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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else just wish that if a user knows you in the real world, then they feel relaxed enough to say hello on here? Aren’t we all here for similar things? I may not be what they are looking for, but if we know one another, then surely it’s cool to chat?

I get that some people have kids etc, but if they know me then they’ll know I’m discreet.

Anyone met people on here that they already knew in real world settings? If so, how did things go?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

No for me

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No I don't. I'd rather they didn't. For the most part my fab life is separate from my home life and never the twain shall meet - I've seen and heard of too many times when it goes to shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not. I do know people who are on here, and have no desire to interact with them on any sexual level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab life and real life are two different worlds

To sum it up

Fab life club life swingeing life porn life

I am a “bad word”

Out side them in real life I am a nun ha ha

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I've had that happen before and it didn't go well at all.

So I'd rather they didn't mention it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember the saying, but something about shitting on your own doorstep or where you eat. One of the two.

I think that applies with merging fab and real life, in my opinion. Just doesn't really go well together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My god no i dont need aunt mary perving my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think I would like that no. I work in a big place and wouldnt appreciate being known and approached, or by parents or even worse teachers at kids school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some people on here that I know in real world. I'd rather they don't know in on here too.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No there is nothing I find more creepy than getting I know you messages.

But no I have zero interest in mixing my life outside of here with my fab life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t think of anything worse.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Absolutely not. Many people still think a woman on here is 'up for it'. I would rather not take the chance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, so I see it’s a definite NO from people. I was just curious, but in hindsight I think you all have very valid points. I wouldn’t shit myself if someone said hello, but maybe it’s not for the best if they did

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

A polite smile or nod of the head is fine but I would find it awkward if I was out with my family and someone I knew from here tried to approach us ..

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Nope. And just because I may know them certainly doesn't mean I like them or want them to acknowledge me, never mind try to suddenly become friends over a shared interest.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve had two people I know in the real world contact me on here. And the assumption was that I’d be up for it as I’m on here. It felt seedy and pushy. I’d rather be left alone. You do you and I’ll do me sort of thing.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Nope and nope - this is a separate thing from real everyday life thanks

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Does anyone else just wish that if a user knows you in the real world, then they feel relaxed enough to say hello on here? Aren’t we all here for similar things? I may not be what they are looking for, but if we know one another, then surely it’s cool to chat?

I get that some people have kids etc, but if they know me then they’ll know I’m discreet.

Anyone met people on here that they already knew in real world settings? If so, how did things go?"

Everyone has a different definition of discreet and they are proving that they genuinely are discreet by not saying hello.

Any attempt to do otherwise would prove that you aren't.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Does anyone else just wish that if a user knows you in the real world, then they feel relaxed enough to say hello on here? Aren’t we all here for similar things? I may not be what they are looking for, but if we know one another, then surely it’s cool to chat?

I get that some people have kids etc, but if they know me then they’ll know I’m discreet.

Anyone met people on here that they already knew in real world settings? If so, how did things go?

Everyone has a different definition of discreet and they are proving that they genuinely are discreet by not saying hello.

Any attempt to do otherwise would prove that you aren't. "

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Why should they chat to you on here rather than on FB or WhatsApp or across the office, why unnecessarily chat here

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

We don't actually know anybody from our real world on here, but those that we have met just socially or otherwise, we'd happily speak to if our paths crossed in a non fab environment.

We'd like to think that those we have met here are adult enough not to sweat it and have a conversation that is appropriate for the environment.

If an acquaintance from real would contact us, we'd probably laugh about it but not take things further.

What goes on in fab, stays in fab is our stance on things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had two people I know in the real world contact me on here. And the assumption was that I’d be up for it as I’m on here. It felt seedy and pushy. I’d rather be left alone. You do you and I’ll do me sort of thing."

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