FabSwingers.com forum: What is it?? (Probably asked 101 times already)

By *ittlekinks38 OP Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

What is it when certain ppl think ppl with a great amount of verifications assume the profile owner has slept with all those who have verified them??

Don't they understand verifications are there to verify the ppl are genuine and decent folk they've probably met at many a fab social event?

There nothing more off putting than guys that think or say things like ohhh I couldn't meet her she's far too many verifications??

Saying she's slept with that many ppl being called a sl*t but then if it was men with the same amount of verifications they would get called a stud!!

Does this bug you too?

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

It’s why I and I dare say many others utilise the option not to display the summary.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Double standards is what it is

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Some people will always judge - you've too many or you've too few.

If it bothers you, why not publish your verifications? Folk have the info to work with then.

I personally don't care how many/few someone has, but I will judge the content of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does amuse me how people choose to view veris or demand to see them. I personally don't want a veri after the social one, if people want to know what I'm like in the sack, they can bloody well take time and effort to find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the veris that describe the details of the sexual encounter. Stick it in the stories section if it was that good

Then I do get the veris that prove a person is genuine.

Having a veri list that's longer than most profile text does seem a bit OTT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will not

Definitely have not

Judged anyone

It’s not my place to

To many people on hear make assumptions

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I think anyone with a brain OP should be able to distinguish between meets, socials and webcam. If they can’t are they really of interest to you? I personally love verifications as they give a window into that person and help me decide if I should contact them. I personally do dislike it when people choose to hide theirs. Why accept them if they are not to be displayed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And my words to them would hi at least us bad words have all the fun and I am proud to be one ha ha

Hugs op there isn’t any to meny vers even if they were all sexually your free to do as you please if others don’t like it that’s they problem

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It's a white hole sir

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Don't read veris. Don't care about quantity either. Only thing I like to see is that they're real. No such thing as a sl×t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think anyone with a brain OP should be able to distinguish between meets, socials and webcam. If they can’t are they really of interest to you? I personally love verifications as they give a window into that person and help me decide if I should contact them. I personally do dislike it when people choose to hide theirs. Why accept them if they are not to be displayed? "

I don't display mine and we have no choice if to accept them or not. I get you say it gives a window into that person but everything written is subjective. I've met folk described a certain way and found I felt the opposite about them. I don't display mine as I feel it's not anyone else's business who I've met and when. So I just consider veris as proof someone is genuine. The more veris the better in that respect, as its clear then they do go out and meet (unless all webcam of course!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it when certain ppl think ppl with a great amount of verifications assume the profile owner has slept with all those who have verified them??

Don't they understand verifications are there to verify the ppl are genuine and decent folk they've probably met at many a fab social event?

There nothing more off putting than guys that think or say things like ohhh I couldn't meet her she's far too many verifications??

Saying she's slept with that many ppl being called a sl*t but then if it was men with the same amount of verifications they would get called a stud!!

Does this bug you too?"

Funny that you should say that because I've had this very same discussion with my fwb recently. Irritates the hell out of me when a guy says it and I can't help but defend the person if I know them.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Some people will always judge - you've too many or you've too few.

If it bothers you, why not publish your verifications? Folk have the info to work with then.

I personally don't care how many/few someone has, but I will judge the content of them

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This pretty much encapsulates my view too. Totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. Really couldn't give a rats arse. People judge. They are entitled to make an error of judgement. Doesn't affect me.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I don't wish to be judged, so don't display the summary for that reason. I do newbie tours at my local club where I a a regular & receive loads of verifications because of that. I chose to display a selection of mine including some recent ones, sexy ones, social ones and a few that are happy memories

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No. Doesn’t bother me. I never show sexual ones anyway so if people can’t be bothered to look through them and see they’re all social then so be it. A lot of assuming goes on on fab I find it funny if anything x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't really bother us. People will think what they think and their thoughts are their business. We read profiles and the verifications too and can see exactly what you are saying. Even if someone has had what we consider a lot of sexual partners, what business is it of ours? So long as they are happy. x

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Actually no one has commented on mine. But yes most are social meets in clubs. I don’t care if people don’t like it

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

People can assume all they like, I don’t let it bother me. I only show social ones, anything other than that is between me and the other person. If someone asks the question of who or how many, they’ll get the same response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it when certain ppl think ppl with a great amount of verifications assume the profile owner has slept with all those who have verified them??

Don't they understand verifications are there to verify the ppl are genuine and decent folk they've probably met at many a fab social event?

