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Why do older ladies not want younger men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On reading the other thread it got me thinking lol

Older men tend to have a thing for younger ladies but why do older women shy away from younger men?

Surely its a massive compliment?

Tell me what ya feel girls cause its interesting lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes i do like younger men. Had one on Monday and he didnt need batteries lol

only prob was he kept calling me Miss, so I had to spank his ass and send him to the naughty step for time out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's younger guys and there's very young guys lol.

I personally don't want to meet someone that's the same age as my children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not mind younger gentlemen in their late 20s, however, they must be exceptional, in the sense that they must be mature enough mentally and know how to treat and woo a lady.

I prefer my gentlemen a bit more weathered to be honest, as I find them more interesting to be with during downtimes!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I did have a phase where i saw a few younger men , and while they were very nice etc........they dont quite have the je nais se quoi, men my age and older have. The ability to seduce the mind as well as the body, and just general life experience that makes people interesting, i mean how interesting is the common room at uni????Any way iv always found men 38 plus much better at oral sex anyway !!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes i do like younger men. Had one on Monday and he didnt need batteries lol

only prob was he kept calling me Miss, so I had to spank his ass and send him to the naughty step for time out."

Can I be next please miss

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By *lgernonMan
over a year ago

cupar

Note to self: be careful what to expect next time I bring an apple for the teacher

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I agree with an earier post, theres young and very young, initially I was only looking to meet guys of 40+ preferably 45+ but met a gorgeous guy of 37 3 months ago and we've been a regular thing ever since and its fantastic Not sure if I could ever go with anyone in their twenties but there were one or two at the social I might have made an exception for

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Younger guys certainly aren't a problem for me. I can understand if you have children of similar age, but as someone who has not had kids I certainly don't feel the 'he's the same age/younger than my kids'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are of an age I could have given birth to them then it's a big no-no for me..... it's being a mother thing I think that stops me. I mean... what do you say to an 18 year old????? my daughter's ten years older than you.. see if she wants a toy-boy????

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"If they are of an age I could have given birth to them then it's a big no-no for me..... it's being a mother thing I think that stops me. I mean... what do you say to an 18 year old????? my daughter's ten years older than you.. see if she wants a toy-boy???? "

Thats funny

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Unfortunately K takes great delight in telling me I'm the oldest man she has ever had so guess she goes for the younger guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Young men have absolutely no appeal what so ever. I much prefer them older.

Even 10 years younger than me and im raising an eyebrow lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Young men have absolutely no appeal what so ever. I much prefer them older.

Even 10 years younger than me and im raising an eyebrow lol."

They get you going that much huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Young men have absolutely no appeal what so ever. I much prefer them older.

Even 10 years younger than me and im raising an eyebrow lol.

They get you going that much huh?

"

lmao, not that kind of eyebrow raising, now that has me chuckling you daft sod lol.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

*wonders if there is hope for this old boy*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont mind guys a little younger and i send mail to younger men alone these lines on a daily basis but the reason i dont meet young guys is because i feel they only mail me because they thinmk i will be easy to meet, you know like some desparate middle aged woman who will be so grateful of their attention, plus i always feel that women who have a toy boy hanging off their arm look a little sad, you know like they trying to prove to themselves and other 'they still have it' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say that i ( Di) prefer younger men, shown by the fact that Pete is younger than me lol. I did meet men in their mid twenties when i was a single fem but would never consider any guy around my sons age. I think its just personal choice .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*wonders if there is hope for this old boy*"

only if your actually female lol.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"*wonders if there is hope for this old boy*

only if your actually female lol."

Just had a fiddle, afraid I'm 'actually' male lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*wonders if there is hope for this old boy*

only if your actually female lol.

