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It’s impossible to love someone unless you love yourself first?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agree or disagree?

It’s an old saying, but I get where it comes from.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Disagree. There are loads of people with staggeringly low self esteem who love deeply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disagree people sacrifice there lives for loved ones all the time just look to the east to find proof

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

For healthy mutual love I agree

There unfortunately are many many other layers and actions that are said and done under the supposed guise of love...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disagree

Having the love of another reflected can be a great way of finding a love of yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it works best if you do love yourself first, as negative thoughts, self doubt and low self esteem can cause a huge negative impact on a relationship.

I do however think that you can madly love someone else but not love yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disagree

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Disagree

Having the love of another reflected can be a great way of finding a love of yourself "

I agree with this ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's not healthy to love someone deeply without being able to love yourself since it can leave you quite vulnerable. but i think you can still love yourself to an extent even with low self esteem.

i think that's why its more a general rule of thumb type thing, rather than a set in stone rule.

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