FabSwingers.com forum: ??wot the f'k ??

By *xstephbxx OP Couple
over a year ago

hyde

where has my post gone ??? ( not the royal mail post ! )..

Posted a 'winge' on here tonight and its been removed ??.. Wasnt pointed at anyone in particular or anything like that...Just wondered why it has been removed, more so, without anyone informing me !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was it something about 'cunts'?

I clicked to read it and it had gone.

what did it say, message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, that was mine lol

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By *xstephbxx OP Couple
over a year ago

hyde

well anyone ??... someone must have removed it and id love to know why...And no,there wasnt an insult or swear word in sight !

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"well anyone ??... someone must have removed it and id love to know why...And no,there wasnt an insult or swear word in sight !"

There must have been something that went wrong with it along the way which was why it was removed

I did'nt see it so I can't tell you the reason x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you dont get informed if they are removed. What was it about.

It may of been an innocent whinge or topic but sometimes they go sour in the threads in which case they are removed.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"innocent whinge" ? No such thing.

Delete them all as soon as they're spotted. Take on more moderators if needed.

If we all pull together we can defeat the curse of the whinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""innocent whinge" ? No such thing.

Delete them all as soon as they're spotted. Take on more moderators if needed.

If we all pull together we can defeat the curse of the whinger."

everyone is entitled to a whinge, opinion or view, it is an open forum.lol

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By *xstephbxx OP Couple
over a year ago

hyde

Well, basicly, it was me having a rant about guys,girls and couples sending you random friends invites with no pics included. Really dont see the point in what they think this will achieve in the long run. We certainly wont meet or for that matter even enteratin chatting to a shadow or close up of a mipple ( i know what one looks likes thanks ! ).

So yes, just a random rant ( often found on here ! ) but wasnt directed at anyone in particular just those that cant be bothered to use the incude private pic with private message function that is offered on here.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

Whinging is pure negitivity and serves no useful purpose.

I appreciate there are some posters who serve no useful purpose, here or in real life, but I fail to see why they should demand the right to share their insecurities with the grown-ups.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Whinging is pure negitivity and serves no useful purpose.

I appreciate there are some posters who serve no useful purpose, here or in real life, but I fail to see why they should demand the right to share their insecurities with the grown-ups."

Because its an open forum,what you may see as a whinge may be a legitimate question for help,it all depends on how it comes across sometimes

As for saying that some posters serve no useful purpose,well they have a right to be here as much as you have,if they're not offending anyone or breaking any rules then I can't see a problem

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

I'm perfectly capable of telling the difference between a legitimate question and a whinge and I'm more than happy to assist anyone asking a legitimate question in areas where I have obvious expertise and experience.

There are no circumstances where "why did I get stood up last night" or "why do married men lie" can be considered anything other than immature cries for sympathy from those who've never grown beyond the instant tears and footstamping they relied upon in their pre-school years.

I struggle to believe anyone thinks that sort of pish improves the forums in any way.

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By *xstephbxx OP Couple
over a year ago

hyde

"Whinging is pure negitivity and serves no useful purpose.

I appreciate there are some posters who serve no useful purpose, here or in real life, but I fail to see why they should demand the right to share their insecurities with the grown-ups."

Ahem..... Was trying to make a point that if people wish to swing and meet people, would it not be better to send a normal face pic attached to a private message rather than " ohh look, i have a nipple pic ".

Personaly, i just dont see the point of having shadow pics on profiles then expecting the more willing swingers to simply say " well of course i will still meet you even though i havent a clue what you look like ! "

My 8 year old son knows how to distort a pic so that the face is unseen, im pretty sure 1 or 2 adults on here can pretty much manage to do the same thing if they insist on trying to arrange to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I'm perfectly capable of telling the difference between a legitimate question and a whinge and I'm more than happy to assist anyone asking a legitimate question in areas where I have obvious expertise and experience.

