mention the nose or ear and you're good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I imagine you tou be 5 ft 4 tall and q cat enthusiast

Me? Yes, I am 5’4” but my cat’s a total knobhead.

Cats are cunts. Got the t shirt."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fab heights are the ones that get folk on here

guy has 5ft 10 on his profile

Turns up ….and in reality…

needs a booster seat in the cinema

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent a fair bit of time staring from afar at someone not realising I have been talking to them lots on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep when people see I’m bald with a turned up piggy nose and one ear that sticks out more than the other they are a bit taken aback

Very much doubt that …

Don't mention the nose or ear and you're good "

Oi!! It’s good for flagging down taxis though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one ever looks how you imagine them

A couple of years back I did a thread 'send me your face pics'

Bizarrely, people did

There are some truly good looking folk in this forum but, without exception, none of them looked how I imagined

For myself, I have face pic avatars up from time to time so no surprises here

U know I have to say, I imagined you differently than your face pic that I saw not long ago ha

I guess not a surprise much with me as my face is plastered all over "

I'm intrigued

What DID I look like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fab heights are the ones that get folk on here

guy has 5ft 10 on his profile

Turns up ….and in reality…

needs a booster seat in the cinema "

Hey that chair was really low down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno i dont know anyone well enough

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

People assume I have a lavender rinse and carry a Swag bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing "

I cant wait to go to a main social, i do wonder if everyones the same as i perceive them to be

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We think its part of the charm of being on here.

You have an idea in your mind and it turns out to be nothing like you imagined.

It's part of the fun.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Yes. When we’ve received face pics and they look nothing like we’d imagined. "

This!! It's funny how you build a picture in your mind on how someone looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never meet another formite

But I would presume I would shock quite a lot off people

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

no comment

I try not to be too judgemental... But there has been a few that I've befriended and I was honestly surprised they talked to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think im funnier in real life

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Mostly people looking older or younger than I thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People assume I have a lavender rinse and carry a Swag bag."

You don't?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"People assume I have a lavender rinse and carry a Swag bag.

You don't? "

I swap the swag bag for a Primark one for socials.

I always thought you were a brunette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People assume I have a lavender rinse and carry a Swag bag.

You don't?

I swap the swag bag for a Primark one for socials.

I always thought you were a brunette. "

Me and my OH both think Outsider looks like Mariah Carey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People assume I have a lavender rinse and carry a Swag bag.

You don't?

I swap the swag bag for a Primark one for socials.

I always thought you were a brunette.

Me and my OH both think Outsider looks like Mariah Carey "

and we've met her

she plays it down

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Someone I recently met at a social was surprised I wasn't the cunt she saw me on the forums as

But you aren't

She probably reads more of my forum comments than you do "

I think you're smart

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Someone I recently met at a social was surprised I wasn't the cunt she saw me on the forums as

But you aren't

She probably reads more of my forum comments than you do

I think you're smart "

I hide it well

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"I imagine you tou be 5 ft 4 tall and q cat enthusiast

Me? Yes, I am 5’4” but my cat’s a total knobhead."

Oooo Dieu, you have a pussy!

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

I wouldn’t know where to start on this one

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

There’s been a few couples who for unknown reasons, had me blocked … then they saw me in socials- no direct interaction, just seeing me interact with other people, friends in common, etc) and then the day after the social I get unblocked. Interesting. It’s happened 3 or 4 times now.

But it’s good to know they got a better impression and whatever misconception they had about me disappeared or became lighter…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I imagine you tou be 5 ft 4 tall and q cat enthusiast

Me? Yes, I am 5’4” but my cat’s a total knobhead.

Oooo Dieu, you have a pussy! "

Can’t be that much of a shock, surely

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

I’ve been told I’m better than in my pics

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth


"I imagine you tou be 5 ft 4 tall and q cat enthusiast

Me? Yes, I am 5’4” but my cat’s a total knobhead.

Oooo Dieu, you have a pussy!

Can’t be that much of a shock, surely "

It is when it growls. . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s been a few couples who for unknown reasons, had me blocked … then they saw me in socials- no direct interaction, just seeing me interact with other people, friends in common, etc) and then the day after the social I get unblocked. Interesting. It’s happened 3 or 4 times now.

But it’s good to know they got a better impression and whatever misconception they had about me disappeared or became lighter… "

I would have even talking to them how I am treated here I treat the same in real life

I am the same person here as I am in real life

If someone’s apinon is to block me here I block them in real life

If someone apinon is to not conversat with me here I am not interested in real life

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’ve been told I’m better than in my pics "

I imagine the running does work better in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People assume I have a lavender rinse and carry a Swag bag.

You don't?

I swap the swag bag for a Primark one for socials.

I always thought you were a brunette.

