FabSwingers.com forum: Do you like getting a hug on the first date?

By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

And to give one? I like to do both, a nice big hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually i skip straight to a snog but depends who im seeing

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I do like to give and receive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally love hugs x

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Not gonna lie if I turn up to a date and they refuse a hug at the start I’m probably just gonna end it there

You liked me enough to meet up but your still unsure about a hug? No thanks

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Don't really look at fab as a dating site, but I do like a hug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah give me all the hugs I'm a needy bitch

or a softy whichever ha

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes I do. I'm quite tactile and if I like someone, in whatever way, I'll happily give them a hug.

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

Of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing less than a hand job for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you talking sex date or a general date l

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"Not gonna lie if I turn up to a date and they refuse a hug at the start I’m probably just gonna end it there

You liked me enough to meet up but your still unsure about a hug? No thanks"

I am not a very huggy-feely person, hugs from strangers or people I have only just met make me feel awkward. I'm sure I'm not an exception.

Also, we need to distinguish between "vanilla date", "Fab date=social" and "Fab meet". Vanilla date - peck on the cheek when we meet is enough for me, most likely same with Fab social. Fab meet- a proper kiss and a hug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you talking sex date or a general date l"

Even if it was a fab "date" what's weird about hugging someone, you're gonna be far more intimate than that

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

A hug, for many reasons, a well received hug has therapeutic benefits.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Everyone gets a hug

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Whatever feels natural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you talking sex date or a general date l

Even if it was a fab "date" what's weird about hugging someone, you're gonna be far more intimate than that

Hmm not sure lol

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

I’m a hugger

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

I hug everyone

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Usually i skip straight to a snog but depends who im seeing"
That is also good too

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"I do like to give and receive x"
That is good to do both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course

if we like each other

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Love hugs especially big bear hugs R x

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I give hugs and kiss cheeks mostly.

Jo.Xx

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Absolutely

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By *azza72Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Hugs are good

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Hug or a handshake.

A courteous nod if nothing else.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Only if they open their arms for one. I don't offer on a first date.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

A peck on the cheek will do.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Always look for some contact a nice hug and snog normally when leaving will set complete the confirmation of do meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not gonna lie if I turn up to a date and they refuse a hug at the start I’m probably just gonna end it there

You liked me enough to meet up but your still unsure about a hug? No thanks

I am not a very huggy-feely person, hugs from strangers or people I have only just met make me feel awkward. I'm sure I'm not an exception.

I feel the same. A hug goodbye (if we got on well) is ok but an opening hug from a stranger makes me feel awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a way to greet someone dear to us or that we want to take back home!

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Are you talking sex date or a general date l

Even if it was a fab "date" what's weird about hugging someone, you're gonna be far more intimate than that

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Yes, it could be any date and as well if you meet one in a non date scenario, a hug is also acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not gonna lie if I turn up to a date and they refuse a hug at the start I’m probably just gonna end it there

You liked me enough to meet up but your still unsure about a hug? No thanks

I am not a very huggy-feely person, hugs from strangers or people I have only just met make me feel awkward. I'm sure I'm not an exception.

I feel the same. A hug goodbye (if we got on well) is ok but an opening hug from a stranger makes me feel awkward."

Me too, I like to make sure if the other person first. I don’t see what’s wrong with that

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Not gonna lie if I turn up to a date and they refuse a hug at the start I’m probably just gonna end it there

You liked me enough to meet up but your still unsure about a hug? No thanks

I am not a very huggy-feely person, hugs from strangers or people I have only just met make me feel awkward. I'm sure I'm not an exception.

I feel the same. A hug goodbye (if we got on well) is ok but an opening hug from a stranger makes me feel awkward.

Me too, I like to make sure if the other person first. I don’t see what’s wrong with that "

Nothing is wrong with that at all.

It is entirely possible to be a hugger but still be selective with who you hug based upon the situation.

I'm generally not a hugger, but I still appreciate what they are to and from others. If I got on with said person then I'd have no problem with a friendly hugging, if they still felt a bit distant or I'm still unsure then nope no way is that hug happening.

