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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito

…I’m not sure if there’s been one today (and I’ll be honest and say I only checked one page of threads) but this thread is just to share some positivity and love while other people try to turn the world upside down.

Are you feeling down or frowning? How can we help you turn that around?

Today I spent time with some doggies who chased balls like crazy lunatics, I had a cuppa with my Mum & my Dad called me on the phone and those things made me smile

Maybe others can share something that made them smile today or something they are grateful for to turn the frowns upside down…

and

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the way your boobies hug a rug

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"I love the way your boobies hug a rug "

Well thank you. Ya don’t wanna be poking peoples eyes out with pointy cold nips now do ya

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I had a meal with my kids, after I'd enjoyed a lie in (rarer then hens teeth). Lovely day!

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"I had a meal with my kids, after I'd enjoyed a lie in (rarer then hens teeth). Lovely day!"

That sounds adorable! What food did you have?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Had a relaxed quiet day, music, reading, chatting. Have eaten way too much galaxy though, when then delivered a family size bar instead of a single one…. oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the way your boobies hug a rug

Well thank you. Ya don’t wanna be poking peoples eyes out with pointy cold nips now do ya "

can always get spare eyes

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I had a meal with my kids, after I'd enjoyed a lie in (rarer then hens teeth). Lovely day!

That sounds adorable! What food did you have? "

Italian.....although they were unable to make pizzas, so various firms of pasta were consumed x

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"Had a relaxed quiet day, music, reading, chatting. Have eaten way too much galaxy though, when then delivered a family size bar instead of a single one…. oops "

I think that’s allowed, their mistake and you should never waste chocolate

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I had my weekly coffee date with my bestie this morning. It was wonderful as ever.

Sending hugs and good vibes to all who need them this evening

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Struggling at the moment but I have a really good close friend who always makes me smile no matter what x

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"Struggling at the moment but I have a really good close friend who always makes me smile no matter what x"

Awwww I hear Spurschick might have spare chocolate if that helps too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Struggling at the moment but I have a really good close friend who always makes me smile no matter what x"
well there was this one time at bandcamp when a girl got tingly privates when i touched the back of her neck just thought it may be relevant to a smile

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I had a great lunch with friends today, so nice to get back out!

Need to see you soon again OP x

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

Well today has been great cause its my

BIRTHDAY

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Am bloated in a food coma now, after a magnificent dinner and desert. Think gummy walrus with chin hair instead of whiskers

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"Am bloated in a food coma now, after a magnificent dinner and desert. Think gummy walrus with chin hair instead of whiskers "

For a second I thought gummy walrus was the desert

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


" Well today has been great cause its my

BIRTHDAY "

Happiest of Happy birthdays!

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"I had a great lunch with friends today, so nice to get back out!

Need to see you soon again OP x"

It’s always good to see friends & yes we do! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a long delayed but fantastic day with an amazing fab friend & revelling in the afterglow of it all.

Plus I have some fun plans lined up for next weekend so it’s happy days for me!

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Went for a lovely walk today. The sky was actually blue in Manchester! Heavenly stuff. Proper raised my spirits

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've just told a friend whom is having a confidence wobble that she is perfectly fine just the way she is and say what she feels because those that mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went for a coffee down the beach, was lovely

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Just the sun being out all weekend totally changes my mood. Always does. I love the sunshine.

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"Just the sun being out all weekend totally changes my mood. Always does. I love the sunshine. "

Sunshine really does make a difference to things doesn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got through a lot of the shows on my to watch list if that counts .

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"I had my weekly coffee date with my bestie this morning. It was wonderful as ever.

Sending hugs and good vibes to all who need them this evening "

Lovely hugs thank you

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"Went for a coffee down the beach, was lovely"

Is it a stone or sand beach?

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire


" Well today has been great cause its my

BIRTHDAY

Happiest of Happy birthdays! "

Thankyou

Foxy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took my two autistic nephews to 3 parks today, they had a great time in the sun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had crumpets for tea

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I have just rejoined the gym. It's been 3 months since I was there. I can feel Tuesday's pain already.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


" Well today has been great cause its my

BIRTHDAY "

Happy birthday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It feels like spring has sprung today! Sunshine, birds singing and flowers blooming on my walk with the pooch today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My positive input for you all is.

You all look amazing. You are the reason that this site is enjoyable for us all xx

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"Went for a lovely walk today. The sky was actually blue in Manchester! Heavenly stuff. Proper raised my spirits "

Oooh I love it when the sky does pretty stuff like that. Glad it helped you

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"I had a long delayed but fantastic day with an amazing fab friend & revelling in the afterglow of it all.

Plus I have some fun plans lined up for next weekend so it’s happy days for me!

"

That post glow feel is lovely when you experience it isn’t it! I’m a little overdue one too

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"I've just told a friend whom is having a confidence wobble that she is perfectly fine just the way she is and say what she feels because those that mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind "

You are a kind friend

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"i got through a lot of the shows on my to watch list if that counts ."

100% self care activity so it definitely counts

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"Took my two autistic nephews to 3 parks today, they had a great time in the sun "

Wow I thought you were lucky to have one park in town these days let alone 3?! You are a fun uncle

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"I had crumpets for tea "

I approve this tea choice

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"I have just rejoined the gym. It's been 3 months since I was there. I can feel Tuesday's pain already. "

Haha no pain no gain don’t they say? Good luck

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"It feels like spring has sprung today! Sunshine, birds singing and flowers blooming on my walk with the pooch today. "

It’s lovely knowing spring is here isn’t it? Winter feels far too long these days

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"My positive input for you all is.

