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Men masturbating? Ladies do you like it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Simple question, ladies do you like guys who masturbate, or is it a turn off for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on even better if I’ve somehow triggered them to masturbate after a few sexts and thirst trap pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They love it when i wank over there head pinning there arms with my legs lots

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

When it's a guy I have a sexual relationship with and it's because of me then I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m forever being called a wanker.

If they didn’t love it, they wouldn’t encourage it.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Current girlfriend insists that I wank for her. She loves it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally I don't do things like cum tributes for girls or wank over their pics etc. A serious gf, yea she might get that treatment. I sometimes think guys who do this for women, especially onces they're not in a relationship with can come off as desperate and thirsty.

In terms of just masturbating I think it is healthy (Science says so) but I'm seeing more and more guys post about not masturbating and the benefits involved so I've gone a few stretches without doing it, like a week or two, but I'm thinking of extending this further.

And yes I see lots of women here like guys who do that for them (masturbate over their pics and tell, or send pics, or offer cum tributes) I just don't think the majority of women overall think like that, and I don't think it's a dominant or alpha male trait to have.

Women have asked me to this and I've told them no for the same reasons.

Not trying to offend anyone just sharing my opinion on it.

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Yes I like it with someone I know and especially if it’s over me.

(No random messages offering to wank for me please)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Does nothing for me, personally. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, only watching my man though, a ramdomer isn't hot, but watching the Mr, especially if he's blindfolded is hot!

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Looking at your pictures you can't help but have a wank beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn on even better if I’ve somehow triggered them to masturbate after a few sexts and thirst trap pics "

What is a thirst trap pic??? (Excuse my naivety)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Turn on even better if I’ve somehow triggered them to masturbate after a few sexts and thirst trap pics

What is a thirst trap pic??? (Excuse my naivety)"

A thirst trap pic is a pic on social media designed to get men or women to obsess over you. So for instance a thirst trap pic for women is a guy with his top off showing off his sexy abs.

For guys, it would be a woman in a thong with a big booty or sexy leggings in the gym for leg day. Stuff like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant imagine a man that doesnt masturbate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A huge turn on especially if we're doing it together, knowing I've turned him on enough for his load on me is sexy

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I cant imagine a man that doesnt masturbate. "

I had an ex who didn't but he also was only really interested in sex for the first few months of our relationship. I know the majority can't leave it alone though .

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I cant imagine a man that doesnt masturbate.

I had an ex who didn't but he also was only really interested in sex for the first few months of our relationship. I know the majority can't leave it alone though . "

I'd definitely wank over those toes! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy doing it when a lady has built me up that I can’t hold back and she knows it’s just for her

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Simple question, ladies do you like guys who masturbate, or is it a turn off for you? "

Are there guys that don’t?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Personally I don't do things like cum tributes for girls or wank over their pics etc. A serious gf, yea she might get that treatment. I sometimes think guys who do this for women, especially onces they're not in a relationship with can come off as desperate and thirsty.

In terms of just masturbating I think it is healthy (Science says so) but I'm seeing more and more guys post about not masturbating and the benefits involved so I've gone a few stretches without doing it, like a week or two, but I'm thinking of extending this further.

And yes I see lots of women here like guys who do that for them (masturbate over their pics and tell, or send pics, or offer cum tributes) I just don't think the majority of women overall think like that, and I don't think it's a dominant or alpha male trait to have.

Women have asked me to this and I've told them no for the same reasons.

Not trying to offend anyone just sharing my opinion on it. "

What are the advantages of not? Curious

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I enjoy doing it when a lady has built me up that I can’t hold back and she knows it’s just for her "

That's the only time I like it

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I enjoy doing it when a lady has built me up that I can’t hold back and she knows it’s just for her

That's the only time I like it "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a friend that was absolutely outraged that her boyfriend wanked, she took it really offensively.

Was strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are the benefits of not masturbating for prolonged periods?

Wet dreams? What a delight, nothing I love more than waking up having jizzed myself.

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex


"They love it when i wank over there head pinning there arms with my legs lots"

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex

Love it. Major turn on.

Especially doing it next to each other!

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

I love wanking, thats why wearing the cage gives an extra element of kink!

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Love it. Major turn on.

Especially doing it next to each other! "

Oh god absolutely! One of my porn wanks is mutual masturbation. X

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By *orthcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if benefits of abstaining. Lots of medical evidence now, especially relating to more mature guys from late 40s onwards, that regularly recycling your tanks protects the prostate gland considerably as it expels chemicals known to be found in high PSA readings.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

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By *aul40nwMan
over a year ago

wirral

Willing participant here if you can turn me on 1st ....haha

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Not sure if benefits of abstaining. Lots of medical evidence now, especially relating to more mature guys from late 40s onwards, that regularly recycling your tanks protects the prostate gland considerably as it expels chemicals known to be found in high PSA readings.

