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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondered, what makes a person sexy and what makes you drop your drawbridge so to speak and let them in?

I’m talking about the instant stuff, rather than that shit where people build it up over weeks and months of chatting and getting to know each other . What do you see or hear or smell or whatever that instantly gives your dog a bone or melts your McFlurry?

Thanks in advance for any comments and apologies if I suddenly start posting hot sexy pictures henceforth

Love -p-

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Humour-laced intellectual dialogue....always lowers my drawbridge (and my guard).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Presto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just have a aura off sexy

And yes I am being self centred here and meaning me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey Presto "

Alroight moi loverrrr. Have you taken any fellas up the passage house lately?

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Awww dun be shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attitude confidence and doing shit my way is what makes me one sexy mother fucker helps i oooooooooze desirability too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour, gets me every time J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes a lot more than sexy to lower my drawbridge. Sexy works for my fly though

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy forearms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Attitude confidence and doing shit my way is what makes me one sexy mother fucker helps i oooooooooze desirability too "

You has one seccssieee helmut!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more about timing for me than anything else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hairy forearms"

Tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attitude confidence and doing shit my way is what makes me one sexy mother fucker helps i oooooooooze desirability too

You has one seccssieee helmut! "
i know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Takes a lot more than sexy to lower my drawbridge. Sexy works for my fly though

Mr"

One day imma get you out to that pub by the premier inn!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

A smile with a twinkle in the eyes.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Humour-laced intellectual dialogue"

This for me, genuine intelligence is hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sense of humour and a great smile, if he smells gorgeous that may help

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Plus the Musketeer look that I am so fond of

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's more about timing for me than anything else "

I actually agree. I always find I simply click with someone (or I don’t) and it’s either full on 100% or it’s off. I just wonder what makes the click or if it’s just fab magic dust or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A smile with a twinkle in the eyes."

This ^^^ Im a simple man

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Some people just ooze it, it’s not staged or false it’s a natural aura that just shines out of them - you can’t help but notice them, even in a crowd of people there like a shining light x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it's the eyes that look into your soul

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people just ooze it, it’s not staged or false it’s a natural aura that just shines out of them - you can’t help but notice them, even in a crowd of people there like a shining light x"

Do you think different folks emit and see different coloured lights?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just ooze it, it’s not staged or false it’s a natural aura that just shines out of them - you can’t help but notice them, even in a crowd of people there like a shining light x"
what she said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me, it's the eyes that look into your soul "

The soul is behind the boobs, right?

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By *ood Girl KatWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Humour, smile, eyes and good conversation

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling


"Some people just ooze it, it’s not staged or false it’s a natural aura that just shines out of them - you can’t help but notice them, even in a crowd of people there like a shining light x

Do you think different folks emit and see different coloured lights? "

Quite possibly - sexy isn’t one dimensional different people find different things attractive, alluring, interesting xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's more about timing for me than anything else

I actually agree. I always find I simply click with someone (or I don’t) and it’s either full on 100% or it’s off. I just wonder what makes the click or if it’s just fab magic dust or something?"

Real life attraction is very different to fab attraction.

Photos and words can only so far...I find it difficult to really feel chemistry without some kind of physicality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's more about timing for me than anything else

I actually agree. I always find I simply click with someone (or I don’t) and it’s either full on 100% or it’s off. I just wonder what makes the click or if it’s just fab magic dust or something?

Real life attraction is very different to fab attraction.

Photos and words can only so far...I find it difficult to really feel chemistry without some kind of physicality "

Omg how dare you! FAB is totally real life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's more about timing for me than anything else

I actually agree. I always find I simply click with someone (or I don’t) and it’s either full on 100% or it’s off. I just wonder what makes the click or if it’s just fab magic dust or something?

Real life attraction is very different to fab attraction.

Photos and words can only so far...I find it difficult to really feel chemistry without some kind of physicality

Omg how dare you! FAB is totally real life! "

Totally. I'm always hanging about the house in my lacy pants

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's more about timing for me than anything else

I actually agree. I always find I simply click with someone (or I don’t) and it’s either full on 100% or it’s off. I just wonder what makes the click or if it’s just fab magic dust or something?

Real life attraction is very different to fab attraction.

Photos and words can only so far...I find it difficult to really feel chemistry without some kind of physicality

Omg how dare you! FAB is totally real life!

Totally. I'm always hanging about the house in my lacy pants "

Pics in my box or it never happened!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"That shit where people build it up."

I find a playful wit that hints at erudition and eloquence is incredibly attractive. Makes me want to find out more about the person (if we're talking about online). It's more than that though, it's about how they interact with others, whether I get that erm "vibe" from them. I can objectively think someone is classically good looking/not so but they'll do absolutely zilch for my Mcflurry.

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport

For me it's a lot about the way she moves that makes the desire start. Then, if we chat, intelligence, confidence and eye contact have me melting

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Humour-laced intellectual dialogue....always lowers my drawbridge (and my guard). "

Does it make you go ballista, Arquebus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""That shit where people build it up."

I find a playful wit that hints at erudition and eloquence is incredibly attractive. Makes me want to find out more about the person (if we're talking about online). It's more than that though, it's about how they interact with others, whether I get that erm "vibe" from them. I can objectively think someone is classically good looking/not so but they'll do absolutely zilch for my Mcflurry. "

Awww Meli

You have such a sweet mini McFlurry too! But what I was really trying to find out was the stuff that’s not written or spoken, more the animalistic and instinctive stuff, the bare truth in a way, before a person either cocks it up with their words or scores a home run with their tongue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me it's a lot about the way she moves that makes the desire start. Then, if we chat, intelligence, confidence and eye contact have me melting"

I was thinking that, twiddling her hair while gazing at you past the limit of conform and licking her lips while looking at yours

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"For me it's a lot about the way she moves that makes the desire start. Then, if we chat, intelligence, confidence and eye contact have me melting"

What if she moves at a hundred miles an hour on wheels?!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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""That shit where people build it up."

I find a playful wit that hints at erudition and eloquence is incredibly attractive. Makes me want to find out more about the person (if we're talking about online). It's more than that though, it's about how they interact with others, whether I get that erm "vibe" from them. I can objectively think someone is classically good looking/not so but they'll do absolutely zilch for my Mcflurry.

Awww Meli

You have such a sweet mini McFlurry too! But what I was really trying to find out was the stuff that’s not written or spoken, more the animalistic and instinctive stuff, the bare truth in a way, before a person either cocks it up with their words or scores a home run with their tongue "

Ohhhh I seeeeee. You need to start making your OP clearer. There's not really an instinctive thing bar an overall feel I get for someone. That's such a dull answer though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""That shit where people build it up."

I find a playful wit that hints at erudition and eloquence is incredibly attractive. Makes me want to find out more about the person (if we're talking about online). It's more than that though, it's about how they interact with others, whether I get that erm "vibe" from them. I can objectively think someone is classically good looking/not so but they'll do absolutely zilch for my Mcflurry.

Awww Meli

You have such a sweet mini McFlurry too! But what I was really trying to find out was the stuff that’s not written or spoken, more the animalistic and instinctive stuff, the bare truth in a way, before a person either cocks it up with their words or scores a home run with their tongue

Ohhhh I seeeeee. You need to start making your OP clearer. There's not really an instinctive thing bar an overall feel I get for someone. That's such a dull answer though. "

Me? Clear? Really?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Humour-laced intellectual dialogue....always lowers my drawbridge (and my guard). "

And mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone with a random sense of humour. It shows they're comfortable with who they are and it brings out the silliness in me. I can really let my guard down and just laugh at times where I can be too serious or too uptight or in a mood

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