FabSwingers.com forum: To many varifcations?

By *he sultan of swing OP Man
over a year ago

mid devon

So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ?

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

#notsohumblebrag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 can mean you been to one club night or had 20 cups of coffee!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It would show you're popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes you look like a stud can’t be a bad thing can it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So my varifcation summary is rarely displayed as iv over 20 varifcations! And im always abit cautious of how it might look to the women on here iv been on here for around 3 years now and my varis have stacked up does this put any woman off ? "

Sounds like you're in dire straits.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

A verification isn’t always a sexual meet. It can be ‘met the guy at the bar and had a very enjoyable chat’.

So someone with 100 verifications isn’t necessarily 100 sexy meets.

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

I have 55, but over 13yrs and many of them social, I think gives a true representation of a person good or bad

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No. The quantity of his veris don't interest me, the quality of them does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the type of veri. I’ve got over 40, but they are mostly social ones.

It doesn’t really matter imo

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Isn't the answer to all these threads "some". It might put some women off, but not others.

But to my mind, OP, there could be many more off-putting elements on a profile than the number of someone's verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think displaying verifications is good, as you get a insight as to what the person is like..

Though obviously this might not always work as no-one will display a bad one..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes your a slag

I don't really pay too much attention to how many people have to be honest, they could be sexual or social. The only thing that puts me off is when people have just one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puts me off. I don't want to see more than 4.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have more than 50 verifications in 5 years spread over this profile and the previous one but 40 of those were from 3 group socials and 3 from one to one socials with only 7 related to play meets so people can make up their own mind in regard to that.

Maybe it makes me look like a stud but maybe it makes me look like a timewaster. Either way it doesn't affect my engagement here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can never have to meny

For people who think like that need to open they mind

I make no exuse for mine

I am single I am a (“bad word”) and like sex so what

If someone wants it to them selfs they should put a ring on it otherwise I free to do as i please and if they don’t like that that’s there problem not mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive seen some ppl, both men and women say that a high veri count puts them off as they believe that person has shagged a lot. I mean everyone is entitled to have their preferences and such but that one just seems a little petty and judgemental. A lot of them could be soicals and meets at a club without anything sexual happening, especially as a lot of them might not be displayed on their profile

At the end of the day having quite a few veris is really a good thing for the most part, shows youre genuine and well liked by more than a few ppl so its more likely to attract others, a snowball effect in a way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Sounds like you're in dire straits. "

How so? Is Mark Knopfler famous for his vast collection of fab veri’s too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares it’s a site to meet and have sex ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

How do you feel about women displaying lots of verifications?

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By *he sultan of swing OP Man
over a year ago

mid devon

Mixed reviews then on this one that's interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are nosey

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I have 218 I like collecting them! Not fussed if I'm judged or not tbh x

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By *he sultan of swing OP Man
over a year ago

mid devon

Sounds like you're in dire straits. "

I'm not a love struck romeo though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quantity does not put us off in fact as long as not all cams n social they just prove you could be fun ...

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By *he sultan of swing OP Man
over a year ago

mid devon

"I have 218 I like collecting them! Not fussed if I'm judged or not tbh x"

Wow fair play to you x

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By *he sultan of swing OP Man
over a year ago

mid devon

"quantity does not put us off in fact as long as not all cams n social they just prove you could be fun ... "

You guys are local im working in taunton lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Loads of sexual ones would put me off yeah but I’m not a swinger. I have loads too but they’re mostly social ones and I only show a few. If people just look at the number they could be put off I suppose. If people read them they’d see they weren’t sexual ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a mixed bag I would say.

Most have a combination of both social and meet verifications, which naturally will accumulate the longer you are on the site.

When people leave fab, their verification goes with them, but the count will stay too.

I have a summary of 25, but don't have all those to display for reasons noted above.

I don't make a decision on whether to meet someone based on their numbers, but I do look at the quality of the veris

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex

I like seeing peoples veri's.

I don't care if someone has lots. It means they put themselves out there especially if they have club/social meets.

Although, if it's cam only I don't pay any attention to them.

I like having mine displayed.

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By *elvet_OrchidWoman
over a year ago

Banbury

I personally find too many off putting, especially when all the ins & outs are mentioned. All I need to know is they are genuine and turned up as arranged . Anything else should IMO remain private .

