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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so I’ve been single a year.

I can’t imagine living with anyone again! Washing boxers, snoring, footie on the telly, sod it off .

Who’s with me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not living with someone, but maybe the house next door with an adjoining door or something...

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

12 years sharing my home with dogs not men. I bloody love it and have no wish to change it.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Been single 18 years! And love it no going back x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"12 years sharing my home with dogs not men. I bloody love it and have no wish to change it. "

Same with my cats x

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Split from my ex wife 2 years ago after I caught her cheating and honestly can say I am far happier living by myself than I’ve ever been in a relationship

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Moi! Mega happy being single for 3 years now and couldn't be happier...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here here

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Ive been single for a long while ,a few relationships inbetween ,but loving life alone to be fair

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm a happy single.

Don't know if I could be arsed living with someone again or sharing my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just bought my first house alone, no desire to live with a guy again. Be happy to share other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’m single and I like it that way. It took a while know what it was I was looking for. I’m gonna try and explore more things in the swinging scene and stay single with some good friends who share the same passion for the adventures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single for 6 years…… absolutely love the single life

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By *arrisonMan
over a year ago

Woolacombe

I'd much rather have someone to share it with.

I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.

Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.

Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think living with someone would just piss me off in all honesty.

I like the quiet.

I don't enjoy sharing a bed.

I get angry at the smell of other peoples shit, I know we all shit but it really makes my nostrils sad and feel attacked.

Sure there's stuff I miss like eating dinner together but I'm barely home in the evenings anyway coz I work shifts so that would be rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.

I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.

Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.

Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion."

I don't want to live with a man, but I don't want to remain single. Loneliness is a killer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.

I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.

Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.

Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion."

Loneliness is also a part of me too, still not sure I'd like to live with someone again

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

9 years and counting my choice some how I feel more relaxed or just not in a rush so count me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, single pringle too.

I was only thinking about this earlier, spent 7 years single now and have become very anti social because of it...I'm probably now borderline not suitable for human consumption

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.

I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.

Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.

Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion."

I don't think the views of those who are happier living alone are popular due to positive reasons. Most of us have been led to this point due to heartbreak and pain that we never wish to repeat. You know it's fucked up when you (i) find comfort in loneliness coz it means I'm safe from fresh hurt.

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By *arrisonMan
over a year ago

Woolacombe


"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.

I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.

Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.

Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion.

I don't want to live with a man, but I don't want to remain single. Loneliness is a killer. "

Yes, I fear it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.

I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.

Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.

Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion.

I don't think the views of those who are happier living alone are popular due to positive reasons. Most of us have been led to this point due to heartbreak and pain that we never wish to repeat. You know it's fucked up when you (i) find comfort in loneliness coz it means I'm safe from fresh hurt."

Yeah, it is fucked up. I know what you mean. Wish so many people on here didn't know what you mean. Lots of people decrying that they ever need anyone else or god forbid "catch the feels". Because feeling that hurt, that rejected - that's hard to open yourself up to. Again.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.

I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.

Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.

Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion.

I don't think the views of those who are happier living alone are popular due to positive reasons. Most of us have been led to this point due to heartbreak and pain that we never wish to repeat. You know it's fucked up when you (i) find comfort in loneliness coz it means I'm safe from fresh hurt.

Yeah, it is fucked up. I know what you mean. Wish so many people on here didn't know what you mean. Lots of people decrying that they ever need anyone else or god forbid "catch the feels". Because feeling that hurt, that rejected - that's hard to open yourself up to. Again. "

I think that's part of why I reckon I'd get pissed off too with the little stuff. Stuff that's not actually that bad, just an inconvenience, like my nostrils being attacked by the smell of shit or me not getting a good night's sleep due to sharing a bed and their movement/snoring waking me..... coz I know I'd be thinking "why the fuck am I allowing this inconvenience to me when it's gonna turn to shit anyway and they'll not even appreciate it? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only come on here because I’m lonely, I was in a horrible controlling marriage.. now I live alone, work from home a lot and go out on my own.. it was ok at first but I do miss waking up to someone, on the plus side my place is immaculate and nobody messes it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.

I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.

Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.

Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion.

I don't think the views of those who are happier living alone are popular due to positive reasons. Most of us have been led to this point due to heartbreak and pain that we never wish to repeat. You know it's fucked up when you (i) find comfort in loneliness coz it means I'm safe from fresh hurt.

