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"I’ve never really understood the bit about humiliating your own partner… but each to their own" Me neither polo ... Paul's too strong minded anyway lol xx | |||
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"I’ve never really understood the bit about humiliating your own partner… but each to their own" isnt that the normal for marrage lol | |||
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"If your not sure what it is then do a google. Just recently though i have noticed more couples are into the lifestyle and more power to them i say!! I have been in this kind of situation quite a few times in my swinging adventures and i love nothing more than being a dominant bull...your experiences?? please post some." after looking at your pics I just wondered, who is it that assumes black men are stupid enough they need pointing out where to put their willys?. | |||
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"I dont expect someone like you to understand the black on white thing so i will leave you in your ignorance. On another note not all cuck meets have any form of humiliation at all. I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding or to the other extreme some husbands/partners enjoy the streched sloppy seconds etc. Their are varying degrees of cucking as with all niches." ignorance!! Like you not expecting me to know what it's about?. | |||
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"i really dont care if you know or not. The topic is about cuckolding not about whats written where etc..and why would you look at a single guys profile anyway!!" Why not? you looked at mine to see if I am a singleguy or not?. ............. I made a little joke, get over it. | |||
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"On another note not all cuck meets have any form of humiliation at all. I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding " I personally do not agree with this, when i was with my hubby he loved to watch me with other guys but i can assure you we was not a cuck couple, he was sub in no way at all and did not get off on seeing some man 'give it to me like he couldnt' lol he was perfectly capable of 'giving it to me' himself he just liked to watch me have fun with other guys too, i dont class that as cuckholding | |||
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"i really dont care if you know or not. The topic is about cuckolding not about whats written where etc..and why would you look at a single guys profile anyway!!" im a woman but i still look at womens profile lol | |||
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"On another note not all cuck meets have any form of humiliation at all. I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding I personally do not agree with this, when i was with my hubby he loved to watch me with other guys but i can assure you we was not a cuck couple, he was sub in no way at all and did not get off on seeing some man 'give it to me like he couldnt' lol he was perfectly capable of 'giving it to me' himself he just liked to watch me have fun with other guys too, i dont class that as cuckholding" It's all in the mind, some will watch like your ex did for their enjoyment, some will watch their partner being pleasured and enjoy the fact they are not to join in, very slight difference but makes it completely different, so I agree with both explanations. | |||
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"i really dont care if you know or not. The topic is about cuckolding not about whats written where etc..and why would you look at a single guys profile anyway!!" Grow up! | |||
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"you have to remember that the male partner WANTS the "humiliation" and to be just second best. He isn't some poor pathetic male that cannot get a "proper" relationship elsewhere. The cuckold scene is rising because a lot of busy hard working men actually like to lie back and hand the control to someone else in their social life. I have never wanted a swinger for a partner, but a cuckold male that encourages me to remain a slut, suits me absolutely." you find with a lot of sub guys they have a very high demanding job, i suppose the sub sex side is just a part of their life where they can switch off and let someone else make all the dessisions for a change, not really sure what that says about dom mens life styles | |||
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"i ALWAYS look at people who have had a look at me first i dont troll around looking at every single persons profile i,m far too busy for that. Sorry i didnt see your joke" well, I have another profile, with my partner, only ones on my friends list, was half interested so I looked, then the chip showed so lost interest. | |||
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" I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding " Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special | |||
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"i ALWAYS look at people who have had a look at me first i dont troll around looking at every single persons profile i,m far too busy for that. Sorry i didnt see your joke well, I have another profile, with my partner, only ones on my friends list, was half interested so I looked, then the chip showed so lost interest. " | |||
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" I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special " | |||
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" I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special " I'm glad you wrote that because although I don't know that much about cuckolding I did assume it involved some degree of humiliation......... | |||
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"Very true and you make a lot of sense. I guess it is just a label and i would imagine some people that are into cucking dont even know or realise what it is. I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special " Your bit short for a bull aren't you. Or is it short for bullshit! As thats what i smell. | |||