Me and my OH both think Outsider looks like Ada Shufflebotham "

Aww

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"I imagine you tou be 5 ft 4 tall and q cat enthusiast

Me? Yes, I am 5’4” but my cat’s a total knobhead.

Oooo Dieu, you have a pussy!

Can’t be that much of a shock, surely "

Is it a fluffy little one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I do. Mostly with people I wouldn't agree with on certain views but I'm sure eif I met them, I would see other sides and common interests...

...Or they could be a prick, it's 6 of one, half a dozen of the other really

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Someone once told me they'd expected me to be really tall because I like tall men

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I’ve been told I’m better than in my pics

I imagine the running does work better in person "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met Jim and he was just as funny in real life

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"I met Jim and he was just as funny in real life"

I thought someone else was you at the last Shrewsbury social

J x

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing "

This! It's one of the reasons I love them.

Really looking forward to the Manchester Social

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

No-one on here knows me, and as I'm one of the Great Unknown, I doubt anyone will have any preconceptions of what I am like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met Jim and he was just as funny in real life

I thought someone else was you at the last Shrewsbury social

J x"

Ooh I never made it to that one because of car trouble. Hope to be there next time though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember going to a group social and a club and thinking aha so thats why fabs so easy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No-one on here knows me, and as I'm one of the Great Unknown, I doubt anyone will have any preconceptions of what I am like "

You’re definitely a funny guy. I still giggle when I think of your profile heading, as suggested by me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am.always surprised at how people look when I have built up a perception in my head!

People probably think that about me too.

That your even more hot in person,I agree

Also your hairs longer

Ermmmm... no idea who you are but ok "

Awks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People assume I have a lavender rinse and carry a Swag bag.

You don't?

I swap the swag bag for a Primark one for socials.

I always thought you were a brunette.

Me and my OH both think Outsider looks like Ada Shufflebotham

Aww "

I'll be the Cissy to your Ada

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"I met Jim and he was just as funny in real life

I thought someone else was you at the last Shrewsbury social

J x

Ooh I never made it to that one because of car trouble. Hope to be there next time though x"

I’m just glad you weren’t who I thought you were…

There should be another in the summer x

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"There’s been a few couples who for unknown reasons, had me blocked … then they saw me in socials- no direct interaction, just seeing me interact with other people, friends in common, etc) and then the day after the social I get unblocked. Interesting. It’s happened 3 or 4 times now.

But it’s good to know they got a better impression and whatever misconception they had about me disappeared or became lighter…

I would have even talking to them how I am treated here I treat the same in real life

I am the same person here as I am in real life

If someone’s apinon is to block me here I block them in real life

If someone apinon is to not conversat with me here I am not interested in real life

"

Well, I hadn’t done absolutely anything to them- which is why I was surprised to see I was blocked! I couldn’t care less, to be honest. I don’t care enough to block on here and there’s been no direct interaction in socials as I said- just observation on both sides, so everyone carries on their merry way…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive only met one forumite, a prolufic poster here and I thought from her profile and pictures that she would be nicer, both physically and personality-wise, but in person there was no attraction at all. Never mind, she probably thought I was crap as well!

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"No-one on here knows me, and as I'm one of the Great Unknown, I doubt anyone will have any preconceptions of what I am like

You’re definitely a funny guy. I still giggle when I think of your profile heading, as suggested by me x"

Ah, you're too kind. I've put a new heading up just now, inspired by you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met Jim and he was just as funny in real life

I thought someone else was you at the last Shrewsbury social

J x

Ooh I never made it to that one because of car trouble. Hope to be there next time though x

I’m just glad you weren’t who I thought you were…

There should be another in the summer x"

Lmao sounds like I should feel relieved as well

Thank you. Will deffo be there xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No-one on here knows me, and as I'm one of the Great Unknown, I doubt anyone will have any preconceptions of what I am like

You’re definitely a funny guy. I still giggle when I think of your profile heading, as suggested by me x

Ah, you're too kind. I've put a new heading up just now, inspired by you x"

Love it! Not as much as the old one, but still do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am.always surprised at how people look when I have built up a perception in my head!

People probably think that about me too.

That your even more hot in person,I agree

Also your hairs longer

Ermmmm... no idea who you are but ok

Awks "

Its always awks with me,Thats my main move

Love the new profile photo by the way,

RikkeSevern formerly known as commander trousersnake.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

That's why it's great to meet all you fab folk in the real world. Profile's rarely give you a great insight. We've met people we think are brilliant out there who's profiles we wouldn't have taken to (and vice versa).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either. "

I remember you liking my accent when we met at the STP, you were how I thought you’d be…

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Ive only met one forumite, a prolufic poster here and I thought from her profile and pictures that she would be nicer, both physically and personality-wise, but in person there was no attraction at all. Never mind, she probably thought I was crap as well! "

•

Was it Tarquin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On seeing their photos, my preconceived ideas of how someone will look have generally been wrong.

