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Right, I’ve been on here 5 yrs and I still don’t know what a swinger is?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone please explain to me?

Love and Peace

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I was thinking this earlier on the other thread when I said I’m not a swinger. I’ve had a threesome with a FWB and someone else. Does that count? I’d quite like to know the definition too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s when you have a 12” cock without an erection.

Example;

“Seen the fucking swinger on him”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Austin powers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was thinking this earlier on the other thread when I said I’m not a swinger. I’ve had a threesome with a FWB and someone else. Does that count? I’d quite like to know the definition too "

Errr where was the invite??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s when you have a 12” cock without an erection.

Example;

“Seen the fucking swinger on him”."

Oh.

I'm definitely not a swinger then. Mines only 6 inch soft. Fuck sake.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,


"I was thinking this earlier on the other thread when I said I’m not a swinger. I’ve had a threesome with a FWB and someone else. Does that count? I’d quite like to know the definition too "

Hate to say this but Google is your friend on this one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s when you have a 12” cock without an erection.

Example;

“Seen the fucking swinger on him”."

I’d be a proper swinger if I had a 12” todger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Austin powers"

But I don’t dress like him

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I was thinking this earlier on the other thread when I said I’m not a swinger. I’ve had a threesome with a FWB and someone else. Does that count? I’d quite like to know the definition too

Hate to say this but Google is your friend on this one."

No. I want real swingers definitions. Not google definitions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s when you have a 12” cock without an erection.

Example;

“Seen the fucking swinger on him”.

Oh.

I'm definitely not a swinger then. Mines only 6 inch soft. Fuck sake. "

A demi swinger, maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Austin powers

But I don’t dress like him "

Liar

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was thinking this earlier on the other thread when I said I’m not a swinger. I’ve had a threesome with a FWB and someone else. Does that count? I’d quite like to know the definition too

Hate to say this but Google is your friend on this one.

No. I want real swingers definitions. Not google definitions. "

Exactly. Come on swingers, fess up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Austin powers

But I don’t dress like him

Liar "

I’ve got the same hair and that’s about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Austin powers

But I don’t dress like him

Liar

I’ve got the same hair and that’s about it "

LIAR!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever left a veri that includes the phrases "treat her with respect"? If no, not a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You put you key in a bowl and the lucky lady pick keys out

If your key gets picked out then your the lucky guy

Afterwards the lady come back though with cum dripping bween her thighs to prove to all the deep was done

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Austin powers

But I don’t dress like him

Liar

I’ve got the same hair and that’s about it

LIAR!!! "

Downstairs I have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you ever left a veri that includes the phrases "treat her with respect"? If no, not a swinger. "

Guilty as charged. But I don’t feel like a swinger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You put you key in a bowl and the lucky lady pick keys out

If your key gets picked out then your the lucky guy

Afterwards the lady come back though with cum dripping bween her thighs to prove to all the deep was done "

What if you’re not a big shooter and none dribbles out??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You put you key in a bowl and the lucky lady pick keys out

If your key gets picked out then your the lucky guy

Afterwards the lady come back though with cum dripping bween her thighs to prove to all the deep was done

What if you’re not a big shooter and none dribbles out?? "

Ooo well can’t prove the deed was done your just going to need to try again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You put you key in a bowl and the lucky lady pick keys out

If your key gets picked out then your the lucky guy

Afterwards the lady come back though with cum dripping bween her thighs to prove to all the deep was done

What if you’re not a big shooter and none dribbles out?? "

Then your swinging licence gets revoked and you have to go the SVLA and do a hazard perception test where you watch videos of single men pretending to be couples and you have to click when you spot the hazards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You put you key in a bowl and the lucky lady pick keys out

If your key gets picked out then your the lucky guy

Afterwards the lady come back though with cum dripping bween her thighs to prove to all the deep was done

What if you’re not a big shooter and none dribbles out??

Ooo well can’t prove the deed was done your just going to need to try again "

Are we talking hours or days later?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You put you key in a bowl and the lucky lady pick keys out

If your key gets picked out then your the lucky guy

Afterwards the lady come back though with cum dripping bween her thighs to prove to all the deep was done

What if you’re not a big shooter and none dribbles out??

