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Do women enjoy slow sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On the back of Lacey's thread to the men and from a private message I'm having (he's whispering in my ear and driving me insane - virtually ), do women prefer it slow and sensual or hard and fast?

Personally, I'd go for slow and sensual with him whispering in my ear, hearing his deep breath and our bodies working in perfect unison until we collapse.

Fast and furious is great too, don't stop doing that either! I just feel more intense sensations when it's slowed down and you can feel their length perfectly.

Ladies? Opinions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones i know do

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I like both. Depending on my mood. Sometimes you just have to just rip those clothes off and go for it. Other times it’s nice to take it slow.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I like variety!

Jo.Xx

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

If it's for pure unadulterated pleasure then a hard fuck against the wall is perfect

If I want to devour every single second and orgasm then the slower the better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's for pure unadulterated pleasure then a hard fuck against the wall is perfect

If I want to devour every single second and orgasm then the slower the better "

Yep. Definitely with you on this

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Each has its place and both are as lovely as the other

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I can't choose between the two. Sometimes if someone has gotten you really worked up, fast and hard is explosive. However and this may just be me but sometimes I can't relax when it's fast and hard which can be distracting. I do especially love a slow fuck from behind while they're pressed up against me and kissing the back of my neck. My partner is sometimes surprised how much just short motions grinding into my gspot can do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The ones i know do "

Are they telling you to slow down?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like both. Depending on my mood. Sometimes you just have to just rip those clothes off and go for it. Other times it’s nice to take it slow. "

I usually get shouted at for wanting to rip off clothes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like variety!

Jo.Xx "

Me too but slow works like a dream. Then fast

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Each has its place and both are as lovely as the other "

Very true

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I like both. Depending on my mood. Sometimes you just have to just rip those clothes off and go for it. Other times it’s nice to take it slow.

I usually get shouted at for wanting to rip off clothes "

. Sometimes it’s needed. I’ve lost so much expensive lingerie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't choose between the two. Sometimes if someone has gotten you really worked up, fast and hard is explosive. However and this may just be me but sometimes I can't relax when it's fast and hard which can be distracting. I do especially love a slow fuck from behind while they're pressed up against me and kissing the back of my neck. My partner is sometimes surprised how much just short motions grinding into my gspot can do. "

Exactly! I feel it more intensely and every bit when it's slow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow,Sensual,deep,stroking,kissing a little bit of bottom slapping.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like both. Depending on my mood. Sometimes you just have to just rip those clothes off and go for it. Other times it’s nice to take it slow.

I usually get shouted at for wanting to rip off clothes

. Sometimes it’s needed. I’ve lost so much expensive lingerie "

A fair few tights and other stuff here

I just seem to pick the worst moments with him, he's working... feeling ill...but I'm horny

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Ah man I love a sleepy morning slowie.

Also slow sex is great for round 2. The session that lasts aaaggggeeessss before you collapse into a sweaty heap demanding tea and crumpets.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Personally, I'd go for slow and sensual with him whispering in my ear, hearing his deep breath and our bodies working in perfect unison until we collapse.

"

Ey up mi duck, fancy quickie behind the bike shed?

*said in his best Barry White voice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally, I'd go for slow and sensual with him whispering in my ear, hearing his deep breath and our bodies working in perfect unison until we collapse.

Ey up mi duck, fancy quickie behind the bike shed?

*said in his best Barry White voice "

Ace, you charmer you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite is slow... Really slow.. With hot breath whispering on my skin and sticky lips brushing my skin and fingers pressing and exploring.

I love the anticipation and every nerve ending registering every movement when it's slow

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I hope so. My batteries are too low for fast these days

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"On the back of Lacey's thread to the men and from a private message I'm having (he's whispering in my ear and driving me insane - virtually ), do women prefer it slow and sensual or hard and fast?

Personally, I'd go for slow and sensual with him whispering in my ear, hearing his deep breath and our bodies working in perfect unison until we collapse.

Fast and furious is great too, don't stop doing that either! I just feel more intense sensations when it's slowed down and you can feel their length perfectly.

