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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview??

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By *ynda1978Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Liverpool


"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview?? "

Yes definitely! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't know no one wants to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. None of my meets have felt that way thankfully.

Although a fab friend and I have talked about a fantasy interview roleplay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview??

Yes definitely! Haha "
gotta take your record of achievement ha xx

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Its why I don't do socials, I'd just find them awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wouldn’t make someone feel like that. I am generally good at putting them at ease. I think it helps if you’ve been chatting for a wee while, and already know a bit about them before the meet.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Why is it always a coffee us tea drinkers are at a disadvantage before we start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I wouldn’t make someone feel like that. I am generally good at putting them at ease. I think it helps if you’ve been chatting for a wee while, and already know a bit about them before the meet."

You offering free hand jobs in Costa again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I wouldn’t make someone feel like that. I am generally good at putting them at ease. I think it helps if you’ve been chatting for a wee while, and already know a bit about them before the meet."
nice pub or bar x

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview?? "

Erm, heck, why what do you talk about in your interviews?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I wouldn’t make someone feel like that. I am generally good at putting them at ease. I think it helps if you’ve been chatting for a wee while, and already know a bit about them before the meet.

You offering free hand jobs in Costa again "

You terror!! Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview??

Erm, heck, why what do you talk about in your interviews?! "
defiantly not fab

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I take a questionnaire and a tape measure to break the ice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I wouldn’t make someone feel like that. I am generally good at putting them at ease. I think it helps if you’ve been chatting for a wee while, and already know a bit about them before the meet. nice pub or bar x"

Is it not the same thing Woody?! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview??

Erm, heck, why what do you talk about in your interviews?! "

So, oral: give or receive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I wouldn’t make someone feel like that. I am generally good at putting them at ease. I think it helps if you’ve been chatting for a wee while, and already know a bit about them before the meet. nice pub or bar x

Is it not the same thing Woody?! X"
when I think coffee I think of somewhere shit like morrisons, tbh maybe it's just wording xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I feel like it's a chance for a nice conversation with a friendly person.

I have never felt interviewed and if I ever felt a vibe like that then there's clearly no connection between us.

I did have one coffee social that didn't even make it further than the car park. We felt an instant attraction and he very quickly became Mr NBVN

NBVN x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview??

Erm, heck, why what do you talk about in your interviews?!

So, oral: give or receive? "

Splutters.... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its why I don't do socials, I'd just find them awkward"

I'd likely instantly friend zone then too

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

I walk in naked,the sight of me naked makes any woman laugh and relaxed!

Downside is I’m banned from four costas and a Starbucks,fricking prudes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I feel like it's a chance for a nice conversation with a friendly person.

I have never felt interviewed and if I ever felt a vibe like that then there's clearly no connection between us.

I did have one coffee social that didn't even make it further than the car park. We felt an instant attraction and he very quickly became Mr NBVN

NBVN x"
nice work haha like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I wouldn’t make someone feel like that. I am generally good at putting them at ease. I think it helps if you’ve been chatting for a wee while, and already know a bit about them before the meet.

You offering free hand jobs in Costa again

You terror!! Ha ha ha "

It wasn't a no then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very nervous one yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I feel like it's a chance for a nice conversation with a friendly person.

I have never felt interviewed and if I ever felt a vibe like that then there's clearly no connection between us.

I did have one coffee social that didn't even make it further than the car park. We felt an instant attraction and he very quickly became Mr NBVN

NBVN x"

Wow! what coffee shops do you go to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I walk in naked,the sight of me naked makes any woman laugh and relaxed!

Downside is I’m banned from four costas and a Starbucks,fricking prudes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I walk in naked,the sight of me naked makes any woman laugh and relaxed!

Downside is I’m banned from four costas and a Starbucks,fricking prudes "
thought you were going on naked attraction but skipped the best bit haha

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview??

Erm, heck, why what do you talk about in your interviews?!

So, oral: give or receive? "

A coffee meet and an interview on the same day ... Imagine getting the two confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take a questionnaire and a tape measure to break the ice."

Best response

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"I take a questionnaire and a tape measure to break the ice.

Best response "

They call her 12 inch saffron,because anything less just will not do

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I take a questionnaire and a tape measure to break the ice.

Best response

They call her 12 inch saffron,because anything less just will not do "

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By *obby!2Man
over a year ago

York

I love them all good fun, if you've sussed the person(s) out beforehand, it just adds the build-up, gets the blood and imagination flowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is in a way. I always have questions I want to ask face to face and see their reaction to know if they're being truthful about the answers or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait! What!

You can actually meet people in real life!

Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait! What!

You can actually meet people in real life!

Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake "

You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

More of an audition

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Wait! What!

You can actually meet people in real life!

Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake

You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then "

If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer a pub...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait! What!

You can actually meet people in real life!

Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake

You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then "

I will hold you to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely seems that way

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"I take a questionnaire and a tape measure to break the ice."
where did you hide the tape measure when we met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait! What!

