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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been on here for a few months now and struggling to find someone who will meet, or always let me down.

Any tips on a profile to change??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many pics of your cock !

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Your photos have a common theme and you bio doesn’t really stand out. Needs more effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldn’t want face pics on public, what do you reckon about switching up the photos??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I wouldn’t want face pics on public, what do you reckon about switching up the photos?? "

I presume you're not an anatomical miracle and have more than a face and a penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bloke but I have invaluable advice- NEVER say “just” when describing your fabulous self fellla

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Yes less of the cock & more of the imagination, you don't have to be naked to be appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock overload

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Another young dude that thought this site was shag 'n' go

OP work it out for yourself. And if that's not possible then maybe read a self-help book on 'how to communicate with other people'

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I wouldn’t want face pics on public, what do you reckon about switching up the photos?? "

Use the Forum search for answers to these zillion times asked questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something seductive and suggestive perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another young dude that thought this site was shag 'n' go

OP work it out for yourself. And if that's not possible then maybe read a self-help book on 'how to communicate with other people' "

Looool what do you honestly think I just message people asking to shag straight away??? We are all on here for the same reason let’s be honest.

Of course I message to get to know the person straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not all in here for the same reason though....

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Another young dude that thought this site was shag 'n' go

OP work it out for yourself. And if that's not possible then maybe read a self-help book on 'how to communicate with other people'

Looool what do you honestly think I just message people asking to shag straight away??? We are all on here for the same reason let’s be honest.

Of course I message to get to know the person straight away "

If we are being honest, we aren't all on here for the same reason, sorry to burst that bubble.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Many people are offended by dickpics they prefer it to be a surprise so that will put many off your profile

Personally I don't mind one or two but they need to be scattered amongst other photos, they don't have to be identifying they can be clothed with your face cropped out etc

Then change your bio up, it's your place to sell yourself, with 100+ guys to every woman or couple you really need to stand out, FABs not easy for single guys, so you need to be on your A game to make someone choose you over the other 100 or so people messaging them & at the moment it's all a bit bland & doesn't really say much about you

Try a club or a local social, you've got Our Place 4 Fun not to far away at Alexandra Palace & there's a West London social later this month I think being advertised in the London forum, it's much easier speaking to people face to face than it is trying to grab someone's attention on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t have gone any further than your username.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And profile pic.

(Sorry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe less cock pictures.. . I mean I'm not personally offended by them but I know alot don't like it. Fill your bio out a little more

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a little descriptive in your profile, ladies do read a profile and may want an insight into that person.

It can reveal a lot to them. Also face pics, seeing cock….they see that a million times a day and that’s just in their inbox.

Nothing wrong with a face pic.

But that’s just my advice and it may differ from others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And profile pic.

(Sorry)"

And age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need better pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And profile pic.

(Sorry)

And age.

"

That too

You appear to have a great physique though, so I’m sure you’ll do well with a few tweaks of your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is OP you were given the same advice 7 weeks ago in a rate my profile thread you created!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thing is OP you were given the same advice 7 weeks ago in a rate my profile thread you created! "

Oh this is new information

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"If we are being honest, we aren't all on here for the same reason, sorry to burst that bubble."

So true

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Looool what do you honestly think I just message people asking to shag straight away???"

Not at all. You appear to think that having a big cock is a magic door opening key.

Unless you're looking for men then you'll do fine

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