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"What everyone's thoughts on singles males looking for fun? Has anyone else come across barriers for us single guys? " It's simple mathematics. Hundreds of guys to every girl/couple and then some of those girls/couples are not even looking for single gents The odds are stacked against you | |||
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"That's why we built the m6 toll. To keep you all down there "and the m25 so they can keep going round in circles! | |||
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"That's why we built the m6 toll. To keep you all down there "We need a second Hadrian’s wall. Although by the time they reach that and felt the slight dip in temperature they’d turn around to get their big coats | |||
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"What everyone's thoughts on singles males looking for fun? Has anyone else come across barriers for us single guys? It's simple mathematics. Hundreds of guys to every girl/couple and then some of those girls/couples are not even looking for single gents The odds are stacked against you " Add in some of those single female / couple profiles aren't even genuine ... oh dear  | |||
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OP use the forum search and you will find all you need to know about Fab not being a 'sign up and women will come running' site  | |||
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"Nothing to do with being new or naive "It's a classic newbie thread, however one spins it | |||
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"Nothing to do with being new or naive
It's a classic newbie thread, however one spins it "I'd disagree whether it sounds like "classic thread" but we can all have an opinion | |||
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I was on 2 weeks as a single guy and met C and here we are
But seriously, you need to develop friendships and they take a long time. This isn’t the fuck and go site you’ve been led to believe it is.
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"Can’t believe you’ve been on 3 weeks and they’ve not been queuing
I was on 2 weeks as a single guy and met C and here we are
But seriously, you need to develop friendships and they take a long time. This isn’t the fuck and go site you’ve been led to believe it is.
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"I think a lot of people believe singles guys think this is a fuck and go, great description and proberbly because that's how most people see this, but if I'm honest I don't treat it as such but the barrier per se is not even getting replys because as you said most people treat it as such | |||
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"Hello OP, you seem to have a nice profile and avoid a lot of the pitfalls. Are you single though? Not being able to accommodate is usually a red flag for some people. That might be an issue?" Thank you for pointing that out, yes however living arrangements are a little strained so can't accommodate where I currently am, but appreciate you looking | |||
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"I'd disagree whether it sounds like "classic thread" but we can all have an opinion "Totally true, though tell me you've not seen this topic a zillon times when you've been here 10 year | |||
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"Hello OP, you seem to have a nice profile and avoid a lot of the pitfalls. Are you single though? Not being able to accommodate is usually a red flag for some people. That might be an issue? Thank you for pointing that out, yes however living arrangements are a little strained so can't accommodate where I currently am, but appreciate you looking " It's with reiterating that you are single, then just to put peoples minds at rest. | |||
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"I'd disagree whether it sounds like "classic thread" but we can all have an opinion
Totally true, though tell me you've not seen this topic a zillon times when you've been here 10 year "Completely understand, must be tough for seasoned vets here ( I mean that politely) when you have a lot of single guys treating this site like tinder. | |||
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"That's why we built the m6 toll. To keep you all down there "Never knew there were any other Motorways other than the M3! | |||
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"I’ve cut and paste the reply I put on another similar thread OP. You need to understand the graft you need to put in : “ It can be hard work OP but time and effort put in = rewards out. Build an interesting and engaging profile and be active by chatting on forums, making new friends and contacts and building your social network. Took me two years to get traction on here” . " Appreciate the message, thank you | |||
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"Nothing to do with being new or naive
It's a classic newbie thread, however one spins it "Yes see them all the time. | |||
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"Most of the men I like seem to be up north "Waves (from up north) and says Hi | |||
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"Completely understand, must be tough for seasoned vets here ( I mean that politely) when you have a lot of single guys treating this site like tinder." I only complained about yet another newbie asking the same old question without bothering to do a forum search. What's that got to do with Tinder 
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"What everyone's thoughts on singles males looking for fun? Has anyone else come across barriers for us single guys? " The only real barrier is when is comes to couples really they never seem to want to meet single males wich I can understand so that's a whole category that we can write off really but other than that once your established on here and got meets under your belt and a decent profile its basically about your approach and conduct | |||
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"Disillusioned no, and pop density doesn't equate to fabS members per se, but factoring in my own distance to travel and small town im from (personal circumstances I know) make it harder for the selected few profiles are that around " I think your age counts against you on Fab. Many singles/couples prefer over 40’s as they have kids under 30. You may be better going to a social - they’ve just started them in Hants. | |||
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"What everyone's thoughts on singles males looking for fun? Has anyone else come across barriers for us single guys? The only real barrier is when is comes to couples really they never seem to want to meet single males wich I can understand so that's a whole category that we can write off really but other than that once your established on here and got meets under your belt and a decent profile its basically about your approach and conduct " Lots of couples want to meet single males for threesomes, Cuck/Bull/Hotwife scenarios etc how do they happen without single guys | |||
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"I would cum across a barrier for many single guys here, especially from the south. " More than welcome to cum over to this side of the barrier | |||
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"Liverpool guy down south No definite answer I’m afraid Think all hottys up north "Definitely some beautiful woman down here just not looking for singles or don't reply | |||
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"Carlos suggests you move up north were the ladies are less fussy. "Carlos may want to rethink that | |||
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"What everyone's thoughts on singles males looking for fun? Has anyone else come across barriers for us single guys? " Yeah pushy single males and arseholes who get nasty when knocked back | |||
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"Liverpool guy down south No definite answer I’m afraid Think all hottys up north
Definitely some beautiful woman down here just not looking for singles or don't reply "True just carry on as you are I do hope you find someone soon Sometimes as well friends can be quite supportive on fab lady’s and gents  | |||
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"Carlos suggests you move up north were the ladies are less fussy. "Yeah we'll take anything us! | |||
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"Carlos suggests you move up north were the ladies are less fussy.
Yeah we'll take anything us! "Right I’m jumping in the motor and heading for the M1! | |||
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"What everyone's thoughts on singles males looking for fun? Has anyone else come across barriers for us single guys? The only real barrier is when is comes to couples really they never seem to want to meet single males wich I can understand so that's a whole category that we can write off really but other than that once your established on here and got meets under your belt and a decent profile its basically about your approach and conduct Lots of couples want to meet single males for threesomes, Cuck/Bull/Hotwife scenarios etc how do they happen without single guys " Most I come across are looking for single women or other couples rarely do they want guys | |||
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"What everyone's thoughts on singles males looking for fun? Has anyone else come across barriers for us single guys? " But isn't the naughty North and the sexy South? | |||
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"Most of the men I like seem to be up north "Same story here also!  | |||
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"Carlos suggests you move up north were the ladies are less fussy. "I'm in the Midlands not the North | |||
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