Ladies? Opinions? "

This just brings up snail trail images...

C

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Absolutely…a slow burn, that type of sex that has every single hair on your body standing on end, when the slightest brush of his fingertips on your skin sends a jolt of electricity coursing through your body, the pulsating, toe curling, back arching, surrendering of yourself in that moment where even his breath on your neck drives you wild, that passion fuelled intensity as he inches into you little by little and you can feel every sensation heightened - his heart beat, those little twitches as you clench against him, the intent in his eyes - Christ I’m moist writing this!

In short yes I adore it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely…a slow burn, that type of sex that has every single hair on your body standing on end, when the slightest brush of his fingertips on your skin sends a jolt of electricity coursing through your body, the pulsating, toe curling, back arching, surrendering of yourself in that moment where even his breath on your neck drives you wild, that passion fuelled intensity as he inches into you little by little and you can feel every sensation heightened - his heart beat, those little twitches as you clench against him, the intent in his eyes - Christ I’m moist writing this!

In short yes I adore it xx"

You're moist and I'm hard x

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

Slow and sensual for me all the time

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

It’s nice to have some variety their are times when a good hard fast fuck is needed and then other times a nice slow tender time ..Depends on what mood I’m in x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely…a slow burn, that type of sex that has every single hair on your body standing on end, when the slightest brush of his fingertips on your skin sends a jolt of electricity coursing through your body, the pulsating, toe curling, back arching, surrendering of yourself in that moment where even his breath on your neck drives you wild, that passion fuelled intensity as he inches into you little by little and you can feel every sensation heightened - his heart beat, those little twitches as you clench against him, the intent in his eyes - Christ I’m moist writing this!

In short yes I adore it xx"

Dancer!! That sounds amazing

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

I love both! Slow and sensual is amazing and definitely has a place, but I do find that It builds me up to wanting a hard fuck eventually! I’m just greedy and want both Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love both! Slow and sensual is amazing and definitely has a place, but I do find that It builds me up to wanting a hard fuck eventually! I’m just greedy and want both Miss pc "

It can have that effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the mood but I love slow, but for some reason I love it when he goes hard and fast right after an orgasm.

PW

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Too slow and I might fall asleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love slow & sensual sex...but been a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow enough so that I can actually feel everything that’s happening when he enters me rather than just and pounding and gives me a chance to be able to grip and squeeze my pelvic floor. Never had any complaints from guys doing it that way either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love slow and sensual, being held firm and feeling every throb and twitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow and sensual is definitely my favourite but I do like a hard and fast sometimes depending on the mood or a mix of both.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy both, however, slow and sensual makes me orgasm at a much faster rate as opposed to hard pounding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My IQ is 27, does that count?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Depends. I’m yet to find a fella on here who does slow AND sensual. It’s usually slow or jackhammer.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

Cant beat a nice sensual slow spoon in the morning lots of touch kissing and carressing whilst slowly grinding into each other q

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how slow? I do get bored easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had to choose then slow.

My orgasms seem to be more intense.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"If I had to choose then slow.

My orgasms seem to be more intense."

Does that produce more gold top? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys should think of their penis as a horse. Sometimes it's a simple walk, then a trot and then RUN LIKE THE WIND BULLSEYE.

Variety is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Variety is the spice of life

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Guys should think of their penis as a horse. Sometimes it's a simple walk, then a trot and then RUN LIKE THE WIND BULLSEYE.

Variety is key."

Well, that's Toy Story 2 in my head all day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how slow? I do get bored easily. "

I’ll show you.

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Slow and gentle for my wife

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

For us there’s usually the build up to a fast pounding with several orgasms for B and then the slow grind of hot sweaty bodies, with every nerve tingling and our combined journey to a longer deeper mutual orgasm.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Slow and sensual mostly- but I can’t go on for hours and hours- I get bored! I prefer to have several “slowish” sessions rather than “fuck for hours”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a slow session, I think it’s good to mix it up a bit but definitely love taking my time to enjoy how our bodies feel x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mix or both but I lean more towards hard and fast xx

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