When I’ve met them in person they’re generally how I thought they’d be, if that makes sense…

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I’ve only really met/spoken to a couple of people from the forum and I’d say they were all pretty much exactly as I imagined them. I’ll have to pin a couple more of you down for coffee to keep comparing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve only really met/spoken to a couple of people from the forum and I’d say they were all pretty much exactly as I imagined them. I’ll have to pin a couple more of you down for coffee to keep comparing "

But how will I reach Atlantis?

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"I’ve only really met/spoken to a couple of people from the forum and I’d say they were all pretty much exactly as I imagined them. I’ll have to pin a couple more of you down for coffee to keep comparing

But how will I reach Atlantis?"

It's in Stoke.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"I’ve only really met/spoken to a couple of people from the forum and I’d say they were all pretty much exactly as I imagined them. I’ll have to pin a couple more of you down for coffee to keep comparing "

Pin me like one of your voodoo dolls.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"I’ve only really met/spoken to a couple of people from the forum and I’d say they were all pretty much exactly as I imagined them. I’ll have to pin a couple more of you down for coffee to keep comparing

Pin me like one of your voodoo dolls."

This comment has brought me so much joy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve only really met/spoken to a couple of people from the forum and I’d say they were all pretty much exactly as I imagined them. I’ll have to pin a couple more of you down for coffee to keep comparing

But how will I reach Atlantis?

It's in Stoke. "

Gonna be even more difficult than I anticipated then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive only met one forumite, a prolufic poster here and I thought from her profile and pictures that she would be nicer, both physically and personality-wise, but in person there was no attraction at all. Never mind, she probably thought I was crap as well!

•

Was it Tarquin?"

I have no idea who Tarquin is (and cant be arsed to look), so I'll say no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive only met one forumite, a prolufic poster here and I thought from her profile and pictures that she would be nicer, both physically and personality-wise, but in person there was no attraction at all. Never mind, she probably thought I was crap as well!

•

Was it Tarquin?

I have no idea who Tarquin is (and cant be arsed to look), so I'll say no "

I hope she doesn’t read this and realise who she is! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive only met one forumite, a prolufic poster here and I thought from her profile and pictures that she would be nicer, both physically and personality-wise, but in person there was no attraction at all. Never mind, she probably thought I was crap as well!

•

Was it Tarquin?

I have no idea who Tarquin is (and cant be arsed to look), so I'll say no

I hope she doesn’t read this and realise who she is! x"

I hope she does, then she can work on being a tad nicer person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive only met one forumite, a prolufic poster here and I thought from her profile and pictures that she would be nicer, both physically and personality-wise, but in person there was no attraction at all. Never mind, she probably thought I was crap as well!

•

Was it Tarquin?

I have no idea who Tarquin is (and cant be arsed to look), so I'll say no

I hope she doesn’t read this and realise who she is! x

I hope she does, then she can work on being a tad nicer person. "

Two sides to every story and that, but ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no preconceptions, brain would never come up with the impression, so I rule out making any judgement

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Life has taught me to never make assumptions about how people without full length body picture will look.

Women have mastered the art of making themselves look very different with camera tricks and angles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just seen from a lady’s pictures that she is blonde, and not dark-haired as I imagined her to be. Mind blown!

Have you ever had a set idea about someone, regarding their looks or personality, only to be proven wrong?

Keep it nice please "

No .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive only met one forumite, a prolufic poster here and I thought from her profile and pictures that she would be nicer, both physically and personality-wise, but in person there was no attraction at all. Never mind, she probably thought I was crap as well! "

What a lovely post.

“Only met one lass from the forum, ended up being boring as fuck in person, and fucking rats too, also an avid forum user so will definitely see this… the boring rats fuck”.

As verifications go, it’s up there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face is all over my profile so no surprises here, people are generally surprised by how shy I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some fabbers I used to speak to away from here we’re some lovely people though I initially thought they would probably be a bit cold they were warm and lovely and in many ways they were the people I needed at that time. But other than that, I’ve generally had an open mind about people and only been disappointed once or twice.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Ive only met one forumite, a prolufic poster here and I thought from her profile and pictures that she would be nicer, both physically and personality-wise, but in person there was no attraction at all. Never mind, she probably thought I was crap as well!

•

Was it Tarquin?

I have no idea who Tarquin is (and cant be arsed to look), so I'll say no

I hope she doesn’t read this and realise who she is! x

I hope she does, then she can work on being a tad nicer person. "

At least you're leading by example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to form any preconceptions of people here, most of whom I’m unlikely to ever meet and will never really ‘know’ them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely make assumptions about people. There are people on my block list but for good reason as they have shown a side to them that I don’t like. On the flip side some people have shown a side that I did like.

