FabSwingers.com forum: Help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i have been on here for over a month now and I am struggling to get a reply I don’t know what I can do to increase my chances any suggestions or help thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello handsome.

Have you tried messaging one of the easy ladies?

Best bets probably Meli.

Hope this helps.

If not, a more serious answer would be that patience is key.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

Your status would put me off I'm afraid.

Other than that, maybe more pics of you and fill in a bit about what you can offer and what you're into etc.

Socials are a great way to get to know others and join in on here too.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

As above said status is off putting.

Be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the club OP .. and wow its a big club too

Hang in there, I'm sure someone will come along

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your honesty and yeah didn’t really think before I wrote that status hahah made me cringe to go back and read it it did have to go

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah it was a bad idea that status proper cringe hah

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Pure mathematics.

100s of men to every lady/couple

The odds are forever not in your favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me an example of the typical message you send.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you send fancy a fuck messages?

Or one liners?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

There is nothing exciting about your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No nothing like that

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Hello handsome.

Have you tried messaging one of the easy ladies?

Best bets probably Meli.

Hope this helps.

If not, a more serious answer would be that patience is key."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look for clubs and socials events that are coming up and attend those…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"i have been on here for over a month now and I am struggling to get a reply I don’t know what I can do to increase my chances any suggestions or help thanks in advance

You have friends on here so you must have spoken to some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is nothing exciting about your profile "

Stop dancing around the subject and be honest ffs

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

More pics and elaborate your profile a bit more maybe. Otherwise be nice, chat on forums, send interesting messages to those you like and don’t get downhearted! You’ll find someone x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I have spoken to a few people but nothing serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it in the forums please.

That message won’t get many replies. We get hundreds of messages like that and single women probably get thousands. Read peoples profiles, wrote a tailored message based on their bio. Try your best to show you’re different from the hundreds/thousands or other people sending the exact same messages. It wont guarantee success but you’ll have a much better chance.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Yeah I have spoken to a few people but nothing serious "

So you have had messages

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Couple of things OP

1. You've only been on the site 5 weeks...its called fabswingers not instashag

And

2. You are only young. Most people have children your age or older so that in turn can put people off.

Give it time, have patience and good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in no position to make suggestions, I even get refusals from my right hand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep it in the forums please.

Bloody typos

Write**

of**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you read the zillions of forum posts on this!

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By *eddy004Man
over a year ago

Toy Town

See this as a victory that you've got people replying to your post at least. Take it as a win for the week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of your profile as your shop window in a high street. You need to make it stand out and be as appealing as you can make it to draw people in. Look at other 'shop windows' and see how yours compares.

Also you need time and patience and understanding that this is a swinging site, not a site where you get instant sex on tap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP put similar text as to what I have in my profile. I get women message so it must work!

Sometimes less is more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If in doubt, add more dick, it’s foolproof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bump.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bump."

Are you in a dodgem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bump.

Are you in a dodgem

I was trying to lure meli in to be honest

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Just join in with forum/cam chat o/p. Takes time to get noticed. I'd hold on sending the first message.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP firstly in it can take several months to get a meet on here, and you'll be a bit young for many. Lots of us have children your age and older.

In the hope that your request for help includes your profile...and I don't get in trouble.

Poor choice of profile photo... is your cock your main offering?

How does anyone know if they're like minded? You tell us nothing about what you want and can offer.

You need potential meets to actually look at your profile, ladies generally want men not just cocks, and then to be inspired by the content of the profile to find out more.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

We're a bad bunch not telling him the actual reason ...

To lure anyone in you have to offer cake

...it's a given then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please explain id love to know

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"OP firstly in it can take several months to get a meet on here,"

The OP wasn't asking about meets, he wanted messages. Which he has had, so a pointless thread methinks

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Bump.

Are you in a dodgem

I was trying to lure meli in to be honest

You mean one of the easy ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried a discreet glory hole?

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