I struggle to believe anyone thinks that sort of pish improves the forums in any way."

Well the success of any thread would be the number of replies on it,so they do mean something to some people,if they're of no interest to otheres then they normally would'nt reply,its easy to do and they also would'nt then whinge about the people whinging which is what you're doing lol

I will say though that any feeback that you feel is required to help make the forums a more intereting place for you can be made in the feedback section of the site, admin will look into it for you

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

".......Personaly, i just dont see the point of having shadow pics on profiles then expecting the more willing swingers to simply say " well of course i will still meet you even though i havent a clue what you look like ! "

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I don't see the point in that either but I see even less point in whinging about it.

It ain't gonna change.

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By *xstephbxx OP Couple
over a year ago

hyde

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I don't see the point in that either but I see even less point in whinging about it.

It ain't gonna change."

WOW !!!... Can honestly say i cant believe you just wrote that. Have you not thought about how many things have changed through people moaning,wingeing or what ever else you wish to call it. This could very well be the post that makes people think "well yeah, maybe i should use that include private pic function" if its going to help me meet more people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whinging is pure negitivity and serves no useful purpose.

I appreciate there are some posters who serve no useful purpose, here or in real life, but I fail to see why they should demand the right to share their insecurities with the grown-ups."

But are you not Whinging about Whinging posts by Whinging that Whinging posts are no good?

We all have a moan at times no matter who we are, its human nature and as this forum is open then I can't see a problem as long as it abides by the rules.

If you don't like it then move on and stop Whinging about it !!

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whinging is pure negitivity and serves no useful purpose.

I appreciate there are some posters who serve no useful purpose, here or in real life, but I fail to see why they should demand the right to share their insecurities with the grown-ups."

When we were in New York some years back,a yank said to us "The trouble with you Brits is you don't complain enough,you gotta remember its the squeeking hinge that gets the oil!".

We thought that very profound,more so as it came from a yank!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""innocent whinge" ? No such thing.

Delete them all as soon as they're spotted. Take on more moderators if needed.

If we all pull together we can defeat the curse of the whinger."

som,eone take off the post quoted please, it's a whinging post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whinging is pure negitivity and serves no useful purpose.

I appreciate there are some posters who serve no useful purpose, here or in real life, but I fail to see why they should demand the right to share their insecurities with the grown-ups."

another whinging post here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to believe anyone thinks that sort of pish improves the forums in any way."

another whinging post, jeez we have a hatrick of hypocrisy, whinging about others whinging makes you a whinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...........

I don't see the point in that either but I see even less point in whinging about it.

It ain't gonna change."

oh the irony, makes me nearly wee.

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you said it mate, take heed of your own words.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Calm down Wayne I don't fancy clearing your wee up all over the forums thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Calm down Wayne I don't fancy clearing your wee up all over the forums thanks

That's ok now, I managed to crack a half smile and feel relieved, face is aching now though.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

When we were in New York some years back,a yank said to us "The trouble with you Brits is you don't complain enough,you gotta remember its the squeeking hinge that gets the oil!".

We thought that very profound,more so as it came from a yank!

A squeeking hinge gets oil and stops squeeking.

A whinger gets attention and keeps on whinging. It's a personality flaw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we were in New York some years back,a yank said to us "The trouble with you Brits is you don't complain enough,you gotta remember its the squeeking hinge that gets the oil!".

We thought that very profound,more so as it came from a yank!

A squeeking hinge gets oil and stops squeeking.

A whinger gets attention and keeps on whinging. It's a personality flaw."

We've noticed here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's this sort of thread which really confuses people!

Threads get removed for no real reason other than it's come up some mod's hump to do so, but absolute rubbish is allowed to carry on!!

And when I say "absolute rubbish", I'm NOT referring to the OP!

There's something wrong somewhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Ive got the hump now

ner!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive got the hump now

ner!!"

kick his arse, remove his post.

actually move it to Jims whinge forum, they can whinge together there.

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