We have to remember that we only see what someone is willing to show. People are more complex and in-depth than you will only ever see on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people I've met don't have the personality that they portray on the forums, some are better and some are worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At every single social I go to and its very refreshing

It's weird seeing them with clothes on!

Jo.Xx

I look better in clothes "

See I think I look better naked. Clothed I look like a potato.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

There are quite a few times I have been really pleasantly surprised how nice someone actually was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely make assumptions about people. There are people on my block list but for good reason as they have shown a side to them that I don’t like. On the flip side some people have shown a side that I did like.

We have to remember that we only see what someone is willing to show. People are more complex and in-depth than you will only ever see on fab "

It's interesting in view of yesterdays thread about being open. I am reasonably open (you may disagree) and I think I come across the same way in person. Daft and sometimes thoughtful.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes, frequently. People look different facially but the most obvious one for me is the difference in how they sound. I read posts in certain voices, with different accents. Tend to be wrong most of the time, not always in a bad way either.

I remember you liking my accent when we met at the STP, you were how I thought you’d be… "

I liked your everything at the STP. But yes, your voice especially is something else. So perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life has taught me to never make assumptions about how people without full length body picture will look.

Women have mastered the art of making themselves look very different with camera tricks and angles "

This is precisely why I do have full length body photos. I will not be accused of cat fishing.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Life has taught me to never make assumptions about how people without full length body picture will look.

Women have mastered the art of making themselves look very different with camera tricks and angles

This is precisely why I do have full length body photos. I will not be accused of cat fishing. "

Good for you. For some reason it feels like it’s completely acceptable to turn up to meets/dates 3-5 stone heavier than your pictures suggest

The weight isn’t the issue. It’s the deception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely make assumptions about people. There are people on my block list but for good reason as they have shown a side to them that I don’t like. On the flip side some people have shown a side that I did like.

We have to remember that we only see what someone is willing to show. People are more complex and in-depth than you will only ever see on fab

It's interesting in view of yesterdays thread about being open. I am reasonably open (you may disagree) and I think I come across the same way in person. Daft and sometimes thoughtful. "

Yes but I also know that they is not to you than you show on here. You show certain aspects of your personality but not all which is understandable

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Life has taught me to never make assumptions about how people without full length body picture will look.

Women have mastered the art of making themselves look very different with camera tricks and angles

This is precisely why I do have full length body photos. I will not be accused of cat fishing.

Good for you. For some reason it feels like it’s completely acceptable to turn up to meets/dates 3-5 stone heavier than your pictures suggest

The weight isn’t the issue. It’s the deception "

This is why I clearly state on our profile that I am now fat. Some of my pics are from 2015 when I was slimmer but I like the pics so leave them up. We also have a recent pic which clearly shows I’m fat.

J x

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

I'm generally drawn to a nice smile framed by a dark or grey beard. However my brain automatically gives them hair! 9 times out of 10 they're bald or shaved and it completely throws me!

Meeting people at socials after chatting to them online, I'm always surprised by height! Even though height is listed I’ve found it rarely matches my preconceptions!

It's never really affected my initial feelings towards them just takes a little getting used to!

I'd love to know if people I've met found I was exactly as they perceived!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I try not to form any preconceptions of people here, most of whom I’m unlikely to ever meet and will never really ‘know’ them. "

•

KêySøre™, I wouldn't mind meeting you my pedigree chum. We can compare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life has taught me to never make assumptions about how people without full length body picture will look.

Women have mastered the art of making themselves look very different with camera tricks and angles

This is precisely why I do have full length body photos. I will not be accused of cat fishing.

Good for you. For some reason it feels like it’s completely acceptable to turn up to meets/dates 3-5 stone heavier than your pictures suggest

The weight isn’t the issue. It’s the deception "

Yep same here. I post full length body shots too.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Life has taught me to never make assumptions about how people without full length body picture will look.

Women have mastered the art of making themselves look very different with camera tricks and angles

This is precisely why I do have full length body photos. I will not be accused of cat fishing. "

Same. And the reason I took off all my lovely pics that I liked and replaced them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try not to form any preconceptions of people here, most of whom I’m unlikely to ever meet and will never really ‘know’ them.

•

KêySøre™, I wouldn't mind meeting you my pedigree chum. We can compare "

If I’m ever south of the Watford Gap for anything. I shall be sure to give you a shout.

I’ll bring my sports

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


" ferret removed by poster at 16/03/22 12:32:30]"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am building up to posting my first full-length pic No filters, no work done, just little old me. I’m a bit nervous about it, as I’m not the most body-confident, but don’t wish to appear disingenuous. A couple of posters have already joked that I am bodiless from my boobs down!

I need to take one first

If you see it and like it, please let me know!

X

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I’m in

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