FabSwingers.com forum: I am curious to know

By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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Are you a Top, Bottom or switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom/sub/little

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Top for those I’m not in a D/s dynamic with.

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Bottom/sub/little

I had a interesting conversation about the dynamics of bdsm of people who are not in a bdsm relationship but wanted that scenario temporarily at the LAM yesterday

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

"Are you a Top, Bottom or switch"

Hmmm, not sure as I have never thought of it in that way.

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Are you a Top, Bottom or switch

Hmmm, not sure as I have never thought of it in that way.

I like to provoke thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bottom/sub/little

I had a interesting conversation about the dynamics of bdsm of people who are not in a bdsm relationship but wanted that scenario temporarily at the LAM yesterday

It depends on many things doesn’t it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom/sub

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

All three depending on the dynamic with the person. No one set way.

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Bottom/sub/little

I had a interesting conversation about the dynamics of bdsm of people who are not in a bdsm relationship but wanted that scenario temporarily at the LAM yesterday

It depends on many things doesn’t it "

Yes its a very very interesting state of mind to be in

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"All three depending on the dynamic with the person. No one set way. "

What about if there is no dynamic and you just want to play, is there a set one you lean to more

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Bottom/sub/little

I had a interesting conversation about the dynamics of bdsm of people who are not in a bdsm relationship but wanted that scenario temporarily at the LAM yesterday

That person you spoke with sounds like a dick!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"All three depending on the dynamic with the person. No one set way.

What about if there is no dynamic and you just want to play, is there a set one you lean to more"

It’s rare I just play without a discussion first, so the dynamic comes from that. The rare time it does happen it would be switch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably more switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Switch

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By *arry001Man
over a year ago

Oldbury

Switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically switch but I only switch with one person, the rest of the time it would be top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bisexual Switch.

I’m domme with women 100% of the time (unless it’s just mutual fun and not kink play)

I’m domme with men in my professional life and submissive in my personal one.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Versitile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a bisexual Switch.

I’m domme with women 100% of the time (unless it’s just mutual fun and not kink play)

I’m domme with men in my professional life and submissive in my personal one."

A lady who knows exactly what she wants

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Bottom/sub/little

I had a interesting conversation about the dynamics of bdsm of people who are not in a bdsm relationship but wanted that scenario temporarily at the LAM yesterday

That person you spoke with sounds like a dick!"

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

"Are you a Top, Bottom or switch

Hmmm, not sure as I have never thought of it in that way.

I like to provoke thoughts

You do provoke my thoughts

I know I'm not into bdsm, tie and tease I like. I like to be in control as well as being controlled so probably switch. I've just never categorised myself till now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on if it’s a couple woman man tv/ts

Woman I am switch or top or bottom only depending on what they want

For men I am bottom only

Couples I am switch for the woman hafe bottom only for the guy emmm just think off me as a woman with a extra part for the other woman

For tv/ts more friendship but would do a switch thing

For a return the favourite type deal

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I’m a bisexual Switch.

I’m domme with women 100% of the time (unless it’s just mutual fun and not kink play)

I’m domme with men in my professional life and submissive in my personal one."

Good to see you kitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a dominant cave man with good imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genuinely not sure. I don't think I have enough conviction to be dominant but do enjoy the top positions more as I like that element of control, but if the woman I'm with wanted her way a bit more, I think I'd be naturally more submissive and try to facilitate her pleasure more than my own.

A very interesting question

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

As a kid I always liked the top bunk. Something about being high up. Now as an adult I appreciate the closeness of bottom bunk much more. Plus who can be assed climbing ladders to bed, right?

Both still have their appeals though so I guess I don't mind switching between them now and again.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Top not a switch bone in my body

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you a Top, Bottom or switch

Hmmm, not sure as I have never thought of it in that way.

I like to provoke thoughts

You do provoke my thoughts

I know I'm not into bdsm, tie and tease I like. I like to be in control as well as being controlled so probably switch. I've just never categorised myself till now.

The B in BDSM stands for bondage - but you're not into it even though you like to tie?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I done that BDSM test thingy last week as it happens and apparently I'm 100% switch ..

Who knew

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Switch, although for entirely obvious reasons I'm mostly called upon to top.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I done that BDSM test thingy last week as it happens and apparently I'm 100% switch ..

Who knew

I did that. Didn’t understand half the questions

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I done that BDSM test thingy last week as it happens and apparently I'm 100% switch ..

Who knew

I did that. Didn’t understand half the questions

I know you told me haha ..

Questions about nappies and cages were a tad disturbing but each to their own

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By *hrissycox66TV/TS
over a year ago

watford

Switch ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a switch with a bit of a preference to being bottom

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Switch. Depends entirely on the partner at the time, I'll just naturally gravitate the opposite way to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch, sometimes I want to be on my back and have someone take care of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you a Top, Bottom or switch"

That's a hotspot!!

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Top, but not overtly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom most of the time

Learning to top but it doesn't come naturally.

I like to be told what to do

PNG x

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"Bottom most of the time

Learning to top but it doesn't come naturally.

I like to be told what to do

PNG x "

I have this as a Top

Learning how not to top from the bottom Is very hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bottom most of the time

Learning to top but it doesn't come naturally.

I like to be told what to do

PNG x

I have this as a Top

Learning how not to top from the bottom Is very hard "

I can imagine. I do tend to try but then I'm put back in my place

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

In kink, Domme/top

Vanilla... I prefer to be equal

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Switch

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m whatever I’m inspired to be at the time.

A chameleon of sorts. I take myself by surprise in the moment.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

"Are you a Top, Bottom or switch

That's a hotspot!!"

Just stay clear of his swimming pool… awight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both switch it all depends on the mood at the time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top

I wouldn't mind being a bottom but my 'control issues' kick in so it isn't wise

It just doesn't work for me mentally

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Top, but very much a service top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sir.

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By *istress00MisterCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

Top and Top

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

Bottom

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