FabSwingers.com forum: what do people class as rough sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondered what peoples thoughts were on this as recently a girl wanted me to slap her and choke her. Needless to say i declined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondered what peoples thoughts were on this as recently a girl wanted me to slap her and choke her. Needless to say i declined. "

As much as I enjoyed that within a loving relationship it's not something I would ask for from a meet. But that's not really rough to me.

Cali

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

guess rough sex depends on each persons boundarys, as a timid person might class something as rough sex that another might class as normal ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its hard fast deep agressive rampant raw. spanking, choking, hair pulling..

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

"For me its hard fast deep agressive rampant raw. spanking, choking, hair pulling.. "

mmmmmmmm, oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me its hard fast deep agressive rampant raw. spanking, choking, hair pulling.. "

Yes please haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me its hard fast deep agressive rampant raw. spanking, choking, hair pulling..

mmmmmmmm, oh yes

I can hear you 2 getting wet from here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humping an ugly woman and having to look at her war face as you do her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pinning someone to the wall and taking them hard and fast whilst pulling there hair an slapping there ass an stuff, is that rough sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I dont mind pulling a womans hair or slapping her arse, couldnt slap their face tho would be to scared of leaving a mark or hurting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pinning someone to the wall and taking them hard and fast whilst pulling there hair an slapping there ass an stuff, is that rough sex?

Oooft plz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rubbing my stubble along a freshly shaven fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"rubbing my stubble along a freshly shaven fanny

ouch!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you need two bags - one for her head - and one for yours, just in case hers falls off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you need two bags - one for her head - and one for yours, just in case hers falls off!

* in the interests of equality you can also substitute 'hers' for 'his'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me its hard fast deep agressive rampant raw. spanking, choking, hair pulling.. "
Bitting, sucking hard, calling out sex words .. raw sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me its hard fast deep agressive rampant raw. spanking, choking, hair pulling.. Bitting, sucking hard, calling out sex words .. raw sex.

cant believe i forgot to mention being bitten.. its my instant turn on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you need two bags - one for her head - and one for yours, just in case hers falls off!

Ah, the old double bagger, like it. But have you gone one step further onto the Jackal? That's when she's so ugly that when you wake up with your arm around her you'd rather chew it off than risk waking her. hehe.

But to answer the OP, isn't rough sex when you do it with someone from a council estate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me its hard fast deep agressive rampant raw. spanking, choking, hair pulling.. Bitting, sucking hard, calling out sex words .. raw sex.

cant believe i forgot to mention being bitten.. its my instant turn on! "

what even if i take me teeth out first ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me its hard fast deep agressive rampant raw. spanking, choking, hair pulling.. Bitting, sucking hard, calling out sex words .. raw sex.

cant believe i forgot to mention being bitten.. its my instant turn on! "
me too i love it BIG TIME nibbling bitting my neck ooo god makes me so horny thinking about it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me its hard fast deep agressive rampant raw. spanking, choking, hair pulling.. Bitting, sucking hard, calling out sex words .. raw sex.

cant believe i forgot to mention being bitten.. its my instant turn on!

what even if i take me teeth out first ?

oops

i read it as it was your turn OFF

there i go again misreading signals

i can't get it right even with written instructions and a manual

there's no hope

i should stick to wanking !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bussy i just wanna hug you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bussy i just wanna hug you lol "

as long as my head is between ur bust and i have 'fiddling space' you have got urself a deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bussy i just wanna hug you lol

as long as my head is between ur bust and i have 'fiddling space' you have got urself a deal

lol your head between my tits would make an awesome picture.. will look like ive 3 tits

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By *weetdebWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Pinning someone to the wall and taking them hard and fast whilst pulling there hair an slapping there ass an stuff, is that rough sex?

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Hell yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bussy i just wanna hug you lol

as long as my head is between ur bust and i have 'fiddling space' you have got urself a deal

lol your head between my tits would make an awesome picture.. will look like ive 3 tits

I'd not thought of that !

Get that Obi ready with his camera

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

When she uses her teeth, scratches my back and bites my lip... or is this a 'only men can be rough' thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When she ties you to the bed and you discover that all those years of guys telling her they were 9 inches has caused her to misjudge just how much they were bullshitting, as her shiny new strap-on prevents you sitting down for a year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When she ties you to the bed and you discover that all those years of guys telling her they were 9 inches has caused her to misjudge just how much they were bullshitting, as her shiny new strap-on prevents you sitting down for a year!

you seem to know this scenario a little too well !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When she uses her teeth, scratches my back and bites my lip... or is this a 'only men can be rough' thread?"

oh no its deffo a two way thing.. i give as good as i get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you seem to know this scenario a little too well !"

Me? Noooooooooo!

Read it, erm.......on t'internet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bussy i just wanna hug you lol

as long as my head is between ur bust and i have 'fiddling space' you have got urself a deal

lol your head between my tits would make an awesome picture.. will look like ive 3 tits

I'd not thought of that !

Get that Obi ready with his camera

ive a picture with a mans shaved head between my boobs already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me its hard fast deep agressive rampant raw. spanking, choking, hair pulling..

mmmmmmmm, oh yes

Ohhh mmm yes yes too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me its hard fast deep agressive rampant raw. spanking, choking, hair pulling.. Bitting, sucking hard, calling out sex words .. raw sex.

cant believe i forgot to mention being bitten.. its my instant turn on! me too i love it BIG TIME nibbling bitting my neck ooo god makes me so horny thinking about it xx"

Mmm yes whilst been held down too

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I enjoy rampant . Wild feisty sex , biting and hair pulling , holding round limbs firmly and throwing into a position, spanking but I won't do hand round throat . Its too threatening x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when a guy pulled me off the side of our hot tub and i had huge bruise on my back and couldn't sit down for three days....... needless to say I stopped play!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When she uses her teeth, scratches my back and bites my lip... or is this a 'only men can be rough' thread?"

see now that would do nothing for me.. but then I never ever mark my playmates..

