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"When I do annoy myself I tell myself off and go to the naughty step. " Think I need to learn to do that lol.I just wallow in self pity | |||
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"Every day. I normally call myself a tosser when I reflect on something I've done and then thought better of it." Oh yes I just have random flashbacks to events from my life,Like when I stood on a chair ten years ago. | |||
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"Do you get another with yourself? For something you do or say? Something that you’ve reacted to/that’s triggered you? Or do you just annoy yourself by the way you’re being in any one moment…" Who doesn’t???? | |||
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"Every day. I normally call myself a tosser when I reflect on something I've done and then thought better of it." I do that as well mate. I think of it as being a learning curve. | |||
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"I annoy myself all the time. I annoy myself for not always finding the strength to not take things so personally. And for constantly feeling anxious about what others think about me - and that I may be annoying them- which annoys me more because I can’t stop being myself etc. I’m mad but you know that about me by now, HC! Thanks for your thread, felt good to get that out. " | |||
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"Every day. I normally call myself a tosser when I reflect on something I've done and then thought better of it. I do that as well mate. I think of it as being a learning curve. " It saves me going loco | |||
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"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein. Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever? Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people. Does that make sense? " It stops us snapping like Michael Douglas in falling down, I suppose x | |||
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"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein. Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever? Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people. Does that make sense? " Agree just wish I wasn’t so negative at times but self-reflection is always good probably made me a less spiteful person. | |||
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"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein. Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever? Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people. Does that make sense? " Makes great sense. Being self aware does make for good people. I think as long as it remains self awareness and not self hatred it’s good. | |||
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"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein. Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever? Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people. Does that make sense? " I suppose it depends. Self awareness is vital (imo), but beating ourselves up for silly mistakes is not healthy… | |||
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"Every day. I normally call myself a tosser when I reflect on something I've done and then thought better of it. I do that as well mate. I think of it as being a learning curve. It saves me going loco" I talk things over in my head all the time until I understand it and it makes sense. | |||
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"At least daily I'll flashback to something I said or a joke I told that fell flat years ago and just think what was wrong with you" Haha I also do this!! | |||
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"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein. Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever? Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people. Does that make sense? I suppose it depends. Self awareness is vital (imo), but beating ourselves up for silly mistakes is not healthy…" True. Like so much in life, I suppose, it’s all about balance. | |||
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"At least daily I'll flashback to something I said or a joke I told that fell flat years ago and just think what was wrong with you" My kids frequently remind me of these occasions. | |||
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"At least daily I'll flashback to something I said or a joke I told that fell flat years ago and just think what was wrong with you Haha I also do this!! " Me too I am the head of the club | |||
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"It seems we’re all answering in a similar vein. Don’t you think if we weren’t like this though, we’d just be a shower of arrogant tossers with no self-awareness whatsoever? Like, maybe it’s being this way that in part makes us nice people. Does that make sense? " You make a very good point there Dieu. I know a few people who think they are It and don't give a toss about their actions or words and think they are superior to everyone else. Everyone of them is ersehole. | |||
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"I tell myself off all the time " This I'm my own worst critic ..lol | |||
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"Usually by going into a room and having no idea why I'm there." Ohh, definitely this! | |||
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"I don’t think I annoy anyone." Wait, I missed the second “don’t”. | |||
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