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Would you meet someone relaxed from jail

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By *ingdang OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Well unless they told me I wouldn't know ..so I could have already done so...if they said they'd just got out..it wouldn't bother me...but generally most people on here that are looking for a meet probably ain't gonna be telling you they been in jail..

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Jail jail, monopoly jail or fab jail?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we got on and I liked them. Yes of course.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Depends what they went in for I guess.

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By *ingdang OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Depends, what were they in for?

And how well and genuine I felt they had been rehabilitated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what they went in for I guess. "

Yes this too of course.

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By *he sultan of swingMan
over a year ago

mid devon

Women ex con is a turn on for me all that time with no sex there gonna be hungry for it lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?"

If he gets caught with a phone he could be in for longer than he thinks lol

I doubt someone with a contraband phone will be concerning themselves with arranging fucks on here for when they get out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?

If he gets caught with a phone he could be in for longer than he thinks lol

I doubt someone with a contraband phone will be concerning themselves with arranging fucks on here for when they get out

"

More likely just some bloke looking for wank chat while his wife is at bingo.

Sorry OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women ex con is a turn on for me all that time with no sex there gonna be hungry for it lol "

Desperation. It's something I always look for in guys aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?

If he gets caught with a phone he could be in for longer than he thinks lol

I doubt someone with a contraband phone will be concerning themselves with arranging fucks on here for when they get out

"

I wouldn't be so sure about that! Think every second person in jail has a phone and is horny.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?

If he gets caught with a phone he could be in for longer than he thinks lol

I doubt someone with a contraband phone will be concerning themselves with arranging fucks on here for when they get out

I wouldn't be so sure about that! Think every second person in jail has a phone and is horny. "

I've no doubt there's phones inside but I would imagine they're more concerned with running their outside interests and organised crime shit.

They could be in a local though on some small time sentance trying to play the big man on here. Done for shop lifting maybe.

But what do I know.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Depends what they went in for I guess. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women ex con is a turn on for me all that time with no sex there gonna be hungry for it lol

Desperation. It's something I always look for in guys aswell. "

That got a chuckle.

Why does this primitive forum not have a laughing emoji.

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?"

No I would not meet someone like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel as if people judge anyone who has been to jail. I recently got introduced to a friend of a friend and before we met I was told they’d been to jail. I had an idea of what they’d be like when we met and I couldn’t have been more wrong.

He’s currently doing an engineering degree, has a lovely girlfriend and a nice apartment. He was so polite and interesting and I couldn’t believe he’d even been arrested before never mind spent 3 years in jail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a situationship with someone who ended up in jail for manslaughter..

I mean, I was really into him and shit happens, I guess ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women ex con is a turn on for me all that time with no sex there gonna be hungry for it lol

Desperation. It's something I always look for in guys aswell. "

Nearly spat my coffee out at that one

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I had a situationship with someone who ended up in jail for manslaughter..

I mean, I was really into him and shit happens, I guess ?!"

. You crack me up. Ah well…..

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?"

Yes I've been messaged by someone who says they in jail when I questioned how Is he on here he said lots are ! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?

Yes I've been messaged by someone who says they in jail when I questioned how Is he on here he said lots are ! x"

Could make for a tricky meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a confession . One of the best arrangements I ever had was with someone who was still in jail! He had home release every second weekend and had nothing better to do than go to the gym most of the day, so he was buff as hell! I was very young, I don't go for bad boys anymore

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?

Yes I've been messaged by someone who says they in jail when I questioned how Is he on here he said lots are ! x

Could make for a tricky meet "

Praps he send a visitors pass? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a situationship with someone who ended up in jail for manslaughter..

I mean, I was really into him and shit happens, I guess ?!

. You crack me up. Ah well….. "

I’m telling you, I carefully pick them … proper desperate cases

*draws clown make up on*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?

Yes I've been messaged by someone who says they in jail when I questioned how Is he on here he said lots are ! x

Could make for a tricky meet

Praps he send a visitors pass? x"

And you’d even get a frisking from the guards

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?

Yes I've been messaged by someone who says they in jail when I questioned how Is he on here he said lots are ! x

Could make for a tricky meet

Praps he send a visitors pass? x

And you’d even get a frisking from the guards "

Hmmm now I'm interested! x

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Women ex con is a turn on for me all that time with no sex there gonna be hungry for it lol

Desperation. It's something I always look for in guys aswell.

That got a chuckle.

Why does this primitive forum not have a laughing emoji."

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?"

I think this guy is at it. Communication devices are not allowed in prison.

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By *he sultan of swingMan
over a year ago

mid devon


"Women ex con is a turn on for me all that time with no sex there gonna be hungry for it lol

Desperation. It's something I always look for in guys aswell. "

Hey I'm not desperate! My varifcations speak for themselves!

I just love women and sex! It's not desperation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

I encounter enough fruitcakes who are roaming free in society without adding ex cons into the mix.

Yes, everybody deserves a 2nd chance...yadda yadda....but that 2nd chance does not extend to possibly inserting your penis in me

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?"

