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"I wouldn't say it pisses me off but it does confuse me because I don't understand it and yes I've seen this a lot. The whole "yes but we will make an exception for you" line instantly turns me off every time. " Us too. Its worse when they meet and ask for smokes because they've left thiers at home but are a non smoker on profile. I dont see what the hold up is. I enjoy smoking and not ashamed to put it out there. Do people think they will get more meets being a "non smoker" | |||
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"I wouldn't say it pisses me off but it does confuse me because I don't understand it and yes I've seen this a lot. The whole "yes but we will make an exception for you" line instantly turns me off every time. Us too. Its worse when they meet and ask for smokes because they've left thiers at home but are a non smoker on profile. I dont see what the hold up is. I enjoy smoking and not ashamed to put it out there. Do people think they will get more meets being a "non smoker" " Short answer yes. When 2 3rds of people are viciously anti smoking. Same reason I list myself as straight. The abuse from women being called a "Dirty disease spreader" will make you rethink what you list on your profile. | |||
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"Does smokers bother you ? If not then I’d say do t let it annoy you " Shaz smokes so don't bother us. It's all the people who have don't meet smokers on profile but would make an exception or don't smoke on profiles but smoking on cam. Orno smokers on profile but ask for smokes on meets. It's just bizarre. | |||
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"I wouldn't say it pisses me off but it does confuse me because I don't understand it and yes I've seen this a lot. The whole "yes but we will make an exception for you" line instantly turns me off every time. I'm shocked that in this day and age people are sending such disgusting messages about peoples sexual preferences. I'm actually horrified that people would send something like that. Should be ashamed of themselves and reported and banned. Us too. Its worse when they meet and ask for smokes because they've left thiers at home but are a non smoker on profile. I dont see what the hold up is. I enjoy smoking and not ashamed to put it out there. Do people think they will get more meets being a "non smoker" Short answer yes. When 2 3rds of people are viciously anti smoking. Same reason I list myself as straight. The abuse from women being called a "Dirty disease spreader" will make you rethink what you list on your profile." | |||
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"More so when say non smoker them turns out they do smoke Be honest people.." This is what I dont understand. Why do people find it such an issue? We all have preferences just skip those who don't match what you're looking for. Just be honest. The ones on cam sitting chain smoking kill me with non smoker on profile, I'm like you're making yourself look like an idiot. | |||
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"I wish this was my main problem in life." Theres lots going on with everyone. I'm just joining in with the forums to see if anyone has the same opinion as me. Its my biggest bug bear. I wished it was only issue too but alas. Shaz x | |||
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"Anyone else pissed off with people messaging with "don't meet smokers" on profile only for them to say, yes but we would meet you. Or they have don't meet smokers and non smoker on profile but say "dunno why it says that as I smoke" or even worse smoking like fxxx on cam but non smokers on profile. Whats the issue here? Boils my piss. Shaz " it's up to the individual tbh , some only smoke to genuinely relax , others can't get enough of them , totally up to the individual. | |||
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"I wouldn't say it pisses me off but it does confuse me because I don't understand it and yes I've seen this a lot. The whole "yes but we will make an exception for you" line instantly turns me off every time. " Agree with this, for anything. Not just smoking. | |||
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"Telling lies on a profile about anything in the hope of getting laid is never a good idea. Many years ago I had a meet with a bloke I was really getting on with. He would be doing a 150 round trip to meet me. We said hello, we kissed and I turned him back because he lied about his smoking status and said because he hadn't had one since the night before, he thought I wouldn't notice. Deception stinks." We have had this. It’s as if they think you won’t notice. | |||
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"It's very annoying indeed. Not just the smoking bit, it's anything they fib about on their profile. Single when married Can accommodate but cant Loves giving oral, does it for 5 seconds Safe sex, turns up with no condoms The list goes on." Omg yes! We've been out doggin, and they don't bring condoms. We've done all the hair, make dressed sexy ect. They've flopped it in the sink and spashed with water ( not always) then turn up with no condoms. We always have a bucket full. We went through a faze, if they didnt have one with them. We'd say no, and they'd miss out. And 'can accom', the amount that have their grandma, aunt, wifes brother ect staying that one night is crazy. Why put a meet up, if you have guests? | |||
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"Imagine my surprise when I found out guys and girls lie on sex sites to get their end. Shooketh." Shocking behaviour | |||
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"The ones who vape and insist it's not smoking" These people are just the worst.... | |||
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"The ones who vape and insist it's not smoking" Err it’s not. | |||