Vee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends on the type of veri. I’ve got over 40, but they are mostly social ones.

It doesn’t really matter imo"

I would give you one

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By *ck BasswardsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Been on over 7yrs, had like one veri and struggled for like 4yrs, started going to clubs… now got over 80 after another 3yrs…. Not all from playing obvs, some from friends, some from socialising and some from physical interactions… To be 100% honest i don't think it makes me a stud, but, i don't really care if it puts anyone off, which i can acknowledge it might, tho it probably shouldn’t (if it does put anyone off, you aint my peeps, no loss, i just think of it as a filter with non compatibles removing themselves for me… bonus more time for me to dangerwank in the closet covered in goosefat whilst crying with a belt round my neck) hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on over 7yrs, had like one veri and struggled for like 4yrs, started going to clubs… now got over 80 after another 3yrs…. Not all from playing obvs, some from friends, some from socialising and some from physical interactions… To be 100% honest i don't think it makes me a stud, but, i don't really care if it puts anyone off, which i can acknowledge it might, tho it probably shouldn’t (if it does put anyone off, you aint my peeps, no loss, i just think of it as a filter with non compatibles removing themselves for me… bonus more time for me to dangerwank in the closet covered in goosefat whilst crying with a belt round my neck) hahaha"

That sounds fun

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

I've over 50 verifications and only on here 2 years does that put fellas off considering I've only had fun with a selected few I could count on one hand? I wouldn't imagine it would put ppl off you as such but know your definitely 110% genuine I suppose xx

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By *hloetTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

Agree with what most people of saying, it doesn't really mean you're sleeping with a lot of people. If someone has a lot of veris, most of them are going to be from socials. It tells me you're genuine. I don't really chat to anyone with a few veris. Don't see the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not just the number but the quality.

We definitely want quite a few veri’s now and we look at them like Tripadvisor reviews!

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’ve got 88 showing and no summary. For some that’s too much, without even looking at the detail.

If they did they would see they are social ones only. I don’t show any from sexual meets, as that is between them & I

Various things could put me off with others, veris are the last thing I look at

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Are you saying you disguise the true nature of your sexual history in order to fool women who don't like masses of veris into meeting you?

Surely, in the compatability stakes, it is better to tell the truth and meet someome with whom you are compatible. You can say the meets were over many years in your profile script which, of course, every woman reads studiously.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have 160 veris. Most are hidden as alot of small-minded people are too quick to judge without bothering to read.

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By *ingdangTV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

any profile with over 20 verification will ring the alarm for me. I saw a girl with 300+ verification and its safe to say she slept around a lot.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

For me personally I would be put off by 100s of sexual verifications, I appreciate that it's a swinging site but I'm not looking for that

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I have 160 veris. Most are hidden as alot of small-minded people are too quick to judge without bothering to read."

Very true! But let them judge I say x

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Rookie numbers… need to bump those up a little

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Personally I prefer more experienced swingers, and I enjoy reading verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep mine to myself its enough to know im real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me personally I would be put off by 100s of sexual verifications, I appreciate that it's a swinging site but I'm not looking for that

I would be put off if they literally having sex with anything and everything and do a load of gross stuff too. For me personally I am concerned with quality not the actual numbers. Seen it all on here though, been left shocked who has sex with who but that is just me

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

"any profile with over 20 verification will ring the alarm for me. I saw a girl with 300+ verification and its safe to say she slept around a lot."

Why would 20 verifications ring an alarm?? What if not all 300 of those verifications are play meets and only say 5 or 10 where?? Though surely it's just ppl at socials verifing that this person is genuine...if you had 300 verifications am sure ppl would think the same about you ... I mean that your a genuine party goer and love social nights out with fab ppl?

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Could t care less to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve got 88 showing and no summary. For some that’s too much, without even looking at the detail.

If they did they would see they are social ones only. I don’t show any from sexual meets, as that is between them & I

Various things could put me off with others, veris are the last thing I look at "

Boooo. We only care about the sexual ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of veris doesn’t bother me. And I don’t think it would bother most peor that are seriously interested in you.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't think there is such a thing as too many verifications.

It shows they actually turn up and are likely to be who they say they are.