Just had a fiddle, afraid I'm 'actually' male lol

"

Then you have a few extra bits that I donot require and the absence of something I do lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont mind guys a little younger and i send mail to younger men alone these lines on a daily basis but the reason i dont meet young guys is because i feel they only mail me because they thinmk i will be easy to meet, you know like some desparate middle aged woman who will be so grateful of their attention, plus i always feel that women who have a toy boy hanging off their arm look a little sad, you know like they trying to prove to themselves and other 'they still have it' lol"

Good grief woman, you're only 35!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it flatters me loads but to be honsst, from my experiences, youngsters generally (not all of them of course) tend to cum to quickly and rush things and I am not really personally into teaching, hence why we usually meet couples around our age give or take a few . and that goes for young girls too.

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all old people should be banned from swinging...

shocking eh

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"all old people should be banned from swinging...

shocking eh "

ooo you're back from shopping, get anything nice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont mind guys a little younger and i send mail to younger men alone these lines on a daily basis but the reason i dont meet young guys is because i feel they only mail me because they thinmk i will be easy to meet, you know like some desparate middle aged woman who will be so grateful of their attention, plus i always feel that women who have a toy boy hanging off their arm look a little sad, you know like they trying to prove to themselves and other 'they still have it' lol

Good grief woman, you're only 35!!! "

lol i know but i get messages from lad aged 18, 19 etc and even at 35 having a 18 year old message you does make you feel old, i suppose i just look at them and think.....what the hell do you want to meet me for, im over weight, ive got stretch marks due to having kids, my boobs are going south, my hairs going grey and ive got wrinkles coming....HOW is that attractive to a 18 year old? its simple not is it? they look at you and think she's gotta be easier to meet than some attractive girl my own age lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all old people should be banned from swinging...

shocking eh "

Meoooow Kitty! Lol!

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By *lgernonMan
over a year ago

cupar


"i dont mind guys a little younger and i send mail to younger men alone these lines on a daily basis but the reason i dont meet young guys is because i feel they only mail me because they thinmk i will be easy to meet, you know like some desparate middle aged woman who will be so grateful of their attention, plus i always feel that women who have a toy boy hanging off their arm look a little sad, you know like they trying to prove to themselves and other 'they still have it' lol

Good grief woman, you're only 35!!!

lol i know but i get messages from lad aged 18, 19 etc and even at 35 having a 18 year old message you does make you feel old, i suppose i just look at them and think.....what the hell do you want to meet me for, im over weight, ive got stretch marks due to having kids, my boobs are going south, my hairs going grey and ive got wrinkles coming....HOW is that attractive to a 18 year old? its simple not is it? they look at you and think she's gotta be easier to meet than some attractive girl my own age lol"

Mb younger guys just sometimes get fed up with ditzy, clueless, bizarely arrogant AND insecure young things with nowt to say? I sure as hell do from time to time. I'm not looking for love but I'm not looking to open a combination sex/social academy either.

I find many 30+ woman often have more confidence in themselves and their bodies. Sexy as anything to me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to have a no under 35s age but have come across a couple of guys younger than that who are lovely and can give me a runfor my money but i dont think i could imagine myself with anyone mid 20s and younger at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to have a no under 35s age but have come across a couple of guys younger than that who are lovely and can give me a runfor my money but i dont think i could imagine myself with anyone mid 20s and younger at all"

Ah no under 35 hun counts me out then xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I used to have a no under 35s age but have come across a couple of guys younger than that who are lovely and can give me a runfor my money but i dont think i could imagine myself with anyone mid 20s and younger at all

Ah no under 35 hun counts me out then xx "

Im down to 30 year olds now lol. I have just recieved a message from a gorgeous 25 year old asking me if he can tempt me. The jury is still out on that one, cause im not shallow and wouldnt go for looks alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do likes looking at young mens bodies.

Specially them all toned and tite

But i reckon my days of knackering younger fellas is over.