You can actually meet people in real life!

Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake

You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then

If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going "

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview?? "

It depends really , if you have being chatting ..no. it doesn't..but if you haven't really been chatting and are fortunate to get a coffee meet ..yes it can , it depends really .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never felt like that on a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait! What!

You can actually meet people in real life!

Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake

You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then

I will hold you to that "

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait! What!

You can actually meet people in real life!

Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake

You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then

If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going

Me too! "

Well I will get you a tiffin but you will have to share it between you! I'm not made of money

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Wait! What!

You can actually meet people in real life!

Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake

You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then

If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going

Me too! "

Costa Tiffin.....ahhh.....divine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait! What!

You can actually meet people in real life!

Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake

You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then

If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going

Me too!

Costa Tiffin.....ahhh.....divine x"

Their Bakewell tart is also lush. And I am partial to caramel shortcake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait! What!

You can actually meet people in real life!

Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake

You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then

If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going

Me too!

Well I will get you a tiffin but you will have to share it between you! I'm not made of money "

I'll share whatever you're having Doctor x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. That's just weird. I wouldn't meet someone I didn't feel there was something worth exploring so not sure why it would feel like an interview. Mind you.... I quite like interviews .... its just a conversation... so actually yeah.. they are a bit! Yay!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait! What!

You can actually meet people in real life!

Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake

You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then

If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going

Me too!

Costa Tiffin.....ahhh.....divine x

Their Bakewell tart is also lush. And I am partial to caramel shortcake "

I love caramel shortcake. The ones from Gregg's are delicious x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've had a couple of nice socials in pubs, and I've had a couple of not nice ones in pubs.

I can't remember ever meeting in a cafe for a hot beverage.

One nice social turned into a great evening with me being partially tied face down on his bed. That's one of my nicer Fab memories.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've never felt like it's an interview, but that might be because of how I chat.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Wait! What!

You can actually meet people in real life!

Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake

You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then

If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going

Me too!

Costa Tiffin.....ahhh.....divine x

Their Bakewell tart is also lush. And I am partial to caramel shortcake "

They do bakewell tart? Group meet. If I find a couple of quid down the sofa, I'll get hot chocolate too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait! What!

You can actually meet people in real life!

Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake

You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then

If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going

Me too!

Well I will get you a tiffin but you will have to share it between you! I'm not made of money

I'll share whatever you're having Doctor x"

Just let me know where and when

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview?? "

No. Nothing wrong with everyone having a chat before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait! What!

You can actually meet people in real life!

Ok who's up for meeting for a coffee or tea or hot chocolate. I will even splash out for a bit if cake

You've got me at cake! I'll buy the coffees then

If he'd said Tiffin, I'd be going

Me too!

Well I will get you a tiffin but you will have to share it between you! I'm not made of money

I'll share whatever you're having Doctor x

Just let me know where and when "

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

It's just a chat. You might not gell. Might lead to more. No preconceptions folks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only met a few ladies for socials, so I dont have a lot of experience, but its never felt like an interview. Always been good fun.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I've only met a few ladies for socials, so I dont have a lot of experience, but its never felt like an interview. Always been good fun."

Yep. Nice and casual wins the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine have always been very relaxed. Just a chilled conversation

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I take a questionnaire and a tape measure to break the ice."

We can vouch for this. Then she fattens you for slaughter by feeding you cake

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I can't say I've ever felt that way when I've met someone for a social if I ever did I think I'd just leave.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview?? "

Don't forget 2 types of photo Id and a utility bill, and references ... Can't take any chances

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview?? "

No as I like to chat over the phone before hand so it's more natural when you do meet face to face, I'm very easy going and wouldn't want to make any one feel uncomfortable..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of times i prefer to just have a bru and a great laugh sharing stories with someone than the ripping off clothes altho it usually ends that way

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope, I enjoy meeting for a coffee/drink x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I take a questionnaire and a tape measure to break the ice.

We can vouch for this. Then she fattens you for slaughter by feeding you cake "

Bugger.. rumbled again

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Bring a hipflask with Brandy cause no great party ever started with just tea lol

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Bring a hipflask with Brandy cause no great party ever started with just tea lol "

Apart from the Boston tea party

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I have met a few people for a coffee, it was always a relaxed chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do anyone else feel it's more like a interview?? "

Depends on the people you're meeting. Sex meat interview or human beings.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

We’ve never felt like it was an interview thankfully, always been a good old chat about alsorts of random things Miss pc

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I Have never had that perception.

If you sense that people are lacking in information or are potentially critical of what's been said beforehand, I'd be curious as to why.

Communication is king. Many Profiles aren't great at giving others what they need.

Otherwise, the social is a 2 way street. Lighten it up. Be proactive. Do they trust you? Are you picking the right sort of people to meet?

What's the common theme?

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