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By *estSussexGuy76 OP   Man
over a year ago

copthorne

For someone who's never been to a party or club what's the best or maybe worse experience you have ever had when you have gone to either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still have ptsd so cant say

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Paying 3x as much as everyone else because of my gender and leaving early because you get treated like a wild animal if you don’t have a female with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overhearing the 'host' taking stupid amounts of money from the men and then inferring they were guaranteed sex from the women.

At parties and clubs.

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By *estSussexGuy76 OP   Man
over a year ago

copthorne

What sort of prices are you talking about?? Entrance fee to a good club

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By *estSussexGuy76 OP   Man
over a year ago

copthorne

Oh one thing I've learnt, a man is never ever guaranteed sex anywhere!!!!

Any fun experiences?

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By *aving_great_funMan
over a year ago

London


"Paying 3x as much as everyone else because of my gender and leaving early because you get treated like a wild animal if you don’t have a female with you "

...seeking equality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always enjoyed my club visits, love the socialising. I've experienced some memorable things in clubs and made some good friends.

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By *estSussexGuy76 OP   Man
over a year ago

copthorne


"I've always enjoyed my club visits, love the socialising. I've experienced some memorable things in clubs and made some good friends."

I suppose the experience is what you make of it. Have no expectations and just enjoy yourself and make friends

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Never had an issue at a party. They're always private and fun.

Never had an issue at a club either....so far.

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By *estSussexGuy76 OP   Man
over a year ago

copthorne


"Never had an issue at a party. They're always private and fun.

Never had an issue at a club either....so far."

From the look of your pictures, you certainly have a great time

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Meeting a female wen I was part of a couple who looked about 5 years older then her pics .who was only interested in my ex and was rude and v pushy .x

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Had many good experiences in clubs which I will always remember. Only 2 bad experiences. First was a poorly managed event at VA where guys barged in to the private area. Second was a fall out with my partner after a group session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being assaulted and then victim blamed

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Paying 3x as much as everyone else because of my gender and leaving early because you get treated like a wild animal if you don’t have a female with you "

Price wise, it's pretty much the same for the majority of clubs; it's a model that seems to work well for the owners and therefore unlikely to change.

As for being treated like a wild animal; I've been to a good few clubs in my time and have always felt welcome by all those attending.

I absolutely love clubs. It's so much easier for me to meet people in person as opposed to trying to get over my personality in writing (I'm dyslexic) and I always manage to have some fun.

As for the price that a single male pays, I tend to set a budget for how much a year I'll send on club entry fees; if clubs lowered their prices for single males, all it would mean is that I'd go more often and not that the clubs would make any more out of me. Given that there is always a steady flow of single males looking to attend clubs, I can't see any incentive for the club owners to change their pricing policy.

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By *estSussexGuy76 OP   Man
over a year ago

copthorne


"Being assaulted and then victim blamed "

Oh that's dreadful, I hope it all turned out ok

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By *estSussexGuy76 OP   Man
over a year ago

copthorne


"Paying 3x as much as everyone else because of my gender and leaving early because you get treated like a wild animal if you don’t have a female with you

Price wise, it's pretty much the same for the majority of clubs; it's a model that seems to work well for the owners and therefore unlikely to change.

As for being treated like a wild animal; I've been to a good few clubs in my time and have always felt welcome by all those attending.

I absolutely love clubs. It's so much easier for me to meet people in person as opposed to trying to get over my personality in writing (I'm dyslexic) and I always manage to have some fun.

As for the price that a single male pays, I tend to set a budget for how much a year I'll send on club entry fees; if clubs lowered their prices for single males, all it would mean is that I'd go more often and not that the clubs would make any more out of me. Given that there is always a steady flow of single males looking to attend clubs, I can't see any incentive for the club owners to change their pricing policy."

Thanks mate, this is such a fantastic insight. None of my friends are interested and I don't have the confidence to go on my own ha ha

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By *estSussexGuy76 OP   Man
over a year ago

copthorne


"Meeting a female wen I was part of a couple who looked about 5 years older then her pics .who was only interested in my ex and was rude and v pushy .x"

Oh that doesn't sound much fun for you mate .... Did you just close your eyes and think happy thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paying 3x as much as everyone else because of my gender and leaving early because you get treated like a wild animal if you don’t have a female with you "

3x ??? ..Wow ..just because you're a single male ? What about equal rights ..they mustn't apply there anyway ..3x ??

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Come to Glasgow. We often have a pre-drinks social before going to our local club together. It allows newbies and singles to meet with others before going to the club. Single guys are limited in number but you always need single guys at a club.

I have been known to play with a single guy at a club.

Party experiences well that’s a whole different issue. Not been to many and only played at a couple of them.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I still have ptsd so cant say "

I’ll never forget your experience of a club and your reaction for the rest of my days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being assaulted and then victim blamed

Oh that's dreadful, I hope it all turned out ok "

Thank you. No, it was a crappy situation that went on for a long time and I will never go to that club again. The man assaulted others - men and women.

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