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Good bit of information that. I'll let my wife know, she doesn't like me wanking

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex


"Not sure if benefits of abstaining. Lots of medical evidence now, especially relating to more mature guys from late 40s onwards, that regularly recycling your tanks protects the prostate gland considerably as it expels chemicals known to be found in high PSA readings.

Good bit of information that. I'll let my wife know, she doesn't like me wanking "

Why doesnt she like you wanking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant imagine a man that doesnt masturbate. "

Anything is possible if you just believe.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Not sure if benefits of abstaining. Lots of medical evidence now, especially relating to more mature guys from late 40s onwards, that regularly recycling your tanks protects the prostate gland considerably as it expels chemicals known to be found in high PSA readings.

Good bit of information that. I'll let my wife know, she doesn't like me wanking

Why doesnt she like you wanking? "

We stopped having sex many year's ago, now have separate bedrooms.

But because she doesn't fancy me sexually anymore, she thinks I should abstain too! xx

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex


"Not sure if benefits of abstaining. Lots of medical evidence now, especially relating to more mature guys from late 40s onwards, that regularly recycling your tanks protects the prostate gland considerably as it expels chemicals known to be found in high PSA readings.

Good bit of information that. I'll let my wife know, she doesn't like me wanking

Why doesnt she like you wanking?

We stopped having sex many year's ago, now have separate bedrooms.

But because she doesn't fancy me sexually anymore, she thinks I should abstain too! xx"

Ah fuck that! Your body. You should be able to wank if you want.

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex


"I had a friend that was absolutely outraged that her boyfriend wanked, she took it really offensively.

Was strange. "

I don't get this. Such controlling behaviour over someone elses body

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I cant imagine a man that doesnt masturbate.

I had an ex who didn't but he also was only really interested in sex for the first few months of our relationship. I know the majority can't leave it alone though .

I'd definitely wank over those toes! x"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely adore watching guys wank. There have been some very hit videos on here.

S x

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By *-MrDarcy-.Man
over a year ago

London and Bedford


"I absolutely adore watching guys wank. There have been some very hit videos on here.

S x"

The chat 'Directing Rooms' are full of men that like to be watched. I'll admit it's arousing knowing you're turning someone on. Though, some people really need to learn about camera positioning and lighting. Yes everyone's a critic

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Like all things sex, if it turns on you and your partner of the moment, and does no harm, knock yourself out.

Not very alpha male, how do you conclude that? Most of the alphas I know are wankers

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Not sure if benefits of abstaining. Lots of medical evidence now, especially relating to more mature guys from late 40s onwards, that regularly recycling your tanks protects the prostate gland considerably as it expels chemicals known to be found in high PSA readings.

Good bit of information that. I'll let my wife know, she doesn't like me wanking

Why doesnt she like you wanking?

We stopped having sex many year's ago, now have separate bedrooms.

But because she doesn't fancy me sexually anymore, she thinks I should abstain too! xx

Ah fuck that! Your body. You should be able to wank if you want. "

I do, every night! Love having my own bedroom x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I don't enjoy watching men masturbate.

And anyone who sends me a msg saying they're doing that over my pics or asking if I want a tribute just gets blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a mutual masturbation session, it's really horny and really gets me turned on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a massive turn on IF I have an interest in the guy. Random guys wanking does nothing for me.

NBVN x

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

I do. I like it. Rather a lot actually

I love it with a partner, it's a two way thing then but I do quite enjoy just watching a good vocal wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, if they are doing it right

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour

Dont overly into the stroking part just when they cum... especially if it dribbles out and down over their hand but over my pics?? No prefer it in person lol

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"Yeah, if they are doing it right "

Which consists of ? I’m all ears

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I send V videos of me having sex with guys so I know he'll be wanking & it makes me hornier.

Love the thought of guys wanking because of me, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, if they are doing it right

Which consists of ? I’m all ears "

Slowly, sensually and pulsing

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol


"What are the benefits of not masturbating for prolonged periods?

Wet dreams? What a delight, nothing I love more than waking up having jizzed myself. "

Its the waking up with the feeling of missing out and fucking sticky mess everywhere lol

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By *hythmic DriverMan
over a year ago

Croydon


"Turn on even better if I’ve somehow triggered them to masturbate after a few sexts and thirst trap pics "

Hey

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"Yeah, if they are doing it right

Which consists of ? I’m all ears

Slowly, sensually and pulsing "

Much like my planks then XX

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By *l1pp3ryCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Simple question, simple answer. Yes!

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

If we want sex too often we're obsessed & borderline sex pests. If we wank cos we're not allowed a bit, we're filthy perverts.

Welcome to average bloke life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a short wanking vid in my gallery... tribute to everyone in the forums x

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