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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you get another with yourself?

For something you do or say? Something that you’ve reacted to/that’s triggered you?

Or do you just annoy yourself by the way you’re being in any one moment…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daily !!!

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

Never. Obvs. Cos I'm perfect and all that shiz

Posh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah all the time x

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Always. It doesn't take much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I do annoy myself I tell myself off and go to the naughty step.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely when driving lol

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yep all the bloody time.

Curse of an over active imagination, spiralling into hyper is not fun and I'm ever grateful to meditation to being able to ground me

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

You know!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every. Freaking. Day.

I’ve really had to learn to go easier on myself though.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Every day. I normally call myself a tosser when I reflect on something I've done and then thought better of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I do annoy myself I tell myself off and go to the naughty step. "

Think I need to learn to do that lol.I just wallow in self pity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time

Normally work that pisses me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every day. I normally call myself a tosser when I reflect on something I've done and then thought better of it."

Oh yes I just have random flashbacks to events from my life,Like when I stood on a chair ten years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I annoy myself all the time. I annoy myself for not always finding the strength to not take things so personally. And for constantly feeling anxious about what others think about me - and that I may be annoying them- which annoys me more because I can’t stop being myself etc.

I’m mad but you know that about me by now, HC!

Thanks for your thread, felt good to get that out.

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By *oundandround69Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Do you get another with yourself?

For something you do or say? Something that you’ve reacted to/that’s triggered you?

Or do you just annoy yourself by the way you’re being in any one moment…"

Who doesn’t????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep then go over it again whilst I'm in bed.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"Every day. I normally call myself a tosser when I reflect on something I've done and then thought better of it."

I do that as well mate. I think of it as being a learning curve.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

No. I know and have accepted I'm a twat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I annoy myself all the time. I annoy myself for not always finding the strength to not take things so personally. And for constantly feeling anxious about what others think about me - and that I may be annoying them- which annoys me more because I can’t stop being myself etc.

I’m mad but you know that about me by now, HC!

Thanks for your thread, felt good to get that out. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every other minute im like a suped up karl pilkington these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody could ever hate me as much as I hate myself. I’m a dick

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Every day. I normally call myself a tosser when I reflect on something I've done and then thought better of it.

I do that as well mate. I think of it as being a learning curve. "

It saves me going loco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least daily I'll flashback to something I said or a joke I told that fell flat years ago and just think what was wrong with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein.

Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever?

Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people.

Does that make sense?

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Not nearly as much as I annoy other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

Scratch that, no I am perfect!

(See what I did there?)

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein.

Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever?

Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people.

Does that make sense? "

It stops us snapping like Michael Douglas in falling down, I suppose x

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

Constantly, it is my permanent state of being

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein.

Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever?

Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people.

Does that make sense? "

Agree just wish I wasn’t so negative at times but self-reflection is always good probably made me a less spiteful person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Last night for example, listening to a friend, I found myself repeatedly saying the same phrase at different points in her story. I felt like an annoying cliché

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein.

Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever?

Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people.

Does that make sense? "

Makes great sense. Being self aware does make for good people. I think as long as it remains self awareness and not self hatred it’s good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein.

Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever?

Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people.

Does that make sense? "

I suppose it depends. Self awareness is vital (imo), but beating ourselves up for silly mistakes is not healthy…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the bloody time! I am too much of a reflector, and sometimes get so annoyed with myself for allowing myself to be spoken to a certain way or not calling other people out on their BS.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"Every day. I normally call myself a tosser when I reflect on something I've done and then thought better of it.

I do that as well mate. I think of it as being a learning curve.

It saves me going loco"

I talk things over in my head all the time until I understand it and it makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least daily I'll flashback to something I said or a joke I told that fell flat years ago and just think what was wrong with you"

Haha I also do this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein.

Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever?

Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people.

Does that make sense?

I suppose it depends. Self awareness is vital (imo), but beating ourselves up for silly mistakes is not healthy…"

True. Like so much in life, I suppose, it’s all about balance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least daily I'll flashback to something I said or a joke I told that fell flat years ago and just think what was wrong with you"

My kids frequently remind me of these occasions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually by going into a room and having no idea why I'm there.

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

Yep.. all the time. In many ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least daily I'll flashback to something I said or a joke I told that fell flat years ago and just think what was wrong with you

Haha I also do this!! "

Me too I am the head of the club

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein.

Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever?

Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people.

Does that make sense? "

You make a very good point there Dieu. I know a few people who think they are It and don't give a toss about their actions or words and think they are superior to everyone else. Everyone of them is ersehole.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I tell myself off all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constantly to the point of insanity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often annoy myself. Usually because I'm anxious about something with manifests itself in me being a right twat!

Ginge

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"I tell myself off all the time "

This I'm my own worst critic ..lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Usually by going into a room and having no idea why I'm there."

Ohh, definitely this!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I can't say I do.

Mostly, I'm able to just think oh well and move past things fairly quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I annoy anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think I annoy anyone."

Wait, I missed the second “don’t”.

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Frequently, even though I'm sure others deserve my ire far more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I always look back on the past and think what if I would have chosen different

It bothers me that I will never know

Sometimes I just wished the choice would represent its self so I could to see

But I can’t be the one to take that first step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A stupid thing that winds me up so much yet I still automatically do it…..

Someone bumps into me when they’re not looking where they’re going, they shoot me a dirty look and barge past whilst I stand there saying sorry!!!!

Getting mad even thinking about it!

Viv

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

All the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite regularly at the moment, I over think certain situations and become very doubtful. It’s a defence mechanism I need to break

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

All the time - especially if I get annoyed at trivial things xx

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

All the damn time.

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By *aughtyal80Man
over a year ago

darlington

Yep, mainly from how anxiety stops me from doing a number of things. It's really fucking annoying

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