I couldnt be rough back.. I could nibble a lip or nibble a bit around them but nothing that would hurt or mark.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy rampant . Wild feisty sex , biting and hair pulling , holding round limbs firmly and throwing into a position, spanking but I won't do hand round throat . Its too threatening x"

oh i like hand round the throat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy rampant . Wild feisty sex , biting and hair pulling , holding round limbs firmly and throwing into a position, spanking but I won't do hand round throat . Its too threatening x"

Oh hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking the original question is a bit of a what do you enjoy type of question. The answers are endless. The reality, "rough sex" is so personalised and one persons turn on is anothers absolute no no. Being rough is about trust though. If you trust them, I suspect you'd go much further than you'd imagine you could before. As for the slapping the face thing. For me the turn on isn't the slapping of the face, it's the fact that slapping her face turns her on. If it doesn't turn her on, it't a no no for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gagged tied up but in back of van taken into the woods where the doggers go and a free for all or they can just look at you strapped nude to tree and toys foods and things smeared over for the licking.... ok you have to say your up for this and be happy as its ...not everyone's cup of tea .And they have the control .. to do what ever .. bit fuck fist wee ...snog lick pull spank nip ...

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Asking the original question is a bit of a what do you enjoy type of question. The answers are endless. The reality, "rough sex" is so personalised and one persons turn on is anothers absolute no no. Being rough is about trust though. If you trust them, I suspect you'd go much further than you'd imagine you could before. As for the slapping the face thing. For me the turn on isn't the slapping of the face, it's the fact that slapping her face turns her on. If it doesn't turn her on, it't a no no for me.

so true .. I once met a couple where if I even cupped her breast she was oooching, outching or sucking her teeth .. it was absolutely amazing how her hubby even got near her - or even put up with it day by day!.

On the flip side ive been in some pretty wild meets - one springs to mind where she had me take a run up across quite a large hotel room, to windmill spank her arse ... she said - "that a bit better", my hand near fell off!

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows

Rough sex... when ur doing a woman and the cat jumps on ur arse and promotes each cheek to "sergent"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when they pinch my boobs, put two or three fingers inside of me, and when they lift my legs in the air, i hate it.

ouch.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I can be quite rough when I don't shave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being asked (by a lady) to use a riding crop on her pussy until it was red raw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shagging a hobo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shagging my ex. She was rough all right...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy rampant . Wild feisty sex , biting and hair pulling , holding round limbs firmly and throwing into a position, spanking but I won't do hand round throat . Its too threatening x"

The choking element does nothing for me. I would find it extremely scary if someone did that to me. I would instantly want all play to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy rampant . Wild feisty sex , biting and hair pulling , holding round limbs firmly and throwing into a position, spanking but I won't do hand round throat . Its too threatening x

The choking element does nothing for me. I would find it extremely scary if someone did that to me. I would instantly want all play to stop."

Its something I've had quite a bit of practice in administering, but only ever with long term / trusted partners. Its not something I would ever do on a first meet, probably not even the second or third. It takes allot of trust from everyone involved.

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

"I enjoy rampant . Wild feisty sex , biting and hair pulling , holding round limbs firmly and throwing into a position, spanking but I won't do hand round throat . Its too threatening x

The choking element does nothing for me. I would find it extremely scary if someone did that to me. I would instantly want all play to stop."

Can you tell us your version of rough play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be shagged and passed around a few "rough" (rugby/builder type) big and hairy older white guys, taking turns...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex in a bramble bush. That's pretty rough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy rampant . Wild feisty sex , biting and hair pulling , holding round limbs firmly and throwing into a position, spanking but I won't do hand round throat . Its too threatening x

The choking element does nothing for me. I would find it extremely scary if someone did that to me. I would instantly want all play to stop.

Can you tell us your version of rough play?"

Hair pulling, being pinned down, or up against a wall, biting and scratching, spanking, as listed above. Just without the chocking element.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me rough sex is more a state of mind than a act

I love asphyxiation but i wouldnt class that as rough as i like it done in a calm and controlled mannor not have some guy 'choke' me Bart Simpson style

for me rough sex is some guy who just views me as a lump of meat and just wants to come over, fact fuck me, bend me over and fuck me and leave

no act its self i would class as rough sex and i would happily do the abpve with some people and not feel it was rough sex yet when others do it it does feel it. because its how they view me that makes the difference

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"For me rough sex is more a state of mind than a act

I love asphyxiation "

I choked on a double cheeseburger once. It had the opposite effect on me

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Just wondered what peoples thoughts were on this as recently a girl wanted me to slap her and choke her. Needless to say i declined. "
I think playing this way is precarious on a meet. With a long term partner or regualr FB, ie, someone you know really well, its sexy , erotic and orgasmic.

For others its a sexual assault charge waiting to happen.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Rough sex to me is beating someone near death for even trying to get rough with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the hotel room is trashed the next morning and I'm stepping over supine bodies to get downstairs for a double fried everything for breakfast ..... now that's what I'd class as having had rough sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me its hard fast deep agressive rampant raw. spanking, choking, hair pulling..

mmmmmmmm, oh yes

I can hear you 2 getting wet from here!!!

"this is a staff announcemet, janitor to the lounge please!. We have puddles the need clearing"

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