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"you have to remember that the male partner WANTS the "humiliation" and to be just second best. He isn't some poor pathetic male that cannot get a "proper" relationship elsewhere. The cuckold scene is rising because a lot of busy hard working men actually like to lie back and hand the control to someone else in their social life. I have never wanted a swinger for a partner, but a cuckold male that encourages me to remain a slut, suits me absolutely. you find with a lot of sub guys they have a very high demanding job, i suppose the sub sex side is just a part of their life where they can switch off and let someone else make all the dessisions for a change, not really sure what that says about dom mens life styles " Your right and it is very erotic and of course there is the voyueristic side to it too | |||
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" I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special " wondering what that ACTUALLY makes you | |||
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" I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special I'm glad you wrote that because although I don't know that much about cuckolding I did assume it involved some degree of humiliation......... " | |||
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" I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special I'm glad you wrote that because although I don't know that much about cuckolding I did assume it involved some degree of humiliation......... " Humiliation is an optional extra believe me. The cuckold situations I have been in have not always included this, and often its quite simply the case where she notifies the cuck that her bull is bigger and better that he is....and believe me when I say, the cuck WANTTS THIS AND LOVES IT | |||
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"I dont expect someone like you to understand the black on white thing so i will leave you in your ignorance. " I have a question for you... do you understand the significance of a white woman wanting a black bull? | |||
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"I dont expect someone like you to understand the black on white thing so i will leave you in your ignorance. I have a question for you... do you understand the significance of a white woman wanting a black bull?" DO YOU? | |||
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"Very true and you make a lot of sense. I guess it is just a label and i would imagine some people that are into cucking dont even know or realise what it is. I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special Your bit short for a bull aren't you. Or is it short for bullshit! As thats what i smell." | |||
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" It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special wondering what that ACTUALLY makes you " Guess in my case it makes me a total tart lol | |||
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"I dont expect someone like you to understand the black on white thing so i will leave you in your ignorance. I have a question for you... do you understand the significance of a white woman wanting a black bull? DO YOU? " Yes - but then again I didn't ask you! | |||
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" It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special me too YAY XXX Can I be in your fan club xx wondering what that ACTUALLY makes you Guess in my case it makes me a total tart lol " | |||
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"I dont expect someone like you to understand the black on white thing so i will leave you in your ignorance. I have a question for you... do you understand the significance of a white woman wanting a black bull?" | |||
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" I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special wondering what that ACTUALLY makes you " Keep wondering - I feel special just knowing you think about me so much | |||
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"err i think so but this post wasnt about a colour thing i was answering someone else. I dont expect someone like you to understand the black on white thing so i will leave you in your ignorance. I have a question for you... do you understand the significance of a white woman wanting a black bull?" I was just curious. | |||
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"i think most men dont go for white or black i think most women go for the person not the colour of their skin, there for i think most women will have a bull that happens to be black rather than gone out activly looking for a black guy" I think its all to do with size and the misconception that only black guys have big cocks As the lady is looking to show her partner up as being a pathetic love, a BBC is a safe option in theory to prove the fact. By the way, all the time the pathetic lover WANTS THIS SCENARIO! | |||
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"err i think so but this post wasnt about a colour thing i was answering someone else. I dont expect someone like you to understand the black on white thing so i will leave you in your ignorance. I have a question for you... do you understand the significance of a white woman wanting a black bull? I was just curious." | |||
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" It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special me too YAY XXX Can I be in your fan club xx wondering what that ACTUALLY makes you Guess in my case it makes me a total tart lol " Who's got a fan club and can I join lol xx | |||
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" I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special wondering what that ACTUALLY makes you Keep wondering - I feel special just knowing you think about me so much " AU contrair | |||
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" It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special me too YAY XXX Can I be in your fan club xx wondering what that ACTUALLY makes you Guess in my case it makes me a total tart lol Who's got a fan club and can I join lol xx" do I get a free pen or m&s vouchers? | |||
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"i could start a cuckhold fan club " well dont sign me up, ive got noone to fuck infont of anymore lol | |||