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"The ones who vape and insist it's not smoking These people are just the worst...." | |||
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"The ones who vape and insist it's not smoking" What if it smells like butterflies, making love in a meadow on a summers day? | |||
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"The ones who vape and insist it's not smoking What if it smells like butterflies, making love in a meadow on a summers day? " That's what they tell me but it's a really sickly fake smell. I don't have an issue meeting smokers but just admit at least | |||
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"The ones who vape and insist it's not smoking Err it’s not. " Blow it out you a..... | |||
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"The ones who vape and insist it's not smoking Err it’s not. Blow it out you a..... " By definition it’s vapour, not smoke. Hence it’s dispersion on expulsion. Also, the fruit flavour and tobacco smell like ass, I’m with you on that. | |||
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"There are so many lies on my profile. Sssshhhh though." Is the cake part a lie? | |||
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"The smell of smoke really puts me off so I stick to what it says on my profile. However, I'm sure many horny guys "relax" their preferences with the mere whiff of getting action so I can't see why this surprises or annoys you. ***Also, I quite often see "not looking for single men" on profiles, only to be approached by said profile for a meet - how's this different?" *** That's just a message filter to stop millions of desperate men messaging them. The site puts the text on automatically when people use the mail filter. Easier to look for decent men than to drown in shite messages. | |||
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"People tell porkies on the internet if it leads to a shag. " I don't believe this. All people are honest. | |||
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"The smell of smoke really puts me off so I stick to what it says on my profile. However, I'm sure many horny guys "relax" their preferences with the mere whiff of getting action so I can't see why this surprises or annoys you. ***Also, I quite often see "not looking for single men" on profiles, only to be approached by said profile for a meet - how's this different? *** That's just a message filter to stop millions of desperate men messaging them. The site puts the text on automatically when people use the mail filter. Easier to look for decent men than to drown in shite messages. " Exactly this, some users decide to take fate into their own hands by blocking guys then messaging one’s they fancy, instead of having an open mailbox and constantly complaining about the quality of mail they get Smart move | |||
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"Imagine my surprise when I found out guys and girls lie on sex sites to get their end. Shooketh." Hahaha | |||
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"The smell of smoke really puts me off so I stick to what it says on my profile. However, I'm sure many horny guys "relax" their preferences with the mere whiff of getting action so I can't see why this surprises or annoys you. ***Also, I quite often see "not looking for single men" on profiles, only to be approached by said profile for a meet - how's this different? *** That's just a message filter to stop millions of desperate men messaging them. The site puts the text on automatically when people use the mail filter. Easier to look for decent men than to drown in shite messages. " Wow - missed the point completely. I know exactly why they do this, I'm saying how is this different to someone saying they don't meet smokers but then deciding they do when the person appeals to them. Just the same as saying don't meet single men until one crops up they like. Exactly the same. | |||
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"I smoke it’s on my profile and it is what it is " Ditto! But yes I get approached by loads who say they won’t meet smokers! | |||
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"I smoke it’s on my profile and it is what it is Ditto! But yes I get approached by loads who say they won’t meet smokers! " I get approached by "straight" guys asking to suck my cock. | |||
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"The ones who vape and insist it's not smoking" Oops this is me Guess I should change my profile | |||
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"The ones who vape and insist it's not smoking Oops this is me Guess I should change my profile " No need. Vaping isn’t smoking. | |||
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"The smell of smoke really puts me off so I stick to what it says on my profile. However, I'm sure many horny guys "relax" their preferences with the mere whiff of getting action so I can't see why this surprises or annoys you. ***Also, I quite often see "not looking for single men" on profiles, only to be approached by said profile for a meet - how's this different? *** That's just a message filter to stop millions of desperate men messaging them. The site puts the text on automatically when people use the mail filter. Easier to look for decent men than to drown in shite messages. Wow - missed the point completely. I know exactly why they do this, I'm saying how is this different to someone saying they don't meet smokers but then deciding they do when the person appeals to them. Just the same as saying don't meet single men until one crops up they like. Exactly the same." Not the same at all. | |||
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"People meet who the choose to meet is all that really matters anything else is just extra typing " I don't see the point in getting so angry. If I got angry at every cockwomble here Id be permanently cross. | |||