Then your swinging licence gets revoked and you have to go the SVLA and do a hazard perception test where you watch videos of single men pretending to be couples and you have to click when you spot the hazards."

My poor finger will be fucked with all the clicking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You put you key in a bowl and the lucky lady pick keys out

If your key gets picked out then your the lucky guy

Afterwards the lady come back though with cum dripping bween her thighs to prove to all the deep was done

What if you’re not a big shooter and none dribbles out??

Ooo well can’t prove the deed was done your just going to need to try again

Are we talking hours or days later? "

We talking right that second ha ha other wise your keys will never go back on the agein

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You put you key in a bowl and the lucky lady pick keys out

If your key gets picked out then your the lucky guy

Afterwards the lady come back though with cum dripping bween her thighs to prove to all the deep was done

What if you’re not a big shooter and none dribbles out??

Then your swinging licence gets revoked and you have to go the SVLA and do a hazard perception test where you watch videos of single men pretending to be couples and you have to click when you spot the hazards.

My poor finger will be fucked with all the clicking "

As long as you don't click in a pattern you'll pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've hung out with some, so, does that make me guilty by association?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You put you key in a bowl and the lucky lady pick keys out

If your key gets picked out then your the lucky guy

Afterwards the lady come back though with cum dripping bween her thighs to prove to all the deep was done

What if you’re not a big shooter and none dribbles out??

Then your swinging licence gets revoked and you have to go the SVLA and do a hazard perception test where you watch videos of single men pretending to be couples and you have to click when you spot the hazards."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've hung out with some, so, does that make me guilty by association?"

How do you know they were swingers? What was the tell tale sign?

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I have pampas grass out front and wear pineapple shirts.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Have you ever left a veri that includes the phrases "treat her with respect"? If no, not a swinger. "

I’ve got one that says that!

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.


"I was thinking this earlier on the other thread when I said I’m not a swinger. I’ve had a threesome with a FWB and someone else. Does that count? I’d quite like to know the definition too "

Like any label it is open to self defenition. Just having a couple of threesomes could be something if you chose to use to label oneself but probably it would be accompanied by the intention of having several more such sessions probably biding up to larger groups or varied similar combinations. Equally people who routinely have sex with strangers in a group are at the other end of the group and self define strongly as that.

Equally you can have occasional such sexual adventures and just see it as a bit of fun. No label needed.

Labels can be a bit self limiting but have the advantage of acting as a form of shorthand for oneself and others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was thinking this earlier on the other thread when I said I’m not a swinger. I’ve had a threesome with a FWB and someone else. Does that count? I’d quite like to know the definition too

Like any label it is open to self defenition. Just having a couple of threesomes could be something if you chose to use to label oneself but probably it would be accompanied by the intention of having several more such sessions probably biding up to larger groups or varied similar combinations. Equally people who routinely have sex with strangers in a group are at the other end of the group and self define strongly as that.

Equally you can have occasional such sexual adventures and just see it as a bit of fun. No label needed.

Labels can be a bit self limiting but have the advantage of acting as a form of shorthand for oneself and others."

A good answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever left a veri that includes the phrases "treat her with respect"? If no, not a swinger.

I’ve got one that says that! "

Did Rex leave it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever left a veri that includes the phrases "treat her with respect"? If no, not a swinger.

Guilty as charged. But I don’t feel like a swinger "

I've got that Shania Twain tune in my head now "ooh I feel like a swinger". I don't either. Guess we have to go UNLOS.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Have you ever left a veri that includes the phrases "treat her with respect"? If no, not a swinger.

I’ve got one that says that!

Did Rex leave it? "

Haha. I had to check! No But I’m disappointed he didn’t

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Now I'm the king of the swingers

Oh, the jungle VIP

I've reached the top and had to stop

And that's what botherin' me

I wanna be a man, mancub

And stroll right into town

And be just like the other men

I'm tired of monkeyin' around!

Oh, oobee doo

I wanna be like you

I wanna walk like you

Talk like you, too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I'm the king of the swingers

Oh, the jungle VIP

I've reached the top and had to stop

And that's what botherin' me

I wanna be a man, mancub

And stroll right into town

And be just like the other men

I'm tired of monkeyin' around!

