FabSwingers.com forum: so many

By *asterR and slut maya OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

People here describe them self as

Kinky .but don't have bdsm in their

Interest . So what do you call as

Kinky

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

In their defence, BDSM is just one type of kink. Someone could be a latex fetishist for example but have no interest in BDSM.

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By *asterR and slut maya OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"In their defence, BDSM is just one type of kink. Someone could be a latex fetishist for example but have no interest in BDSM. "

This true and why I asking to see what other people think

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By *ick_RyderMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Most people think kinky is anything that is not missionary position, and that BDSM is a bit to extreme for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mentioning BDSM here is often a route to harassment. I can see why people don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people can see gangbangs and spit roasts as kinky to others that’s just a good time

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By *asterR and slut maya OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Mentioning BDSM here is often a route to harassment. I can see why people don't. "

Interesting

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By *asterR and slut maya OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Some people can see gangbangs and spit roasts as kinky to others that’s just a good time

Lol yep I'd agree with both

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Kinks come in many forms.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

CFNM, impact play, CP, feminisation, servitude, electrics, CBT... Proper kinky stuff

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Erotic is using a feather.

Kinky is using the whole chicken.

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By *asterR and slut maya OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Kinks come in many forms."

They do. so say what it means to

You.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erotic is using a feather.

Kinky is using the whole chicken. "

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

The label kinky is defined as involving or given to unusual sexual behaviour.

Many people are involved in the BDSM world so is it no longer kinky by that definition?

I could like watching Bill play with his willy while he does a headstand on the local heard of goats, is that kinky or just something we both enjoy?

If someone likes something they like it, doesn’t mean it’s kinky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't list my kinks publicly. It just means I will get people messaging me giving me hassle or trying to get into my knickers. Even ticking one of the interests will result in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's kinky to some might only be natural to others .

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By *asterR and slut maya OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Some interesting points of view .

But now we enter into a new realm.

Dont we all use all of the chicken

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Kinks come in many forms.

They do. so say what it means to

You."

People who enjoy different sexual things, like sniffing knickers, ice or wax play, spanking. Just stuff that is special to them but not enjoyed by others.

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By *asterR and slut maya OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Kinks come in many forms.

They do. so say what it means to

You.

People who enjoy different sexual things, like sniffing knickers, ice or wax play, spanking. Just stuff that is special to them but not enjoyed

by others."

I get all of that I just pose the question to see what the resulting thoughts were .appreciate all contributions

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

The problem with listing your kinks on a profile is that some hard of thinking types see it as a todo list rather than a general interest list.

Personally I came to nswinging to get away from the Twue BDSM high protocol stuff and to just enjoy the kinky sex

A lot of what we do comes under the bdsm label but that isn't the be all and end all of it.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Love a good kink discussion

Mine are

BDSM

Wax

Temperature

Sensual

Rope

With a few others added into the mix I want to try

I get why people don't list them, as the wannabees can get overwhelming, but if I can help someone understand and grow with knowledge of my interests then I'm happy to chat about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kink is whatever you make it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The problem with listing your kinks on a profile is that some hard of thinking types see it as a todo list rather than a general interest list.

Personally I came to nswinging to get away from the Twue BDSM high protocol stuff and to just enjoy the kinky sex

A lot of what we do comes under the bdsm label but that isn't the be all and end all of it."

I'm not a fan of Twue doms myself. Protocol doesn't work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The problem with listing your kinks on a profile is that some hard of thinking types see it as a todo list rather than a general interest list.

Personally I came to nswinging to get away from the Twue BDSM high protocol stuff and to just enjoy the kinky sex

A lot of what we do comes under the bdsm label but that isn't the be all and end all of it.

I'm not a fan of Twue doms myself. Protocol doesn't work for me. "

You not doing the caps things right it should be Twue Dom's they get upset if you forget the capital D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The problem with listing your kinks on a profile is that some hard of thinking types see it as a todo list rather than a general interest list.

Personally I came to nswinging to get away from the Twue BDSM high protocol stuff and to just enjoy the kinky sex

A lot of what we do comes under the bdsm label but that isn't the be all and end all of it.

I'm not a fan of Twue doms myself. Protocol doesn't work for me.

You not doing the caps things right it should be Twue Dom's they get upset if you forget the capital D"

I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The problem with listing your kinks on a profile is that some hard of thinking types see it as a todo list rather than a general interest list.

Personally I came to nswinging to get away from the Twue BDSM high protocol stuff and to just enjoy the kinky sex

A lot of what we do comes under the bdsm label but that isn't the be all and end all of it.

I'm not a fan of Twue doms myself. Protocol doesn't work for me.

You not doing the caps things right it should be Twue Dom's they get upset if you forget the capital D

I know.

"
Are you feeling upset, Drew?

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Kinky doesn't mean BDSM so why would you list it unless you were into it

Kinky means unusual sexual behaviours which could be different partners, multiple partners, bdsm, role play, pain play, Dom & sub, hotwifing, cuckold, etc the list goes on

So why the need to list bdsm if that's not your kink?

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

"Erotic is using a feather.

Kinky is using the whole chicken. "

Erotic is putting whipped cream on your partner

Kinky is putting cream on, then whipping it

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I am not kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinky is such a broad term and can describe anything from a fetish for something to sexual acts that are not considered the norm, saying that my take on it has always been what is kinky to one person may not be kinky to another

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I have some things I'd call a kink but not kinky.

For me the feel of nylon and kissing all the way up stockinged legs is a link others might say I'm kinky, perish the thought.

Everyone has their own likes and dislikes but Victorian and puritanical beliefs make some people feel ashamed of things they enjoy.

If you like it do it as it is your pleasure and no one else's.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Lots of foot fetishists.

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By *asterR and slut maya OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Erotic is using a feather.

Kinky is using the whole chicken.

Erotic is putting whipped cream on your partner

Kinky is putting cream on, then whipping it"

Well I wouldn't whip it off .id lick it off then do the whipping Lol.but then again the cream had been whipped in the first place .

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By *asterR and slut maya OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

May have mixed the creams up there lol.

But thanks to all the kinky folk out there

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"Lots of foot fetishists."

And your problem is caller.

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

I don't list any interests: men often view it as a shopping list and make no effort to find out what makes me tick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will say I’m kinky on the forum, but I don’t mention it on my profile. I discuss it if I choose it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have a woman watch as i piss on an electric fence

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By *asterR and slut maya OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"I like to have a woman watch as i piss on an electric fence

By that definition is you that kinky or is her for watching .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to have a woman watch as i piss on an electric fence

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"I like to have a woman watch as i piss on an electric fence

Will you be wearing Dunlops...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to have a woman watch as i piss on an electric fence

By that definition is you that kinky or is her for watching ."
i know by the end i have a kinky pinky winky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to have a woman watch as i piss on an electric fence

Will you be wearing Dunlops..."
im more a michelin man

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