I don't understand those who are put off by a lot of verifications. They're not necessarily sex meets and even if thet are, so what? Mant people in the vanilla world have multiple sexual partners, they simply don't advertise it online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can see both sides really. Lots of verifications possibly put some people off but equally for us we prefer people who have a decent list of quality verifications. No veris and it's unlikely we would meet them. Tried that before and it's usually a bust more often than not.

It's not just the long list of them itself, it's the quality of the people they meet or what those people actually wrote about them, the type of people they get along with and if that's compatible with us.

But equally depends what you use the site for, if you just meet people one to one and don't go in for clubs, parties etc. Can see how a lot of verifications would be intimidating for people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet people with as many as possible, it means they're experienced and reliable. In my experience many people don't leave one anyway, I had 27 or 28 I think on my last profile, but I met 120-150 people, so it's not a clear representation anyway. As others have said, they could be from socials, clubs, or other non sexual meets anyway Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"any profile with over 20 verification will ring the alarm for me. I saw a girl with 300+ verification and its safe to say she slept around a lot."

I don’t see what’s wrong with that?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We actively seek out guys with higher meets and we have a good look at the veri trail. We want to meet reliable, guys who 'get it', respectful and the professional/experienced type with couples, so alot of verifications is not a put off for us.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It won't appeal to everyone OP. And to be honest, that's handy isn't? Another way of checking your compatibility. We all have little things that suggest to us someone may or may not be a good fit for us, verifications are no different.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Edit them if it bothers you.

Its not a diary, fab doesnt need to be updated with who you meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

It's a swingers site so who is anyone to judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carlos wonders if varifications are something to do with viens?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s about quality not quantity with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is essentially a sex site so can we stop slut shaming!

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By *he sultan of swing OP Man
over a year ago

mid devon

"Edit them if it bothers you.

Its not a diary, fab doesnt need to be updated with who you meet. "

?? You can't edit a varfication? U can only choose wich ones to display wich is exactly what iv done

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By *he sultan of swing OP Man
over a year ago

mid devon

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By *he sultan of swing OP Man
over a year ago

mid devon

Are you saying you disguise the true nature of your sexual history in order to fool women who don't like masses of veris into meeting you?

My dude you have totally over thought this im not trying to fool anyone! Varfications are personal why should everyone know people's sexual history! I was just asking if women judge a guy on that! That's all

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I would say it’s not really a bad thing. It just build up a firm idea of the person in question.

Put on the other hand I am a man here and I don’t have that problem

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
over a year ago

Colchester

"You can never have to meny

For people who think like that need to open they mind

I make no exuse for mine

I am single I am a (“bad word”) and like sex so what

If someone wants it to them selfs they should put a ring on it otherwise I free to do as i please and if they don’t like that that’s there problem not mine "

This^^^ I agree with Nat (thumb

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"It's a swingers site so who is anyone to judge"

Oh but they bloody do!

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

"Edit them if it bothers you.

Its not a diary, fab doesnt need to be updated with who you meet.

?? You can't edit a varfication? U can only choose wich ones to display wich is exactly what iv done"

Yes decide which ones you show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got shit loads of em, but can't spell it

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It is your profile so run it how you see fit.

We once got told by a couple that they wouldn't meet anybody who had more than three verifications as that was too many. I asked them what they would do when they reached three or more verifications but they could quite grasp what I was getting at.

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By *he sultan of swing OP Man
over a year ago

mid devon

"Got shit loads of em, but can't spell it "

I can spell your mums name though

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It just shows you are meeting people and not even close to the numbers others have don't worry about it..

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

We have run and attended several social events. Many of our veri's come from those.

If people want to get a cob on their shoulder about the number of veris another account has, they're kinda barking up the wrong tree on this site in our opinion. The amount of veris on another's account dosnt faze us in the least. In fact they're a good indication of how legit they are in our eyes.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

"It is your profile so run it how you see fit.

I had that with a guy once. Apparently any woman with more than five wasn’t for him.

He (somehow) had three in his first three months on here and genuinely didn’t grasp my point when I asked him what he’d do after he hit five.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is your profile so run it how you see fit.

I had that with a guy once. Apparently any woman with more than five wasn’t for him.

He (somehow) had three in his first three months on here and genuinely didn’t grasp my point when I asked him what he’d do after he hit five. "

Probably one of those type of guys that thinks only men can sleep around, not women

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

You're 34 years old and I'm absolutely positive you've had sex with way more people than the verifications show.