You all look amazing. You are the reason that this site is enjoyable for us all xx"

You smooth talker, thanks

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Sat in the garden with the dogs and felt the sun spent the day with a beautiful human and recharged my soul. Today was much needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this thread. Love to send out fabs and messages to people to maintain the positive outlook!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took my two autistic nephews to 3 parks today, they had a great time in the sun

Wow I thought you were lucky to have one park in town these days let alone 3?! You are a fun uncle "

Considering I am in East London boundaries you have a point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sat in the garden with the dogs and felt the sun spent the day with a beautiful human and recharged my soul. Today was much needed "

Sounds like a fabulous day!

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham

My positive.... Its been a rough few weeks with work and today I took a stroll with my mate down Southsea sea front. It was amazing the fresh air the sunshine and a couple of beers to finish the day.

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"My positive.... Its been a rough few weeks with work and today I took a stroll with my mate down Southsea sea front. It was amazing the fresh air the sunshine and a couple of beers to finish the day. "

South sea is definitely a good place to blow the cobwebs away. Sounds lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My positive.... Its been a rough few weeks with work and today I took a stroll with my mate down Southsea sea front. It was amazing the fresh air the sunshine and a couple of beers to finish the day. "

Sounds like a great day to have after a few rough few weeks!

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito

I’m adding to my positive post…I just ate Thai food for my tea yum yum yum

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham


"I’m adding to my positive post…I just ate Thai food for my tea yum yum yum "

Ooooooooo now I'm jealous

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham


"My positive.... Its been a rough few weeks with work and today I took a stroll with my mate down Southsea sea front. It was amazing the fresh air the sunshine and a couple of beers to finish the day.

South sea is definitely a good place to blow the cobwebs away. Sounds lovely! "

I am extremely lucky to be based down here

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"I have just rejoined the gym. It's been 3 months since I was there. I can feel Tuesday's pain already.

Haha no pain no gain don’t they say? Good luck "

Thank you OP, I will need it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just rejoined the gym. It's been 3 months since I was there. I can feel Tuesday's pain already.

Haha no pain no gain don’t they say? Good luck

Thank you OP, I will need it. "

I finally got back last few weeks after losing 4 months in the gym, definitely a great mental boost being back, muscle soreness aside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A certain gent has been making me smile all day

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By *hubbycheckerMan
over a year ago

Porstmouth

I forgotten what it's like to smile if im honest

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"I have just rejoined the gym. It's been 3 months since I was there. I can feel Tuesday's pain already.

Haha no pain no gain don’t they say? Good luck

Thank you OP, I will need it.

I finally got back last few weeks after losing 4 months in the gym, definitely a great mental boost being back, muscle soreness aside "

I've been out running because I wasn't at the gym, but my posture needs the gym. I'm not standing as straight just now. My core and shoulders will be in agony come Tuesday or Wednesday.

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham


"A certain gent has been making me smile all day "

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Positively bumping this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wake up every day with a mind set that I will try and make everything positive and if I hear or see something negative I’ll try to find the positive side of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I caught my daughter, fingers deep in a jar of Nutella earlier. She knows she’s not to do it, so obviously I told her to put the lid back on and put it back in the cupboard. I had to smile though, as my non verbal, autistic daughter, started mumbling “oh no” to herself, before going in the cutlery drawer, turning to me, spoon in hand, and very proudly showing it me and saying “boon!”

Little achievements like that, her spontaneous use of words and actions, make me so proud (even if she was being a bugger), after spending the day with her having meltdown after meltdown, it made my day x

Viv xx

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling


"I caught my daughter, fingers deep in a jar of Nutella earlier. She knows she’s not to do it, so obviously I told her to put the lid back on and put it back in the cupboard. I had to smile though, as my non verbal, autistic daughter, started mumbling “oh no” to herself, before going in the cutlery drawer, turning to me, spoon in hand, and very proudly showing it me and saying “boon!”

Little achievements like that, her spontaneous use of words and actions, make me so proud (even if she was being a bugger), after spending the day with her having meltdown after meltdown, it made my day x

Viv xx "

I’m actually smiling reading this, how adorable xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I caught my daughter, fingers deep in a jar of Nutella earlier. She knows she’s not to do it, so obviously I told her to put the lid back on and put it back in the cupboard. I had to smile though, as my non verbal, autistic daughter, started mumbling “oh no” to herself, before going in the cutlery drawer, turning to me, spoon in hand, and very proudly showing it me and saying “boon!”

Little achievements like that, her spontaneous use of words and actions, make me so proud (even if she was being a bugger), after spending the day with her having meltdown after meltdown, it made my day x

Viv xx

I’m actually smiling reading this, how adorable xx"

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While i wait for destiny to reward my sacrifice i keep earning on working hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby home one day early can’t wait to see him this week

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Hubby home one day early can’t wait to see him this week "

Hope he's brought you some strawberries and cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning cuddles from my doggy before we start the day

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"Morning cuddles from my doggy before we start the day "

Those are the best!

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"While i wait for destiny to reward my sacrifice i keep earning on working hard "

But you still make time for fun stuff right? Like colouring over the lines and eating ice cream

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"I caught my daughter, fingers deep in a jar of Nutella earlier. She knows she’s not to do it, so obviously I told her to put the lid back on and put it back in the cupboard. I had to smile though, as my non verbal, autistic daughter, started mumbling “oh no” to herself, before going in the cutlery drawer, turning to me, spoon in hand, and very proudly showing it me and saying “boon!”

Little achievements like that, her spontaneous use of words and actions, make me so proud (even if she was being a bugger), after spending the day with her having meltdown after meltdown, it made my day x

Viv xx

I’m actually smiling reading this, how adorable xx

Thank you xx"

Unbelievably cute

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