I just knacker the older ones now

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

My 23yr old lover off here is on his way now to fuck me again n again n again n again hahaha

I am truelly blessed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got one 50 that does that.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I got one 50 that does that. "

I got a few that do that as well and i dont have to change their nappy afterwards either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hahahahahahah

thats made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do likes looking at young mens bodies.

Specially them all toned and tite

But i reckon my days of knackering younger fellas is over.

I just knacker the older ones now "

.

I am lucky in that Mr Hot Date has a body of a fit 20 something. He is a climber and very active, hence he is in such good shape.

When I need a pick me up, I just drool over pics of his hot sexy muscular body on my phone, bliss!

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"I got one 50 that does that.

I got a few that do that as well and i dont have to change their nappy afterwards either "

The sexiest, horniest guy I have ever met was 56, bloody hell he was amazing, kept a hard on for hours even after cuming time and time again, he had more stamina and staying power than anyone I've ever come across,and he is the only guy that has ever made me gush.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I got one 50 that does that.

I got a few that do that as well and i dont have to change their nappy afterwards either

The sexiest, horniest guy I have ever met was 56, bloody hell he was amazing, kept a hard on for hours even after cuming time and time again, he had more stamina and staying power than anyone I've ever come across,and he is the only guy that has ever made me gush. "

ears perk up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got one 50 that does that.

I got a few that do that as well and i dont have to change their nappy afterwards either

The sexiest, horniest guy I have ever met was 56, bloody hell he was amazing, kept a hard on for hours even after cuming time and time again, he had more stamina and staying power than anyone I've ever come across,and he is the only guy that has ever made me gush. "

Gotta share that one ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"

ears perk up"

LMAO xx

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"I got one 50 that does that.

I got a few that do that as well and i dont have to change their nappy afterwards either

The sexiest, horniest guy I have ever met was 56, bloody hell he was amazing, kept a hard on for hours even after cuming time and time again, he had more stamina and staying power than anyone I've ever come across,and he is the only guy that has ever made me gush.

Gotta share that one ya know "

I recently got him to join Fabs

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

friends share on here you know. I will swap you one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well point him in our direction. lmao

or us his

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like the fact that when a guy reaches a certain age he has more stamina than these really young ones who only last a couple of hours

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I cant be doing with blisters on my fanny with hours of pounding, I like em fast and often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont mind young guys they come with built in batteries, what ever floats your boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont mind young guys they come with built in batteries, what ever floats your boat "

of course.

My partner is 22 and she much prefers older guys (not ancient ) , says they are better conversationalists and more thoughtful in the bedroom, each to their own eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont mind young guys they come with built in batteries, what ever floats your boat "

Oooer, have you kicked swingmates off the computer? Hello!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind younger guys at all....maybe because I don't have children? I don't have a thing for older guys either and very rarely find someone my age or older sexually attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..because older women have been younger women and already encountered younger men!

Ps why would you assume its a massive compliment? Many younger men have underdeveloped brains! Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love younger men ,, xx 20s 30s is heven too me if thay know what thay are looking for and up for wild sex xx jo

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Oh well point him in our direction. lmao

or us his "

Hes asked if he can come with me to the next social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh well point him in our direction. lmao

or us his

Hes asked if he can come with me to the next social "

What ? the xmas one ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont look at the age of women as most of them ive met or had fun with are slighly older (being careful here )or alot younger but never the same age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to go on how i get on with someone to be honest.

If there is a spark, age is immaterial.

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Oh well point him in our direction. lmao

or us his

Hes asked if he can come with me to the next social

What ? the xmas one ???"

Yes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh well point him in our direction. lmao

or us his

Hes asked if he can come with me to the next social

What ? the xmas one ???

Yes lol "

yoohooooooo im looking forward to crimbo now. lmao

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Oh well point him in our direction. lmao

or us his

Hes asked if he can come with me to the next social

What ? the xmas one ???

Yes lol

yoohooooooo im looking forward to crimbo now. lmao "

He asked me if he could come with me but I haven't said yes yet!

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