FabSwingers.com forum: Stunning but you didn’t fancy

By *yron69 OP Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Ever met a person so attractive but lacking in a certain aspect of personality you didn’t take to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, loads of people, most days, self-indulgence or ignorance in a public/social being the main culprits

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Absolutely, attraction for me is mostly based off of personality and how we gel as people.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Yeah lots of attractive people ride those coat tails and never develop any real opinion or thoughts because they don’t need to when your that hot

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Yes, just recently in fact! Lovely guy and very hot. Unfortunately we weren’t on the same wavelength sadly, so friendship came to an end.

But a handsome man all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, loads of people, most days, self-indulgence or ignorance in a public/social being the main culprits"

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, looks are not everything, need to have a brain to engage in conversation. A lack of thought indicates you can’t make a conscious decision to me, so why bother trying?

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

There's loads of them on here! Stunning to look at, 50 photo's showing off their "stunningness" (if there is such a word) but after being on fab for 5 years no verifications! They are called attention seakers and their profile names should be "look at me please". Instant turn off for me

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Lack of attraction isn't necessarily down to a personality flaw. Sometimes it's just not there.

I remember a girl from my teenage years called Amanda. She was astonishingly beautiful and a really lovely person. We got on well. I just never had any desire for her in that way. That's not to say I wouldn't have taken an opportunity to lick whipped cream off her naked body. It's just I didn't fancy her and as far as I know she didn't fancy me. I was quite happy with that. It's just how it was and it's not because of anything negative about her. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once or twice the voice has ruined it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally find more quirky looks attractive. I don't lust after beautiful people often. It's usually something else about them that gets me going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dani Behr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally yes, looks arnt everything.

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I’ll take an accent, glasses and stubble any day over drop dead looks!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes. If there's no chemistry no point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally find more quirky looks attractive. I don't lust after beautiful people often. It's usually something else about them that gets me going. "

Me too, im never attracted to what my mates would class as perfect, they always rib me and say my attraction radar is back to front.

Ive never been into the 'popular girl' everyone was lusting after the 'sarah harding' from girls aloud... i fancied the ginger one.

I was never into supermodels i prefered the 'triumph knickers' model from the grattons catalogue

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes lots… I rarely fancy anyone and it’s the quirks and oddities I find most attractive. Conventionally beautiful doesn’t do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm guessing most people have. But have you ever shagged any of them just because they were so damn hot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally find more quirky looks attractive. I don't lust after beautiful people often. It's usually something else about them that gets me going.

Me too, im never attracted to what my mates would class as perfect, they always rib me and say my attraction radar is back to front.

Ive never been into the 'popular girl' everyone was lusting after the 'sarah harding' from girls aloud... i fancied the ginger one.

I was never into supermodels i prefered the 'triumph knickers' model from the grattons catalogue

To be fair the ginger one is very lovely!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes I met someone once who's first words to me before saying hello were I bet you are very nervous about meeting me.

That was a red flag I unfortunately ignored at the time but I won't make that mistake again.

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By *yron69 OP Man
over a year ago

Fareham

"Yes, I'm guessing most people have. But have you ever shagged any of them just because they were so damn hot?"

Not really. If someone gets my back up then I don’t progress anything. Maybe less so when I was young.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

I met a woman many years ago on holiday. She was totally stunning. I was chatting to her in a bar and she lit up a cigarette, now I don’t smoke but I thought “ ok, I can get past that one”

But then as she continued to talk to me she held the cigarette away from her face and kind of up over her shoulder, totally unaware that she was burning the hair of a woman behind her.

I pointed out what was happening and rather than apologise to the woman she just moved the cigarette and kept on talking !

I made my excuses and made a very hasty exit… totally drop dead gorgeous but totally self obsessed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads usually personality clash

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes, many times. They seemed to think their looks were enough.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I had a boyfriend who was very attractive and we got on well.

The chemistry wasn't there for me though.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I find very few people attractive, as there needs to he a connection.

It doesn’t mean I can’t acknowledge a good looking guy or girl, but they do nothing for me.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

No, I only associate with fellow munters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I met someone once who's first words to me before saying hello were I bet you are very nervous about meeting me.

That was a red flag I unfortunately ignored at the time but I won't make that mistake again. "

Wow.

I've told someone I'm nervous but if they expected me to be, like I wasn't worthy.... my god!!

PNG x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I won’t say which accent because I’ll end up getting loads of abuse but a certain accent can instantly kill all attraction for me.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's loads of them on here! Stunning to look at, 50 photo's showing off their "stunningness" (if there is such a word) but after being on fab for 5 years no verifications! They are called attention seakers and their profile names should be "look at me please". Instant turn off for me

They don't want to ever meet , they're only here to take up time and waste yours.

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

This seems to happen to us quite a bit especially when meeting people at a club, glad it’s not just us.

