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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm not a overly confident person on here but can hold my own in person (I know it's usually the other way around). Any ladies got some advice that could help?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Be on here like you are in person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be,

Be more confident.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My advice would be,

Be more confident.

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I don't know why but this made me laugh lol.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Just be friendly and open. Hopefully their profile will give you something to talk about. Otherwise just talk to them like they're a human being and don't get into sex stuff too soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lady - but from a guys perspective - just be you and in time you’ll find someone who is attracted to you…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really got why people only ask for ladies advice, on things that anyone can offer good input for. Seems to be as much about getting female attention as actual advice. Not saying that is you OP, but when you see it so much, this is how stereotyping happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never really got why people only ask for ladies advice, on things that anyone can offer good input for. Seems to be as much about getting female attention as actual advice. Not saying that is you OP, but when you see it so much, this is how stereotyping happens."

My apologies if it comes across like that, it's not the case for me. I appreciate all imput.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Never really got why people only ask for ladies advice, on things that anyone can offer good input for. Seems to be as much about getting female attention as actual advice. Not saying that is you OP, but when you see it so much, this is how stereotyping happens.

My apologies if it comes across like that, it's not the case for me. I appreciate all imput. "

Why did to only ask ladies for advice then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never really got why people only ask for ladies advice, on things that anyone can offer good input for. Seems to be as much about getting female attention as actual advice. Not saying that is you OP, but when you see it so much, this is how stereotyping happens.

My apologies if it comes across like that, it's not the case for me. I appreciate all imput.

Why did to only ask ladies for advice then?

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Sometimes guys are just dicks (not all I know) and generally I've found women are most honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site can be toxic to confidence.

So leave the site. Be more confident.

Return with an artfully lit dick pic avatar embracing the confidence of the anonymous man.

Or something like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake it until u believe it

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe


"Not a lady - but from a guys perspective - just be you and in time you’ll find someone who is attracted to you… "

How much time??

I'm not sure I have that much time left

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a lady - but from a guys perspective - just be you and in time you’ll find someone who is attracted to you…

How much time??

I'm not sure I have that much time left "

Amen to that haha

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

What areas are you lacking confidence on here that you have in person? Might help you work out what you need to focus on when online?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What areas are you lacking confidence on here that you have in person? Might help you work out what you need to focus on when online?"

I think generally it's making conversation in the first message, as you can't gauge mood, body language, attitude etc.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"What areas are you lacking confidence on here that you have in person? Might help you work out what you need to focus on when online?

I think generally it's making conversation in the first message, as you can't gauge mood, body language, attitude etc. "

Yeah, makes sense. You'll obviously never be able to gauge those things when sending an email/message, so just got to be yourself I reckon and let your "real world" personality come through. Some will like the look/sound of you and reply, and some won't, but that's just the way it goes.

Easier said than done, I know, but must try not to let those "thanks but no thanks" messages dent your confidence - you're the same guy on here than anywhere else!

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