It means nothing and if anybody bases their decision to have sex with anybody by numbers or the lack of verifications, more fool them.

Numbers mean nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is your profile so run it how you see fit.

I had that with a guy once. Apparently any woman with more than five wasn’t for him.

He (somehow) had three in his first three months on here and genuinely didn’t grasp my point when I asked him what he’d do after he hit five. "

Haha brilliant

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By *arbar2021Couple
over a year ago

city

Not gonna lie....too many puts me off big time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not very good at selling myself on the bio bit, so I thought I’ll just let my veris do the talking for me

Puts a lot of women off apparently

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By *ob08Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

I'm not a fan of VAR, it slows the game down too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've over 50

Been on 5 years so I show a mix of socials n meets. I hope that the people reading will digest that X

Include a two year break, it's not that bad X

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
over a year ago

Colchester

Not gonna lie....too many puts me off big time."

So how do you measure 'too many', versus the length of time someone is on the site? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't let it bother you OP and if it bothers others that's on them.

I can get 20 verifications from one large social meet.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

I have a lot of veris. They're all accurate reflections of my meets. I only display a few. Where is the shame in being popular and successful on Fab?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

For those that say lots of veris put them off, you do know that people have sex away from Fab don't you?

I could have one verification but shagged 300 blokes in 3 months or 5 verifications over 10 years.

Verifications mean nothing.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"No. The quantity of his veris don't interest me, the quality of them does "

Well shit. Don't look at Mr M's veri of us then

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I wouldn't let it bother you OP and if it bothers others that's on them.

I can get 20 verifications from one large social meet. "

^^^SocialBrag

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"No. The quantity of his veris don't interest me, the quality of them does

Well shit. Don't look at Mr M's veri of us then

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve got a fair few but I’ve been here a long time. I don’t think the number matters. When I see someone with lots of veris I think ‘good, they like sex and people like sex with them’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think tho there’s a sort of limit of verifications, I’ve seen some who had 90 meeting verifications (meaning he might have met many more women and couples) and that kinda put me off

Someone had like 400+…

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By *atriciayoiditTV/TS
over a year ago

hatfield

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By *he sultan of swing OP Man
over a year ago

mid devon

Oh the grammar police are out again! I'm aware I spelt it wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you saying you disguise the true nature of your sexual history in order to fool women who don't like masses of veris into meeting you?

That's why I don't like to see more than 4.

I like private people. Don't care if they have 100 or 1,000 veris. People have sex outside Fab. 0 veris doesn't mean they are a virgin. Veris prove nothing.

The people saying most of their veris are social ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got shit loads of em, but can't spell it

I can spell your mums name though "

Any 'cred' you tried to build, immediately lost

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

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By *hropsGuy69Man
over a year ago

telford

"No. The quantity of his veris don't interest me, the quality of them does "

Exactly this !!!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It's not the amount that puts me off, but sometimes the content ie all overly graphic.

As people have said, some have loads from clubs and socials too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. The quantity of his veris don't interest me, the quality of them does

Exactly this !!!"

What kind of quality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. The quantity of his veris don't interest me, the quality of them does

Exactly this !!!

What kind of quality?"

Quality of the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pffft, I've had sex more than 20 times OP, you don't scare me!

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

I purposely don’t get verified often as Iv been told more then once by men on here they don’t like it when a women has loads and I’m a private person. It isn’t anyone’s business who I meet etc

However it would put me off if someone has lots of sexual meets in a short space time and I don’t like the verifications that go into graphic detail, no one needs to know exactly what goes on between the sheets!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

You have to look at the type of verifications.

I have quite a lot, but 97% of them are from social meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it also work the other way? We only have a few verifications.

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By *illgossardTV/TS
over a year ago

Monmouth

A blank profile isn't very attractive.

Too many verifications might suggest that someone is in quite a different league to me.

I find it a turn on to read the verification of someone I'm planning to meet so long as it's within my comfort zone.

Too many going in the wrong direction and I might be put off.

Online dating shouldn't provide too many surprises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of Veris doesn't bother me, afterall people meet socially and at clubs.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

We have a few over the years.doesn't really bother us if people have quite a few at least they are genuine and meet . X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As some have said not all veris are from play

I have 29 of those 13 are just social meets only with 16 for play meets and because I've got regular meets the 16 play veris are only from 11 different ladies or couples

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