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"i could start a cuckhold fan club " I'm already in it haha | |||
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"i could start a cuckhold fan club well dont sign me up, ive got noone to fuck infont of anymore lol" (((((((cuddles)))))))) | |||
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"Chip? my friend i really could care less. I didnt post this to get meets so you can forget that old chesnut. I posted this out of interest. If you dont like what you read how about you say nothing and move on jesus..some people! i ALWAYS look at people who have had a look at me first i dont troll around looking at every single persons profile i,m far too busy for that. Sorry i didnt see your joke well, I have another profile, with my partner, only ones on my friends list, was half interested so I looked, then the chip showed so lost interest. " funny how people don't take their own advice init. | |||
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"Chip? my friend i really could care less. I didnt post this to get meets so you can forget that old chesnut. I posted this out of interest. If you dont like what you read how about you say nothing and move on jesus..some people! i ALWAYS look at people who have had a look at me first i dont troll around looking at every single persons profile i,m far too busy for that. Sorry i didnt see your joke well, I have another profile, with my partner, only ones on my friends list, was half interested so I looked, then the chip showed so lost interest. funny how people don't take their own advice init. " I'll put you over my knee, now behave xx | |||
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"Chip? my friend i really could care less. I didnt post this to get meets so you can forget that old chesnut. I posted this out of interest. If you dont like what you read how about you say nothing and move on jesus..some people! i ALWAYS look at people who have had a look at me first i dont troll around looking at every single persons profile i,m far too busy for that. Sorry i didnt see your joke well, I have another profile, with my partner, only ones on my friends list, was half interested so I looked, then the chip showed so lost interest. funny how people don't take their own advice init. " good grief can you move on now that was 174 posts ago lol | |||
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"Yes not all cucking has any humiliation at all in fact very little i have seen. One of my experiences were with a couple i have known many years and their THING so to speak was for her to call him at work as myself and her we at it and her tell him all about what was going on. We would take pics and some clips for when he got home. She told me on many occations he was rampant to the extreme when he got home from work. Thats a form of mild cucking as he liked the fact she had a lover when he wasnt actually physically there. I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special I'm glad you wrote that because although I don't know that much about cuckolding I did assume it involved some degree of humiliation......... " I would consider that to be more Domm/Sub than cuckold, but as with anything the title loses it's meaning as time goes on. | |||
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"Yes not all cucking has any humiliation at all in fact very little i have seen. One of my experiences were with a couple i have known many years and their THING so to speak was for her to call him at work as myself and her we at it and her tell him all about what was going on. We would take pics and some clips for when he got home. She told me on many occations he was rampant to the extreme when he got home from work. Thats a form of mild cucking as he liked the fact she had a lover when he wasnt actually physically there. I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special I'm glad you wrote that because although I don't know that much about cuckolding I did assume it involved some degree of humiliation......... I would consider that to be more Domm/Sub than cuckold, but as with anything the title loses it's meaning as time goes on." The difference being is that the cuck isn't sexually permissive, just his slut wife and he celebrates that fact. | |||
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"Chip? my friend i really could care less. I didnt post this to get meets so you can forget that old chesnut. I posted this out of interest. If you dont like what you read how about you say nothing and move on jesus..some people! i ALWAYS look at people who have had a look at me first i dont troll around looking at every single persons profile i,m far too busy for that. Sorry i didnt see your joke well, I have another profile, with my partner, only ones on my friends list, was half interested so I looked, then the chip showed so lost interest. funny how people don't take their own advice init. I'll put you over my knee, now behave xx " stop taking sides you, he's big enough to argue his own case. besides it's fecking true. | |||
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"Chip? my friend i really could care less. I didnt post this to get meets so you can forget that old chesnut. I posted this out of interest. If you dont like what you read how about you say nothing and move on jesus..some people! i ALWAYS look at people who have had a look at me first i dont troll around looking at every single persons profile i,m far too busy for that. Sorry i didnt see your joke well, I have another profile, with my partner, only ones on my friends list, was half interested so I looked, then the chip showed so lost interest. funny how people don't take their own advice init. good grief can you move on now that was 174 posts ago lol" I wasn't around at the time to post at that moment, so responded as soon as I read it. | |||
