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One for the girls/ T girls .., am I wrong to think it’s ironic ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seeing men complain on here, about girls selling videos on the likes of Kik and Snapchat , or asking for something for them ....

And actually think it’s ironic because the biggest scam going is men (specifically the fantasist / time waster variety) assuming that all women would automatically want to meet them, and it’s as simple as them showing an interest, and attempting make contact to make vague promises of meets (whether they would be gratefully received or not) which will never materialise, beg for the lady’s time and attention, ask what they’re ‘into’ ask for pictures and videos, all so they can just have a nice wank and then roll over and fall asleep , instead of just watching Porn hub ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol that’s spot on

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not really. Why pay if someone’s going to give it to them for free?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Don't see the correlation.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

#notallmen

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Is someone not buying your videos?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s not about them paying or not paying. It’s about seeing men actively complain about it on status updates. If someone is selling something you either want to buy it or you don’t... like you either walk into a shop or if you aren’t interested just walk past it. . I may be wrong , may be VERY wrong but I don’t believe people are going out of their way to message men privately to ask them to buy content

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

#notallmen is the new #alllivesmatter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you don’t see the correlation you’re probably not one of the said time wasters

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It’s not about them paying or not paying. It’s about seeing men actively complain about it on status updates. If someone is selling something you either want to buy it or you don’t... like you either walk into a shop or if you aren’t interested just walk past it. . I may be wrong , may be VERY wrong but I don’t believe people are going out of their way to message men privately to ask them to buy content "

It shouldn’t even be relevant on here really.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"It’s not about them paying or not paying. It’s about seeing men actively complain about it on status updates. If someone is selling something you either want to buy it or you don’t... like you either walk into a shop or if you aren’t interested just walk past it. . I may be wrong , may be VERY wrong but I don’t believe people are going out of their way to message men privately to ask them to buy content "

If they see it, report it, it doesn't belong on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good sweeping generalisation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 10/03/22 21:50:21]

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"It’s not about them paying or not paying. It’s about seeing men actively complain about it on status updates. If someone is selling something you either want to buy it or you don’t... like you either walk into a shop or if you aren’t interested just walk past it. . I may be wrong , may be VERY wrong but I don’t believe people are going out of their way to message men privately to ask them to buy content "

They do... I've seen lots complain about being messaged just to be given a link to that other pay to view site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But women do the same. They ask men for videos.

Some put up posts asking men to send them wank videos etc, promises that the best one will get a meet etc, but there’s no assumption that the men will want the women, asking for the videos, to send them anything of a financial incentive, just that they will both get off on it.

There is no judgement either way.

People have differing views on sharing videos, some want money, some don’t, but I do think that it’s unfair to generalise that men complain. Not all do, a small number may do, but if the person being asked for videos wants money, this should be very clear from the onset. Saves confusion and stress/annoyance then…but of course, that goes against the sites rules, so I guess the assumption is that anything of a sexual nature is free, hence expecting things for free xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I didn’t say ‘some men?’ Are you that fragile ? "

Extremely fragile.

Osteogenesis imperfecta.

Thanks for asking.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Also *some* men are happy to pay for things, like used underwear and even sex... Who would've thought it?

But this isn't the place for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I had said ‘people’ would someone have commented saying ‘not all people ?’

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By *luttTV/TS
over a year ago

Duns


"may be VERY wrong but I don’t believe people are going out of their way to message men privately to ask them to buy content "

Going to have to be honest here and say that’s VERY common.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"#notallmen is the new #alllivesmatter"

So you’re saying it is all men then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well thanks for correcting me . As soon as I wrote that actually I thought ‘umm maybe it is ‘

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No not at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh gosh I’m sorry to hear that I hope you’ve got bupa

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

South West,

I must admit the only recognised gender I've had to ask me for anything for monety is the T type. I was flattered but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Did you get an unsolicited message asking for it ?

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

South West,


"Did you get an unsolicited message asking for it ? "

Yes. on a few occasions. Didn't bother me though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pretty bold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you get an unsolicited message asking for it ? "

Your original post made it seem like you’d had conversations with them, as you mention them expressing an interest etc, so I apologise that I hadn’t realised they send unsolicited messages to you asking for them.

Again, I don’t think it’s ok to generalise, it’s not all men, but I do think the ones who did this to you were out of order.

Just report and block them, as selling content isn’t permitted on here anyway, and they would know that x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be honest it wasn’t specifically about me ... I see numerous statuses from *some* men . Complaining about ‘another girl who wants money for videos etc’ ... which I can only assume is someone who they have found on here who is posting that on their Kik or Snapchat.

However I state on my profile that I am only interested in looking for people I may meet , not looking for ‘chat’ I e people who live miles away and clearly want naughty chat / cam / vids, and I also say only message to introduce yourself and send a a pic . However I get countless amounts of men who live miles away , who go out of their way to make contact with me initially on and then off this site - who I am clearly not going to be able to meet, and it’s only so that they can talk to an actual person to have something to wank over instead of just watching porn , which is basically the opposite of what I’m here for . I’m not here to give my time and energy to make a stranger cum while he’s on his own in bed . And I would hedge my bets that the men who are going out of their way to write whiney statuses complaining about it are actually of the time waster variety anyway and just on here instead of porn hub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest it wasn’t specifically about me ... I see numerous statuses from *some* men . Complaining about ‘another girl who wants money for videos etc’ ... which I can only assume is someone who they have found on here who is posting that on their Kik or Snapchat.

However I state on my profile that I am only interested in looking for people I may meet , not looking for ‘chat’ I e people who live miles away and clearly want naughty chat / cam / vids, and I also say only message to introduce yourself and send a a pic . However I get countless amounts of men who live miles away , who go out of their way to make contact with me initially on and then off this site - who I am clearly not going to be able to meet, and it’s only so that they can talk to an actual person to have something to wank over instead of just watching porn , which is basically the opposite of what I’m here for . I’m not here to give my time and energy to make a stranger cum while he’s on his own in bed . And I would hedge my bets that the men who are going out of their way to write whiney statuses complaining about it are actually of the time waster variety anyway and just on here instead of porn hub"

Tbh, if they just want wank material they should use PH, as on here they get one minute videos anyway. Just block them if they contact you on your other sites, as you make it clear what you want. If you wanted sex chat you’d say you wanted to chat. You say you want to meet, so they’re wasting your, and their, time.

The rules are very clear, this site isn’t to be used as a means of making money x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I had said ‘people’ would someone have commented saying ‘not all people ?’ "

'People' isn't so divisive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People shouldn't be advertising here for sales, and so a fair complaint.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone can read that and think I’m seriously saying ‘every single man on this site has done this’ ?

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"Someone can read that and think I’m seriously saying ‘every single man on this site has done this’ ?"

It's not the easiest of things to read at all . . . .

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester


"I love a good sweeping generalisation."

this

And if you see someone charging then report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine the reaction of the thread title read .........

One for the Men/Ladies .., am I wrong to think it’s ironic ...

Then went on to mention the way T girls behave in their status.

Bigotry comes in many forms.

Say it, Own it.

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over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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