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Starting your own threads vs diverting existing ones!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Often on here someone will start a thread, for example: ‘looking for slim ladies’ and theres at least one comment of ‘any big beautiful women message me’, or ‘attending shoe fetish only party’, someone will comment ‘oooh whys there not an eye brows only fetish party’. (I know its an open forum and people comment what they like where they like).

Are you more of a thread hi-jacker/diverter, trying to move the OP away from its topic are you a start your own thread person?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I am guilty of diverting if I get flirting. I don’t flirt well, or often, so sometimes I just bask in that moment, to the annoyance of the OP and other posters.

And for this, I can only apologise.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Maynards wine gums are definitely my favuorite childhood sweets

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Car for sale, 1 careful owner, low milage, perfect example of model, first to see will buy.

Only joking, yes, diverting threads. Some are so off topic they must know what they are doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gleefully divert. That's the fun of it sometimes.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I will have you know that I have never diverted a thread….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am guilty of diverting if I get flirting. I don’t flirt well, or often, so sometimes I just bask in that moment, to the annoyance of the OP and other posters.

And for this, I can only apologise.

"

Flirting is good it's how connection is made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t post at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t post at all."

Apart from just then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t post at all.

Apart from just then."

And then.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I treat it life real life , I sometimes come over to join in the conversation, but sometimes just wander over if there’s someone there I like and wanna say hi.

Hey Luna , looking hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maynards wine gums are definitely my favuorite childhood sweets "
I am a suckered for a wine gum.... do you have a favourite dinosaur?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

You mean like throwing mention of cake into a thread... guilty as!

Even worse when it's jaffa cake ...apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You mean like throwing mention of cake into a thread... guilty as!

Even worse when it's jaffa cake ...apparently "
jaffa cakes you say?

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"Maynards wine gums are definitely my favuorite childhood sweets I am a suckered for a wine gum.... do you have a favourite dinosaur?"

maynards didn't have dinosaurs when i was a kid, but i liked the green ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You mean like throwing mention of cake into a thread... guilty as!

Even worse when it's jaffa cake ...apparently "

Speaking of cake have a lemon sponge cooling off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maynards wine gums are definitely my favuorite childhood sweets I am a suckered for a wine gum.... do you have a favourite dinosaur?

maynards didn't have dinosaurs when i was a kid, but i liked the green ones "

I think I need to buy some wine gums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to reply to posts in a thread - these may or may not be on topic. If I want to say something that's nothing to do with the thread I'll start another.

I do tend to view the forums rather like a social gathering where you may get drawn into various different conversations, each of which can evolve at any time. Never understood the mindset behind 'owning' a thread, and definitely don't understand getting pissy of it gets derailed. No one in a pub would sulk mid convo and say I started this convo so I'm in charge of what we talk about.

Mr

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I treat it life real life , I sometimes come over to join in the conversation, but sometimes just wander over if there’s someone there I like and wanna say hi.

Hey Luna , looking hot "

Hey Handsome, always good to see you

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

What were you favourite flavour Spangles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I LOVE it when it goes off on a silly tangent. Don't love it when people divert a thread for their own agenda.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'll start my own and try not to take away from the OP, though hardly any posts stay on the subject matter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a better counterpuncher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maynards wine gums are definitely my favuorite childhood sweets I am a suckered for a wine gum.... do you have a favourite dinosaur?

maynards didn't have dinosaurs when i was a kid, but i liked the green ones "
the red ones taste better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens - that's life. I prefer when threads reach a natural conclusion, but sometimes it's funny see where it's went! Sometimes fuckwits deserve the thread being hijacked - rate my profile or what am I doing wrong type threads where the threads invariably go in an Izzard direction!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to reply to posts in a thread - these may or may not be on topic. If I want to say something that's nothing to do with the thread I'll start another.

I do tend to view the forums rather like a social gathering where you may get drawn into various different conversations, each of which can evolve at any time. Never understood the mindset behind 'owning' a thread, and definitely don't understand getting pissy of it gets derailed. No one in a pub would sulk mid convo and say I started this convo so I'm in charge of what we talk about.

Mr

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I may try this - ITS MY CONVERSATION! MINE! I STARTED IT SO WE WILL STAY ON TOPIC! This convo about the perfect shape of raindrops, it will continue

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

What about bumping and diverting?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drinks

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I usually get essex_tom to start my threads these days

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Meh, have at it.

If I start a thread and it results in two people clicking and bonding over a tangent it diverted too so be it, happy for it.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Both.

The beauty of a forum (and discussions) is that they can lead to some strange and wonderful places. The natural evolution of a conversation/discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is anyone looking to buy a used butt-scratcher? 99p pick up only

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