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"Chip? my friend i really could care less. I didnt post this to get meets so you can forget that old chesnut. I posted this out of interest. If you dont like what you read how about you say nothing and move on jesus..some people! i ALWAYS look at people who have had a look at me first i dont troll around looking at every single persons profile i,m far too busy for that. Sorry i didnt see your joke well, I have another profile, with my partner, only ones on my friends list, was half interested so I looked, then the chip showed so lost interest. funny how people don't take their own advice init. good grief can you move on now that was 174 posts ago lol I wasn't around at the time to post at that moment, so responded as soon as I read it. " get home and change them fecking nappies x | |||
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"Yes not all cucking has any humiliation at all in fact very little i have seen. One of my experiences were with a couple i have known many years and their THING so to speak was for her to call him at work as myself and her we at it and her tell him all about what was going on. We would take pics and some clips for when he got home. She told me on many occations he was rampant to the extreme when he got home from work. Thats a form of mild cucking as he liked the fact she had a lover when he wasnt actually physically there. I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special I'm glad you wrote that because although I don't know that much about cuckolding I did assume it involved some degree of humiliation......... I would consider that to be more Domm/Sub than cuckold, but as with anything the title loses it's meaning as time goes on. The difference being is that the cuck isn't sexually permissive, just his slut wife and he celebrates that fact." I fully understand cuckold, there are variations of it, but like with anything has gotten mixed up now it's more in the open and less underground. the term cuckold began along the lines of a guys wife cheating, everyone knowing and he not strong enough to do feck all about it, the situation of the call whilst busy is more sub/dom to me, as it's kept amongst themselves (going off what I've read here). | |||
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"Yes not all cucking has any humiliation at all in fact very little i have seen. One of my experiences were with a couple i have known many years and their THING so to speak was for her to call him at work as myself and her we at it and her tell him all about what was going on. We would take pics and some clips for when he got home. She told me on many occations he was rampant to the extreme when he got home from work. Thats a form of mild cucking as he liked the fact she had a lover when he wasnt actually physically there. I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special I'm glad you wrote that because although I don't know that much about cuckolding I did assume it involved some degree of humiliation......... I would consider that to be more Domm/Sub than cuckold, but as with anything the title loses it's meaning as time goes on. The difference being is that the cuck isn't sexually permissive, just his slut wife and he celebrates that fact. I fully understand cuckold, there are variations of it, but like with anything has gotten mixed up now it's more in the open and less underground. the term cuckold began along the lines of a guys wife cheating, everyone knowing and he not strong enough to do feck all about it, the situation of the call whilst busy is more sub/dom to me, as it's kept amongst themselves (going off what I've read here)." Its not really terribly sub domme as the guy WANTS IT AND ACTIVELY encourages it and doesn't feel sub always ...so my experience has been The cuck cpl are often considering themselves to be equals, which they are, just both want the same things as swinging cpls do, but the males isn't sexually permissive, only his female partner is | |||
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"If your not sure what it is then do a google. Just recently though i have noticed more couples are into the lifestyle and more power to them i say!! I have been in this kind of situation quite a few times in my swinging adventures and i love nothing more than being a dominant bull...your experiences?? please post some. after looking at your pics I just wondered, who is it that assumes black men are stupid enough they need pointing out where to put their willys?. " here, the one you got uppity about, calm down it's only a forum. | |||
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"i must be going blind where is this joke that i missed?" you behave too ...or I'll spank u hardwer xx | |||
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"Yes not all cucking has any humiliation at all in fact very little i have seen. One of my experiences were with a couple i have known many years and their THING so to speak was for her to call him at work as myself and her we at it and her tell him all about what was going on. We would take pics and some clips for when he got home. She told me on many occations he was rampant to the extreme when he got home from work. Thats a form of mild cucking as he liked the fact she had a lover when he wasnt actually physically there. I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special I'm glad you wrote that because although I don't know that much about cuckolding I did assume it involved some degree of humiliation......... I would consider that to be more Domm/Sub than cuckold, but as with anything the title loses it's meaning as time goes on. The difference being is that the cuck isn't sexually permissive, just his slut wife and he celebrates that fact. I fully understand cuckold, there are variations of it, but like with anything has gotten mixed up now it's more in the open and less underground. the term cuckold began along the lines of a guys wife cheating, everyone knowing and he not strong enough to do feck all about it, the situation of the call whilst busy is more sub/dom to me, as it's kept amongst themselves (going off what I've read here). Its not really terribly sub domme as the guy WANTS IT AND ACTIVELY encourages it and doesn't feel sub always ...so my experience has been The cuck cpl are often considering themselves to be equals, which they are, just both want the same things as swinging cpls do, but the males isn't sexually permissive, only his female partner is " That's only one variation of it, I still think the scenario of the phone-call is at least as close to sub/dom as it is cuckold. cucks can also be forced to suck cock, lick her clean etc, so can be involved sexually. | |||