There nothing more off putting than guys that think or say things like ohhh I couldn't meet her she's far too many verifications??

Saying she's slept with that many ppl being called a sl*t but then if it was men with the same amount of verifications they would get called a stud!!

Does this bug you too?"

Do they actually call you a slut? Or just say they don't want to meet someone with so many veris showing?

I don't care what the veris are for, I won't meet someone with more than 4 veris showing (summary or readable). We just aren't compatible.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

The exact reason why mine are hidden

I’ve been on here 8 years , was a party host and have met many friends over the years so have LOADS

A small percentage are play ones

People judge if you show and judge if you don’t haha

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Nothing bugs me about anyones profile. I am just here for the social element...chat in forum and cam rooms.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I like to read veris to see what a person is like or if I am undecided a veri might make my mind up. If people think I'm a sl*t and want to judge me for how many veris I have feel free I probably don't want to meet you anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only thing that bugs me are the crabs

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"What is it when certain ppl think ppl with a great amount of verifications assume the profile owner has slept with all those who have verified them??

Don't they understand verifications are there to verify the ppl are genuine and decent folk they've probably met at many a fab social event?

There nothing more off putting than guys that think or say things like ohhh I couldn't meet her she's far too many verifications??

Saying she's slept with that many ppl being called a sl*t but then if it was men with the same amount of verifications they would get called a stud!!

Does this bug you too?"

...and those people who don't understand that the amount means absolutely nothing and folk have sex before and after Fab.

3 veris but have shagged 2000 or 2000 veris and shagged 3.

If they are not mature or intelligent enough to figure that out, they are best ignored.

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By *ittlekinks38 OP Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

"What is it when certain ppl think ppl with a great amount of verifications assume the profile owner has slept with all those who have verified them??

Don't they understand verifications are there to verify the ppl are genuine and decent folk they've probably met at many a fab social event?

There nothing more off putting than guys that think or say things like ohhh I couldn't meet her she's far too many verifications??

Saying she's slept with that many ppl being called a sl*t but then if it was men with the same amount of verifications they would get called a stud!!

Does this bug you too?

Do they actually call you a slut? Or just say they don't want to meet someone with so many veris showing?

I don't care what the veris are for, I won't meet someone with more than 4 veris showing (summary or readable). We just aren't compatible.

You don't care what the veris are for but say in the next breath you won't meet anyone with more than 4 veris showing or not!can I ask why that would be?? But yet you've no pics or verifications up yourself? So how would you know you are compatible or not? Just wondering...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it when certain ppl think ppl with a great amount of verifications assume the profile owner has slept with all those who have verified them??

Don't they understand verifications are there to verify the ppl are genuine and decent folk they've probably met at many a fab social event?

There nothing more off putting than guys that think or say things like ohhh I couldn't meet her she's far too many verifications??

Saying she's slept with that many ppl being called a sl*t but then if it was men with the same amount of verifications they would get called a stud!!

Does this bug you too?

Do they actually call you a slut? Or just say they don't want to meet someone with so many veris showing?

I don't care what the veris are for, I won't meet someone with more than 4 veris showing (summary or readable). We just aren't compatible.

I prefer to meet discreet people.

If they have more than 4 veris showing we're not compatible. Simple.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I think anyone with a brain OP should be able to distinguish between meets, socials and webcam."

This is the theory I work with, I'm top heavy in social veris, but that's pretty much all I do now anyway

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By *ittlekinks38 OP Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

"What is it when certain ppl think ppl with a great amount of verifications assume the profile owner has slept with all those who have verified them??

Don't they understand verifications are there to verify the ppl are genuine and decent folk they've probably met at many a fab social event?

There nothing more off putting than guys that think or say things like ohhh I couldn't meet her she's far too many verifications??

Saying she's slept with that many ppl being called a sl*t but then if it was men with the same amount of verifications they would get called a stud!!

Does this bug you too?

Do they actually call you a slut? Or just say they don't want to meet someone with so many veris showing?

I don't care what the veris are for, I won't meet someone with more than 4 veris showing (summary or readable). We just aren't compatible.

I prefer to meet discreet people.

If they have more than 4 veris showing we're not compatible. Simple."

Surely if they even have 4 verifications then they aren't being that discreet really? But if that works for you fair play....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You lot are hilarious. Thanks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You lot are hilarious. Thanks!!

Ditto

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

If a person has a lot of veris I read them first before making my mind up, but have veris from social meets and cams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a combo of envy and judgemental brains

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