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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

You know those people who you meet and they have a smile on their face and always try to see the bright side of life. You know the ones that make you feel they are interested in you and spending 5 minutes just chatting to you is the most important part of their day.

They're the best aren’t they.

Here’s a thought, I know it’s flippant to say but things are always better when someone gives you a genuine smile, and if somebody doesn’t give it to you, then give somebody else a smile and 5 minutes of your day.

Be one of those people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a happy day OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a ray of fucking sunshine.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

People can be great.

But Fiddles, you forgot the p.s. send boobs

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Have a happy day OP.

It’s just got better

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I’m a ray of fucking sunshine.

Hi Ray, I’m Fiddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine that you're one of those people OP. Good job

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"People can be great.

But Fiddles, you forgot the p.s. send boobs

Oh crikey. I forgot, boobs work easily as well as a smile.

Show somebody your boobs and you’ve a friend for life.

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I imagine that you're one of those people OP. Good job

It’s a trite thing to say, but,

Turn that frown upside down has value in it.

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I have an innate distrust of people who are happy all the time

Call me cynical but sometimes they've got to be pretending, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am shour I an make you smile in 3 seconds just by bending over and rolling down my knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm proud to be one of those people. I smile at strangers in the street (you're not supposed to do that in London) and I make eye contact on the Tube (this is a near hanging offence). One day I'll write a short essay about the range of reactions a smile can elicit. Some are more heartwarming than others.

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I have an innate distrust of people who are happy all the time

Call me cynical but sometimes they've got to be pretending, right?"

True, however if they are masking they’re own grumpiness to cheer somebody else up, surely that’s not a bad thing is it. And apparently moods are contagious. I’d rather be spreading a good one than a bad one.

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I am shour I an make you smile in 3 seconds just by bending over and rolling down my knickers "

It’s definitely got merit.

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I'm proud to be one of those people. I smile at strangers in the street (you're not supposed to do that in London) and I make eye contact on the Tube (this is a near hanging offence). One day I'll write a short essay about the range of reactions a smile can elicit. Some are more heartwarming than others."

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

I love to make people smile

People generally do when I'm around though I'm pretty sure they're laughing at me most of the time...

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’m a smiler generally. Even when I’m a bit down or stressed I don’t tend to outwardly show it. Well not in public anyway. I think far too many people walk around with headphones on or with there eyes on their phone that it is rare to talk to people when out and about as people just aren’t aware of what is going on around them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have an innate distrust of people who are happy all the time

Call me cynical but sometimes they've got to be pretending, right?"

Absolutely yes, sometimes I'm pretending, but if you pretend to be happy or confident or whatever mood you want to be in your subconscious will eventual fall for it.

Plus just because I'm miserable doesn't mean anyone I talk to in the supermarket or at work needs to hear about it and potentially end up being miserable too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have an innate distrust of people who are happy all the time

Call me cynical but sometimes they've got to be pretending, right?

Exactly that. Took me too long to type the above. Fat thumbs.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's lovely to see that I'm not the only one whom thinks like this.nicely put op

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd love to read that.

And I hate that in London. No I'm not a psycho for smiling at you, mate, pull that stick from your arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are naturally atracted to people with a happy dissposition and an added smile or two - it makes you feel relaxed and appreciated

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I love to make people smile

People generally do when I'm around though I'm pretty sure they're laughing at me most of the time...

I’m sure they’re not, but then again.

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I’m a smiler generally. Even when I’m a bit down or stressed I don’t tend to outwardly show it. Well not in public anyway. I think far too many people walk around with headphones on or with there eyes on their phone that it is rare to talk to people when out and about as people just aren’t aware of what is going on around them.

Kx"

Such a lovely smile too x

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I'd love to read that.

And I hate that in London. No I'm not a psycho for smiling at you, mate, pull that stick from your arse

That made me smile

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"We are naturally atracted to people with a happy dissposition and an added smile or two - it makes you feel relaxed and appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to read that.

And I hate that in London. No I'm not a psycho for smiling at you, mate, pull that stick from your arse

My bug bear is the one that makes me think; "yes, you're pretty, but that's not why I'm smiling at you, I smile at everyone, stop looking like I just did a poo in your handbag."

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Nice OP Fiddles x

I am one of those people and am also fortunate enough to have those that take time out to ask how I'm doing.

I believe that a kind word and a smile can go along way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am shour I an make you smile in 3 seconds just by bending over and rolling down my knickers

It’s definitely got merit.

Definitely dose have

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'd love to read that.

And I hate that in London. No I'm not a psycho for smiling at you, mate, pull that stick from your arse

My bug bear is the one that makes me think; "yes, you're pretty, but that's not why I'm smiling at you, I smile at everyone, stop looking like I just did a poo in your handbag." "

I'm the same in that I smile at anyone, doesn't matter what they look like.

I'll often say good morning to people

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Nice OP Fiddles x

I am one of those people and am also fortunate enough to have those that take time out to ask how I'm doing.

I believe that a kind word and a smile can go along way.

Show shines a good deed in a weary world.

Willy Wonka.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to read that.

And I hate that in London. No I'm not a psycho for smiling at you, mate, pull that stick from your arse

My bug bear is the one that makes me think; "yes, you're pretty, but that's not why I'm smiling at you, I smile at everyone, stop looking like I just did a poo in your handbag."

I'm the same in that I smile at anyone, doesn't matter what they look like.

I'll often say good morning to people

I could have guessed you were the sort.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd love to read that.

And I hate that in London. No I'm not a psycho for smiling at you, mate, pull that stick from your arse

My bug bear is the one that makes me think; "yes, you're pretty, but that's not why I'm smiling at you, I smile at everyone, stop looking like I just did a poo in your handbag." "

That must be a difficult one. I try to graciously accept stuff like that (even if in my head I'm going "query iffy"). Ha. (Although if it escalates I make a hasty escape)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice one fiddles I a generally smiley person I smile at people in shops if we make eye contact just to be friendly. Unfortunately some people see that as strange but I just feel world would be a better place if we were all more friendly

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"You know those people who you meet and they have a smile on their face and always try to see the bright side of life. You know the ones that make you feel they are interested in you and spending 5 minutes just chatting to you is the most important part of their day.

They're the best aren’t they.

Be one of those people.

Absolutely, thankfully we are positive folk and love being that way with others. It takes so little effort but makes so much difference to others and reflects back to yourself too !. Tony is often in trouble chatting with girls on checkouts yet they certainly love it too (just not the queue behind him lol). Last time we were in a club the hottest couple in the place came over to sit with us

. We were the happiest and craziest folk in the place and it acts like a magnet. Got on so well with the staff (couple) they swapped profile names and wanted to meet up again. No play that night but it still left fond memories and a warm feeling, hopefully the others did too...

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

What a lovely thread.

Let hope we all make someone's day xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning cold

Still sneezing

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Awww bless ya Fiddles

what a lovely thread! I have heard (genuine) smiles are contagious... so let's get smiling but for all the right reasons!

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"What a lovely thread.

Let hope we all make someone's day xx "

It’s in us all to do it.

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Awww bless ya Fiddles

what a lovely thread! I have heard (genuine) smiles are contagious... so let's get smiling but for all the right reasons!

A genuine smile coming your way

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Oh wow look at that... instant smile back

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I start out all smiley but the more people I meet the more my face goes

people…. gahhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm far from happy but I usually smile at people and very often have a little chat with someone at the bus stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of love fiddles

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