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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...non swingers sign up to a swinging site?

I'm not judging at all as I know these sites can be used however anyone wishes, but if you aren't interested in swinging then why would you even think about joining a swingers site?

Just out of curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Misconceptions about what swinging is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because Swingers fuck everyone who asks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been open about my reason on my profile....its primarily for the social interaction first and foremost

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Because they think it's instashag and that swingers will fuck anyone and everyone with a pulse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm probably just think its another you know what to pick up girls rather than meet likeminded folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curiosity, then we got sucked in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It probably depends on each individual's definition of swinging.

It's easy to explain for couples meeting couples, but, say a single guy, or a single girl likes sex, and hooks up with a different partner each week for NSA sex in a nightclub or pub, does that make them a swinger?

There are plenty of guys, and girls on here, with loads of verifications, who don't do clubs, who don't want socials, just NSA fun, who meet up with different partners and have a good bloody time. The only difference is they've got a Fab membership, and use Fab to meet others.

It's a quandary

Totally agree though, a lot of guys join here thinking it's instashag, and generally around 3 weeks after that they're on the forum wondering why they can't get a meet

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

For me it had opened up my eyes to many things and had made me grow as an individual. I think the quality of people on here are exceptional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want some sex

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I was sceptical about joining a swinging site, but my friend assured me I would find new fuck buddies on here; which I have.

I don't need to go to clubs to meet men for sex, and I prefer to get to know someone before getting naked with them; which I can't do in an hour or two in a club.

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

Because people are a lot more open minded here?

And there is a better social aspect than the swipey sites.

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By *for2Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Because Swingers fuck everyone who asks. "

Bugger...is that where I've been going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because people are a lot more open minded here?

And there is a better social aspect than the swipey sites. "

100% agree. But, does that make them, or you, swingers?

That's what I mean about it all being definition. To put that in context, we've had a few meets from here, and have attended and played in clubs, but we wouldn't say we were swingers as some would define. Other non fab friends if they knew would probably call us "those mad swingers"

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

No strings sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im only here to pass the time while i wait on a likely impossible future and fulfilling the last real promise i made so in short big picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The humour and free sandwiches

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I'm not a swinger and I signed up here purely to meet kinky men as the dating sites choices were too vanilla for me

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By *ookingforfun9970Man
over a year ago

nearby


"...non swingers sign up to a swinging site?

I'm not judging at all as I know these sites can be used however anyone wishes, but if you aren't interested in swinging then why would you even think about joining a swingers site?

Just out of curiosity."

Because some people think this site is just for a quick and easy hookup ( they are normally the ones to ruin it too in my opinion)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curiosity I suppose.

They’re not swingers now perhaps but they are interested and perhaps they may join in one day.

I’m in a Facebook group for wingsuit flyers.

I’ll never do it but I like to look at the videos.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"...non swingers sign up to a swinging site?

I'm not judging at all as I know these sites can be used however anyone wishes, but if you aren't interested in swinging then why would you even think about joining a swingers site?

Just out of curiosity."

They're probably yearning for big band music....

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s got to be the gaping threads for me.

A truly wonderful experience for all.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't class myself as a swinger and I signed up here just over 5 years ago out of curiosity.

Having gone through a 10 year period of zero sexual contact I was seeking to explore.

Contrary to some of the comments above I wasn't like a child in a sweet shop or even a bull in a china shop. I had no expectations and still don't.

Almost 60 verifications later and only 7 of those play related should be proof enough of that. That hasn't been down to lack of offers and was always by choice so even though I may not conform to what some class as a swinger I have found the people I click with most are the many many people in exactly the same situation I have been in.

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Oooooh I love getting sucked in!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I googled bicurious. This site came up so I joined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just here for the cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simply I joined as a couple previously purely because we enjoyed people watching as exhibitionists it was a thrill. Im not a swinger at all, Ive stuck around for the people ive met over the past 8 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just here for the cock pics. "

Morning.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Curiosity.

We have met couples in clubs where one of them has been before as a single and the new partner wants to see what goes on but has no interest in getting involved.

We were also at a club once where they let a load of single guys in who had been out on the town all day and decided to "see what the swingers were doing" also apparently all the women would be "gagging for it".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm researching, considering, exploring, testing my boundaries and limits for now

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By *issVanillaWoman
over a year ago

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I have Boris Johnson to thank for me stumbling across this site..it's been a great source of entertainment for the past two years..

I'm not brave enough to shag complete strangers so I lurk in the background, perving with my naughty thoughts but never act on them!

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Looking for ideas for pizza toppings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all your answers. Interesting and some funny answers. Some people on these forums are so witty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was selling swings. I really wanted a swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...non swingers sign up to a swinging site?

I'm not judging at all as I know these sites can be used however anyone wishes, but if you aren't interested in swinging then why would you even think about joining a swingers site?

Just out of curiosity."

There are tons of single people here who want to meet up, whether for socials or fun.

Fab can be a lot of things

And I’ve met some real hotties so , yay to fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought i might get fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it was a place to possibly find a few nice chatters, helps with evening boredom too. I've not gone as far as full sexual meet yet. I'm taking it very slow lol to make sure I'm making the right decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me being single

Busy work life better then a date site As no hassle and both people know what they want if the connection there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...non swingers sign up to a swinging site?

I'm not judging at all as I know these sites can be used however anyone wishes, but if you aren't interested in swinging then why would you even think about joining a swingers site?

Just out of curiosity."

Simply because not all people here are Swinger's , they are single , separated or divorced women here who enjoy great sex are are here looking for it .

