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By *isser36 OP   Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

Have you ever had an argument in your head about something that hasn't happened and potentially never will where you are both sides of the argument?? ....or is it just me that's clearly going insane?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep iv got 3 different people in there so it gets a bit noisy

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

So like a moral dilemma?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lot in here that could cause an argument in a phone box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called catastrophising I believe. Or spiraling, one of the two. Almost like you're preparing the argument?

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By *isser36 OP   Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast


"So like a moral dilemma?"

No like maybe a situation that may or may not happen or a conversation about something, or more accurately a conversation that may happen but you play out the worst case in your head and have the argument with yourself....haha its fucking madness

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By *isser36 OP   Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast


"It's called catastrophising I believe. Or spiraling, one of the two. Almost like you're preparing the argument? "

Yeah like having the argument in your head before anything happens to have the argument!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a lot in here that could cause an argument in a phone box "

damn right

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

It's when I'm losing my own argument that I worry

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By *ocky82Man
over a year ago

Watford


"Have you ever had an argument in your head about something that hasn't happened and potentially never will where you are both sides of the argument?? ....or is it just me that's clearly going insane? "

All the time !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called catastrophising I believe. Or spiraling, one of the two. Almost like you're preparing the argument?

Yeah like having the argument in your head before anything happens to have the argument! "

It usually happens in the shower with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever had an argument in your head about something that hasn't happened and potentially never will where you are both sides of the argument?? ....or is it just me that's clearly going insane?

All the time !!"

Same here

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By *isser36 OP   Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

That's good to know, am not the only one that's insane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes in my head I imagine a scenario (usually one with a favourable outcome for me ), then I snap out of it, and am mildly surprised that it didn’t happen.

I am aware this makes me sound totally coco pops, but is this what you mean?!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Sometimes in my head I imagine a scenario (usually one with a favourable outcome for me ), then I snap out of it, and am mildly surprised that it didn’t happen.

I am aware this makes me sound totally coco pops, but is this what you mean?!"

I frequently have arguments in my head with people in my work life, in my head. Saves me doing it for real x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes in my head I imagine a scenario (usually one with a favourable outcome for me ), then I snap out of it, and am mildly surprised that it didn’t happen.

I am aware this makes me sound totally coco pops, but is this what you mean?!

I frequently have arguments in my head with people in my work life, in my head. Saves me doing it for real x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes in my head I imagine a scenario (usually one with a favourable outcome for me ), then I snap out of it, and am mildly surprised that it didn’t happen.

I am aware this makes me sound totally coco pops, but is this what you mean?!

I frequently have arguments in my head with people in my work life, in my head. Saves me doing it for real x

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I just took it for granted that this was nornal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's good to know, am not the only one that's insane "
insanity is more fun anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make little bets with myself inside my head. Like sort of challenging myself to do completely pointless stuff and then reward myself if I do it

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I have discussions in my head with management. That way when I do have the discussion I don't go way over the top.

If anyone works in education you might know what I mean.

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By *isser36 OP   Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast


"I make little bets with myself inside my head. Like sort of challenging myself to do completely pointless stuff and then reward myself if I do it "

Haha I do this too! And I always feel a little sense of accomplishment if I achieved it, for instance when I walk the dog I throw the ball for her ill sent myself a challenge to land the ball on a certain spot or roll between two points and am very persistent to get goal! The dog loves it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I make little bets with myself inside my head. Like sort of challenging myself to do completely pointless stuff and then reward myself if I do it

Haha I do this too! And I always feel a little sense of accomplishment if I achieved it, for instance when I walk the dog I throw the ball for her ill sent myself a challenge to land the ball on a certain spot or roll between two points and am very persistent to get goal! The dog loves it haha "

That’s pretty much exactly what I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time

I loose every time

Should I worry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes happens all the time feel like I have four different people jostling for control at times and I’m the fifth.

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