Bottom line is it is all person and situation depending for me.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Big hug and a snog. Got to test the chemistry.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Of course if the attraction is there

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’ll like to give them one on the first date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. Always met someone and given them a big hug. We've usually been chatting for a while so I feel like I know them fairly well already.

The hug is just my way of greeting someone I've been really looking forward to meeting.

I'm sure I hugged KG when I met him

PNG x

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By *ere70Man
over a year ago

Rovinj Istria

i definitely want to hug person who i decided to meet after some chatting becahse we probbably shared some intimate things before meeting, and i am good in seeing who match me, and probably on other side is person who apriciates my hug to feel more relaxed. other than that i am person who loves to hug and kiss when meeting my friends.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Yes, definitely!

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Yes hugs are sweet

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Here is an interesting question, can you tell how a person is by a hug?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Dates? What is this strange concept?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I’m cool with this.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Only at the end of I feel there's a connection. And by that I mean a proper hug/squeeze. Doesn't matter how long you chatted for if you don't feel it in person.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Here is an interesting question, can you tell how a person is by a hug?

Yes, definitely.

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

I absolutely love hugs! Had a lovely social the other day, lovely hugs and then some lovely kissing, all good in my opinion

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not unless I fancy them. Otherwise I give off “back off buddy” vibes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love hugs but needs to feel right at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something isn't right if I don't hug them. Yes, please.

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

Nope, over the years I’ve unfortunately met some scruffy, unshowered, smelly and downright creepy men for a coffee - thankfully agreed as a social only one advance

They will be absolutely definitely no physical contact with me on any meet unless I instigate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs are a must and you've don't know how good a hug can be until you've been hugged by me.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Here is an interesting question, can you tell how a person is by a hug?

Yes, definitely."
That is good and yes. I thought so as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bring back the 2 metre rule on dates.

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

I hug everyone lol

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I like a hug at any point.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Do enjoy a hug, but living in covid times I'm ok with or without hugging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hug cuddle

First date spoon

Wouldn’t go amiss

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I like to give a hug, but I've had vanilla meets where they don't like it. Kind if makes me feel a bit weird.

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

Pre Covid always had a hug, or proper cuddle and kiss.

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By *obby1Man
over a year ago

newcastle

How can one be intimate without a hug and kiss

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By *he sultan of swingMan
over a year ago

mid devon

OP your name actually shag!

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Everyone gets a hug

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That sounds good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can one be intimate without a hug and kiss"

I read it as first time you meet? Like for a social…

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By *ovespudsMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Can't beat a good hug they are sooo therapeutic.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end if it went well I think so yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a hug, you can gauge a lot by a hug x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs win out every time for me I love a great big hug.

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By *he sultan of swingMan
over a year ago

mid devon

Do you hug on first dates? Does your dad own a brewery! Can I see your tits ? Or will you show em to me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit awkward... I'd probably shake hands /kiss initially.. Maybe leave with a hug, but even that might be awkward

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I always get it wrong. Like going in for a kiss on the cheek when they’re just expecting a hug. So I end up kissing their ear or something lol

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

Hugs are great, go straight in there even if there not expecting it, hugs are nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A peck on the cheek is enough

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By *anicmatchMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Definitely a hug and maybe a kiss as well. I allway hug my friends when we meet.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"OP your name actually shag!"
No, it is my fab nickname here.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Love a hug, you can gauge a lot by a hug x"
That is good and yes, you are right there as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP your name actually shag!"
there's always one haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will let you know if and when I go on a first date, as the last was when I was 32 years ago. Xx

I am a hugger xx

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

I’d settle for a hug for my penis from a vagina

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I like a hug, I usually offer one if they are comfortable with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually get one upon arrival

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By *asepaul71Man
over a year ago

Buxton

I love hugs and would accept at any time

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By *he sultan of swingMan
over a year ago

mid devon

"OP your name actually shag! there's always one haha "

Coz he's Swedish though you never know they have some funny names!

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