Could be the same guy who messaged me at 2am during the week. I’d hate to know how he got that smart phone into Prison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm. Maybe someone relaxed. Definitely not someone stressed out and angry.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?

Yes I've been messaged by someone who says they in jail when I questioned how Is he on here he said lots are ! x

Could make for a tricky meet

Praps he send a visitors pass? x

And you’d even get a frisking from the guards

Hmmm now I'm interested! x"

Would be female officers only I'm afraid.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?

I think this guy is at it. Communication devices are not allowed in prison. "

Lots of things aren't allowed but they do get in lol

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

If they were contacting me from jail no.

If there were once locked up for a crime, released, sorted themselves out and were rehabilitated then yes.

But it depends on the crime. If they'd murdered their partner, then no.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

That’s one of those questions that’s virtually impossible to answer because everyone is different and every scenario is different.

I worked with someone once who spent a short time in jail. They were in a desperate situation, buried their head in the sand, ignored letters and warnings and ended up doing a very short time in jail for benefit fraud and not paying their council tax. They did their time, sorted their life out and are a thoroughly decent person.

I have a former friend whose boyfriend spent time in jail for kicking the shit out of his ex girlfriend when he found out she had a new boyfriend months after they split up. He also refuses to have anything to do with his kids now that “the slag” as he calls her has a new man. He may have done his time, but I’m absolutely fucking baffled what anyone would see in him.

So without details it’s impossible. On here I’d have deleted the message and not bothered - who needs that kind of hassle coming from a fun swingers site

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

About 3years ago I met someone for a social. From the minute we met we clicked and spent the next couple of hours laughing and chatting. We arranged to meet again so 2weeks later I went back to his house and we had great sex. Afterwards I pointed to a scar on his stomach. That is when he told me it was from a gunshot wound. Turned out he had spent 9years in jail as had got mixed up with the wrong crowd when young. He now had changed his life around and was full of remorse. If I had known all this from the start I probably would not have met him which would have been a shame as he was lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope.

I encounter enough fruitcakes who are roaming free in society without adding ex cons into the mix.

Yes, everybody deserves a 2nd chance...yadda yadda....but that 2nd chance does not extend to possibly inserting your penis in me"

Fruitcakes roaming free!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope.

I encounter enough fruitcakes who are roaming free in society without adding ex cons into the mix.

Yes, everybody deserves a 2nd chance...yadda yadda....but that 2nd chance does not extend to possibly inserting your penis in me

Fruitcakes roaming free! "

Not very PC....but you get me. I mean no one harm...just don't want to get up close and personal!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't see why I wouldn't, but it's not a selling point for me.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Dependent on why they were sentenced, in some cases yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope.

I encounter enough fruitcakes who are roaming free in society without adding ex cons into the mix.

Yes, everybody deserves a 2nd chance...yadda yadda....but that 2nd chance does not extend to possibly inserting your penis in me

Fruitcakes roaming free!

Not very PC....but you get me. I mean no one harm...just don't want to get up close and personal!"

Yeah I didn't think you meant it maliciously. Agree.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?"

If he is in jail and has access to this site, then he's a baddie indeed as he's probably got an illegal phone on him.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, depends why they went to jail - and of course if I even knew. Crimes that have any form of pre-meditation would be a massive warning sign, especially any kind of fraud. Crimes committed by accident - death by dangerous driving etc are not necessarily a sign of a bad person. Even crimes committed in the heat of the moment would be a possibility for me depending on how the person responded to what they'd done.

Mr

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

You are clearly not sure or you wouldn't have asked on here.

And if you aren't sure on something then don't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny enough I had a guy message me yesterday. Said he's just been released from 3 years inside. Literally gagging for it... It put me off. He scared me a little. Didn't help that he called himself Dr Doom lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a situationship with someone who ended up in jail for manslaughter..

I mean, I was really into him and shit happens, I guess ?!"

I thought Jack the sniffer got sentenced to play for man shitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 3years ago I met someone for a social. From the minute we met we clicked and spent the next couple of hours laughing and chatting. We arranged to meet again so 2weeks later I went back to his house and we had great sex. Afterwards I pointed to a scar on his stomach. That is when he told me it was from a gunshot wound. Turned out he had spent 9years in jail as had got mixed up with the wrong crowd when young. He now had changed his life around and was full of remorse. If I had known all this from the start I probably would not have met him which would have been a shame as he was lovely."

Carlos thinks this guy has had no luck.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Depends what the crime was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be interested in meeting someone out of prison. It's hard enough to trust any guy on here without that extra worry.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Depends why they were in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I have my kids to consider, and they will always come before my love life (at least while they’re still living with me).

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"I was messaged by a guy who said he is in jail now but will be out in a few months. Would you be concerned? or will you not meet anyone from jail at all?"

I've had this a couple of times, they're on day release, needed to be back by 4pm, one was in for drug related offences. So that was a big no from me!! Quite sure it might actually be against their license to be on here aswell.

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