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Honesty is the best policy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People say that honesty is the best policy so then you know where you stand from the get go, got told a couple of days ago that because I haven't got broad shoulders this person is not interested in me ( not from this site ) but then changes her mind and wants to see me tells me that she had a good time, tells me that there's a chance of seeing her again but she was lying to me because when I got home she said to me I'm not what she's looking for.. but she adds me to social media it's like rejection hurts

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By *l6789Man
over a year ago

croydon


"People say that honesty is the best policy so then you know where you stand from the get go, got told a couple of days ago that because I haven't got broad shoulders this person is not interested in me ( not from this site ) but then changes her mind and wants to see me tells me that she had a good time, tells me that there's a chance of seeing her again but she was lying to me because when I got home she said to me I'm not what she's looking for.. but she adds me to social media it's like rejection hurts "

I think with the amount of abuse people give online it’s hard to be 100% honest as it’s a fear they will get a rage off you if they tell you not interested. It would be nice to think we could all be honest and handle rejection but not everyone can. Forget her move on best advice I can give

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah but the thing is I managed to get to meet her and we've got on in the flesh I felt like there was a lot of humour there was a lot of teasing and it's like the minute she got out the car I said to her face-to-face do you think that there's a chance that we could like get it on and it was like can't say yes can't say no no so she couldn't say it to my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just sounds to me that she doesn't know what she wants

I wouldn't lose any sleep over it

I wouldn't want to fall for someone who is so unclear in her intentions or wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah but the thing is I managed to get to meet her and we've got on in the flesh I felt like there was a lot of humour there was a lot of teasing and it's like the minute she got out the car I said to her face-to-face do you think that there's a chance that we could like get it on and it was like can't say yes can't say no no so she couldn't say it to my face"

Now then, she might have been afraid to in that scenario

You may have felt comfortable

It doesn't mean that she did

I guess she placated you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it happens it happens , don't lose any sleep over her cause she certainly is not losing any over you .

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield


"Yeah but the thing is I managed to get to meet her and we've got on in the flesh I felt like there was a lot of humour there was a lot of teasing and it's like the minute she got out the car I said to her face-to-face do you think that there's a chance that we could like get it on and it was like can't say yes can't say no no so she couldn't say it to my face

Now then, she might have been afraid to in that scenario

You may have felt comfortable

It doesn't mean that she did

I guess she placated you"

This

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