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Sydney university thesis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just here for the cock pics. "

Go you !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...non swingers sign up to a swinging site?

I'm not judging at all as I know these sites can be used however anyone wishes, but if you aren't interested in swinging then why would you even think about joining a swingers site?

Just out of curiosity.

Simply because not all people here are Swinger's , they are single , separated or divorced women here who enjoy great sex are are here looking for it ."

And married men whose wife won't go near them and they assume the women on here are gagging for it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought i might get fucked "

Steady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought when I first started exploring being poly that the swinging community would be a good non monogamous place to start. Not sure if that’s been true because I guess swingers aren’t necessarily all that aligned with poly people but there’s some real gems on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought when I first started exploring being poly that the swinging community would be a good non monogamous place to start. Not sure if that’s been true because I guess swingers aren’t necessarily all that aligned with poly people but there’s some real gems on here. "

There really are some absolute diamonds on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To meet guys and have the odd bit of fun. Pure and simple. Then when I’m ready to, I’ll join a dating site for a relationship.

Do I consider myself a swinger? No.

Am I person who enjoys socialising and has sexual needs? Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To meet guys and have the odd bit of fun. Pure and simple. Then when I’m ready to, I’ll join a dating site for a relationship.

Do I consider myself a swinger? No.

Am I person who enjoys socialising and has sexual needs? Yes."

Why join a dating site when I’m already here,You wound me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sydney university thesis? "

Shhhh don’t out me magneto or I will report you to the head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To meet guys and have the odd bit of fun. Pure and simple. Then when I’m ready to, I’ll join a dating site for a relationship.

Do I consider myself a swinger? No.

Am I person who enjoys socialising and has sexual needs? Yes.

Why join a dating site when I’m already here,You wound me "

Wound you? I have a vision of catching you with a rope, lasso style, and winding you in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To meet guys and have the odd bit of fun. Pure and simple. Then when I’m ready to, I’ll join a dating site for a relationship.

Do I consider myself a swinger? No.

Am I person who enjoys socialising and has sexual needs? Yes.

Why join a dating site when I’m already here,You wound me

Wound you? I have a vision of catching you with a rope, lasso style, and winding you in "

“Came here to socialise end up holding my future husband,love of my life captive” quite the review

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You've asked out of curiosity and some will join for the same reason.

There's all kinds of variations as to what people consider to be swinging, from getting off on people watching you with your own partner, having sex in groups, bla bla bla

Many boundaries, many definitions, and an absolute mammoth amount to learn about ourselves and others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To meet guys and have the odd bit of fun. Pure and simple. Then when I’m ready to, I’ll join a dating site for a relationship.

Do I consider myself a swinger? No.

Am I person who enjoys socialising and has sexual needs? Yes.

Why join a dating site when I’m already here,You wound me

Wound you? I have a vision of catching you with a rope, lasso style, and winding you in

“Came here to socialise end up holding my future husband,love of my life captive” quite the review

"

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I joined sort of by mistake Was chatting to man on POF & he sent me a link to his pics. He said I needed to create an account which I did (I was rather inebriated) then I was bombarded with messages. I told him he was a dick & locked the profile down but stuck around out of curiosity. Best thing I ever did

J x

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Sydney university thesis?

Shhhh don’t out me magneto or I will report you to the head. "

I practically live in their office anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I joined sort of by mistake Was chatting to man on POF & he sent me a link to his pics. He said I needed to create an account which I did (I was rather inebriated) then I was bombarded with messages. I told him he was a dick & locked the profile down but stuck around out of curiosity. Best thing I ever did

J x"

Mistakes sometimes happen for good reason

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I was on the Halifax website paying a direct debit and ended up here for some reason???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was nosey.

Then I realised I quite like posting pics, I quite like the forum, and here we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was nosey.

Then I realised I quite like posting pics, I quite like the forum, and here we are. "

The Lounge forum is, in my view, the best thing about this site.

And I never knew I had a slight exhibitionist streak since joining here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

until not since

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was on the Halifax website paying a direct debit and ended up here for some reason??? "

And it's a bit like a bank, you put it in and take it out

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I was on the Halifax website paying a direct debit and ended up here for some reason???

And it's a bit like a bank, you put it in and take it out"

I’d put it in you

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Because they think it's instashag and that swingers will fuck anyone and everyone with a pulse."

Yes that, because all the females on dating sites make it clear no NSA they are looking for an actual relationship….. but all the guys are already in one of those and don’t want another

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was on the Halifax website paying a direct debit and ended up here for some reason???

And it's a bit like a bank, you put it in and take it out

I’d put it in you "

If you're talking about money make sure it's a £50 note

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Didn’t know what I was getting into when I first came on….. was very naive

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I was on the Halifax website paying a direct debit and ended up here for some reason???

And it's a bit like a bank, you put it in and take it out

I’d put it in you

If you're talking about money make sure it's a £50 note "

I’ll just give you one. Pound that is

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I didn't sign up myself. A friend at the time created this account. I ended up staying for the friendship

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was on the Halifax website paying a direct debit and ended up here for some reason???

And it's a bit like a bank, you put it in and take it out

I’d put it in you

If you're talking about money make sure it's a £50 note

I’ll just give you one. Pound that is "

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth


"I was nosey.

Then I realised I quite like posting pics, I quite like the forum, and here we are.

The Lounge forum is, in my view, the best thing about this site.

And I never knew I had a slight exhibitionist streak since joining here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because non-swingers can and it opens up possibilities which might lead to swinging. If that makes sense

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over a year ago

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