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

"Yes. I won’t say which accent because I’ll end up getting loads of abuse but a certain accent can instantly kill all attraction for me. "

Oh I feel I need to know now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally find more quirky looks attractive. I don't lust after beautiful people often. It's usually something else about them that gets me going.

Me too, im never attracted to what my mates would class as perfect, they always rib me and say my attraction radar is back to front.

Ive never been into the 'popular girl' everyone was lusting after the 'sarah harding' from girls aloud... i fancied the ginger one.

I was never into supermodels i prefered the 'triumph knickers' model from the grattons catalogue

But I thought you fancied me and I'm perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I won’t say which accent because I’ll end up getting loads of abuse but a certain accent can instantly kill all attraction for me.

Oh I feel I need to know now lol

xx"

The only hint I’ll give is it’s further South than us but not as far as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I won’t say which accent because I’ll end up getting loads of abuse but a certain accent can instantly kill all attraction for me.

Oh I feel I need to know now lol

The only hint I’ll give is it’s further South than us but not as far as you

Shit, it’s me innit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I won’t say which accent because I’ll end up getting loads of abuse but a certain accent can instantly kill all attraction for me.

Oh I feel I need to know now lol

The only hint I’ll give is it’s further South than us but not as far as you

Shit, it’s me innit? "

It’s not but I’ve had bad experiences with people from “Illinois”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met this stunning girl through another friend at a celebrity bash, on TV had seen her and fancied the knickers off her, in person she had the sex appeal of lumpy custard, so enjoyed a chat but declined the invite of a shared cab back to the hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I won’t say which accent because I’ll end up getting loads of abuse but a certain accent can instantly kill all attraction for me.

Oh I feel I need to know now lol

The only hint I’ll give is it’s further South than us but not as far as you

Shit, it’s me innit?

It’s not but I’ve had bad experiences with people from “Illinois”

How about Guatemala?

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Lots of times. I used to work for an ad agency, loads of very attractive women but some I just didn’t click with.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Ever met a person so attractive but lacking in a certain aspect of personality you didn’t take to?"

Yes.

Once met a person at the club who's accent made it impossible to understand half of what was said. We just backed off rather than get into a misunderstanding situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fortunately not, but that’s because luckily I only attract the best.

Or nobody, it might be nobody actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I won’t say which accent because I’ll end up getting loads of abuse but a certain accent can instantly kill all attraction for me.

Oh I feel I need to know now lol

The only hint I’ll give is it’s further South than us but not as far as you

Shit, it’s me innit?

It’s not but I’ve had bad experiences with people from “Illinois”

How about Guatemala?"

Provide the tostadas and we’ve got no beef with the Guatemalans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gorgeous man who didn't have the humour and a little too uptight. I like people who laugh easily, don't take themselves so seriously and are easy going

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

stunnings probably not the word but recently, someone I really liked. I just didn’t get him and vice versa I think. Shame. Never really experienced it before, even if they’re not my type I usually get them. Just too hard to work out and it became like hard work

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"Yes I met someone once who's first words to me before saying hello were I bet you are very nervous about meeting me.

That was a red flag I unfortunately ignored at the time but I won't make that mistake again. "

Wow, over inflated sense of self or what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I met someone once who's first words to me before saying hello were I bet you are very nervous about meeting me.

That was a red flag I unfortunately ignored at the time but I won't make that mistake again. "

I say that to everyone.

Sorry again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally find more quirky looks attractive. I don't lust after beautiful people often. It's usually something else about them that gets me going.

Me too, im never attracted to what my mates would class as perfect, they always rib me and say my attraction radar is back to front.

Ive never been into the 'popular girl' everyone was lusting after the 'sarah harding' from girls aloud... i fancied the ginger one.

I was never into supermodels i prefered the 'triumph knickers' model from the grattons catalogue

Hope for me yet then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Not a great shame to me though because I didn’t stand a chance anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever met a person so attractive but lacking in a certain aspect of personality you didn’t take to?"

Yes you could look like a super model but if I don't like your personality your ugly to me.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Yes, just recently in fact! Lovely guy and very hot. Unfortunately we weren’t on the same wavelength sadly, so friendship came to an end.

But a handsome man all the same "

What !!! Another cut off at the knees? Your brutal Custard

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

If they don't have a personality it's a no go for me. Jo

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By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Porthcawl

"Ever met a person so attractive but lacking in a certain aspect of personality you didn’t take to?"
every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, quite a few over the years. Works the other way too, I have dated where the attraction was purely personality driven.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

They don't want to ever meet , they're only here to take up time and waste yours."