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"Yes not all cucking has any humiliation at all in fact very little i have seen. One of my experiences were with a couple i have known many years and their THING so to speak was for her to call him at work as myself and her we at it and her tell him all about what was going on. We would take pics and some clips for when he got home. She told me on many occations he was rampant to the extreme when he got home from work. Thats a form of mild cucking as he liked the fact she had a lover when he wasnt actually physically there. I have met couples where the husband just wants to watch and wank thats a form of cuckolding Ahhh you're not a traditionalist and one of those types who likes the watered down versions of activities so it kinda fits all. I know plenty of hubbies who watch their wives get shagged silly at the club but none would consider it cuckolding... they just like seeing their wifey have a bloody good time. It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special I'm glad you wrote that because although I don't know that much about cuckolding I did assume it involved some degree of humiliation......... I would consider that to be more Domm/Sub than cuckold, but as with anything the title loses it's meaning as time goes on. The difference being is that the cuck isn't sexually permissive, just his slut wife and he celebrates that fact. I fully understand cuckold, there are variations of it, but like with anything has gotten mixed up now it's more in the open and less underground. the term cuckold began along the lines of a guys wife cheating, everyone knowing and he not strong enough to do feck all about it, the situation of the call whilst busy is more sub/dom to me, as it's kept amongst themselves (going off what I've read here). Its not really terribly sub domme as the guy WANTS IT AND ACTIVELY encourages it and doesn't feel sub always ...so my experience has been The cuck cpl are often considering themselves to be equals, which they are, just both want the same things as swinging cpls do, but the males isn't sexually permissive, only his female partner is That's only one variation of it, I still think the scenario of the phone-call is at least as close to sub/dom as it is cuckold. cucks can also be forced to suck cock, lick her clean etc, so can be involved sexually." forced yes but its willingly done | |||
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"cuuuuuuuuuuunts You somehow always know the right thing to say lol" I dont use such language, but if its common enough for some | |||
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"sorry if the word cunt is offensive, it is a cuntish word to use i am sorry from the bottom of my mother fucking cunting heart. " Lol | |||
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"cuuuuuuuuuuunts You somehow always know the right thing to say lol I dont use such language, but if its common enough for some " For someone who has me blocked you sure as hell like trying to talk to me on here. Trot on... you're not my type. | |||
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"cuuuuuuuuuuunts You somehow always know the right thing to say lol I dont use such language, but if its common enough for some For someone who has me blocked you sure as hell like trying to talk to me on here. Trot on... you're not my type." your so deluded | |||
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"sorry if the word cunt is offensive, it is a cuntish word to use i am sorry from the bottom of my mother fucking cunting heart. " haha | |||
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"cuuuuuuuuuuunts You somehow always know the right thing to say lol I dont use such language, but if its common enough for some For someone who has me blocked you sure as hell like trying to talk to me on here. Trot on... you're not my type. your so deluded" Some people just won't take no for an answer | |||
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"cuuuuuuuuuuunts You somehow always know the right thing to say lol I dont use such language, but if its common enough for some For someone who has me blocked you sure as hell like trying to talk to me on here. Trot on... you're not my type. your so deluded Some people just won't take no for an answer " ffs | |||
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"Im coming to give u a mother fucking cunting fuck " Now that could be interesting. | |||
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"Ok a bit of cut n paste of what I found while having a google. The normal definition of a cuckold is a married man whose wife cheats on him with or without his knowledge. A cuckold fetishist is aware of his partner's activity and derives sexual pleasure from it. In this subculture, the female is typically sexually dominant, while the male takes on a submissive role, only becoming involved with her or her partner when she permits it—sometimes remaining altogether celibate. Other arrangements are certainly possible, however. The desire for the male to enjoy being cuckolded is more related to sexual gratification and less about interpersonal ideals (respect, commisary, between the partners). Sometimes this is part of the their sexual fantasy because they gain sexual arousal through being humiliated. Other times the husband finds pleasure through that of his wife. In a broader context, the contrast between a cuckold and the additional male participant is sometimes used to summarize an individual's personality or behavior and the variability commonly seen in male libidos: the cuckold or beta male suggesting a lack of masculinity or alpha male representing that missing masculinity. The wife and extramarital participant may both enjoy attempting to actively include him in the act of cuckolding as much as possible through serving her. Some common themes include praising her appearance, attempting to stimulate her sexually at the same time as the additional participant, and generally being engrossed in her enjoyment. It is common for the male to be more absorbed with the female's pleasure than his own. Sums up for me what the cuckold scene is about. I do however have a question. When does an ordinary threesome become a cuckold scenario." why cant it be both | |||