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"I don’t mind ladies smoking my cock " It's a smoking cock Tbf | |||
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"People meet who the choose to meet is all that really matters anything else is just extra typing I don't see the point in getting so angry. If I got angry at every cockwomble here Id be permanently cross. " | |||
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"I don’t mind ladies smoking my cock It's a smoking cock Tbf " Just be careful with the lighter | |||
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"The smell of smoke really puts me off so I stick to what it says on my profile. However, I'm sure many horny guys "relax" their preferences with the mere whiff of getting action so I can't see why this surprises or annoys you. ***Also, I quite often see "not looking for single men" on profiles, only to be approached by said profile for a meet - how's this different? *** That's just a message filter to stop millions of desperate men messaging them. The site puts the text on automatically when people use the mail filter. Easier to look for decent men than to drown in shite messages. Wow - missed the point completely. I know exactly why they do this, I'm saying how is this different to someone saying they don't meet smokers but then deciding they do when the person appeals to them. Just the same as saying don't meet single men until one crops up they like. Exactly the same. Not the same at all. " I've tried to explain my rationale, obviously I can't debate with a response like this. No problem, will have to agree to disagree in that case. | |||
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"I don’t mind ladies smoking my cock It's a smoking cock Tbf Just be careful with the lighter " Why? I thought you enjoyed a bit of pain? | |||
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"The smell of smoke really puts me off so I stick to what it says on my profile. However, I'm sure many horny guys "relax" their preferences with the mere whiff of getting action so I can't see why this surprises or annoys you. ***Also, I quite often see "not looking for single men" on profiles, only to be approached by said profile for a meet - how's this different? *** That's just a message filter to stop millions of desperate men messaging them. The site puts the text on automatically when people use the mail filter. Easier to look for decent men than to drown in shite messages. Wow - missed the point completely. I know exactly why they do this, I'm saying how is this different to someone saying they don't meet smokers but then deciding they do when the person appeals to them. Just the same as saying don't meet single men until one crops up they like. Exactly the same. Not the same at all. I've tried to explain my rationale, obviously I can't debate with a response like this. No problem, will have to agree to disagree in that case." 1 is to stop your message inbox being filled with low effort dick pics from blank profiles. It’s not because you don’t want to meet single guys, it’s because you want to pick the single guys you speak to by closing off your mailbox Fairly simple to understand the difference I’d think | |||
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"The smell of smoke really puts me off so I stick to what it says on my profile. However, I'm sure many horny guys "relax" their preferences with the mere whiff of getting action so I can't see why this surprises or annoys you. ***Also, I quite often see "not looking for single men" on profiles, only to be approached by said profile for a meet - how's this different? *** That's just a message filter to stop millions of desperate men messaging them. The site puts the text on automatically when people use the mail filter. Easier to look for decent men than to drown in shite messages. Wow - missed the point completely. I know exactly why they do this, I'm saying how is this different to someone saying they don't meet smokers but then deciding they do when the person appeals to them. Just the same as saying don't meet single men until one crops up they like. Exactly the same. Not the same at all. I've tried to explain my rationale, obviously I can't debate with a response like this. No problem, will have to agree to disagree in that case. 1 is to stop your message inbox being filled with low effort dick pics from blank profiles. It’s not because you don’t want to meet single guys, it’s because you want to pick the single guys you speak to by closing off your mailbox Fairly simple to understand the difference I’d think " Missing the point completely again, read the thread mate - I know why they do this and I'm not arguing that, I'm saying its not different in terms of the fact they choose someone not aligned with their preferences. In this case, they choose not to ask for interest from smokers ... unless one catches their eye. Different volumes, agreed, but same principle. Scroll up, the OP was moaning that someone changes their preference against what their profile says - that's what I'm debating. | |||
