FabSwingers.com forum: Bicurious?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, felt like I wanted to share this and, probably not one for Facebook.

I had my first meet and experience with another guy last night. Oddly at ease kissing another bloke, which was surprising. Definitely happier with a tongue in my mouth than a cock though.

Safe to say I'm "vers"

Its interesting how different the dynamic is when it's another guy. Especially when he's 7" taller than you. Still, nice to have the biggest dick in the room I guess.

Probably regret standing on a chair to level things out a bit at one stage, if I'm honest with myself though.

I guess my question for the bi guys (and girls) is, how much is the dynamics different when it's mmf? Group? Compared to solo "dates"

Happy that I got some questions answered (and I'll not lie, he was hot, and I'm picky as fuck haha) but, doubt I'd be interested in meeting guys solo again

Its fun finding out who you are! Feel I should have done it vefire I was 40 though lol

Feel better for that, cheers fellow fabbers

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

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High five Thumper!

It’s always a good feeling when something you try for the first time is a positive experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"High five Thumper!

It’s always a good feeling when something you try for the first time is a positive experience.

High five, gratefully accepted

thank you

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

The dynamic in MMF is different as everyone is sharing and the main event isn’t just the two guys.

There’s time to relax and enjoy what’s happening and take time pleasuring just one person.

Once you have a good friendship with someone, be that an individual guy or someone from a couple, then a guy/guy MM night is fun as there’s some chemistry already.

Good that you experienced it and nice for you to know that you’re versatile but don’t write it off yet.

Try other things rather than just a suck and fuck. I’ve had a lot of fun giving a sloppy oily massage to a male friend, with lots of time to tease in between.

Sexuality is for exploring.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Another high five here as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The dynamic in MMF is different as everyone is sharing and the main event isn’t just the two guys.

There’s time to relax and enjoy what’s happening and take time pleasuring just one person.

Once you have a good friendship with someone, be that an individual guy or someone from a couple, then a guy/guy MM night is fun as there’s some chemistry already.

Good that you experienced it and nice for you to know that you’re versatile but don’t write it off yet.

Try other things rather than just a suck and fuck. I’ve had a lot of fun giving a sloppy oily massage to a male friend, with lots of time to tease in between.

Sexuality is for exploring.

Thanks for the feedback, definitely next on my ticklist is mmf

You're probably right about not writing it off, maybe someone closer to my size next time though, do away with standing on furniture

Wasn't really a suck and fuck to be fair. We talked for a good few hours, shared a shower, and obviously some sucking and fucking haha. I even gave him a massage, though to be fair I was inside him at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solo meets are much easier imho

I have played with guys as part of a couple and also as the third wheel

I find threesome and group fun a bit too mechanical

I much prefer the intensity you find with a 1-on-1

But that's just me

Finding out what works for you needs the little journey of exploration

It's not an easy step to take and the breeze with which you reference it is a positive

I've met a few first timers, two of which broke down in tears afterwards

Finding yourself can be a release of so many years of pent up angst, worry and guilt, so it can be as emotional as it can be erotic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Solo meets are much easier imho

I have played with guys as part of a couple and also as the third wheel

I find threesome and group fun a bit too mechanical

I much prefer the intensity you find with a 1-on-1

But that's just me

Finding out what works for you needs the little journey of exploration

It's not an easy step to take and the breeze with which you reference it is a positive

I've met a few first timers, two of which broke down in tears afterwards

Finding yourself can be a release of so many years of pent up angst, worry and guilt, so it can be as emotional as it can be erotic

There were no tears after but, definitely took some time out today to just, process. He was great, he knew it was my first time even kissing a guy let alone anything else, I knew I was in control the entire time, ok, maybe nor when I was bottom but, I did kinda like that for a wee while if I'm honest

It was definitely as emotional (within myself) as it was erotic. Nicely put

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

I started thinking I was straight. An experience in my early 20's with two girls, some ropes and a strap-on got me curious. A d*unken beach party experience and I knew I was more than curious. An experience with a beautiful trans girl confirmed my bisexual nature. Many years later, I was advised that my correct label is pansexual, as gender doesn't play a role in who I fancy.

Personally, I don't like labels but people seem to enjoy putting things in boxes. I'm ok with that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I started thinking I was straight. An experience in my early 20's with two girls, some ropes and a strap-on got me curious. A d*unken beach party experience and I knew I was more than curious. An experience with a beautiful trans girl confirmed my bisexual nature. Many years later, I was advised that my correct label is pansexual, as gender doesn't play a role in who I fancy.

Personally, I don't like labels but people seem to enjoy putting things in boxes. I'm ok with that."

So, that's what that means... interesting! There are some truly outstandingly beautiful trans girls on here, without a doubt

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