Oh, oobee doo

I wanna be like you

I wanna walk like you

Talk like you, too"

*Polite golf clap*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a clue but if we don't start soon, we'll be cast out as non swingers

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

For us a swinger is someone who can separate the act of sex and the emotion involved in relationships. They see sex as an extension of a good night with people they get on with and find attractive without socially enforced shame or taboos. That the like to enjoy the fact their significant other is having fun without jealousy as they know that emotionally they are still theirs. Swinging if just fun and orgasms without concerns as long as it consenting and honest. It removes the need for lying or deciet . For us it strengthens our relationship with eachother as sex with others is sooo different that between us. We can help fulfill each others fantasies safely and knowing we can look out for eachother.

That's our definition of what swinging is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever left a veri that includes the phrases "treat her with respect"? If no, not a swinger.

I’ve got one that says that!

Did Rex leave it?

Haha. I had to check! No But I’m disappointed he didn’t "

I would be too!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Well the traditional definition was people in relationships who engaged in partner swapping but I think it's progressed beyond that. I think it's more to do with engaging in the swinger lifestyle and the openess about engaging in recreational sex, potentially with more than one person. I think that's what differentiates single swingers from single people just having casual hook ups. I think part of it is about self identification too and relating to a community. A bit like what differentiates a kinkster from someone who experiments with BDSM but doesn't identify any differently because of it.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

You put you keys in a bowl. And shag someone's Mrs.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Well the traditional definition was people in relationships who engaged in partner swapping but I think it's progressed beyond that. I think it's more to do with engaging in the swinger lifestyle and the openess about engaging in recreational sex, potentially with more than one person. I think that's what differentiates single swingers from single people just having casual hook ups. I think part of it is about self identification too and relating to a community. A bit like what differentiates a kinkster from someone who experiments with BDSM but doesn't identify any differently because of it. "

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"I was thinking this earlier on the other thread when I said I’m not a swinger. I’ve had a threesome with a FWB and someone else. Does that count? I’d quite like to know the definition too

Hate to say this but Google is your friend on this one.

No. I want real swingers definitions. Not google definitions. "

People who have consensual extramarital sex with others

Us singles are just promiscuous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking this earlier on the other thread when I said I’m not a swinger. I’ve had a threesome with a FWB and someone else. Does that count? I’d quite like to know the definition too

Hate to say this but Google is your friend on this one.

No. I want real swingers definitions. Not google definitions.

People who have consensual extramarital sex with others

Us singles are just promiscuous "

Oh. Well I'm quite happy to be promiscuous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A saloon door, as it opens both ways, I.e swinger.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’ve never sent a FAF after too many shandies at 3am then you’re not a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being banged more times than a ketchup bottle by strangers and loving it

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By *yder RavishMan
over a year ago

Ware Hertfordshire


"Being banged more times than a ketchup bottle by strangers and loving it "

That made me laugh

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"You put you key in a bowl and the lucky lady pick keys out

If your key gets picked out then your the lucky guy

Afterwards the lady come back though with cum dripping bween her thighs to prove to all the deep was done

What if you’re not a big shooter and none dribbles out??

Then your swinging licence gets revoked and you have to go the SVLA and do a hazard perception test where you watch videos of single men pretending to be couples and you have to click when you spot the hazards.

My poor finger will be fucked with all the clicking "

That's where you're going wrong. You don't fuck the fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever left a veri that includes the phrases "treat her with respect"? If no, not a swinger. "

Is that a genuine thing, or did you make it up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever left a veri that includes the phrases "treat her with respect"? If no, not a swinger.

Is that a genuine thing, or did you make it up? "

Is it genuine that people write "treat her with respect"? Loads of people do. Obvs I was joking that it's a mark of a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I didn't get the joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I didn't get the joke "

Ah no worries

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We've been to 'sex clubs', we've spoken to some people at the bar. Normally the bloke is fully dressed female is in lingery. They sit at the bar chatting all night, and call themselves swingers.

Us, we're perverts, we go round the rooms, fucking and sucking ect.

I do hope that people don't get the 2 muddled up. And hope we don't get banned from Fabs. Now we've declaired we're not swingers just perverts.

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