And try and grab everyone's attention normally with their status being "please fab my pics". Quite sad really

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

I used to work with a girl who looked stunning but nobody fancied her. Tall, dead straight platinum blonde hair, athletic, big tits, really smart … but Jesus she was dull … 2 years, never saw her smile once or sound interested in anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, plenty of attractive people in terms of personality aren’t conventionally beautiful, or vice versa. Or one person may have a very one dimensional view of what makes a person hot / attractive, but without chemistry or being fun / personable it’s just not attractive. And people can be very interesting without attraction etc too of course.

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By *uperjackMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Without wanting to be the one that says something so controversial it could ACTUALLY start WWIII,

Priti Patel.......? I mean she looks hot, that little glint in her gorgeous eyes, but......

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Yes, he was one of the most beautiful men I've ever seen, but my word was he arrogant

It turned into a bit of a game for me because he couldn't believe anyone would turn him down, so I ended up doing it repeatedly because his disbelief was hilarious, even though I kept telling him it was because of his arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, he was one of the most beautiful men I've ever seen, but my word was he arrogant

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Yeah there are plenty I think of as visually attractive. But there will be something that will put me off, they don't my cogs whirl or maybe we just rub each other the wrong way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I’ve met plenty of really hot guys and they have been absolute dicks. I’ve also met some that weren’t

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

If they’re stunning I’ve found 9/10 they’re extremely hard work and very high maintenance

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Definitely. The most beautiful woman in the world could approach me but if she smoked, treated people like garbage or had any number of other personality qualities, I'd be turned off.

LvM

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"If they’re stunning I’ve found 9/10 they’re extremely hard work and very high maintenance "

What's my excuse for being hard work then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads, aesthetically they are gorgeous, but once I find they have a mean streak, or we have nothing in common, it totally puts me off. I know someone who is gorgeous, but they have said some really derogatory things about people and use the “I’m just honest” card to excuse themselves for being spiteful. Being cruel isn’t attractive x

Viv xx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes OP, many times.

I know some utterly gorgeous men. Truly beautiful and absolutely sexy. And yet I just don't feel the thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, met some really handsome guys but somehow our personalities didn’t match, or just found them not appealing apart from visually x

And others that were maybe not as hot, but somehow we had that dynamite chemistry x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"If they’re stunning I’ve found 9/10 they’re extremely hard work and very high maintenance

What's my excuse for being hard work then?

You’re the 1/10 that’s OK in my book

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Thinking shoot it though some of the nastiest rudes most horrible women I’ve met have been not very attractive single mums

You can’t judge a book by its cover, but you can definitely read the blurb and get a rough idea

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

cumallover

Quite a few times.

With one girl in particular it wasn't even a lack of personality. She had everything going for her. Stunning looks, great body and an amazing, fun-loving personality. I don't know why, there was just no sexual chemistry between us. We kissed and that was great but when we moved to the bedroom neither of us felt it. We laughed about it and are still just friends today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gorgeous man who didn't have the humour and a little too uptight. I like people who laugh easily, don't take themselves so seriously and are easy going"

Me too.

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By *utler4UMan
over a year ago

have a little guess!

Maybe we should define beauty! X

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"If they’re stunning I’ve found 9/10 they’re extremely hard work and very high maintenance

What's my excuse for being hard work then?

You’re the 1/10 that’s OK in my book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time, don't care how good looking someone is.. if they have the personality of a sideboard I just can't let them put their penis in me.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Attraction is about so much more than good looks for me.I don't care how handsome/pretty you are if you're lacking in empathy for example.

Mike

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Loads of times, I define it as looking at Michaelangelo's David - perfect specimen, beautiful to look at but I don't wanna crawl into bed with it.

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By *Booboo-Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Agree with the majority. Looks are great, but if the personality isn't there I've lost interest.

Someone can appear to be 10x more attractive by their personality with a bit cheekyness and being sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a surprising number of good looking guys on here who are dull as fuck.

Well, maybe not that surprising.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Yes I met someone once who's first words to me before saying hello were I bet you are very nervous about meeting me.

That was a red flag I unfortunately ignored at the time but I won't make that mistake again.

Wow, over inflated sense of self or what

I was friend zoned immediately for not giving the expected response. The mistake was in thinking the word friend actually meant something to her but I live and learn.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Yep lol

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By *uperjackMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"There are a surprising number of good looking guys on here who are dull as fuck.

Well, maybe not that surprising. "

Maybe that dullness just needs a little rub to ensure they glisten!

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

I've met some really hot guys over the years.. But they were so boring.. No chat, no banter.. Thinking their looks will just get them through. There's needs to be something about them for me to be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't think so. But I rarely fancy anyone anyway.

I can appreciate a good looking person, but wouldn't mean I'd fancy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a lot of beautiful people who are extremely dull. I've found this with women in particular. Dunno if it's down to being treated a different way your entire life so you never really have to develop that side of yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely. Either had arrogant personalities or the personality of a dead fish. Can't be doing with either.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Ever met a person so attractive but lacking in a certain aspect of personality you didn’t take to?"

Yes

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