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By *rincessPuddleDuck22 OP   Woman
over a year ago

.•°°

I walked into a sort of intervention today, it was because I'm a grumpy guts and always have been and it's making them unhappy. If i could just click my fingers and be cheery whenever i want I'd do it all the time.

I'm not looking for sympathy I'd just like to know how you would feel in that situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pissed off

Misunderstood

Twice as shit for feeling the above, because they've done it because they care and my behaviour is affecting them adversely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Least they’ve said something and you can try somehow to make changes. Hope things improve for you all OP

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Annoyed, pissed off and snappy in the moment probably.

But hopefully when Iv had time to reflect after I’d take into account how unhappy I’m making people that they felt the need to do a intervention and make steps towards change.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It would depend who staged the intervention. Who am I kidding, it wouldn't, I'd be really hurt probably then consider what they'd said and either act on it or not.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Who stayed it and what did they suggest you do? It's no good if they just said "you're grumpy, it's pissing us off, stop it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I walked into a sort of intervention today, it was because I'm a grumpy guts and always have been and it's making them unhappy. If i could just click my fingers and be cheery whenever i want I'd do it all the time.

I'm not looking for sympathy I'd just like to know how you would feel in that situation."

In which situation? Working with someone who is making me unhappy or being a grumpy guts?

Mr

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

If I thought they were genuinely concerned about my emotional and mental state, I would say thanks, but I will deal with it myself when I think it’s appropriate, however this sounds more like they don’t care so much about you but more about how you are affecting them, which isn’t so much of an intervention as a whinging session, in which case I would probably tell them that they really aren’t required to spend time in my company if they don’t ways to and can merrily go fuck themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truth is people only notice the change in a person when it starts to effect them. Instead of looking at it from a selfish point of view, they should have expressed concern and try to understand why your unhappy. That being said, any kind of intervention is done with some good intention so you would have to make that observation yourself.

Hope your okay OP and remember if there's something making you unhappy, your the only person that has the ability to change that

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

How do you 'walk in' on an intervention ?

I'm interested but I don't understand the context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably leave! Find a new job.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

If an intervention is needed then I haven't been able to listen to them trying to speak to me.

So I'd get angry, hopefully hear some of it and have a good cry with them afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I walked into a sort of intervention today, it was because I'm a grumpy guts and always have been and it's making them unhappy. If i could just click my fingers and be cheery whenever i want I'd do it all the time.

I'm not looking for sympathy I'd just like to know how you would feel in that situation."

My friends once said similar but it was because I was very depressed and hadn't realised.

If they said it now I'd tell them to fuck off and find someone who made them happy.

Depends on the person. I have a colleague who sucks the air out of the room they are so negative.

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