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"no its not racist at all." I don't think it is at all either, but reading between the lines it could be considered what some people refer to as 'positive racism', I actually believe there is no positive in any racism, but that's another subject. | |||
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"no its not racist at all. I don't think it is at all either, but reading between the lines it could be considered what some people refer to as 'positive racism', I actually believe there is no positive in any racism, but that's another subject." NAPPY NOW | |||
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"When does an ordinary threesome become a cuckold scenario. why cant it be both" I suppose it could be both, that depends on how you define an ordinary threesome. If there is actually such a thing. | |||
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"When does an ordinary threesome become a cuckold scenario. why cant it be both I suppose it could be both, that depends on how you define an ordinary threesome. If there is actually such a thing." Indeed, so whose trying to label it? I like 3smomes and I like cuckoldry and the 2 are most definately different, from my exoerience xxx | |||
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"mmm you raise an interesting point with the racism issue,for me personally i dont care what the colour is as i,m sure most people i guess its just what your into or not into yes?" Defo, if old beliefs are being ripped apart and that adds to the fun then it's all good, surely. I was thinking, placing the black man as being the better or even the other way a white man being belittled by someone he would normally consider lower than him, but I guess the two kinda cancel each other out, as I said so long as everyone involved is having fun then it's nobody elses business is it, I was just thinking out loud, lol. | |||
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"no its not racist at all. I don't think it is at all either, but reading between the lines it could be considered what some people refer to as 'positive racism', I actually believe there is no positive in any racism, but that's another subject. NAPPY NOW " I'm not changing your nappy again, do it yourself this time, took me ages to walk to youre last time. | |||
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"no its not racist at all. I don't think it is at all either, but reading between the lines it could be considered what some people refer to as 'positive racism', I actually believe there is no positive in any racism, but that's another subject. NAPPY NOW I'm not changing your nappy again, do it yourself this time, took me ages to walk to youre last time. " spoilsport | |||
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"no its not racist at all. I don't think it is at all either, but reading between the lines it could be considered what some people refer to as 'positive racism', I actually believe there is no positive in any racism, but that's another subject. NAPPY NOW I'm not changing your nappy again, do it yourself this time, took me ages to walk to youre last time. spoilsport" OK I'm on my way, will pick up those non scented wipes for your delicate skin whilst on my way, just putting on my walking boots, see you saturday. | |||
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"How common is cuckhold the other way around? With 2 fems and one guy?" Now that would be frowned upon, many would consider the woman as being abused if that was to happen. | |||
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" It's a bit like when two singles meet for 1-2-1 sex and want to call it swinging... some people need a label and just have to stretch one out of shape to fit…. So they feel special um that makes 3 of us tarts lol!! just need a couple o sandwitches and we can have a picnic!! xx me too YAY XXX Can I be in your fan club xx wondering what that ACTUALLY makes you Guess in my case it makes me a total tart lol " | |||
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"How common is cuckhold the other way around? With 2 fems and one guy? Now that would be frowned upon, many would consider the woman as being abused if that was to happen." Really? I quite like the idea in my head, and often ask Scott to verbally humiliate me after we have had a 3 some with a fem, but never when the lady is present. | |||
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"Well a guy that could be humiliated and put down like that by another guy in front of me wouldn't be a suitable parter for me thats for sure - I like manly men !!! xxx xxx " I went out with a guy a couple of years ago and he enjoyed sexual humiliation. Though you would never have guessed if you knew him. He was ex-forces, enjoyed hunting and shooting, played local league footy and was a mechanic who loved big cars. Totally took me by surprise when he told me what got him horny | |||
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"some great responses and as you can see its on the rise more than you think!!" yup, with a lot of things I guess the internet made it more popular, there are websites (with forums) dedicated to cuckold. | |||
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"When does an ordinary threesome become a cuckold scenario. why cant it be both I suppose it could be both, that depends on how you define an ordinary threesome. If there is actually such a thing." Yes. We have ordinary 3somes, as in no one gets humilated. We just have fun with me enjoying two men and the hubby enjoying seeing me with another man. Cuckold is humilation, we don't do that and NEVER will. | |||
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"some great responses and as you can see its on the rise more than you think!! yup, with a lot of things I guess the internet made it more popular, there are websites (with forums) dedicated to cuckold." I'm on most of them its great xxx | |||
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