Yeah, it is fucked up. I know what you mean. Wish so many people on here didn't know what you mean. Lots of people decrying that they ever need anyone else or god forbid "catch the feels". Because feeling that hurt, that rejected - that's hard to open yourself up to. Again.

I think that's part of why I reckon I'd get pissed off too with the little stuff. Stuff that's not actually that bad, just an inconvenience, like my nostrils being attacked by the smell of shit or me not getting a good night's sleep due to sharing a bed and their movement/snoring waking me..... coz I know I'd be thinking "why the fuck am I allowing this inconvenience to me when it's gonna turn to shit anyway and they'll not even appreciate it? " "

When you're ready one day, that little stuff won't even be in your head. I don't think I'm ready either. Hell even guys on here tell me I come across as wary.

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By *ickJMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

I've been single for 3 years now. I enjoy living alone (I have my teenage kid alternate weeks)

I can do what I want without having to consider if it fits in with "our" plans. I'm my own person for the first time in 20odd years.

It'd be nice to have someone pop round for sex occasionally, but to be honest, after 2 years of pandemic disallowing it, I've sort of got out of the habit of wanting that too.

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By *onnyh19Man
over a year ago

leeds

Single is the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to live with anyone again. I'm more than happy to live on my own now and think I would struggle to adjust to living with someone again. However, If I ever find the holy grail partner that wants to swing then I'll give it a bloody good go

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I think I've spent too much time alone lately that I don't even want to do that much anymore

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands


"Not living with someone, but maybe the house next door with an adjoining door or something..."

What about a cat-flap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love getting in the shower and it not looking like a fucking Alsatian has been in there before me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on what you want , being single is ok , without a doubt , you have control of your own life , you can do whatever you want ,to a certain extent , you always run the risk of being caught should you decide to rob a bank etc but you get my drift .Now living with someone ? THAT is a different kettle of fish altogether , l don't care what other people think , it's my opinion , that for that to happen everything and l mean EVERYTHING has to be right ..it's a huge HUGE decision to leave someone else into your home to live with them , my advice ? Choose wisely ..oh boy what a decision to make ..

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t think I could live with anyone again. I like my own space too much and I’m not domesticated at all, they’d end up doing the cooking.

I would rather he have his place, I have mine, and we see each other for a bit and then they go away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Divorce hurt but I'd much prefer to share my life with someone then being single and alone for the length of time it's been for me.

They say time heals but not fast enough. Don't get me wrong there are times I enjoy my single life.

My flat is always tidy

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

45 years of living alone, 40 of which in present house, can't see things changing any time soon.

There are however times when the house needs a womans touch though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a happy single.

Don't know if I could be arsed living with someone again or sharing my life. "

Neither could I babe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.

I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.

Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.

Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion.

I don't want to live with a man, but I don't want to remain single. Loneliness is a killer. "

This for me too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love getting in the shower and it not looking like a fucking Alsatian has been in there before me.

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Haha that’s me though!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Happy 8 years single.

Fwb provide the boyfriend experience if we need it. But I'm far too territorial in my home safe space to share it with anyone bar family

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Not currently wanting a relationship. ?deep down and in the future I would like to fund someone.

As for living with someone, it's been over 11yrs since I've lived with a partner, it would take someone very special.

And definitely not hanging on to Apron strings still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me! Love being single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a relationship with myself. Best I've had

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Happily single with an open mind - should something come along I feel is worth changing that for or adds to my overall happiness then I’d consider it - if it doesn’t add value it’s not worth it! Xx

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Been single for 6years now and really content. I am a bit of a loner and as long as I have a dog in my life I will always be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3yrs single, happy atm could do with more meets tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd much rather have someone to share it with.

I never thought loneliness would be a feature of my life but I was wrong in that regard.

Rather dispiritingly I think it's unlikely to change.

Sorry to run contrary to popular opinion."

Shit man that’s rough. Why isn’t it likely to change? All work and no play or just small town limiting opportunities?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just bought my first house alone, no desire to live with a guy again. Be happy to share other things "

Share away lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being single, but will admit i do miss company sometimes.

Someone to wake upto and cuddle, nights in, days out.

I suppose a fwb, could make them things happen, but its finding one, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been living on my own for 8 years now, I’ve been single for 5 of those, this last period for just under 3 years. While I like doing what I want, when I want, the evenings, especially at the weekends are starting to get boring now. Not sure I’d want to move in with someone, but I do miss company, which for me is a big statement.

I think being on my own through lockdown had a big effect, my thinking definitely changed after the solitude

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