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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One for the single ladies if a couple start chatting and you get to the stage of swapping face pics, and you get sent a pic of the woman. So you ask to see the male half too and eventually get sent one. Does that convince you that they are a couple?

Not me I'd like a pic of them together? Am I being too safety conscious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Together, holding a spoon in each hand (or any other non standard stock photo)

If they are too shy to take a fresh pic, they aren’t being serious about getting nekkid with ya

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Why does it make it unsafe if they don't have pics together?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Why does it make it unsafe if they don't have pics together?"

Presumably to make it appear less likely to be a liar

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why does it make it unsafe if they don't have pics together?

Presumably to make it appear less likely to be a liar"

But that doesn't make it unsafe.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"One for the single ladies if a couple start chatting and you get to the stage of swapping face pics, and you get sent a pic of the woman. So you ask to see the male half too and eventually get sent one. Does that convince you that they are a couple?

Not me I'd like a pic of them together? Am I being too safety conscious?"

Main thing is your comfortable. Intuition is a good thing

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Why does it make it unsafe if they don't have pics together?

Presumably to make it appear less likely to be a liar

But that doesn't make it unsafe. "

True. I dunno, I've only ever met one couple before and they turned out to be quite nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think there’s such a thing as being “too safety conscious”. Those are the boundaries you set for yourself and how you view your personal safety. Couples that want to meet you will either be happy to oblige, or happy to move on if they don’t want to.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Definitely ask for a specific selfie of them both together, or even a video call if you're comfortable with that kind of thing.

You can never be too careful!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've seen lots of couples profiles where the only pics of them together are some kinda collage.

I'd say this makes them dodgy rather than safe

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I do prefer to see them together x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask for one of them together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does it make it unsafe if they don't have pics together?"

The separate pics don't make it unsafe. I was meaning for moving forward to consider meeting i am being conscious for my safety

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By *a_fun_30_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We always expect and send a pic together when we are considering a meet with a couple. Safety certainly comes into it for us. To us there’s more of a risk if you don’t feel sure it’s a genuine couple you’re chatting to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks folks I appreciate the advice

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Do what makes you feel comfortable…

We wouldn’t think twice if a couple sent individual pics but it’s about your own comfort and ensuring the red flags don’t get waved.

Most of our pics together are more Facebook type than FAB but we have no problem sending them if required.

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I asked very nicely for a pic of them together and got rubbered so that says it all. Block!!!!!! Next!!!! Lol .the joys of fab

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We will always send a individual picture of us and a one of us together

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Plenty of photos of us together on our account and we would certainly open with one of us together as an introduction.

Honestly, it doesn't do much to attract any ladies on fab. 95% of our luck is meeting via social events or clubs.

I think it's just how it is in our area.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why does it make it unsafe if they don't have pics together?

The separate pics don't make it unsafe. I was meaning for moving forward to consider meeting i am being conscious for my safety "

I get that bit I still don't see the link. If you don't feel comfortable that's your prerogative. I have a couple's account on here but we don't have pictures of us together (well not of our faces anyway lol) but we are safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked very nicely for a pic of them together and got rubbered so that says it all. Block!!!!!! Next!!!! Lol .the joys of fab "

The next couple may well be the ones. Silver linings n all that jizz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make them stand together with the alphabet written in Latin across BOTH their chests (very specific on that) whilst holding an East African hornbill and eating nachos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always make them stand together with the alphabet written in Latin across BOTH their chests (very specific on that) whilst holding an East African hornbill and eating nachos."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does it make it unsafe if they don't have pics together?

The separate pics don't make it unsafe. I was meaning for moving forward to consider meeting i am being conscious for my safety

I get that bit I still don't see the link. If you don't feel comfortable that's your prerogative. I have a couple's account on here but we don't have pictures of us together (well not of our faces anyway lol) but we are safe. "

We are all different in what we need to convince us

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I always ask for a picture of them together, if they have already sent face pics it shouldn’t be an issue for them

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

I think every couple Iv ever spoke to or had a message from has always sent pics of them both together but I don’t think I’d find it less safe if they didn’t.

Aslong as when you meet it’s in a public place then it should be ok but go with your gut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always make them stand together with the alphabet written in Latin across BOTH their chests (very specific on that) whilst holding an East African hornbill and eating nachos."

What if you don’t like nachos? Will pickled onion monster munch do?

Viv xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think every couple Iv ever spoke to or had a message from has always sent pics of them both together but I don’t think I’d find it less safe if they didn’t.

Aslong as when you meet it’s in a public place then it should be ok but go with your gut. "

Yes I agree i always social meet first too. This particular couple were asking me for naughty pics ,I'd already sent a face pic for some reason my gut was telling me there was something not ringing true. I'm glad I went with my gut .

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't meet couples but yep, I would expect a picture of them both together before the conversation has even got to the second message.

I never chatted with anyone with a view to meeting without seeing and sending a face pic first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the single ladies if a couple start chatting and you get to the stage of swapping face pics, and you get sent a pic of the woman. So you ask to see the male half too and eventually get sent one. Does that convince you that they are a couple?

Not me I'd like a pic of them together? Am I being too safety conscious?"

I'd assume it was a man only and he stole the woman pic from the internet.

I want to see pics of them together.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One for the single ladies if a couple start chatting and you get to the stage of swapping face pics, and you get sent a pic of the woman. So you ask to see the male half too and eventually get sent one. Does that convince you that they are a couple?

Not me I'd like a pic of them together? Am I being too safety conscious?

I'd assume it was a man only and he stole the woman pic from the internet.

I want to see pics of them together. "

Its looking that way

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