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"The smell of smoke really puts me off so I stick to what it says on my profile. However, I'm sure many horny guys "relax" their preferences with the mere whiff of getting action so I can't see why this surprises or annoys you. ***Also, I quite often see "not looking for single men" on profiles, only to be approached by said profile for a meet - how's this different? *** That's just a message filter to stop millions of desperate men messaging them. The site puts the text on automatically when people use the mail filter. Easier to look for decent men than to drown in shite messages. Wow - missed the point completely. I know exactly why they do this, I'm saying how is this different to someone saying they don't meet smokers but then deciding they do when the person appeals to them. Just the same as saying don't meet single men until one crops up they like. Exactly the same. Not the same at all. I've tried to explain my rationale, obviously I can't debate with a response like this. No problem, will have to agree to disagree in that case. 1 is to stop your message inbox being filled with low effort dick pics from blank profiles. It’s not because you don’t want to meet single guys, it’s because you want to pick the single guys you speak to by closing off your mailbox Fairly simple to understand the difference I’d think Missing the point completely again, read the thread mate - I know why they do this and I'm not arguing that, I'm saying its not different in terms of the fact they choose someone not aligned with their preferences. In this case, they choose not to ask for interest from smokers ... unless one catches their eye. Different volumes, agreed, but same principle. Scroll up, the OP was moaning that someone changes their preference against what their profile says - that's what I'm debating." Except putting no smokers is to filter out no smokers, it’s not used to close off your mailbox If your not getting it fine, it’s fairly common on here to put no single guys, then only Mail the single guys you want so your inbox isn’t bombarded I think your gonna be the only one not seeing the difference so guess we can leave it there | |||
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"The smell of smoke really puts me off so I stick to what it says on my profile. However, I'm sure many horny guys "relax" their preferences with the mere whiff of getting action so I can't see why this surprises or annoys you. ***Also, I quite often see "not looking for single men" on profiles, only to be approached by said profile for a meet - how's this different? *** That's just a message filter to stop millions of desperate men messaging them. The site puts the text on automatically when people use the mail filter. Easier to look for decent men than to drown in shite messages. Wow - missed the point completely. I know exactly why they do this, I'm saying how is this different to someone saying they don't meet smokers but then deciding they do when the person appeals to them. Just the same as saying don't meet single men until one crops up they like. Exactly the same. Not the same at all. I've tried to explain my rationale, obviously I can't debate with a response like this. No problem, will have to agree to disagree in that case. 1 is to stop your message inbox being filled with low effort dick pics from blank profiles. It’s not because you don’t want to meet single guys, it’s because you want to pick the single guys you speak to by closing off your mailbox Fairly simple to understand the difference I’d think Missing the point completely again, read the thread mate - I know why they do this and I'm not arguing that, I'm saying its not different in terms of the fact they choose someone not aligned with their preferences. In this case, they choose not to ask for interest from smokers ... unless one catches their eye. Different volumes, agreed, but same principle. Scroll up, the OP was moaning that someone changes their preference against what their profile says - that's what I'm debating. Except putting no smokers is to filter out no smokers, it’s not used to close off your mailbox If your not getting it fine, it’s fairly common on here to put no single guys, then only Mail the single guys you want so your inbox isn’t bombarded I think your gonna be the only one not seeing the difference so guess we can leave it there " You seem to fixated with mailboxes, its about preferences and not always aligned with these. Agreed, let's leave it at that - it's going nowhere, I think we're both wasting our time debating. | |||
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"The smell of smoke really puts me off so I stick to what it says on my profile. However, I'm sure many horny guys "relax" their preferences with the mere whiff of getting action so I can't see why this surprises or annoys you. ***Also, I quite often see "not looking for single men" on profiles, only to be approached by said profile for a meet - how's this different? *** That's just a message filter to stop millions of desperate men messaging them. The site puts the text on automatically when people use the mail filter. Easier to look for decent men than to drown in shite messages. Wow - missed the point completely. I know exactly why they do this, I'm saying how is this different to someone saying they don't meet smokers but then deciding they do when the person appeals to them. Just the same as saying don't meet single men until one crops up they like. Exactly the same. Not the same at all. I've tried to explain my rationale, obviously I can't debate with a response like this. No problem, will have to agree to disagree in that case. 1 is to stop your message inbox being filled with low effort dick pics from blank profiles. It’s not because you don’t want to meet single guys, it’s because you want to pick the single guys you speak to by closing off your mailbox Fairly simple to understand the difference I’d think " What a fantastic idea. The amount of messages we have to sift through with no profile pictures, no decent veris, one liners blah blah blah. By the way, I smoke and have also had messages from nobs that say they won’t meet smokers on their profile. If they were careful enough to put that on their profile, why not check on the profiles they read so that they rule out the smokers. Sometimes we just reply saying ‘ Boots smokes’ and then block them. We’ve even had Bi men message us and when we say our preference is straight men they change the profile to straight! | |||
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