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I am on my own, bit not alone.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Does that make sense and are you also in the same boat? One can be on your own but not feel alone. I dont really feel alone as I have so much to do. I like the single life

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are alone but not lonely because you fill your days with activity you enjoy and enjoy the thoughts of your activities.

That’s living the dream for everyone within themselves.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"You are alone but not lonely because you fill your days with activity you enjoy and enjoy the thoughts of your activities.

That’s living the dream for everyone within themselves. "
Yes it is the dream and also when I dont have alot of things to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are alone but not lonely because you fill your days with activity you enjoy and enjoy the thoughts of your activities.

That’s living the dream for everyone within themselves. Yes it is the dream and also when I dont have alot of things to do "

Doing nothing and enjoying your own company is essential to not feeling lonely sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does that make sense and are you also in the same boat? One can be on your own but not feel alone. I dont really feel alone as I have so much to do. I like the single life "

100% get you. For many years I was together but completely alone. I much prefer the flip side of it!!!!

YOLO

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"You are alone but not lonely because you fill your days with activity you enjoy and enjoy the thoughts of your activities.

That’s living the dream for everyone within themselves. Yes it is the dream and also when I dont have alot of things to do

Doing nothing and enjoying your own company is essential to not feeling lonely sometimes."
That is right, it is essential too and I am enjoying my own company as well

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Does that make sense and are you also in the same boat? One can be on your own but not feel alone. I dont really feel alone as I have so much to do. I like the single life

100% get you. For many years I was together but completely alone. I much prefer the flip side of it!!!!

YOLO "
Yes and that must feel better now too, to enjoy it more than before

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I'm happy with my own company and occasionally i feel alone and miss having someone special in my life.

I've also been surrounded by people and felt the loneliest person ever.

That hurts lots.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I hear you Shag. Sometimes I feel truly alone, but that gets rarer as I get older, I have things to do and enjoy my own company and having space.

Is that a good thing though? That’s the question I ask myself. Could life be more if I was sharing it?

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Same here o/p. With my tech work I actually prefer the quiet.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m happy by myself but I’ve got lots of friends I see too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on my own and I sometimes feel lonely. But I've learnt to accept it now, I've walked away from fairweather friendships as I prefer go be alone than get the odd text or call , even at weekend a friend rang to see how I was abd it was all about her and her partner, what they had been doing and all his friends etc

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Being alone and being lonely are two very different things

It's possible to be lonely even among a lot of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does make sense. Sometimes for me, I say I feel very lonely and yet I don't mind being alone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got a couple of mates who are more than happy with their own company and have been for a few years now

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

That makes sense. I'm happy for you.

Unfortunately I normally feel the opposite, surrounded by people but feeling lonely.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I love my single life too. The only time I have ever felt alone was when I was in a bad relationship. That was very lonely time for me.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I'm happy with my own company and occasionally i feel alone and miss having someone special in my life.

I've also been surrounded by people and felt the loneliest person ever.

That hurts lots.

"
That is good you are happy too and yes, having someone would be good as well

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I hear you Shag. Sometimes I feel truly alone, but that gets rarer as I get older, I have things to do and enjoy my own company and having space.

Is that a good thing though? That’s the question I ask myself. Could life be more if I was sharing it? "
That is good and yes, it is a good thing as well, maybe it could be, it depends

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By *lmondhammerMan
over a year ago

nunyaaa


"I'm on my own and I sometimes feel lonely. But I've learnt to accept it now, I've walked away from fairweather friendships as I prefer go be alone than get the odd text or call , even at weekend a friend rang to see how I was abd it was all about her and her partner, what they had been doing and all his friends etc

"

Cannot bear people like this! Phasing them out is such a good feeling and funnily enough you don’t hear from them anyway beyond ignoring!

To be alone and lonely, used to be like that until you get to know yourself, take yourself on mini breaks and “dates”.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Same here o/p. With my tech work I actually prefer the quiet."
That is good and yes, it is nice with some quite time too

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I'm on my own and I sometimes feel lonely. But I've learnt to accept it now, I've walked away from fairweather friendships as I prefer go be alone than get the odd text or call , even at weekend a friend rang to see how I was abd it was all about her and her partner, what they had been doing and all his friends etc

"
That is also good .

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Being alone and being lonely are two very different things

It's possible to be lonely even among a lot of people."
You are right there as well, as it it can be that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognise with this very much.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"Does that make sense and are you also in the same boat? One can be on your own but not feel alone. I dont really feel alone as I have so much to do. I like the single life "

I feel exactly the same. Probably because I'm selfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% feel the same

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Yes it does make sense. Sometimes for me, I say I feel very lonely and yet I don't mind being alone x"
That is also good x

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